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Technique

Hello everyone,
been using an Aneros for quite some time and had a lot of mindblowing results.
looking to try smth new and just want to discuss a bit about techniques.

What works best for me is the “do-nothing” technique either on my back or on my side, with my dick tucked between my legs. With focusing on really keeping all my muscles down there relaxed. sadly i havent been able to progress to a WO or a Super O like this (had some with the njoy before) even tho my ass and prostate spasm a lot like this.

In some guides and videos ive seen people doing kegels, but from my understanding the involuntary spasm of the prostate is what brings the big joy.

so i just wanted to ask what your guys go to technique is?

Can’t reach prostate?

Hello. I’ve been trying the aneros for years and very little luck. I decided to start back at square one. I can feel when my aneros touches my prostate but I feel like I need to do more exploration with my hands first. I don’t know if it’s me but is reaching your prostate with a finger difficult? What position do you use? How do you get comfortable in that situation? I can’t seem to reach mine with my finger. I can barely get up to a knuckle and I feel like I’m in a pretzel. Any help is appreciated! Thanks!

First Try and a P Wave

Hey all, I was super horny last week and stumbled upon prostate play and this subreddit. After nearly a whole day of reading and becoming super horny I went ahead and bought an Aneros Helix Syn Trident. It finally came yesterday and I was able to experiment for the last hour or so. I was trying different positions, feeling a little tickle or and was about to throw in the towel for the day when I remembered the Mindgasm site that is referenced here so often. So I got nice and comfy, threw on an eye mask and went through first contact. I found it difficult and thought it was going to be mostly instruction only when at the end we dabbled in trying out the next method (holding the sphincter while relaxing the middle muscle). When I relaxed the middle muscle I felt a wave or so go right through my body that I have no doubt was a p wave or two. If this is just the beginning, I’m hooked!

Help: Constant Arousal and Orgasms

So I got a Progasm this past week and I wasn’t expecting much. Then, on my third session, I started having what I think were Super-O’s and after, without the toy, I had a few more. I was excited and very stupidly had another session the next day where I was having shaking Super-O’s almost immediately for an hour straight.

The problem is that now it’s been a full day and every hour or so my prostate starts tightening up and I have one. I can delay them, but it takes actual mental effort and eventually I feel like I have to give in. In addition, my prostate constantly feels tingly and aroused.

Is this normal? Should I be concerned? I’m a total newbie and kind of panicking the more I research this. It also affected my focus at work and my sleep pretty bad.

How to achieve a HFWO

How do you even achieve a HFWO? I feel like it feels good but I’m not getting there without touching, and want to master the HFWO before I focus too much on super o’s etc, anyone have any advice?

Finally bit the bullet

After chasing the elusive prostate orgasm with mediocre results and only one partial orgasm I finally placed my order. I did weeks of research trying to find the perfect massager, I literally looked at virtually every one out there and read reviews but was constantly lead back to the Aneros line. The hardest part then was choosing a model. I finally narrowed it down to the Maximus trident or the Progasm Black Ice. My wife then made the decision for me and picked the Maximus because she felt it would be easier to get moving. I’m super excited to receive it and start learning.

I can cum handfree after less than a week…damn!

So my partner bought me my first Aneros after I heard about it on a Sex Podcast. I was very skeptical about it due to being a non vibrating toy. When it arrived I was pretty disappointed due to its size, but I had booked a day off work just to relax and give it a whirl.

After around 30 mins of watching my go to porn, and almost giving up, I started to feel all the promised effects of the toy. I had the most incredible orgasm of my life, or so I thought. After the initial excitement I left it in and carried on. Another 30 mins passed and I starter’s feeling all the same feelings I felt prior, but when it came, it came like a steam train….I was shaking and swearing. It was incredible. That day I left it in for roughly 2 and half hours and had 6 mind blowing orgasms, without actually shooting out a load.

Fast forward to two days later, I returned to work. On my way home I clenched my arse just to remind myself of how it felt, and it felt incredible. I carried on with my kegels, and after about 30 seconds, without the toy in, I stared cumming hard at 70mph around the M25. I was understandably I shock, utterly have since managed to have roughly 7 handsfree orgasms even without the Aneros inside me. I feel like I have a superpower.

Deep Meditative Binaural Music

I was listening to this on youtube while having my session with my aneros eupho classic and trust me, it was totally amazing. The music makes me easy to achieve deep calming state while the eupho moves in and out without me controlling it. Involuntary contraction happens on its own and i was flaccid during the whole time. Pre cum leaking dripping to thighs and i realize that all of these happen because i was very calm due to the music. Very recommended for those who still struggle to achive dry orgasms. Link, https://youtu.be/jEAS_XLWGxI

Looking for my first purchase

Hello, I’m looking to start my journey with aneros after seeing so many positive reviews from people. I looked at the buyers guide and I’m kind of stuck with a bit of indecision. Since the toy is fairly expensive (for my budget) I want to get it right the first time. Looking on the buyers guide, the helix classic and the helix syn are both recommended. Since the classic is plasic and the syn silicone I was wondering what would the recommendation for a first time user be? I have some small silicone plugs and I have difficulty using them at times because of friction despite the copious amounts of lube. Would a plastic toy be the better option or is silicone better?

Tl;Dr which is a better material for newbies plastic or silicone?

Had tried something new technique wise

Started a session last night with the helix syn. Got a shower, prepped my bed and got lube and the toy and inserted it. Layed on my back with feet flat. Put on some porn. Rubbed my nipples to trigger involuntaries. Did this for about 15 minutes. Nothing built up beyond this point, so i switched to my side and continued on. Nothing really built up 10 minutes later, so i tried doing some different kegels. I kept my rectum muscles pushed out like i was pooping, but doing that lightly. And contracting my pc muscle to my breaths. Something built up fast and my abs, stomach and hip area was shaking uncontrollably.

At this point the aneros felt like it dissapeared and i could feel where my prostate was and it felt tickly but in a good way. Then i stopped breathing and it built up more but when i exhaled, the feelings went away.

At this point it was getting too late so i inserted a vibrating plug that has a massaging tip. Put on some pantyhose. And did the same thing with that plug. Felt really good but layed back on my back and moved the toy in and out while pushing out and i came just a little, which i barely felt. Then i thrusted my hips and grinded on the toy and got a hfwo which felt amazing.

Any tips on what to do from here? Anyone else do the reverse kegels?