Category: Aneros blogs

Mentorship

In 2013 I was extremely active on line, perhaps too active. Work was really stressful and I used this forum and two others as a means to let off steam with sexual chat and sharing information and experiences with like minded people of both sexes. I also mentored some men just starting with aneros. Here in the Aneros Forum many of the chats I was having in PM were with guys who were just getting on board and were looking for coaching and personal help. That’s how I met my number 2. He was a 29 year old post army college student in his senior year at Bowling Green University. He was single and heterosexual, but had a very open attitude towards sexual relations. Looking back on it after having spent time with him I would say now that he was bicurious.

He introduced himself to me in the chat room in a PM. There was something about him that came through even in instant messages. He was a really nice guy. He had just started Aneros a year earlier and was making outstanding progress; he was having super o’s, but was having trouble with focus. His mind kept drifting off in the throes of ecstatic orgasms. As his thoughts drifted his O’s withered. We chatted about that problem ending in our first chat with me offering a variety of ideas how to manage it. That first chat was followed by many others. Over the course of the six months that followed we began to interact in another IM tool out of the forums here. Read more »

“Skating Through Day 10!”

Introduction
I can’t believe I’m here at Day 10! It really has not been a problem. I thought I would have to stop yesterday due to impending blue-balls. But that feeling was fleeting. So I find myself here probably only a couple of days from a wet dream!

New Night-Time Routine
I decided for the better part of this week to nix wearing a “chastity cup” to bed every night. Instead, I just opted for my pajamas and nothing more. Of course, I sometimes get awakened by a night-time erection, but my take on this is somewhat different this week. Instead of just grabbing a cup and putting it on, I have been firmly “grasping” my erect member, and not stimulating any part of it, just firmly holding on to it. Eventually, the erection starts to subside and I can loosen my grip. It seems to be working. I think it is the over-stimulation (even while wearing a cup) that could be causing the blue-balls.

Morning Listening Session
Just this morning, I went to lie-down with headphones and listen to some relaxing, soothing tracks. But before I did, I wanted to remove any temptation. So I quickly reached for my XO chastity cup and put it on. And as I started listening, I hardly knew I had it on. The music stopped and I fell asleep for a few hours…. Read more »

Dressing up my cock up in cellophane ; Aneros session for Saturday February 2

Hi guys,

A couple days ago I made major discovery in how to improve upon my Aneros sessions, Aless, and also my engagement with the Kegels and diddling my nipples. Dress up my cock in cellophane.

Let me explain. For the last couple years or so, I would purchase muffins from the grocery that would come in cellophane containers. I began collecting these containers to the point that I have two bags of the them now. They come in handy for containing cum soaked napkins for disposal after my now infrequent bate sessions.

A couple days ago I discovered another use for them. I dress my cock in one, then another, then another one or two of them. They fit my cock perfectly. My cock in this configuration looks like a penis dressed in a condom ready for sexual intercourse. My dressed cock certainly looks erotic. Then I stuff my cock in the up position in my favorite jock and cup. This has enhanced much more the absolute sweetness and power of my diddling and Kegeling sessions whether at night in bed or in the daytime.

I haven’t worn my cock using condoms yet. But I may soon. You could dress up your dick in this fashion using also an ordinary jockstrap or a pouch brief. I think non-lubricated condoms will do fine. Read more »

In the Right Direction

Same startup as last few sessions – preparing beforehand is really helpful for relaxing and training. Anus still getting used to the device, but it’s getting easier with practice. Gently contracted anal muscles to draw the device in, and it went in all the way on its own. Attributing this to breathing, relaxing, and gentle muscle movements.

Started out on back with legs bent, but tried a few new positions. Lying down completely flat – contractions caused a little more pressure on my prostate and more perceptible movements inside my anal canal; felt really good. Tried seated with legs bent – put much more pressure on my prostate, but it felt like it was more difficult to get the device to move around due to being seated; was nice and will try it again. On all fours face-down allowed for easier breathing, but didn’t bring any better movements into play. Session went a little longer than before, and scrotum, testicles, and anus were all definitely stimulated, had increased blood flow, and felt great. Penis remained flaccid, but prostate significantly enlarged with seminal fluid again. Plenty of precum produced and mild ache most likely due to pressure of the fluid build-up without total release. No masturbating; no orgasm.

Mostly device stayed all the way in, but when last bulb remained out of body, the movements felt more effective on stimulating my body. Will work on keeping it out a little with inner muscles. Body still reluctant to give up the device, but it did slide out a little easier than before. Honestly, I wanted to keep it inside me and keep going, too. Baby steps. Read more »

Rewiring and Awakening

We all talk of rewiring as a milestone, and it is but there is more than rewiring in this journey I am on. I believe that there is another milestone that follows rewiring, that milestone I call sexual awakening. Following awakening there is an ongoing process of discovery and evolution in which the true nature of my sexuality and sexual response is revealed to me. Being a research kind of guy, I have spent the last ten years reading the forums and blogs with my perception in mind and I believe I am just recognizing a process we all are experiencing. Our posts reinforce my thought.

Rewiring for me (one year into Aneros) sensitized my brain to sexual pleasure, connected my brain to my sexual pleasure organs, it introduced me to sexual pleasure organs I didn’t know I had and it altered my sensory and perceptive ability. With that under my belt the next 7 years were spent in a learning process; reading, experimenting, testing myself, writing and talking with peers. That 7 year time span was an evolutionary process that culminated in year nine with my awakening.

