Category: reddit

Too much fun?

I’ve recently got an aneros helix syn trident, and been enjoying it over the last few weeks.

I’ve been reading through a few posts on here that some kind redditors have shared there thoughts on how to best use these kinds of toys, and hopefully work towards an orgasm.

I’ve taken note of the comments around a kind of “rewiring”, not touching the penis and focusing on the sensations in the other parts of the body.

One question I had is around frequency. I’ve seen a couple of comments along the lines of “once in every X days is enough” or “such and such is too much”.

Is there any reason I can’t use it everyday? (Discovering I quite enjoy having something up my bum).

Would using something my aneros this much be counterproductive? If so, why?

Are these contractions?

Hey Guys,

So I’ve been using aneros for a couple of years now. Compared from where I started, I feel like I’m finally making some real progress.

I have a variety of models. Sessions usually last 1-2 hours. Recently I’ve been determined and have been abstaining from any ejaculation for over a week now.

Recently, I hit a certain point in my sessions where if I make any sort of movement, my PC muscles tense up super tight. It even happens sometimes when I get distracted for a second by a noise outside.

For example: My last session a few days ago, I was meditating and really starting to feel good. I even started leaking what I think was precum. Out of nowhere I felt an itch on my nose. The second I went to scratch it, my PC muscles tensed up super tight and I lost the “pleasure”feeling that I had.

Was wondering if this has happened to anyone else and if so, what can I do about it?

I have personally blocked a certain user

Hello guys.

As you may have noticed over the past few days, there has been a certain user on this sub who’s “feedback” leaves something to be desired.

On a personal level this user has weaponized my history of addiction against me (quote: “You are addicted” Quote: “You are obsessed’). I shared that history openly and without shame on this sub in the understanding that we respect each other and support each other. and i thank those of you that stood up to this users comments by downvoting him in such instances.

He has also been threatening (Quote: “You have been warned, I am watching!”)

He has also been sexist and misogynistic (Quote: “You would write great chick-Lit”)

On a general level he has been trying to scare other users with something called “Kundalini Syndrome”, which, as far as i can tell, is something to do with the East Indian Mystical Tradition. This sub is about the Aneros Prostate Massager and Prostate Orgasms and has nothing at all to do with ones spiritual awakening.

Do not get me wrong, i am not discounting the truth of “Kundalini Syndrome” or of any spiritual practice. we are all entitled to believe whatever we choose. But, to state it again clearly for the record: THIS SUB IS ABOUT ANEROS PROSTATE MASSAGE AND PROSTATE ORGASMS. Read more »

VR-shenigans to relax?

I have to ask here, maybe somebody knows more: I own a Quest2 VR-headset siince a few month and wonder if there is any app or website that will help a otherwise completely failing to relax guy to actually completely relax, fall in trance, whatever?

I tried a bunch of self-hypnosis files, nothing worked. Maybe here somebody will know something?

Involuntaries… what now?

I can usually trigger the involuntary movements pretty easily with a few *flex and holds* however once the involuntary movements start I am not quite sure what to do next. Here’s what I have tried:
1. Maintain the flex – Requires a lot of concentration, some pleasurable sensations to start but they generally fade and I restart the process again
2. Relax the flex – Involuntaries stop and I have to flex harder again to restart
3. Flex harder – Involuntaries get stronger and it feels like the aneros is fucking me but muscles become fatigued

*Flex and hold* = contracting my PC and sphincter muscles at same time and holding the flex

Tenth session and I feel so close! Advice?

Hey guys, I’m looking for some advice to hit that next level.

I’m at the point now where I can get involuntaries of the muscles that move the toy, but they don’t dominate the session, just appear now and then. I’m also consistently getting some very nice pleasure in my session at times.

The session kind of goes like this (I’ll try to make this not sound like fap material 😆) – I watch porn with my toy in and I’ll generally contract the muscles, it’s kind of voluntary, kind of not, I just follow what my body does and sometimes that can set off the true involuntaries. The pleasure that I get kind of comes in ‘waves’, by which I mean that after the toy has stimulated my prostate sufficiently, it begins to feel very nice. Usually at this point my dick gets hard and it’s like my body is trying to cum and I’m at the edge, then it dials back. It can feel very, very nice. The pleasure subsides for a little while, then another wave will come and often it can be stronger. Are these what pleasure waves are?

The toy brushing against my prostate begins to feel amazing and as the pleasure builds and it lifts off my prostate, that’s where the respite comes to feel that wave of pleasure. Read more »

I DIDN’T BREAK IT! (+A-Less)

Hey guys!

So, quick recap: first PGasm about 2 weeks ago. went at it hard for several (mind-blowing) days and then lost the mojo (thanks to all of you who talked me off the ledge…LOL)

For the past several days i have been focusing on Aless sensations so that i wasn’t putting any external pressure on my prostate. The sessions were great and i was getting some awesome involuntaries, PWaves and the occasional Mini-O. Was also working on the mindset of letting go and releasing my body to whatever wanted to come.

Anywho…I was chatting with another bud from this sub last night and when i finished (with the full intention of going to sleep) i felt an involuntary flutter of the P Spot so i thought, why not. a quick session whilst i’m all dopy and half asleep. From the outset though, i was trying to keep everything in my lower body totally loose and relaxed and just focused on the tingle and let that build. Every time i noticed any slight tension i let it go and brought attention back to the tingle and nurtured that mentally.

Really soon into the session (about 20 minutes?) i felt the familiar buildup of energy as the tingle increased and got stronger. again i was gently mindful of not becoming tense in any way.

Long story short, this all built up into a full PGasm! prostate contracting, cock-bouncing, precum leaking PGasm. Read more »

First orgasm

I smoked weed. A hybrid that is indica dominant. My prostate was pouncing like it had its own heart beat. The key was to allow myself to feel the pleasure. I each pulse of my prostate felt better and better until I had a dry orgasm. It felt like a regular orgasm in stregnth but the point is that I finally felt a hands free orgasm. Will abstain from masterbation this whole week. I know that will be the key to a super o. Will keep you guys posted. Thanks

First mini-o(?)

i have a helix syn trident and have been getting pretty frustrated that i hadn’t been making any progress. Yesterday I realized my problem, i was amplifying the wrong feeling.

After reading about “letting go” on the forums and reddit i tried doing that by just letting my body take in the pleasure. Feelings started to get intense and when things started to get intense i felt a familiar feeling that was like extreme butterflys in stomach. That feeling was so extreme that it felt a little scary and i mistook it as a fight or flight response. I got scared then stopped.

Was this the right feeling or was i focusing on the wrong feeling?