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Something happened….

Since I’ve got so much out of everyone else’s progress reports, it only seems fair to post my own, since I actuall had some…

So last night was different, currently I’m not sure what I did to make it different.

For some background, I’ve been using Aneros toys for a few years now, I love the idea of multiple dry Os, and the Super O just sounds amazing, but I’ve not been successful in any of those. I have managed HFWOs, but calling them Hands Free seems a bit much TBH given the amount of vigarous perinium massage that’s required…

So my plan was to get an early night with the MGX in an see what happens, with a goal to feel something new, but not planning to push for the big O. No expectations, and a specific plan that I wasn’t going have a normal orgasm afterwards.

I had some nice sensations, tried a few different positions, I didn’t manage to get any involuntaries going. After about an hour and a half I switched to the progasm to see if that would change anything.

Then I had the same again. Nice sensations, nothing new or extraordinary. I started trying to push out an HFWO for a bit, but then decided to stop as it’s not really what my goal was here. Read more »

Massage fail

I go for a massage about once a month, registered therapist, no funny biz. Half way though I’m face down and she was working my hips and and things start happening ….I’m squirming around, trying to stop myself from getting turned on and I guess she thought it was a bad knot and just kept working it. Next thing I know I’m having an orgasm, just couldn’t stop it.

She asks if everything is ok, and I’m horrified. I explain and apologize, she brushes it off and finished the session on my shoulders.

I feel like I cheated on my partner. Has anyone else had this happen during a massage? And what do you do when it happens?

Alternative toy with a bigger head/different angle?

Is there a knockoff toy that could go around “a corner”? With fingers it feels like that the prostate is hiding behind a bone or harder tissue.

Something like this:

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I just want to know if that is the reason why I can’t progress in the last 2 years.

Which aneros works the best for you?

While I think arousal and relaxation are bigger factors, different shaped aneros give me different results. I started with a helix trident and I feel like it originally gave me the most intense sensations, but it tends to be inconsistent for whatever reason. I also have a eupho which feels good but never got much out of it until my fast few sessions with it.

Last two times I have used the eupho I was moaning into my pillow for 15 minutes straight. I think the more you use the aneros the more control you get over the device. Because the eupho is so thin, its harder to control and it takes more muscle control to be able to “relax into it”

I have a progasm but besides the novelty of being filled up, it doesn’t do anything for me in terms of dry o sensations. I know some people swear by them but for me its more like a buttplug for me. I feel like its using a stick of dynamite to dig a hole when you can just a shovel.

I use to feel that lots of lube was super necessary, but I have achieved my best sessions with using mild-moderate amounts of lube. Little on my finger, little on the device put it in and take it out once or twice and Im good to go. IMO too much lube is like jerking off with too much lube. I also find too much lube trigger the feeling of having to use the bathroom.

P-Orgasm

I‘m new to prostate play and right now I’m just fucking myself with the aneros and it feels amazing.
Is there a certain technique to make it feel even better ?

Survey: Which position gave you your first dry/wet orgasm?

Can’t add more options, list if different.

BONUS: Does that position still work for you, or does a different position work better now?

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Pgasm During Sex

So, I was really in tune with my prostate yesterday and had really really good sex with my wife… which seemed alot more sensual on my part than normal. Like all this work with my prostate is changing who I am or something…. Anyway she pushed me too far at one point to where i had to clench as hard as I could so that i didn’t cum. After my prostate settled down i started to notice similar feelings to some Aless that i’ve been doing. Normally after an almost cum like that it might take me a minute to get built back up again, but this time was different. I stayed hard and the p waves were actually building while my cock was still being stimulated. I didn’t reach the point of an actual dry orgasm, but i felt like i could have if things would have continued. I focused on the penis feelings instead of the prostate buzzing so that I could cum since she had finished, but I feel like i could have almost chosen which path to follow if that makes sense. Has anyone else been through that or am i tripping thinking thats possible. Its hard to know for sure now, but it sure felt that way. Like a life or death decision made in a heartbeat.

Spontaneous sessions while living with partner

I’ve been using my aneros for a couple of years now and am slowly but surely making progress. However, as I live with my partner and generally have a lower libido nowadays I almost always plan my sessions in advance rather than when I get the spontaneous urge. This usually means that I’m usually not particularly aroused and not always relaxed when I begin.

Eventually my arousal will build, but I don’t think it’s a coincidence that my two best sessions have happened spontaneously rather than when I had planned my session.

I rarely get spontaneous urges, but when I do I would like to be able to pursue them and capitalise on the pleasure. It just feels a bit inconsiderate to my partner to say that I’m horny and need to not be disturbed for a few hours. How do others that live with partners get around this?

Time for a new adventure?

Hey everyone…

I’ve been experiencing the pleasure and satisfaction the MGX provides for about 2-3 years now. Most definitely a great introduction to prostate / anal play I might add. In this time I’ve experienced loss of control and involuntary orgasms during my sessions. Occasionally reaching the point where I was afraid I woke the neighbors in the middle of the night from all of the moaning… Hahaha if only they knew, right?

However, I have reached the point in my journey that I am unsure if it just me or if I need a new tool (or two) to reach the elusive Super-O. I like the feelings that the MGX provides but i find myself more often than not manually forcing it deeper or more forward to create a more intense feeling on my prostate. Should I go with something more filling like the Progasm? To be honest, it sounds exciting and fulfilling but a little intimidating at the same time, or should I go with something with a little more finesse like the Eupho?

In the past ~2-3 years I have accepted the fact that I enjoy and crave anal stimulation (something I didn’t think beforehand). Logically, in my mind, the Progasm seems like a better choice. To be honest, the Ice and Black Ice variants look amazing.

Any and all suggestions are encouraged. Thanks in advance everyone! 😀

Core Strengthening

So i believe i might be letting myself tense up a bit too much from some of the clenching that happens, but a side effect seems to be some core strengthening. I’ve got some issues in my lower back that always seem to get better when i’m actively working out my abs and lower back at the gym in the past. The pain has gone away and i can assure you …. I have not been working them out otherwise. I’m wondering if anyone else has noticed this.