I’ve been using a aneros on and off for a while with some nice progress, but last night was by best session by many times over. I could feel it hitting my prostate like a boxer working speed bag. Today when I went to the restroom there was what looked like a massive load of seminal fluid in the toilet that came out of my rectum. I’m straight, so I know it wasn’t someone else that left it there… it’s it possible for the prostate to drain into your colon? It’s possible it was lube because I use a generous amount of water-based in a syringe, but I’ve been doing it a while and have ever seen anything like it before (and this was at least 12 hours later). I’m a little concerned.
Bondage and lingerie to get arroused
I see a lot of movies with guys having their cock and balls bound, wearing a thong and/or other lingerie while playing with their Aneros or other dildo. I find that watching and dressing up myself is very hot and use this during my own sessions. I feel submissive at that point.
My questions for this group:
1. My cock and balls are bound tight and this is a very pleasant feeling. But doesn’t this counteract my goal of a prostate orgasm, in which touching my cock shifts my focus? and do you guys also have this need?
2. A thong and other lingerie is hot, but also seems unnecessary or maybe excessive to achieve my goal. What do you guys think? Is this normal (trying to figure out my preferences).
Regards, M
Your age?
I’m 65, and I’ve been at it regularly for a few months now, with my progasm. If you’re able to pgasm, how old are you? When did you get your first one?
Dry prostate orgasms (help)
have already experencied handsfree wet orgasms by prostate play, but I’m looking for dry prostate ones..
After reading a lot I decided to do the basics: abstain from cum several days before a session, relax my whole body, forget about my dick, try the do nothing method + some slight pc and anal contractions.. and I had the best session so far! Very pleasurable, horny as*, and after a while I felt things getting very intense to a point where I called a “climax”, when I felt a very subtle contraction centered in the prostate, but that was all.. this repeated for 3 more times (and were getting even more intense), but I couldnt manage to feel a full on orgasm.
Here are my questions:
1- do dry orgasms usually start like this for begginers? Very subtle “peak” feelings. If so, they get stronger with time and practice?
2- do you feel strong pelvic contractions when you have a dry orgasm? Like in a regular penile wet one. I ask this because I have yet to find dry orgasm videos with regular perineum throbbing..
Thanks a lot!
My Second Tryst
Part 2
With my eyes closed I grasped the head of my erect cock; it felt hot and smooth in my hand. Anticipation of sucking his penis had forged mine to iron hardness. I love sucking cocks and swallowing rich creamy semen. Placing my middle finger in the sulcus underneath my cock head I began to gently massage it. I did not rub hard enough to encourage ejaculation but rather just firm enough to edge myself and keep it rigid. The deep cleft that sculpts my crown was slippery from my profuse precum. Aneros practice has increased my precum flow manifold. I was pleased I was already hard for him, I wanted it to be erect, or at least firm when he saw it in person the first time. I am relatively large erect. I like showing my size to male and female partners when I am aroused; I like to flaunt my sexuality as I am an exhibitionist at heart. My fingertip began to make little circles in my cleft as I slowly swung my pelvis back and forth. I imagined I was dancing in an erotic performance for spectators; as I saidf I am a closeted exhibitionist. Looking in the mirror over the desk I opened my eyes to admire the lewd dance I was doing and the sexy image I made. I imagined that he was watching the lewd show of my sexuality. The thought of him in particular watching me made my cock ache with need. Ever since rewiring, mental imagery has played a huge role in my prostate orgasm sessions and my arousal.
Have prostate orgasms ruined regular sex for you?
I’m concerned that if I can trigger prostate orgasms that are much more enjoyable it may lead me away from regular sex and lose appetite for my partner.
My Second Tryst
Part1
I obtained my Tempo by winning it here on the Forum. HIH was holding a contest some ten or twelve years ago. The challenge was to write what Aneros meant to you and how it changed you; the prize was a new Aneros Syn, which had just been introduced. I was urged by several guys in the Forum that read my blog to submit my personal story. I wrote my story and submitted it. To my surprise I won. When I was notified, I asked the company if I might get a Tempo instead of the Syn. Tempo had been out for a while and I wanted one; I had not gotten around to buying one yet. They agreed.
A few weeks later my Tempo arrived in the mail. Later that week I tried it. It was an instant success. It was vastly more effective and responsive than my Eupho which was my favorite Aneros device until then. From that first insertion my Tempo was my go to Aneros; now it’s all I use.
At that same time I did the contest I was communicating with a fellow Aneros user about meeting for a shared session and more. He was my second hook up with a bicurious married guy for sex. My first foray into M-M sex was quick and unceremonious. We were both too nervous to really explore the mental and full physical dimensions of our desires. this time it would be different. Also this time we would use Aneros together.
Is my hole too big
Does anyone have the problem with keeping in your hole? Sometimes mine will fall out! I know my hole is big so I try to clamp down on it to keep it in
Quickest I’ve gotten pleasure!
So for the last two weeks, I haven’t played with my aneros. Today, I just decided to. Within thirty seconds, I was squirming, and my legs were jumping. I got a lot of pre cum too. I think I’m close to a super o! Anyone else only take a few seconds to get going?
Knock-off Versions
So I had heard about the Aneros and started following here on Reddit a while back.
I didn’t want to blow much on one of these so I ultimately ordered a vibrating knockoff from Amazon in May. I spent months trying to get anything that anyone here was talking about. Nothing.
Then, finally, after reading enough and getting frustrated because obviously most others were getting a good time, I ordered a Helix Syn that arrived yesterday. O.M.G. 🙌🏻
Within 30 seconds I knew what I had been missing out on. No Super O but wow, it was like going into convulsions lol.
So a big thanks to everyone that posts here for so many tips and tricks, I felt like I was able to really hit the ground running.
More importantly, for those interested in trying, get the actual product and don’t necessarily sell yourself on the need for vibration. The 30 dollar difference is very, very worth it!