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How to progress from involuntaries

Hi there, I’ve been new to this game and over the last 6 months on and off I’ve attempted possibly 10sessions since I first purchased the helix trident syn.

I’ve attempted and tried a number of the tips that are commonly posted here and have made some progress strengthening the PC muscles etc. The stage I am currently at is that I can (without much effort) cause what I believe to be extended periods of involuntary contractions. These involuntary contractions usually lead to periods where I feel very aroused but that is all. If I focus on these involuntaries sometimes (with my eyes closed and focusing on my breathing) I can cause myself to start spinning but not in a dizzying way. These two results of involuntary contractions are the only progress I have made. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong, what sensations I should be focusing on to try and achieve p-waves.

I’ve also considered the toy isn’t working for me. When I have tried or my girlfriend has used a finger inside me it has felt like my prostate was actually being stimulated and besides being a nice feeling using the toy and having the involuntary contractions I don’t feel it actually stimulate my prostate or any sort of build up of pleasurable feelings in that area. Where exactly should the pleasure or p-waves originate so I understand where to focus and cultivate them?

Any help anyone can give would be most appreciated.

Let me tell you a story all about how…

My concept of orgasm got turned upside down.
I’ve made a few posts in this forum but they’re not a good summation of my Aneros journey so I’ll try to sum it all up here and I’ll start with this morning..
Wake up at 0350 with not much sleep and a 60+ hour work week just finished feeling a bit wrecked from it all. Not a lot to do at this time of day so thought I’ll have 3 or 4 drags on a joint and have a go at an Aneros session and given the above and the fact I had sex two nights ago I wasn’t expecting much from it.
Was I ever wrong.
20mins into the session and I’m at maybe my fifth pgasm and I can feel myself melting into the joy coming from my prostate and sphincter area with escalating waves of pleasure pouring out into my thighs groin and abdomen. Read more »

Interesting thing happened to me

Hello guys. Here is a strange story about a thing that i haven’t encountered before in this subreddit. So yesterday i just finished a workout and after a workout i like to do a cold bath. So i entered the cold water and when i felt the adrenaline rush from the cold i got hard and had and orgasm with ejaculation.
What do you think about adrenaline and prostate orgasms? Tor me its strange because most of the time on this subreddit veterans and nonveterans mention that in order to have a progress in this prostate awakening/rewiring you have to be super relaxed, chill and focused on the sensations.
I turns out adrenaline plays a role too 🤔..

Experienced users, what would you say the difference is between a P-gasm, P-wave and a super-O?

Wondering because I think I may have had my first full P-wave tonight. Was just relaxing thinking about something random with the toy in and all of a sudden felt this warm jolt go through my body for a good couple seconds, then disappear. After that nothing else really happened but I’m happy with the result, I had this same feeling a month or more back but it only lasted for like a second or maybe less, so I’m glad I’m making *some* progress. I just wish more could have happened after it, and am wondering if this is what maybe hitting a plateau means?

Female question

Can a women use this sex toy? Will it also work? Or is this super orgasm stuff specifically for men? I’ve heard a lot of talk from various subreddits about the wonders of anal orgasms and this toy. But I’ve seen nothing on whether it’s just a man thing?

Upgrading from fingers, would mgx be better than helix?

I like prostate playing, but untill now I’ve only used my fingers. I’ve never went too far massaging the prostate, what really opened a new word to me was laying on my stomach “hitting” the prostate with the thumb or simulating a sort of vibration.

Now I want to byy my first aneros, I’ve decided for the trident version instead of the syn one, but I’m still evaluating if mgx trident would be better than helix, since I read that mgx allows more movement the thelix. On the other hand, I’ve also read that mgx trident may be too short, and as a tall guy I fear that it wouldn’t fit well myself. What are your suggestions?

Aless Guidance

So I have gained some experience with the Aneros Helix Syn. I am able to have small pleasurable p-waves.

Unfortunately, I am unhealthy and my blood circulation is very bad. Working on it to get better (stopped smoking, doing cardio). However, when using the Aneros nowadays, my prostate goes numb after a few minutes.

So in order to still have sessions, I am switching to Aless for the moment. I did not find very useful tips yet. Has anybody got experience with Aless and can please help me?

