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I’m new to prostate play and wanted to know if anyone had any tips or tricks for me to be able to finally have the coveted prostate massage. Any advice helps please

What’s my next step

Been toying with a aneros for years now. Have a few different models. While I’ve had a small handful of unique experiences which are enough to keep my going and assure me that there is something more to be discovered it has largely been a relatively dull affair.

I know my prostate is not very sensitive, I almost never get pleasure from direct contact and sometimes am not sure I’m making contact at all. However I do think some progress is being made. Recently I’ve noticed that after a few days of aneros sessions I’ll give myself a traditional orgasm. It’s for the day or two after the traditional orgasm that I’ll start getting pleasurable sensations from my prostate. Any time I get aroused I feel a pleasureable pulse from it.

I guess my question is wether it’s possible traditional orgasms could help me with obtaining prostate orgasms. Could a traditional o wake my prostate up to the point that’s it becomes more sensitive afterwards. Previously I’ve always leaned towards abstaining from masturbation and ejaculation to increase prostate sensation but could the opposite be more effective?

Appreciate any input you can give. Been at this long enough that I’m not gonna give up now but it does seem like a lot of the traditional wisdom doesn’t jive with my experience and that can be frustrating at times.

Any advice for aless?

I’m at home with my parents for the extended holiday season due to how my school laid out the rest of the semester. I’ve tried with moderate success by just doing extended kegels, anyone have any advice for aless?

First HFO! (27y/o)

Well, it’s been about 6 months using my aneros, and today I finally got my first hands free orgasm! (Of course the day after I spend $150 on the aneros website because of Black Friday to try out other products, haha) Didn’t cum, but there was enough precum to completely soak through my sweats, and it felt so great! I was starting to think it was all just make-believe.

I only made it to one orgasm, then a couple more close calls before I just jerked off. Overall the whole session was about 45 minutes. I just have the attention span of a squirrel, and got so excited after the first one I couldn’t relax.

I’m not typically a nipple person, but I was rubbing my nipple and watching a Himeros porn (a website that has more sensual gay porn, which to me helped keep me turned on much more). I was wearing sweat pants and a sweatshirt, which is abnormal for me, and lying on my stomach. I think this just helped me to not think of my dick so much while I was watching the porn, and focus on my feelings.

I welcome any other tips if you’ve got them!

How do I start feeling new sensations?

I’m pretty new to Aneros, just got the Helix Syn Trident and have been using it for about a month, but I have felt nothing different than a piece of plastic inside me. I have always had trouble getting pleasure from my prostate (something tells me that it’s just impossible due to my genetics or something) and was hoping to turn things around when I bought the Aneros.

I have tried everything, porn consumption, positions, the do-nothing method, different
kegel intensities. I have read every success story and tip regarding prostate play that you can imagine, but whenever I use my own, it just feels like somethings inside me. It’s not really a “foreign” feeling, it’s just something in there that’s not bad- or good-feeling. And I know it’s touching my prostate because when I masturbate normally, it feels much better. Is there any way to make sure that the proper movement is being created on the prostate from my contractions?

I’m not sure what to do now, I want to keep trying but every session has been a dud. Does anyone have any tips to make this experience more like it should? To make at least SOME feelings occur instead of just existing?

Thanks guys

Peridise vs Tempo

Hi everyone,

First, thanks for the help many of you offered in my last posts!

I’ve thinking about getting the peridise kit but it’s not as cheap or easy to find here in Canada as it is in USA. I’ve been looking for them these days but the only store selling aneros products in my city doesn’t have the peridise nor the tempo. I took a look online this weekend expecting a good price since it’s cybermonday tomorrow and I just found the tempo at 60$CAD with free shipping instead of 111$, which seem to be quite a good price. The best I can get for the peridise is 30$CAD. The peridise seemed to me as a more interesting product since everyone seem to enjoy more the smallest one, compared to the bigger which is the same size as the tempo. Is the stainless steel such an advantage that it counterbalances the bigger size?

I already own the helix syn and the progasm ice. I can take bigger toys but I’m still a beginner with aneros toys. I’ve managed to get dry Os with both, but I tend to have a harder time getting them with the helix, while the progasm can make me cum too fast (too fast like it I didn’t get any dry Os and I’m forced to stop the session).

Edit: typos

Physical exercices, health and aneros

Hello folks! A frequent comment I’ve noticed in multiples posts on this subreddit and on the aneros’ forums is the fact that aneros usage can be a spiritual and meditative experience in addition to being a prostate health tool and a sex toy. In this context, I feel like having a good physical and mental health is quite important thing we want to success reaching any goals with the aneros (HFWO, multiples DO, super Os, etc.).

COVID-19 have been rough on most of us. In my case, I’ve noticed that I’m exercising less than I was. Working most of the time from home, I’m not riding my bike as much as I was and I’ve been eating more sweets to manage my boredom. I’ve been vaping weed more than before, even though my consumption is always limited to late evenings. On the other hand, I took the habit of walking at least 30 minutes everyday since march, but I feel it’s still not enough and may explain some of my difficulties “mastering” the aneros, as I sometime get anxious during some of my sessions, which can ruin the experience. Read more »

So I had another Super Dry – O… question about intesity levels

Hi guys I wanna share my strange week to you guys^^”.

I am doing kegels now regulary and even tried this big squeeze technique from [mindgasm.net](https://mindgasm.net).
I cant do it regulary but its getting better..

Wendsday I was doing some kegels in my office during lunch time (i have a workplace for me alone) and then i thought ok lets try the big squeeze… and holy what a orgasmic rush for 1 minute. I could alteast control my voice, i really wanted to moan xD. My pc muscle and sphincter where fluttering like hell and it just got stronger to the point where i felt in my whole body.

Then after that i had a aneros sessions after work and had another super long dry o for idk how long. I was rock hard all the time and felt it pumping nonstop.

Here comes my question about the intensity. I am using kinda tha aneros atleast every night before bedtime because it feels good and its a good way to relax before sleeping.

Is it to much? Because the Super Dry – O was long and but intenstiy on a scale maybe 6/10(?).
Could the intensity higher if i would maybe take a break^^?

And 1 last question: Is there way to archieve the Wet O after unlocking the Dry-O’s. I just wanna experience alteast 1 but i believe the Dry Os are better because you do it frequently^^” Read more »

Estim prostate orgasm and Traditional aneros orgasms

Hey there guys, I was curious about one thing. I’ve just ordered and estim plug out of curiosity (had to choose between nipple/cock/prostate estim and decided to go with the plug because I try to abstain from porn and traditional masturbation) and I was just wondering if anyone here tried them both.

What are the differences and similarities? I believe an estim plug kinda does the job for you and the orgasm (if you even reach it) may be more facile than the prize you get from working your way to it, but I don’t want to jump to any conclusions without having experienced neither of those.

Would an estim plug affect my progress and make me lazy in practicing without this kind of aid? What are your experiences?

tl;dr

Differences between estim prostate orgasms and traditional aneros orgasms