Massager too big?

Hello reddit. Newbie here . I have the aneros “DeVice” and im getting mild sensations from having it fully inserted. But today just after a regular session i tried to get it halfway in and pointed at the prostate and when it hit i felt the urge to pee . I started moving it up and down the prostate and the feeling increased . Then a transparent fluid started dripping from my cock . It was not like ejaculate but like watery thing. My question is : is this model just too big for me , or is my prostate just shallower . Also is it ok to finish a session ( even without p-waves , super o and etc) with normal ejaculatory orgasm . Thanks guys 😉

Your Mileage May Vary

So I had another aneros session last night. Fourth? Fifth, I think. I had some interesting involuntary shivering (legs, belly, etc) as if cold or feverish in my second session, and again in the next. But the fourth session didn’t really go anywhere and neither did last nights.

I’ve never used marijuana before, but I tried an edible before a session, and again before last night’s session. This second time was to confirm my experience the first time. A lot of people swear by this as a help. Not in my experience.

I do have a reaction. My visual imagination gets a lot less inhibited, and I have a lot of interesting visuals going on. I feel light-headed and dizzy, and I find myself unable to concentrate. My stomach feels…odd. Not nauseated, but like I *could* be fairly easily. After a while, I get the munchies.

But it does nothing for my aneros session. And I don’t like the way I feel. Also, while my understanding is that the effects of the edible should only last for a few hours, I find myself intermittently dizzy and disconnected many hours later, and even mildly so occasionally the next day. I don’t really feel like myself again until the second day after.

So, I’m done. I don’t like the way I feel when I use this stuff, and it doesn’t seem to do anything for me. I may have better results with poppers. They at least really *are* a short-lived effect, and if not as mind-bending as I expected, do seem useful.

Should I get another one

I’ve asked a similar question before, but maybe on another forum.
I currently have the aneros helix syn trident.
Ive had it since around may this year. Feel like I’m not getting anywhere with it. Now I’ve heard of people changing to something else and it works out perfectly for them.
I’m thinking 3 things
1- I buy a different one and see what happens
2 – I haven’t fully grasped how to use it fully yet and the same thing will happen to the next one
3 – I stick at it for a while longer.

I sometimes feel I do better without it. With kegals

Few questions from a beginner

Hi everyone! I’ve had an helix for a few months and never had any pleasure from it the few times I’ve tried it. I just found this subreddit and now I’m motivated to learn to use it correctly. I’ve a few questions:

– Smoking weed seems to be quite popular in combination with the helix here. Is it something you recommend using to facilitate the process or is it something I should try when I’ll be more experienced with the helix? I already vaporize almost everyday; should I play with the helix before or after vaporizing or should i take a break from weed for now? (I’m in Canada so I’m not doing anything illegal 😉)
– this may sound silly but are you supposed to already be horny when you insert the helix? I tend to get impatient when I’m hard so relaxing could be an issue.
– can anal stretching help or interfere with the helix? I’ve been stretching my anus and rectum for a month now and I’m used to wear plugs everyday going from 7,5 to 9,3 inches in circumference. I must say that up to now I’ve had much more prostate sensations with these plugs or when having anal sex with my bf then the helix, so I think I know what kind of feelings to expect.
– I read music can help with the relaxation part. What type of music do you listen when you relax, if you do listen to music when playing with the helix? I’m a bit fan of drone music but I’m curious if you have recommendations 🙂

Session turned into pegging

My wife and I recently got a new bed, which made it possible to use the restraints more effectively like stirrups, legs up and out, ass elevated. Tonight, I put on my chastity device and jockstrap, and lubed up my helix syn. I got warmed up and then moved to my Maximus. I was leaking and throbbing, to the point I could feel the device going in and out on its own.

So I think, I’m all warmed up. Maybe this could be a good time to invite my wife to peg me. We’ve done it once, but she was having a hard time assuming that role. She came in and put it on. Though she felt a little awkward, she wanted to try. Once I turned the light off, she started getting into a rhythm and I was able to angle so she was hitting my prostate. I was leaking perfume.

