My Sexuality, My Fantasies and the Tao of Eros

Tao: the unconditional and unknowable source and guiding principle of all reality; the process of nature by which all things change and which is to be followed for a life of harmony. The Tao is the path, the art or the skill of doing something in harmony with the core meaning of life.

It is 20 years ago that I began this journey of sexual discovery; after all this time I now realize that my purpose has been to pursue the Tao of Eros; but it didn’t start out that way. When I began walking in this path of sexual discovery, my simplistic goal was to seek higher levels of arousal. Along the way I came to the realization that I also wanted to better understand female sexual response so I could be a better lover.

I discovered the opportunity of the Tao of Eros when I discovered Tantric Sex Practice in the first year or so. With my new knowledge I sought out eastern thought and philosophy as the first steps along the path. I read books and I did retreats in Tantra, Zen and Taoism; I studied some of the theory behind Kundalini Yoga. I read books on Extended Male Orgasm and Male Multiple Orgasm.

Those early intellectual efforts years ago opened my mind to so much more than kinky means to seek arousal. As I looked to increase my libido I gained sexual proficiency, instead of pushing horniness to new heights, instead I discovered new pathways to orgasm. Finally I discovered the power of eroticism and subsequently became a sensual man who followed the Tao of Eros. Read more »

Sleeping with syn

After resting 2 nights and the pending travel time this evening was my last chance to spend with my friend Helix. I lubed up well and went to bed. Very nice falling asleep with the prostate being massaged. I woke up slightly aroused and need to urinate. I was able to pee with out removal which I did not know I was wired to do so already. Decided to re-lube and spend the night. Nothing to report happening but have spent an enjoyable day with my bottom feeling so good. Sometimes that is enough. I know the way to higher plateau's for myself is Alone time not sleeping with the wife. I am away visiting my sister for the rest of the week and will be very horny returning to my friends. I am so looking forward to the alone time that I can continue the rewiring. I received my original Helix today so when I return I can compare the models. I am sure each has it's place with me. I am thinking the Syn for all night stays and the original for session only. We shall see… SoFunLoving

My Two Orgasmic Worlds Join

When I first started my journey of sexual discovery 20 years ago, I had no idea what intriguing and life altering things I would find. Then 10 years ago I stumbled into MMO totally by accident. It happened while surfing the net; MMO and anal pleasure sounded too good to be true but the testimonials convinced me to try it. So ten years ago I bought an MGX and my journey in anal orgasm began resulting after a year or so in my rewiring.

Anal induced MMO brought together the tantric sex that I had been studying and enjoying with J and it even incorporated some of the Zen Meditation that I had been )and still am( practicing and it changed my sexual respose pattern forever.

MMO is a very solitary inwardly focused activity for me. On the other hand, savoring J’s pussy with my mouth or penis is very outwardly focused; it is an activity where we participate together. Either I am sharing the warm lush pungency of her dewy pussy mouth on my tongue or I am plunging my steely penis deep in her pussy probing her vagina and savoring the exquisitely sensual caress of her warm wet femininity on my cock. Either way it is a paired activity in which the visceral desperate ache of shared erotic sensation is enjoyed mutually; most of the time it culminates in the ecstatic torrential flow of my semen for her witness or taste, or the euphoric rhythmic spasms of her pussy as she succumbs to orgasm. Read more »

So Far Best way to Warm Up Prostate

So far it looks like the best way for me to warm up and get my prostate hard is to lay on my left side and do a bunch of PC contractions and lower ab pushes until my prostate starts to feel electric shocks like a chiropractors muscle machine. Then I can seek to find a muscle state that keeps the buzzing on constant, then really get good orgasms.

Sometimes, it really magnifies the contractions to take my hand and pull on my top butt–cheek to spread the cheeks apart. Don't know why this works, but it makes it really easy to feel every muscle movement inside my groin. Maybe it's just a mental thing or maybe it tightens up the muscles around the prostate.

