What stimulation does everyone use during a session? Photos? Videos? Or nothing?
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Lessons learned, never use soap
I bought my first aneros, though I have used cheap anal vibrators in the past with no pleasure despite extracting pre-cum (and a flaccid dick). However, when I inserted this aneros for the first time, I did not even feel it slide in and I actually felt full body pleasure that people talk about and got a rock hard penis without touching myself…for about 10 seconds
I made a stupid mistake I had previously read about and touched my penis for a couple strokes and shakes. Big mistake, because the pleasures left me. Since I was in the shower, I took it out, washed it off, rubbed it with soap for lube…and put it back in………yeeeaaa no. Worst thing I could have done! My ass stung like I ate a bowl of chili peppers the previous day.
The worst part is, ever since then, maybe three weeks ago, each time I put it in, I haven’t felt pleasure and if anything, a lingering burning sensation.
What can I do to earn back the trust of my body? I know it takes a lot of relaxation, but I am wondering what I might be able to do in addition to that?
My Body notices — But I dont!
Ok so I’ve been getting into prostate stimulation for about a year and a half now.
Only recently have I gotten to the point where i get “the shakes”. I’ve gotten it with an Aneros, as well as with other toys.
I actually shake pretty violently, and I’m pretty sure I had a full body orgasm at one point.
I say “pretty sure”, because i started shaking more and more, until I shook really violently and then it kind of subsided.
The problem is, I didn’t feel any pleasure!
It was like my body was moving ahead of me and having a grand old time, but my brain didn’t send out any pleasure stimulants.
Does anyone recognize this, and what do you suggest I do? I’m worried my prostate is “broken” in the way where I don’t feel the pleasure everyone else is feeling. Or maybe I’m just impatient/not relaxed enough/not focusing on the right thing?I’d appreciate any advice!
First Time [Probable] Prostate Sensation: Holy Cow, What Just Happened?
I… I am simply trying to grasp what happened. Sorry this is long but I need to type this out.
Introduction. Bought an Aneros years ago. Couldn’t figure out how to enjoy it properly. Put it away for a few years, brought it back out every once in awhile to try again but still, no luck. About 2 months ago I decided to really put some effort into it, really practice, so I started placing it in during the later evening and just relaxing. Vaping some weed, sitting on the couch and just letting myself be.
Then for the first time ever, after about an hour or so, I felt something. Something different. It didn’t feel good per se, but it was a sensation in a region of my body I never had felt before. The first few times I did this, I thought, “I’m just high, this is all in my head. I’m pretending this sensation is there.” But with more times just sitting there with it in and high, it started pinpointing it more. One night, I had dozed off with it in, and suddenly woke up to something pulsing underneath. It was pleasurable, and I suddenly realized that this was not in my head. Went and sat on my bed and just let it happen. It felt good, but I didn’t feel rushed. You know how when you’re stimulating your penis, and it feels so damn good, but if you stop, it just feels… wrong somehow? Like it’s almost upsetting, you HAVE to keep going or you’re the experience will not be worth it? You just NEED to keep going? This sensation is different. It’s like, and I’m synesthetic so bare with me here, penile sensation is sharp, pointed and linear: it demands more and more. But this new sensation? It felt more circular, spherical, like a soft bubble floating up from the depths and pushing my insides. I didn’t care if it increased, it just felt really nice. For years I had never understood how my wife (and other women) could say that sex felt great *even if they didn’t orgasm*. It just didn’t make sense! How could you not want to finish? Doesn’t it make you feel antsy, almost angry if you don’t?
Can the Helix Syn be too small?
I’ve recently been trying mine out again but I’m not having much luck achieving any lasting sensations. The first time I put it in the other day, I had a mild sensation that resulted in a boner, but that slowly disappeared. It felt more like I could feel my heartbeat. The past couple of times I’ve tried, I’ve had nothing though.
My muscles seemed fairly relaxed (I think). The only other thing I can think of is that I haven’t felt properly horny in a long time, but I’d have thought the sensation alone would help with that. Could the toy itself be too small? I know the helix syn is an beginners one.
something different for me…
After walking around for about 10 min I am now sitting at my desk with a helix inserted…surfing reddit and reading about funstuff while squirming in my seat. It feels greatand making tons of pre – just flowing… Bottom line I just thought I should share that with everone that cares…
I recomend it as an experiment to see what kind of sinsations can be created….wow
Knowing when the right spot is hit?
