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Is it possible my prostate is too far away to feel anything?

Hey. I’m 6′ tall and I have the Helix Classic. All white plastic one. I’ve had this thing for years, but I often go months without using it. I mostly use it when I need help going to the bathroom. Anyway, I bought it for sexual purposes and I just can’t get it going. I know the advice always says to relax, but when I sit with my knees bent, I can’t feel anything. I can manually “suck” it in and make it feel contact with my prostate, but then I’m just 100% flexing and that gets tiring very fast.

That being said, when I have tried things with manual effort I did think ONCE I got very close to orgasm but then I lost it because it was an active mental process. I think I woke myself out of the trance thinking about cumming. Anyway, I know I CAN feel SOMETHING, I just can’t feel much when it’s in. I do feel more when its in and I’m standing though, but then I’m standing.

It’s supposed to rub against me on it’s own isnt’ it? My butt doesn’t “automatically move it around and pull it in” as I’ve seen comments say. I have also had versions of somewhat sitting on it so it presses against me, but that just feels like extra pressure as well. I would like an anal orgasm first and foremost, whether it be from a prostate massager or other anal toy. The issue is my hole is very small. So I’m sure there are longer ones that are ALSO wider, but are there any toys that are small but longer? I’m open to buying another. I just have not managed to get it to work.

Not sure if I’m stimulating prostate

I’ve been using the aneros for a few years on and off. I’ve committed to being a bit more consistent with it now that I have more free time. I’ve done two hour long sessions and have been using the breathing techniques and I don’t really feel like I’m hitting my prostate. I kind of feel like I’m just hitting my rectum wall. What I’ve been imagining is that the helix is like a hammer, when I contract it is brought up and when i relax it comes down onto the prostate.

I’m guessing the solution is just to keep at it but I’m not really sure if I’m doing it right. One thing I noticed is that the p tab isn’t even touching the perineum and the back tab is actually pressed into my tail bone.

Any suggestions on positions/ techniques/ feeling I should be looking for to hit the prostate?

Sorry for stream of consciousness

Keep having trad. orgasms during sessions, can’t get through this barrier?

Throwaway account, sorry about that.

I’m having a great time with my Aneros, but I’ve hit a barrier that I haven’t gotten past yet.

My routine is to start gentle contractions during the session, which develop into their own automatic contractions.

The problem is, the repetitive contractions are imitating the contractions you’d have during normal orgasms, and before 30 mins or so they will cause a normal orgasm for me.

Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s great progress so far. But it’s a barrier because normal orgasms just end the session.

Should I be doing different types of contractions to avoid this? Should I manually take over and stop the automatic contractions taking control?

Would appreciate advice, cheers.

HOURS of ecstasy, the rumors are true

Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy shit.

Long post. Reading some of the user posts here helped me, so maybe this will help someone. It’s also a way to process the experience for me.

I’ve been reading about the benefits of prostate play for about a month now and, truth be told, I took everything I read with a grain of salt. I assumed some men might achieve these waves of pleasure and super-Os, but most would need years of practice and even then, maybe not experience as amazing as some made it sound. Well after some time on Sunday, I can say I’m a true believer.

As a way of background, I’m 31, gay male, in a long term relationship. Ass play is not something i’m a total stranger to, but it’s never been my cup of tea. I’ve bottomed plenty of times and found the experience to be enjoyable, but topping was always better. (My partner and I are more “sides” and anal sex is kind of rare. I’ve had plenty of anal sex with prior partners to know what i’m missing.) Over the years I’ve bought a couple of dildos and prostate massagers and played with them on and off, but to me they were never better than recieving anal, and the toys would be used a couple times then forgotten about and thrown away. Read more »

Aneros vice 2 questions

I have a few questions about the vice 2 and aneros in general.

1) how does the aneros work, cause unlike most p massagers this one seems to just sit their and that’s really it and with the vice 2 it just adds vibrations.

2) how does this P-massager compare to the Nexus Revo stealth or the Loki from LELO.

3) what are some tips and tricks with to try with the vice 2 if I were to get it.

And that’s it really I appreciate all responses to this post and any additional info I should know just let me know 🙂

Also I’m considering the Loki, Revo stealth and the vice 2 as my first prostate massager so if any of you have used any of these please sure your experiences with them.