I reached over to let myself out of my chastity device. She kept pounding me, faster now that she started getting into it hearing me moaning. I came so fast, shooting all over my chest, hitting my neck, and the pillow next to me.

She said she thought that was awesome and something she really enjoyed doing. Pretty awesome.

Need some advice

So I recently lost my progasm and am looking to replace it. I loved the size of the progasm, but didn’t feel like it contacted my prostate optimally. I want something still with good size that I can get a little more movement with. Also like to wear these during sex, so something that I won’t have to worry about longer term use. I’m fairly advanced in my anal journey as well.

Thanks in advance!

My for a first time… what am I feeling?

So got my first in the mail yesterday. I’ve been debating something like this for a few years, so when I decided to pull the trigger, it had me worked up. I spent a lot of time reading everything I could on what to expect. So maybe I’m just not sure what I’m feeling here.

So I cleaned it, lubed it and inserted it…

Insertion was easier than I expected. This something I really expected a problem with.

Now I don’t know if it was the excitement of trying something new or I was feeling something else. It felt
Very good inside, gentle but noticeably pleasurable feeling that I am pretty sure were originating from my prostate. But since I’ve not experienced this before I’d say if I had to describe some of the feelings I’d say felt kind of like at the very inside base of my penis. If we’re scaling… maybe 2/10

A few little ripple feelings felt like they collected from my hip joints ran up my spine. Nothing orgasmic level, but very nice and I could see how the two of these could lead to something. This was a little more 2.5-3?

Am I imagining things? Is it just being turned on about the adventure? Or are these the beginnings that people talk about?

I wasn’t expecting much out of the first time, though I hoped. I also know that…that time isn’t related to next time and I may feel nothing in the next 30 tries.

What am I doing wrong?

I bought a Progasm a few years ago and it pretty much just feels like a glorified butt plug. I don’t even know what prostate stimulation is supposed to feel like. Because of this, I rarely use it. I do do kegels regularly, even have an app for it that tracks exercise and reminds me. But still nothing.

Progress after 15 Years! (And Sore Abs)

I’ve been using the Aneros (on and off) for about 15 years. Many different models. I’d really just given up on it. I’d gotten some involuntaries, a hard on and mild “nice” feelings with the Aneros in the past, but never understood what all these other people were raving about. However, I tried the Helix Trident Syn for the 1st time and WOW: I really feel like I had a breakthrough session with it (Finally!)

But this time, I really felt something stronger against my prostate and tried hard not to be alarmed by the unexpected feelings the aneros produces. I think there was post about this called “Terror At The Gates” It’s easy to lose focus when these uncontrollable and new physical reactions suddenly take over our bodies. I just kept telling myself, *”Don’t be afraid” “It’s OK to be scared”* and the feelings just started to get more and more exhilarating.

In any case, my heart was pounding in its chest and the blood rushing in my ears as if I was gonna have a heart attack. The Helix Trident really moved against my prostate in a discernable way and I started to cover my mouth with my hand to stop the teenage girl squeals that I couldn’t help but vocalize. It was wild!

Some thoughts on Helix vs MGX (ymmv)

I’ve heard bigger is not always better in this camp enough times that I thought I knew better and went ahead and upgraded from my old mgx (had the springy tail, removed it,got better but never finished with it) and got a helix trident (hate the k-tab, also removed it, decidedly feel like it was an improvement)

My experience with the difference between the two follows:

– The MGX is definitely capable of more mobility in the in-out direction

– The angle of the Helix is definitely hitting something, and when it’s mobile, (along the spine-bladder axis) feels like it’s stronger.

But at the end of the day, my Helix keeps feeling like it’s gotten “stuck” either because the size creates more pressure that displaces the lubricant film or because the size is getting caught up in some pelvic floor muscle’s I’ve yet to figure out how to relax.

So for now, I’m alternating sessions between the two and trying to work out how to best use each.

Any advice (aside from drugs…I would try but I legally/occupationally can’t) is always welcome.