Sometimes even when I feel okay they just don't come easily and that in turn makes it even harder. Does it happen to you? What do you do?
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Questions about boners, precum, vibrators, and getting turned on
I've got some general questions that I've been wondering lately as I continue to figure out the prostate orgasm.
I feel like I've hit a bit of a dead end doing handsfree stuff. Whenever something is in my ass, I have a hard time getting turned on. I close my eyes to visualize, and sometimes watch porn, but it's hard for me to get horny if the Aneros is inside.
When I first start, usually fresh off a movie, I can keep turned on. It feels good early on – I thrust the air a little, and sometimes the tip of my penis feels tingly. But after about 10 minutes it starts to go away.
I have no clue why I can't focus and get horny, other than maybe worrying about the ensuing mess I'll have to clean up. By that I mean lube and other fecal stuff that comes out. No matter what I do (evacuating 60 minutes prior, showering), it's always a chore to clean up. I tried using a enema bulb but holy shit that thing was sharp and really hurt my ass.
Some other things I"m pondering:
1) What does it mean when you get a boner maybe 10 minutes into a session and then it goes away?
2) What does precum mean when using an Aneros? Sometimes a little dribbles out, and then other time I get these long thick strings.
Is it bad to masturbate after a session?
Like the title says is it bad to masturbate after an unsuccessful session if you are trying to build up to a super-o?
Basic question.
What is essentially more important during this process– constant pressure on the prostate, or rubbing of the prostate?
My Sgx will start to make my insides flutter and spasm, while my Helix will sit there, twitching ever so often, but create a buzzing sensation.
What just happened? Was this the Super-O? How do I make multiples happen?
Straight male here with very limited anal play experience, save for the stray tongue or finger from a girlfriend. When instances like that would happen, I noticed I didn't shy away from them, but rather let them happen, which is what got me interested in the Progasm. That being said, I finally picked one up and decided to give it a go. The first time was rather eye opening for me. Once I got past the slight pain of the initial insertion, i settled in and got comfortable. I began to mimic the breathing techniques recommended by another post on here, along with focusing on the toy, the contractions, etc. Eventually after about an hour or so, I started to fell this euphoria come over me. I was tingling, heart racing, breathing quickly. However my brain sort of came back to reality and interrupted this state of bliss and that was that. I called it quits. The next time i decided to try it, I followed the exact same routine and achieved pretty much the exact same result. Same interruption and everything. However, i gave it another go and sort of started spacing out and just relaxing. The sensation started back up and i began to embrace it. Mind you, i'm laying on my side, knees sort of tucked up to my stomach. While this sensation is happening I begin trying to embrace it by thrusting. I'm shaking at this point while thrusting and eventually I can feel almost what a traditional orgasm would feel like when you feel it about to happen…only more intense. I kept going and finally came. hands free. It was great. However, my question is I hear so often about multiples. After that orgasm, I felt like I was absolutely done. Ive reached this 2 or 3 times now and have felt the same way after each session. Any advice?
How close am I getting and how can I go further?
Hopefully someone can tell me what I need to be doing to get past this tingly stage so I have detailed my sessions as best as possible.
There have been around 10 or so times now during sessions where I will get to the point of a warm tingly feeling building up for a few seconds and then fading.
But yesterday I was using my Nexus Revo 2 with the fast pulse mode while watching porn, it had been about 2 hours and nothing major had happened. Then I started to feel more sensation through my prostate, and had the tingly warm feeling build up, instead of fading within 5 seconds, my hands became tingly and were twitching (like a nice pins and needles), this lasted about 20 seconds and left.
The way I got there was by using the pulse settings on the second speed, lying on my back with my legs slightly raised and practiced flexing my PC muscles and holding them. This is what usually makes me feel sensations increase in my prostate. After doing this for a little bit I get semi involuntary twitches in my abs and occasional involuntary humps. After about a minute of this I start to feel a build up but quite often quickly lose it.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Advice – new to aneros. What am I doing wrong
Ok noob here. I got my aneros syn and I've used it a couple times and I just don't get it. It doesn't feel bad but not good either. I read you get erections while useing it but it's really hard. Even with a cock ring. I get slight twitching when I contract but it's not like it feels amazing. Is there something wrong with my body if it doesn't feel great? I want it to and love to experiment but I'm discouraged. Please help!!
How many days since your last orgasm should you wait?
I usually wait 4-5 days, but have gotten further sometimes depending on how aroused I was to begin with.
Transition between plateau and super-O?
Hello,
so I have been using a few of the aneros toys over the past years and couldn't get anywhere. Lately, after reading a few posts here on reddit, I could get a bit further and it's really beginning to feel awesome. My main issue was that I was clenching a bit too much with my PC and sphincter muscles. That meant that the automatic contractions where too strong and this didn't help. I just had to fine tune my grip to a bit less, just where the muscles would move the toy just a bit but not more.
So, last days I had a couple of good sessions where I got those big nice waves of pleasure all over my body but I'm pretty sure there is more to it.
I would like to know from you guys what kind of transition you observe over your body and muscles when you get into the “super-O” phase. I think I'm at the plateau just before and then my body starts to shake all around and the toy is banging so hard that I loose the sensation.
Should I relax my muscles a bit more so that I don't get that shaking at all, or should I keep the same grip?
What are your experiences?
Thanks
TLDR: What change in muscle patterns and strenght do you observe between plateau before super-O and during super-O
Would anyone be interested in a stainless steel Aneros?
I've only been using an Helix Syn for about a month now. I've been doing some reading about solid steel butt plugs (specifically the nJoy series) and many reviewers comment on the benefit of added weight. I love the form of the Aneros and I was wondering what other people thought of the possibility of adding more heft to that form. I'm betting that a solid steel Aneros model would be more expensive than most of their current line. But don't you think people would be willing to spend more on a product if it genuinely improved the experience?