Awakening for me was acknowledgement of my sexuality in all its dimensions. Awakening gave me the courage to exercise my sexual proclivities that I uncovered in the seven years prior. Beyond the discovery of new and unexpected dimensions to my sexuality, awakening removed the subconscious stigma I had imposed on myself for aspects of my sexuality I was either ashamed of or afraid to admit or acknowledge. I know now that I feared the ramifications of admitting them to myself. My attraction to cocks and sex with men is one of these proclivities and my exhibitionist tendencies is another. Read more »

My trip to California…and the all day orgasm in Wine Country…

I have two stories to talk about…I’ll give you all the first one. I went on a work trip to California last week. Obviously California has legal weed therefore I was able to really cater to enhancing my prostate sessions. My first stop off of the airplane was at a dispensary. I got some sativa strain edibles. Over the following two days my intake of it was VERY minimal. Then on the weekend decided to head to Wine Country. I wasnt driving therefore I took 20 mg worth of THC. What I experienced from this point was basically an all day orgasm that I guess was as close to a calm seas orgasm. Obviously I could feel the high…but I could also feel the relaxing nature of me kegeling towards my prostate. Some of the same motions that I first attained on my journey returned. That fluttering sense of euphoria was ever present. The kegels danced all around my prostate and every time I needed to piss I would check my underwerar and there would be small spots where precum was leaking out….nothing absurd seeing as I dont precum much…but at least it was noticeable by me. In order to keep this pleasure I really limited my alcohol intake…only having two glasses of wine all day. What an amazing day…I envy those that live in legal weed states.

On Getting My Man Pussy

This nine year watershed was very significant for me in this journey for many – many reasons. That is why it is getting this recognition in the narrative. Nine years was a defining period in the trajectory of my sexuality. Aneros and MMO bent the arc of my sexuality in a manner that made it almost unrecognizable from what it once was. Sexuality and male sexual response is a complex part of my humanity; it is biophysical and it is psychological. The two are inextricably interwoven. In plain terms that means that my sexuality is a dance of my mind and my body, carefully choreographed by external factors. Aneros has been a huge external factor for me.

I am a man, obviously I have a penis. In sexual activity my penis gets erect so it can be proactive and thrust in fucking. In sexual practice for me over the 40 years of my active sex life that translates to me being the active agent. I drove the love making. In plain terms, my cock is designed to harden so it can penetrate her vagina and with thrusting create sensations that triggers my body to pump semen into her vagina. We did that hundreds and hundreds of times. That biological urgency creates in my mind a psychological dimension to match the biological function. I have to be proactive and cause pleasure by my conscious actions. I thrust my pelvis penetrating her vagina; it felt good. Fucking her turned me on and made me ejaculate; me thrusting and fucking her gave her pleasure in the process. My conscious actions and the pleasure I cause results in ejaculation and her orgasm. Read more »

“Advice To Newbies?”

Introduction
I have been in my Aneros journey for about 3 years now. What have I learned? I think the one thing that comes to mind now is that I can honestly say that there is no guarantee of success with Aneros! Even after these three years, I have not experienced a single Super-O since the “original” ones when I was being re-wired. That is okay with me although it is a bit perplexing.

I have had some really great sessions but they are not at the same “caliber” as the earlier ones. Why is that? I can’t honestly answer that, but does that mean that I will stop trying? Heck, no!

Advice
Now, where does that leave my “advice” to newbies? Aneros is indeed a very “personal” journey and there really is no guarantee of success. But there will be times (in sessions) that will be extremely pleasurable. It is just that (at least for me now) that pleasure is fleeting. Some sessions will be great, others will be ho-hum. Do I stop as a result of one (or two) lackluster sessions? Of course not! Read more »

I Get Help With a Personal Problem

One of the benefits of spending so much time on the road for work was that it required between 8-10 room nights in hotels every month, this allowed me to have frequent sessions in private. As a result in 2013, in a given week on the road I would do at least two Aneros sessions, a fair amount of sexting and some camming. To say my libido was on overdrive at the end of a week like that was an understatement. As you all know, an Aneros session leaves you hornier than a he goat.

It was in May of 2013 that I was in Washington DC for a week. Needless to say the warm weather, girl watching on the hill and a night at a gentlemen’s club as well as my normal activities on the road mentioned above left me with an erection on friday that was really hard to subdue. One of the challenges of my expanded libido at the 9 year mark was the reality that I found self masturbation to be minimally pleasurable and very unsatisfying; so although I had a wooden erection that friday morning I woke I didn’t even bother to tug one off.

Setting out on the road north, I saw a number of massage parlor billboards along the road. The first one I saw piqued my interest and got me to thinking. By the time lunch time hit I was near one of the establishments advertised. Exiting the highway I figured I would grab lunch and cruise by the place to scope it out. I grabbed some fast food and followed the directions the billboard gave me. Read more »

Bringing my Progasm Black Ice out of retirement, sessions for January 27 & 29

Hi guys,

Our latest Arctic Vortex blast of winter cold arrived yesterday afternoon with the latest blast of blustery, cold air arriving this afternoon as I write this. Tomorrow early Thursday morning we shall have a low of 9 F.

However, I had sessions early Sunday morning just before sunrise and the same time yesterday morning Tuesday. I was horned for those sessions. Sunday I used MGX, Progasm Junior, and Maximus. Yesterday morning I added Progasm Black ICE which I brought out of a two/three year retirement.

Whenever I have a session, my psyche and body are longing for my Aneros models. This longing which verges on the sexual is what I mean by my being horned!

Now I just lie on my towel on my bed with two very slim chair cushions for my butt. Whenever I insert any of my Aneros models, a surge of anal pleasure that is irresistible. Also I wear a jock and cup like @goldenboy for most of my sessions, not so much to keep my hands off my cock, but rather the jock and cup (as intensely erotic items) enhance many fold my pleasure as I let each of my models work their magic on my anal musculature and prostate.

Nowadays my sessions leave me with exquisitely pleasant Aless. My Aless has a beat about it as though my Aneros models are still working away. Take care.