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My path to Super-O

TL;DR:

1. Avoid jerking off watching porn
2. Let go of control
3. Size of toy may not matter that much

Hi there, since a few weeks I got the point I can reliably summon Super-Os. So I thought it is a good idea to share what worked and what did not for me.

Like many of us, I read tons of guides, some of which were contradicting others and kept me confused. Moreover many guides are written by experts who already achieved Super-O and are somewhat harder to interpret by people who are in the beginning of the journey. I hope this will be useful.

2019:

### Jan

Received Lelo Bruno. Manual toys are oldschool and cool kids should get battery powered toys, right?

### Feb

Had around 5 sessions with Bruno while watching regular porn in front of the PC. No luck. Jerking off with vibrator in did somewhat improve orgasm but nothing to write home about. Realized I needed to research more and there is not going to be a delayed gratification thing, again.

### March

Got MGX trident. Tried steps from the wiki (breathing, contractions, CaveOfMystery method, donothing). Absolutely no pleasant sensations whatsoever. I did notice sometimes during exhale combined with some very specific PC contraction there was a “feeling”. It was not pleasurable but not unpleasant either. Motivated by some progress, decided to help my prostate awake by ordering another gadget. We all know ordering stuff online is the way for the win. Read more »

Ayo another Beginner who would have thought.

Ordered the Helix Syn and I’m pretty excited ngl.

Any trade secrets and or pre preperation advice would be much appreciated.

Found a nice spot, some precum. Steps from here?

I’ve been trying for a CFA on and off for some months.

I was having a session with my Progasm, when it found a spot that felt nice.

It felt a little like the feeling when I pass a number 2: Intense, but not pleasurable in itself.

I am able to contract about every 1-2 seconds.

During the session, some precum came out spontaneously which was nice.

Am I on the right track? Do you have any suggestions?

I feel underwhelmed

I used my Aneros tonight and I failed, So I tried using my dildo and It was pretty good and then I got my first prostate orgasm but I didn’t feel much so I’m a bit underwhelmed

During sessions, time passes so quickly…

I still haven’t felt super o yet, but I do feel orgasmic waves, and they are still so good. When I begin to feel them, 2 – 3 hours pass by so quickly….

anybody like me ?

Later, I just jerk off myself and of course the orgasm is much much better compared to without aneros

Any Los Angeles CA retail locations?

Hi, does anyone know if there are any retail locations that carry the Aneros products in the Los Angeles, CA metro area? Thanks for any info

First time results…. a bit meh

So, I used my newly arrived Helix Syn Trident for the first time (put a condom on, used plenty of waterbased lube and laid down, waited some minutes and started lightly contracting the muscles.
First prob: aside from a rather good control of the kegel-muscles I somewhat can’t do those rectal contractions alone as it seems. So, it still kinda worked, I layed down, legs and knees in a 90° angle up with the feet flat on the bed. I felt like my dick was oozing precum though it was flaccid and laying in a different position than it felt, so I guess that’s a good thing? Them a trembling like I’m cold started, though it was 24°C in the room. I kept the contraction of the muscles at about 3/4 as I did read and it felt like that my penis swelled somehow, but it was still flaccid.

Sadly, I just moved the feet around while I was shaking slightly and I lost the feeling kinda directly. I tried it again, this time flat on the bed, it was way more difficult. Then I added a pillow under my ass and tried both, flat lying and with the legs angled up…. but nothing really worked. Could it that the Trident is a bit too short for me? I noticed it’s arms are not “snug”, only the tips are touching the skin slightly, so the toy is ~1cm out. Is that normal? If I press it all the way in I feel some kind of pressure. Not sure if that would be better? I tried holding it inside though it neither worked, surprise. Read more »

Am I close?

So I had a session yesterday and it was extremely pleasurable. I was moving my Aneros Progasm with my anal sphyncter for about an hour and it made me feel like I was about to ejaculate (don’t know if this is how it’s supposed to feel). I was really aroused, but I wasn’t relaxed. The point is that the more aroused, the less relaxed I become. However, I didn’t ejaculate (which is not my goal) neither had an orgasm. Have any of you had an orgasm without being relaxed? I always go to a peak and then go down again with no sucess. I can’t go beyond that point. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.

Soreness from Helix

I’ve been using the regular helix for about the past 9 months or so. I’ve had about two or three sessions with really good success. About a month ago I had the best session yet and I’ve been chasing the feeling ever since. There was about a 10 day period where I’d try a session in bed before falling asleep. I typically use silicone lube.

During that 10 day stretch I noticed some soreness/slight tingliness/stingy sensation near my sphincter area. I assumed it was from over using so I took a break for a week.

Next session I got the same sensation. It almost feels like it’s a struggle for the aneros to glide up and down my rectum despite always using plenty of lube. The sensation goes away when I take the aneros out.

At this point it’s almost distracting and I feel like takes away from my concentration.

I’m wondering if a) i need to try a different model, and b) if my rectum is just absorbing the lube too fast? I typically reapply lube at least once in the middle of the session. Also I’m wondering if I’m contracting TOO hard.

How to get support from aneros website?

I bought a toy from the aneros website two month ago, and I haven’t heard from them since. They just run away with a 100$ of mine.

Did anyone had the experience of talking with aneros support? I send then email and opened tickets on their website, and they ignored all of them.

I would buy from Amazon which I trust but they didn’t ship it internationally. So I went to buy directly from the scammers..

Now I just feel cheated out of my money by this scammy website, and got no one to get help from.

So here I decided to try Reddit.

Any advice for this situation will be appreciated!