My experience

One thing I’ve noticed with newer guys is they’re always asking “what am I doing wrong”, a better question is “what are you doing right?” It felt good right? That’s a success! You’ll get there, have faith.

The guides are helpful in telling you the basics. But my hunch is I think some guys may be struggling with trying to do things by the books. One day it’ll just click, when it’s not fun anymore put it up for a few days and come back.

Everyone’s body is different, everyone’s progasm sessions should be too. Ride the orgasms in your own way. Whatever gives you pleasure keep doing it, I sometimes just rock my ass back and forth on the bed moving my aneros by the tail, something that just happened in the heat of the moment.

I’ve had hundreds of prostate orgasms over the year and it’s not by following the books. That’s your orgasms – have them, I’ll have my own, and I’m NOT sharing.

I jerk off every time. I also jerk off regularly (multiple times a day). Sometimes I smoke pot. Sometimes I drink Sometimes I watch porn. Sometimes I listen to music. All things people tell you not to do and I still have orgasms all night.

Sometimes my leg shakes, other times it doesn’t. Sometimes I precum, other times I don’t. Sometimes I’m hard, other times I’m not. None of that matters except the prostate orgasms, I wouldn’t get there if I was so focused on these things. Every new day is a new vibe (figuratively and literally – the vice is in) Read more »

Finally making some progress

I have been thinking of posting here for a while. This is going to be a rambling post so TL;DR

I bought a Helix Syn in September of 2019 after seeing Aneros orgasm videos on the web for years. Decided to finally try it for myself. Used the Syn about twice a week for around one month and got bored with it and stopped. I found that it felt okay but after squeezing my PC muscles for about 10 or 15 minutes I would either doze off or decide to watch gay porn. The Syn did seem to enhance my penile orgasms but not so much that I felt like putting it in just for the enhanced penile orgasms. BTW I have a major, major addiction to gay porn. Or had. I’ll get to that later. Anyway, I would only pop the syn in every now and again 3 or 4 months at a stretch. That changed in January and it was the strangest thing. I got up to go pee one night around 3:30 AM. When I got back in bed I was just laying on my side and was just sort of sleepily squeezing my PC muscles (which I don’t usually do) and I began to think what if the pleasant sensation of peeing occurred further back in my prostate. Then I started to imagine what that would feel like while still squeezing my PC muscles. And that is when it hit. My muscles just started spasming on their own and I had this curious, very pleasurable tingling sensation from around my prostate. It only lasted maybe 5 to 10 seconds but I guess I got hooked. Mind you my Syn was in my dresser drawer, not even in my butt. Decided to start using the Syn again the next night. I’ve been trying to figure it out like a puzzle how to get those same sensations again and I am making real progress. Last night I went for about an hour and ½ and had the involuntary contractions + feelings of impending orgasm and that happened four or five times. With practicing deep breathing and kegels I feel that a progasm is within my grasp. Weirdly (again) about two weeks ago I suddenly lost interest in porn. Not altogether but it is much easier to just shrug it off and not watch any. Something does sort of concern me though. Around the time my interest in porn fell off, it seemed like maybe my libido fell off too. When I try to have penile orgasms now, they aren’t very satisfying almost like I’m not even climaxing. Also, it feels like there is a sort of congested feeling in my prostate. Read more »

I feel like I need to deprogram…

After reading a lot of posts here I feel like I’m on the wrong track. I recently got a MGX after dipping my toes in a few years ago. I’m straight and have minimal experience with butt stuff.. I know a lot of you say it takes a lot of work and time, but I’m already getting some AMAZING feelings. I get stomach flutters, racing heart, and at times it feels like it’s building up to an explosion. When I’m ready to stop I can do so feeling satisfied without a more traditional release, which never happens with penile mastutbation. However to get most of this I have to do slightly pelvic thrusts and hip gyrations in addition to kegals and anus clenching… I’m trying to stay hands free apart from the occasional drip check. I’m familiar with the terminology used here, but not sure how it applies to what I’m feeling.
Is there and guided audio tracks that tell me what exactly I should be doing? Or perhaps and words of guidance? Hate to be redundant with all the other new posters. Thank you.