Wearing aneros out in public and sleeping with it in

Hi Everyone.

I have used aneros products off and on the last 8 years probably but haven’t in the last 2. Ever since I got married I stopped using it because my wife doesn’t know about how much I like playing with my prostate (she has weird hangups about anal sex in general).

Anyways, I plan on buying one tonight at the local sex store and wearing it after my wife falls asleep. I know that may prevent me from relaxing all the way and letting go, but I want to have something in there at night. Are there any complications from wearing it while you sleep? I know having enough lube is an important thing so it doesn’t dry out. But will I wake up in the middle of the night shaking and groaning from the aneros doing it’s thing?

Also, what is the stance on wearing it out in public? I know it will stay in there, but could it cause any problems and/or embarrassment?

I can’t fucking wait to start using this again!

Flailing Legs

I know it’s not everything, but love the idea of having my legs wildly flail during my aneros sessions.

How do those guys get it to happen?

What to do when your body starts shaking?

I’m actually not sure if this was from me making some new progress with my aneros or if I was just getting cold shivers. Usually the best I would get were some pleasurable feelings in my prostate, maybe around a 2 or a 3 on a scale of 1-10. Today I started getting brief feelings that were around maybe a 5 or 6 that lasted only very briefly, this happened around the same time as my legs and parts of my body started shaking. I literally don’t know if it was from my aneros or because maybe I was cold. Either way I lost the good 5-6 feelings I was having and was back to around 2-3 or lower and the shaking stopped around there as well. After that I couldn’t get back to where I was either and it was like nothing was happening, and this was about 2 hours into the session and I couldn’t keep going much longer. Next time what should I do when the shaking starts if it is indeed being caused by my aneros? Or any tips on how to get there again because that’s never happened to me before and idk if I can get back there, or if it was actually just cold shivers how to get there for the first time?

Pull out or keep it pushed in to the max?

Hi guys,

I’ve had pretty decent success with a little bit of hand assisted motion. Regardless of the toy, I adjust.

My goal is to have the super O or ejaculate release beyond the series of mini-orgasms. I feel like I’m hitting a wall.

My question is this: When the pressure builds to a crescendo, I feel amazing! And the toy gets stuck and no movement is possible.. or at least slightly. But if I take a deep breath … it slips away. What should I do here?

I also play around with pulling the toy out at the top of the mini-orgasm. That gets me flowing and it is a different pleasure – but doesn’t seem to sustain. I thought it might because my wife gets the same pressure build up as she tries to squeeze my dick out. When it finally gets forced out by the power of her vagina, blam, she’s a squirting/cumming machine.

So it would seem to me that maybe pulling out and the sudden release of pressure is a good tactic?

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Sorry! Confused!

Helix Trident too small

I purchased my Helix Trident a month ago and have used it a few times over way weekend. From the get go I found the size underwhelming and between sessions found my fingers could consistently hit my prostate directly compared to it.

I ordered my Progasm and it’s just arrived today and seeing the difference in size seems like night and day of what I’ve wanted to enjoy for prostate massages. Excited to use this tomorrow

Vice 2 Size (discomfort)

Recently (around 6 months ago) bought an Aneros Helix trident and have had great success so far, with each session generally getting closer to a Super-o, with the help of a THC vape – feels like I’m always just about there before the feelings disappear and they start to build again. Constant involuntary shaking, clenching and waves etc I’m happy to stick at it and see where I get.

I decided to purchase a Vice 2 thinking I’d prefer something bigger and to experiment with the vibrations – browsed the range and figured it would do the job! No prior experience with prostate massage but wasn’t scared off by the additional size.

I’ve now probably tried the Vice 2 a couple, maybe three times but once it’s in all the way I find it’s a little uncomfortable, not terrible pain or anything but enough to stop me being able to relax fully – changing positions is noticeably worse. No problems at all inserting it, but once it slides into place it’s like a slightly sharp pain which feels like it’s overshooting or just hitting a tender spot.

Has anyone experienced this? And is this something that your body acclimatises to eventually, or am I just gonna have to take the hit and stick with the helix. Could just be the wrong shape for me.

Question about the PC muscle from an anal veteran but aneros newbie

I recently ordered the helix syn trident as that was recommended for new comers and it arrives tomorrow, apologies in advance for being descriptive. I’ve been reading here and on the website that having control of your sphincter and PC muscles is key for maximum enjoyment. Now it’s pretty clear what the sphincter muscle is, but for the PC I’m not quite sure. Is that the muscle you can flex that causes a bit of tightening further up inside your rectum, similar to what a woman can do to squeeze you when you’re inside of her? Now I’m sure it may not be the same exact thing but is that analogous to the PC in men? I have two very distinct points of muscle control and there and as someone who has a bit of experience down there with dildos and such I was just pondering that I might already be in a good place muscle control wise to enjoy my new aneros.

Thanks to anyone who can chime in

Guys, I gotta say, relaxation IS KEY!

So, let me say this: I am not a guy who normally indulges in any drugs or alcohol, but when my sister, who lives in the downstairs part of my duplex while I live in the upstairs part with my GF, offered me some of her “special” brownies? Well, between being quarantined all the time and losing my mind I said sure.

Let me tell you, once it kicked in? Not only did I feel relaxed, my prostate just freaking ACTIVATED! Like I just laid back on my bed in the position I would normally have my Aneros session in and within minutes, literal minutes, Super Orgasm. And I mean full blown, body shaking, pleasure only thing I can think of, mind blowing Super Orgasm.

And it just kept going for hours. All with nothing in there.

This was yesterday and I’m still feeling some very nice pleasure down there.

I won’t lie, I may consider asking for another in a couple days to see if it was a fluke or not. Purely for science, of course.

Tingling in prostate between sessions?

I’ve been using my Helix Syn on and off now for just less than a year, with varying levels of success. However, recently I feel like I’ve been understanding my body more and having a bit more luck as a result. I haven’t yet had a super-O, although I can feel myself getting closer, and am getting lots of fluttering and involuntaries during my sessions (I’m currently trying the “quick and dirty” method).

Just in the last week I’ve started to notice that between my sessions I’m getting this interesting sensation in and around my prostate, when I’ve not got the toy in. It’s like a tingling, tickling sensation, which reminds me of a sense of yearning almost. I’m finding that when I focus on this sensation it increases and if I start to clench my muscles ever so slightly it can lead to little flutters and even some precum.

Has anyone else had this experience? Is this part of the prostate awakening process?