Ok I ordered a helix syn and a progasm, also some water based lubricant. I was wondering if i should prepare for it at all? It will be my first time with an aneros should I abstain from masturbation and sex to increase my arousal? Should I already be flexing and doing contractions?
Embracing "The Way of Aneros"
Giving my body a rest after my last short session of OMG is this really happening to me. I have been thinking about what I want to do with lubes. Currently I use a little Astro Glide, shoot the Aneros water base lube and Vaseline my Aneros. Reading about use of Shea Butter and Coconut Oil I have been looking at possibly trying it. I went to Whole Foods and purchased a tub of Shey Butter but did not like the looks of the coconut oil. So this morning I am getting ready for work and the Mrs. was running to a quick appointment. Next thing I know I am lubing up with Shey Butter and inserting the new Helix Classic that I had yet to try. I enjoyed the quick ride and got dressed before the Mrs came back and she asked is everything all right? Yes dear I was on the phone and I am just leaving. My bottom is feeling good for the day. Tomorrow I hope to find session time while the wife is working. Embracing my training… SoFunLoving
Once more unto the breach!
All the recent activity here has made me feel like I need to get back into the saddle again with my Aneros.
I bought mine a few months ago, and in the first month or so, I was able to get some nice feelings going, but would always start touching myself after a while and finishing off using my hands. This was still very good and satisfying, and frankly, many times better than just using my hands alone, but not quite what I bought it for.
After that honeymoon period, I tried to go hands-free and see how far I could get, but I wasn't able to get back to even where I was before. It just felt flat using it. I'd get a little tingle every now and then, but not much else.
So, I stopped using the Aneros and switched over to using a dildo, which I kind of prefer, because it feels really sexy to ride and I love the physicality of thrusting it deep inside me.
But, like I said, all the talk here has made my butt lust for the Aneros and it's sweet promise of a super-O. So, I am going to go for it again.
I think I've got a few things that I'm going to try differently this time:
1) Use coconut oil – I usually use water-based lubes, but I think that before, it would dry up too fast and I wasn't getting the slickness that I need for the Aneros.
Can’t believe it happened already
I bought an aneros four days ago. Until now I was never interested in anal play, but I've seen some videos of men using it and it looked fun (and a little bit scary, with all the twitching and stuff). I also bought a simple prostate massager, because I was in an adventurous mood that day. I read a lot about having to wait a long time to "cross over" and reach an anal orgasm (or Super-O), that's why I was pleasantly surprised when today, after four days and four sessions only, I had an experience that can only be described as "prostate ecstasy". Calling it "orgasm" is not really correct, because an orgasm ends, but what I experienced was continuous. Wave after wave of pleasure. Even at "low tide" the sensation was strong enough to lose almost all control over my body. I was shivering, gasping and laughing all at the same time. And even now, after more than 4 hours the beautiful feeling echoes.
What I felt today was more intense than any orgasm I ever had and that's why I decided to post my way of achieving it, hoping it might help someone else.
One size does NOT fit all
My extensive experimentation yielded an epiphany. I tried to hold my Helix so it does not come too close and that's what made the damn thing work. I feel so stupid because I was complaining that it goes too far all the time.
Alas, I did not come, it was at the end of a very long session and I felt tired too. What I did was that I quickly made a P-tab extension. I cut off a cork from a Port wine stopper, made a cut wide enough to hold on and a quick try felt pretty good.
In my next session I continued where I left off, I was trying to lie on the floor (the hard surface does seem to make positions on my back not interfere with the handle). I tried various positions, unfortunately I got to pee after 30 minutes but I tried again. After another 30 minutes I tried my trusty chair position and that has caused me the most intense sensation, once I thought I am close to orgasm but the extension was pulled downwards from P-tab. I tried again and almost got on the same path but after 70 or more minutes total the lube was all dried up (I didn't use much by the way and it still worked!).
So what did I learn from this?
- It should at least feel nice all the time
- It isn't something you do, it's all about the position, angle and pressure (even all kinds of contractions suddenly felt good).
