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Unwanted problems with the PC-muscle

Hi all, I’m looking for some advice, as I have some issues that are bothering me. I apologize if this gets a little long, but bear with me please.

I’ve had success with the Aneros before, as well as certain Aless experiences, such as dry full body nipple orgasms by way of nipple stimulation alone. At times I’ve had minor orgasms by way of thought alone, and so while it may sound like I got a good deal going on, which is probably true, after some experimentation many months ago, I feel stuck. Here’s why:

Before, I could do nipple stimulation only and get my body so charged up, that it was only a matter of “hacking the password” for each period of time, figuring out exactly what approach combined with mental aspect that would set me off into orgasmic la-la land at that point. But now this is not happening anymore.

The reason is that I was reading about flexing of the PC-muscle, and I realized I never really did this, unlike many others. So I experimented with this, where I squeezed it, and I don’t think it was too hard, then held for 10-30 seconds at a time, and released it. When I did, I noticed it did generate a surge of mild pleasure in my prostate, but nothing crazy. However, at one point, my PC-muscle went nuts, and just started moving constantly on its own. Initially for the first few days, it would do this when I went to bed in particular, and it caused me loss of sleep, fatigue, dizziness, and more. After this happened, it was almost impossible to do anything that had to do with nipple or prostate stimulation without triggering my PC-muscle to go nuts, and it never was in a good way either. Read more »

Best weed for p-play?

I’m finally in a place where weed is legal and there’s so many choices.

I’ve used edibles and vaped before – no idea what strain or strength, but it definitely helped me get into the zone.

What should a buyer be looking for to get the best weed-enabled prostate sessions?

Trouble getting over the curve

I’ve been using a Helix Syn for a few weeks now, maybe 8-10 “sessions” and while I’ve felt some good and never-before-felt sensations, I’d like some feedback as to whether or not I’m approaching it correctly.

My last go with it seemed the most productive. I got myself pretty horny for a couple hours before insertion, with no sick touching. Then took a hot shower, laid in bed, did some meditative breathing, lubed up and inserted the Aneros. Tried to let it just rest for a period of time before contracting. After maybe 15 mins of listening to some chill EDM and breathing exercises I started doing some waves of PC contractions.

I started pumping out a lot of precum, but didn’t feel any sense of needing to urinate or any real pleasure sensations.

After maybe 10 minutes of contractions and using my pelvic floor muscles to literally “pull” the Aneros deeper into my asshole, I started to feel some nice warmth in my pelvic region and felt the muscles in my hips, abs, and legs starting to quiver. I could also feel my dick “jumping” and the Aneros felt like it was being pulled in and out by my asshole.

Then something new happened; my heart started beating like crazy, my breathing quickened, my eyes were closed and it literally felt like I was floating and spinning and things felt mildly good, but no where near what a normal cumming orgasm feels like. I didn’t cum or experience what I believe was an orgasm, only my usual pool of precum. Read more »

Process question- Helix Syn Trident

I’ve had about nine months with my unit, and while I have definitely improved my orgasm both with and without it in, I haven’t had the mind-blowing multiples that some people descibe. I am thinking it is my process.

I make sure to time this when I haven’t eaten for a bit and have had a good solid bowel movement.

I start off by watching some porn or paging through some NSFW reddits. I focus on content that features a man experiencing what I am about to experience, except at the hands of a woman. I will usually stroke myself with coconut oil as lubricant, but try to focus more on touching my nipples and perineum. The stroking is mostly just to maintain an erection and arousal. Should I be attempting to maintain an erection throughout?

After about ten minutes of that, I will start preparing myself for insertion. On goes the coconut oil and in it goes. I insert the device all the way, until the red tab makes contact with my perineum and the white my tailbone. I have tried inserting a shorter distance, but there has not been as much sensation- am I doing this wrong? I will usually lay on the bed, sometimes on my back and other times on my stomach, focusing on moving my pelvic floor. The sensation is nice, but not as intense as when I can hit my spot with my thumb. Read more »

Would it be more effective to:

A. Edge for 5-6 days before a session?

B. Abstain from masturbation entirely for 5-6 days before a session?

Aneros and sounding

Hi all, I just learned about sounding about a month ago and I was wondering if anyone had any information that they would like to share about using an Aneros while using a sound. Any input is appreciated, and thanks for your time.

Thought on the Helix Syn V?

I’ve been thinking about getting one. To any one who has it, would you recommend it?
I’ve owned many kinds of vibrating prostate toys before like the nexus series. Would it be any different from them?

3 days in I found a Wet-O-my-God

Last night I tried my Aneros for the third time (I’m new to Anal play). The first time after 2 hours and a lot of focus I had multiple dry O’s. This immediately redefined my understanding of Orgasm. And made me want multiples all the time.

I tried again night 2, butt nothing. (again, another 2 hours).

Day 3, I popped it in and sat there reading some erotica which was really getting me excited, afterward I tried to focus on the sensations and I could feel the beginnings of an O but then it would fade. While I had tried several positions lying down, I decided to try something else.

After quite a while I sat on the edge of my bed and started moving my hips in circles. This seemed to start getting things going pretty quickly. As the sensation built, I found myself grinding harder and faster, it was the longest build up to orgasm I ever had and sure enough exploded like a fountain without touching anything other than my hands-clenched bed sheets.

I’m looking forward to what I experience next, I just hope it stops taking 2 hours to get there, I don’t always have that much time.

2 weeks with Helix Syn V

So I’ve had it 2 weeks and not a lot of time to relax with it but I’ll still ask this question. Doing a good deal of clenching while jacking I can get to a place where I have an almost no hands wet O. But what happens at O-time is my ass grips the toy and my dickhead really clenches up and out comes the juice. It’s a sensation of extreme tension not extreme release. Wondering what I am doing wrong.

Men who leak precum

I’ve always been jealous. No matter how long I go/horny I am none of my sessions produce much if any. How does it feel? Any tips to increase volume other than more water?