Is that tingling sensation I’m feeling when I’m doing a “kegel squeeze” the prostate being stimulated? My last session I tried having my feet off my bed and propped up on a box (imagine the happy baby yoga pose) and was feeling a lot more sensation. Anyone else have that? Also that urination/ejaculation feeling, should I back off and relax more as I start to feel that? I feel like I’m getting closer towards this next level but I’m falling a little short each time.
First time
I finally had my first supper O last Saturday morning. I started out relaxing for two hour then bam my butt was wanting to lock up. It sucked the helix in so deep I wanted to clinch but kept telling myself to relax. Next thing I know I’m getting that feeling I’m cumming, but nothing is coming out. Lasted a long time felt like minutes, all this time my butt is sucking on the helix like mad with my spinster buzzing like ants walking around it. Then my butt let’s off and I’m trying to catch my breath. It starts again to clinching. I go though this for an hour got to the point I had to stop. Two days later my butt is still buzzing. Can’t wait to try again.
In what point (milestones in the text) you are on your journey with Aneros?
And what model(s) you have? And how much time you’ve been on this journey?
I have the Helix Trident and the Progasm and I’ve been on this journey for around a year. I would say I’m at the point of Definite pleasure produced by contracting, but not always.
First insertion
No P-tab discomfort when relaxed
No internal discomfort when relaxed
No P-tab discomfort when contracted
No internal discomfort when contracted
Generally comfortable when inserted and relaxed
Observation of slight good feelings
Slight sense of leaking
Slight sense of needing to urinate (contact with prostate)
Identifiable contact with prostate
Doing a set of contractions comfortably
Holding light sphincter contractions
Integrating deep breathing
Definite leaking produced by contracting
Definite pleasure produced by contracting
Definite feeling of contact on prostate
Identification of “sweet spot”
Pleasure at “sweet spot”
No longer believing that “…this model doesn’t fit me…”
Arousal amplification by vocalization, breathing, manual stim of secondary erogenous zones or held contractions.
Observation of slight involuntary contractions
General pleasure throughout session
P-wave
Successive P-waves
Rock hard erection
Twitching
Pleasure at voluntary pelvic thrusting
Integrating pelvic thrusting and contracting
Large muscle quaking (no pleasure)
Continuous internal pleasure
Definite sense of ongoing subtle involuntary contraction
Sense of pleasure caused by blood pulse internally
Significant large muscle quaking with pleasure
Real excitement at thought of next session
Sustained pleasure during sessions
Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions
Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions
Ability to leak outside of sessions
Sense that the Aneros is satisfying a special prostate “itch”
Very significant pleasure during sessions
Moaning during sessions
Sense of arousal moving toward something
Surprise attack of very serious pleasure
Involuntary clamping, without sense of climax
Involuntary clamping with hint of climax
Involuntary clamping with definite feeling of light orgasm (Mini-O)
Ability to maneuver the Aneros to control placement of pleasure internally
Intensely pleasurable involuntary clamping that is clearly a Dry-O
Chain reaction Dry-Os (O-zone)
Disbelief that this can actually be for real
Very deep orgasm distinctly centered in rectum: anal orgasm
Extremely intense prostate orgasm
Dry orgasm without Aneros (chair orgasm)
Aneros moving distinctly on its own, creating unexpected pleasure
Aneros moving in long strokes (auto-f***), creating intense pleasure
Unexpected extremely strong orgasm that knocks the reality out of you: Super-O
Continuous Super-Os directed at different parts of the body
Full body Super-O
Multiple, sequential full body Super-Os
Ability to have Super-Os on demand
This toy and other play leading to less erections?
I’ve been pretty active using my Aneros a lot along with other anal toys (strap ons ect) and just recently noticed I can’t seem to get an erection. Is this common?? Has this happened to anyone else? I recently had test levels tested and was just fine, if anyone has a similar experience let me know. Thanks!!!