September 9
For quite a while I maintained two separate sex lives, MMO and sex with J. However, the last two weeks have witnessed a curious joining of the two. They have come together to entwine in a complex tango of sexual intimacy, sensual experience and mindful emotions. The wall between the very internally focused and intensely pleasurable sensation of MMO and its ability to turn my thoughts into molten waves of orgasmic rapture and the highly emotional intimacy of coupling with J or coaxing her pussy to convulse in orgasm with my tongue has broken down. Those two worlds now are twisted together like the strands of a rope. It is impossible to discern one from the other as I look down the rope.
I have also written many times about my sexuality being like a kaleidoscope. In MMO or in the sensual diversity of my sexual activity with J, each moment reveals an exquisitely pleasurable sensation, profoundly moving emotion or a riveting sexual response. Each day is a new experience; the magnetic pull of eroticism on my iron cock and the tender merciless song of sweet erotic rapture tantalize my prostate and anus changes from one day to the next.
Short Session big results
From work I looked at the time and decided I could make it home 45 – 60 minutes ahead of the Mrs. I let my work sit till the next day. Went to the bathroom locked up and headed home for a quick alone time. I had no time to spare if I wanted to have a visit with my Aneros friend. I washed and lubed up and decided on Helix-Syn to take a ride with. I put my phone on the bed knowing I would get a call when she was on her way. My buddy had snapped into place and I thought to my self hum… I laid on my left side and then relaxed into my breathing. OMG is all I keep saying about this experience. My Syn had a lot to show me and I felt at home with it. I was schooled well here on site and I knew how to listen. I was relaxing and pushing away to let Syn into my being. My inner G spot enveloped the feeling and did not let up. when I got riding so rapidly I just slowed down and went back to breathing and Syn kept nudging me and I kept enveloping it like I found my true sexual self and was so happy. After awhile I knew when to give a loving contraction maybe up to half strength and Syn would dive into the hot spot to drive me crazy. OMG you see I was totally doing this my way and felt happy with myself. My buddies are awesome. Yea my wife called I picked up as I was being taken by Syn and that gave me a 20 min count down. After 18 min I got up put my swimsuit on and went out to the pool. Leaning back on my noodle floating with legs up on the steps rocking back and forth with a contentment from being pleasured. Hello honey how was your day. When I got out of the pool I removed Syn and made some tea. Alone time is my key to bliss. Yes my cock got hard and pre cum everywhere and it felt good. woke up this morning with a woody that just did not want to quit. Wow I feel good and yes I am an Arneos Nympho. I have an Eupho-Syn on my to wish list now as well. I still haven't screwed the classic Helix yet. SoFunLoving…
Question about the packaging.
I was thinking about buying an aneros, but right now I'm in college and packages are all sent to the same place. I don't want to get any weird looks so I was wondering if it comes in a standard cardboard box or if it will be labeled.
I know this is a dumb question but it's really the only thing keeping me from buying one right now.
"Satisfied…"
Whoa! Interesting night. Last evening around 8pm, had a session with the Helix with very intense rolling DO's. Took 20 min to warm up the prostate before inserted. After maybe 15 min, had a series of very intense Solid FULL ON prostate DO's that just wouldn't dissipate for I suspect 20 min. That was followed by series of strong running DO's for the remaining 15 min. Then I got up removed the Helix, and continued my evening with family.
Later at midnight when I went to bed, wondered if my prostate was still warmed, and decided to see what would happen A–Less.
Did some kegels to start off and kept them up occasionally. Felt like the prostate was still active and after short time, had another long rolling set of intense DO's, but this was different, because afterwards I just felt good and satisfied. Think it was actually a mild Super–O, because I could just feel a slight overall body warmth, but just barely perceptible. At one point I wondered about my poor right nipple. I'd been pressing it pretty hard, the orgasm feelings wer quite strong, I wondered it it would feel hurt, but no foul! Just very sensitive later on.
After I tired out, I just felt really good, rested, peaceful, and went off to sleep soundly.
Aneros + Cock Hero?
For those who don't know, cock hero videos are a combination of porn and guitar hero like prompts telling you went to stroke. There is a little indicator on the bottom of the screen and dots that move along to the rhythm of the music, and you're supposed to stroke when the dots cross the indicator, keeping rhythm.
I decided to try this with my aneros in place, but instead of stroking my cock, I was doing kegels to the beat. Or trying to, as the beat was pretty fast.
Anyways, I found it quite enjoyable, and wondered if anyone else had tried this.