Query regarding prostate milking section in Aneros Wiki

So I was reading Aneros wiki and found a text there. Are they referring to refractory period here or is this something else?

http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Understanding_Your_Body

“A man can learn to perform a self milking without orgasm by using his PC muscles to manipulate the Aneros massager, it should be noted part of the mechanism for orgasm for a male involves the accumulation of fluids within the prostate and associated ducts; accordingly once thoroughly milked, a male may be incapable of achieving an ejaculatory orgasm regardless of the degree of stimulation, for some time after. “

How to find deeper arousal?

So I’ve noticed the only sessions where I feel strong P-waves are those that I start feeling aroused even before I insert the Aneros. It feels like my prostate is craving the stimulation.

However I’ve found I don’t get to that highly aroused state very frequently. More often than not I insert the toy and feel relaxed but not very horny, and so not much happens. Porn doesn’t really arouse me as much as I’d like (maybe I’m desensitized?) and I’ve also tried abstaining from masturbation for several days and haven’t had much success with it.

On the other hand there’s been times when this prostate arousal comes up in a totally natural and effortless way (usually a day or two after my last session, even if the session itself was mild). Sadly it almost always happens during the day when I can’t take 30-60 minutes for an impromptu session. By the time I have some time to myself, the prostate arousal is long gone.

I guess my question is how I can access this deeper arousal within me when I *do* have time to play. (I think I got the relaxation down pat, I have some experience with meditation). Thanks for any advice!

any complemantary vibrating/riding-toy for Aneros-users? :)

Since I started using the Aneros in January didn’t hit any orgasm yet, but I can get involuntary contractions my some nipple-play pretty fast, sadly nothing goes from there on. But I also feel some new sensations while putting the Aneros in and pulling it out. I tried to sit on it and move a bit around, back and forth… didn’t do much but ofcourse maybe I should try another toy for that?

Is there anything that could be seen as complemantary that could help light the orgasm-spark? I wonder if vibrators or riding-toys would do the trick? I got a offbrand-magicwand, are those attachments of any use? My experience using it on my penis is that it will numb it in minutes 🙂

Perhaps there is some good to that feels awesome on the nipples, too? What would that be? So far I tried fingers, fingers with aquaglide (just to make a difference) and some washing-clamps 😛 Felt like that the clamps didn’t to much for me…?

Used my new Aneros last night, first time.

After much reading and researching, I ordered my Aneros. I came in the mail yesterday, and I used it last night.

I used many of the techniques I had researched, by clenching my sphincter and my PC muscles and releasing and deep breathing techniques.

Eventually after much time, waves of pleasure kept coming and taking me for a ride. I enjoyed it, and it felt amazing. Did not have a wet orgasm, not sure if it was even a Super-O. But it felt great.

I laid on my back with my knees up, was the position I used. My wife laid in bed watching me quietly and she fingered her pussy while I played with the Aneros.

After a long time with the Aneros in, I didn’t think any more convulsions were coming, and I felt the need to cum.

I had my wife get a dildo, and use it on me (not pegging with a strap on, but just using the toy on my ass). The toy is much longer than the Helix Syn, and I felt the dildo hit my prostate better, so maybe I need a longer Aneros or something.

But overall, it was enjoyable and I want to do it again. It felt great and I highly recommend Aneros.

No super o yet, but getting pleasure and zen like state

Have had my helix for 2 months. First insertion was uncomfortable and, but after some practice, this is no longer an issue. I eventually got to point where I could trigger involuntary contractions, but they would only last a few seconds at a time. Then I could keep the involuntaries coming for longer periods but no pleasure. Then I could get intense involunatries with mild pleasure, but no eroticism/horniness. Now I am at the point where I get really horny and warm, strong involuntaries, moderate pleasure, rock hard erections on and off, heavy breathing, tingling, small amount of pre cum, and immediately upon insertion I feel super relaxed and at peace. Its a meditative like sense where every subtle feeling is amplified. After my sessions, I feel very relaxed even not having orgasms. Its like that feeling after getting out of a hot tub and showering off and laying down on your couch. The desire from wanting penile stimulation is different from the desire of prostate/anal stimulation. You kind of have to learn to separate the two.

I also have noticed that my dreams are much more vivid and I dont think its a coincidence. Been having crazy dreams.

Also, If I start with the aneros, I can take it out and go aless once things get started. So I usually go an hour with the aneros, then take it out and I can continue to have sensations indefinitely. I only have stop when my legs get tired.