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Does anyone else watch porn while using the aneros?

I have seen a bunch of people say not to watch porn during your session. However my mind seems to wander a lot especially after a while of using my aneros. I found that keeping a video going on my phone and looking at it to get to close to what I think is a prostate orgasm and as I see feel myself drifting off to be helpful. Does anyone else do this? I have only tried once and it seemed to be helpful but I am not sure if I will be hitting a wall that allows for prostate orgasms but not a super o. Although if I continued I feel like I might have had a super o.

This session was the first in a while that I even watched porn before, normally I just get aroused with breathing and nipple play.

How do I increase my arousal enough to use the Aneros, rather than vice versa?

I know this is a strange question, but I’ve gotten a lot of advice saying I need to be moderately aroused before inserting the Aneros inside me.

Problem is, I think I am so focused on achieving pleasure and proving to myself that I can get there with a prostate toy, that it’s more like a “mission” to experience pleasure, rather than just enjoying the moment. So this leads to me beginning every session without any real arousal, just watching porn to increase it during. This, instead of being aroused already, and masturbating for the release instead of simply the boredom or pleasure.

So is there any way to escape this mindset and make myself aroused enough to masturbate, instead of vice versa? Do I abstain for a few days, watch more porn?

Thanks guys

Should I “hump” or lay still

I recently purchased a Trident Helix Syn after lurking in r/aneros for some time. Everyone talks about laying still but on my second attempt I was getting impatient with little or no sensation from slow kegels. So while laying on my side I started a little rhythmic humping motion.

After a short while I started to feel warm and couldn’t help but moan a little as my body slightly shook. I kept at it but it dissipated. I relaxed for a few minutes and tried the motion again with feet on the bed while lifting my hips and was able to reproduce, this time muscles in my legs twitching like they would during a strenuous workout.

I didn’t cum but later on I put a vibrating bullet against the aneros and after a little while had a long pop.

Is that the sensation I’m going for? It seems lying still is the recommended approach, am I missing out on the bigger sensation?

Has anyone had bacterial growth on their aneros ? Left marks.

Unfortunately, twice, some white bacteria grew on my aneros while it was stored. Both times, It was the handle that had growth on it, the second time it was worse as it extended part way through the stem. I was quite surprised when it initially happened and when it happened the second time as I thoroughly wash my toys with soap and water and let them air dry before storing. I stored it in the container it came with – after the first bacteria growth – I washed the container with soap and water to clean that. (Clearly that didn’t work). Somehow – I think the bacteria left its marks on the toy which the boiling didn’t take care of. Is there anything I can do to deal with that ? (There’s a pic of the tip of the toy for reference – is this safe for use ?

These are pics after boiling today for the first time. I’ve only used the aneros a handful of times since I got it in August.

(There’s also pics of my plugs there – which somehow after boiling came out with what looks like dust on them – if you know anything about that please let me know. I posted more info on that on a thread at r/sextoys as I thought they’d know more. If you’re curious to know more – [link](https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/comments/k31pwp/boiled_plugs_they_came_out_dusty_damaged_aneros/) )

Thanks for any advice!

[https://imgur.com/a/Tj77OZY](https://imgur.com/a/Tj77OZY)

Finally getting somewhere very good.. Helix Syn

After trying on and off for several years with a progasm ice I purchased a Helix Syn (thought it would be a bit small in comparison) after lurking here and reading a good bit about rewiring relaxation and not expecting too much (not difficult given prior lack of success)… I can now say my prostate is both rewired and very much awake.. 50yrs old and can’t believe I’ve had my first set of prostate orgasms today.. about 13+ of them in 90mins.. holy mother of god.. I can still feel my prostate and perineum twitching gently… Making a habit of allocating 30+ min per day over the last 2 weeks and just trying what felt good while listening to some relaxing music (no porn – I found it distracting and made me want to focus on my penis) seemed to work for me initially lying face down legs apart, but by the end of todays session I was coming lying on my side on my back and still when I stood up at the end.. this is very addictive…
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Pardon my formatting (it’s poor) but if you are struggling keep going and you’ll find the way to push that button for you.. I’ve still to reach the mystical super O but if I can bag orgasms like this morning again I’ll die a happy man (all dry rolling sparking twitching joyous spasms)… Thanks to all the helpful posters on this forum who provided insight and experiences.
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Last thing – for me gently tightening the muscles used to stop piss and then very gently doing anal contractions connected the Aneros to my prostate perfectly. Your mileage may vary, but too aggressive contractions seemed to feel good but not get me there….

Excited for new Aneros

So, I bought my first Aneros years ago, it was the MGX (just mgx, not trident) and I only kind of liked it. My biggest issue with it was the flat p-tab at the front because it put kind of a sharp pressure due to its shape. But I would still force myself to use it sometimes cuz it was pretty solid.

This time I got the Helix Syn Trident, and I anticipate I will like it a lot more, if only because the perineum tab won’t be as sharp.

Not really anything else to say, just wanted to share my excitement and anticipation somewhere.

First good sensation last night, was it the “awakening”?

I’m happy to say I felt something noteworthy for the first time in my session last night, but I have zero idea what it was.

I started sensing it about halfway through my session but up until that point I had felt nothing, which is normal for me. I noticed a very slight tingling feeling around the tip of the (helix syn) trident and I had just enough time to think “what…is that?” before the area exploded. It didn’t feel like an orgasm or but rather just fuzzy. It reached halfway up my back and all the way down to my feet. It lasted about 15 seconds and at its peak It was so overwhelming that I couldn’t tell where I was or what position I was in. After it had passed and for the rest of the session, I could feel my pulse on and off in the area. I really don’t know what that was but I can only think that that was my prostate awakening? Anyone else experienced something similar or know what I’m talking about?

I haven’t felt any pleasure from my Aneros

I have a Helix Syn Trident. I can assure you I have been trying, but I haven’t felt any pleasure. Yes, I have experienced involuntary contractions, but those yield nothing. I have read every guide, tried every type of audio, porn, binaural beat, position, lube and level of contraction, and I have felt nothing. I’m kind of disappointed that I spent so much money without anything to show for it.

However, such may be a virtue or a weakness, I really don’t want to give up. Nonetheless, I have no idea what to do. What can I do? Is there anything I can focus on, anything to practice with contractions or kegels or anything to get the desired effect? I’m not even looking for an orgasm at this point, I just want some proof that this is all real and it’s something I can achieve.

I have some questions about contractions

I don’t know if this information is important or not but I have a helix syn trident and I use it for about 30-45 minutes per session and I have used it around 10 times. I am brand new to this, I started about two weeks ago.

First question, am I flexing the right muscles. I read that you’re supposed to use the same muscles that you would use to stop peeing but when I try it I feel like the only parts that are moving are my penis which is flicking up and my anus which is trying to close or go into my body. It doesn’t feel like the trident is moving much if at all. Maybe that’s because I’m not accustomed to the feeling of it being on my prostate or not but it seems wrong to me.

Second question, what is an anal contraction, rectal contraction, and abdominal contraction and what’s the difference between them? The getting started page references them but doesn’t explain what one or the other actually is. Should I focus on one over the other to start or build on all three for some variety?

Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Once I have the toy inside, what do I do?

Recently got the Helix Syn Trident, it’s great to have in during normal penile masturbation, but I read that it can be used alone for hands-free orgasms. How do I accomplish these? All the stuff I’ve read on here has been super vague so far. I know you have to be horny and start contracting your PC and sphincter muscles, but I’m so confused as to how to get pleasure from it alone.