Had the most intense dry–O's so far last night. Had tried yesterday morning to get my prostate to have the electric buzz, but no matter what I did, it just wouldn't go there. It was definitely being aroused, but something was blocking it.

That night however, it was different. Took 15 minutes of warmup, but then my prostate got rock hard – like I could feel a bulge inside my groin. I really want to refer to this state as the prostate having a hard–on. It really feels like that. In this state, it's super easy to generate an Orgasm… Read more »

Well, I guess the Helix does work!

08/28/2015 8:44 AM

WOW, had amazing session of Dry–Os las night with my Helix.

I'd been staying away from the helix because I could just never get anywhere with it. Hard to feel it against the prostate, and even harder to find a Dry–O with it, and if I did it would be after a LOT of work.

So I focused on A–Less dry–Os and learned ways to arouse my prostate mostly from aneros forum posters. So yesterday, I said in a chat message that I really preferred A–Less orgasms over Helix ones… What an idiot!!!!!

So, last night after getting off chat, I figured I'd spend some time orgasming before bed, and I'd been winding up my prostate thru the evening and it was still a bit aroused from the other night. So I figured I'd get to it's hard–on state and then put the Helix in to see how it reacted…

WOAH…I feel like I've never had so much pleasure in bed. I get slightly aroused just thinking about it. I can feel my prostate from last night.. Was bouncing in bed for like an hour, and my groin muscles are sore… The p–waves felt so strong, and just didn't stop coming. Wish I could have been alone in the house as I would have been bouncing and vocal. My groin feels like it had tough work–out and needs a rest! Read more »

Found Reliable way for me to get Dry-O's with Helix

Had another intense session today with the Helix. Did the same as last session – warmed up the prostate without the helix till I could feel it itching occasionally, then when the prostate was more aroused to the point of feeling it swelled occasionally, I inserted the Helix.

It worked great again. I just use petrolium jelly and have a limited time between re-lubing. As it is, I had to re-lube once after that.

Wow, I had a few small dry-O's, but had to continue PCs and nipple stim for maybe 30 minutes. Eventually, the prostate was so aroused that I could feel the Pwaves )tingling( with every movement. Then I started to find reliable Dry-O's.

I kept that up for 30 min, and eventually, the prostate got even MORE aroused, so I could also feel it swollen inside all the time.

Then the fun really started!!!

I noticed that my scrotum sack was becoming really sensitive, when I was rubbing my knees together during some of the Dry-O's. So figured I'd just try kneeding my ballsack. Man, that was wonderful. Worked at that for 30 minutes. Got to where I could just run my hand across my balls and get excellent pleasurable feelings. I was kneeding it like Pizza dough.

Previously I'd had T-O's from massaging my ball sack, bu this time, my testicals weren't turtling up, and I wasn't feeling the semen build up. I think that the prostate was SO sensitive, that I wasn't haveing any problem focusing on the prostate no matter what else I was rubbing. Read more »

Dry wet dreams

I was able to swim, lube up and give it a session. At Midnight I decided to give it a midnight swim and off to bed. I awoke twice with dry wet dreams. My G spot was throbbing with strong erection. I am riding P waves all day today. I am ready to ride again but don't know if I will have the chance. I think a rest is in order as well even though I feel like a nympho. The MUZE came today and I most likely will put it in the wife's Christmas stocking… I ordered Aneros MGX classic just because. Sofunloving

Anal play is a lot messier than what I’ve read

I've been messing around with an NJoy Pure Wand and Aneros Helix Syn for a few months now. Sometimes I can get a good feeling, but I haven't exactly had a fantastic time.

Part of that is because how much trouble it is to clean up afterwards.

I take a dump at least an hour before doing anything anal. I wash my asshole really well before putting anything in it. I have not used an enema, although I'm not sure that will change all that much.

When I finally pull either toy out, there are brown stains and maybe even a bit of shit on the toy. The smell is terrible. There's usually brown/watery stains on the towel when I'm finished, a mix of shit and lube. After thoroughly cleaning the Helix Syn with soap and water, it still has a pretty gross smell to it.

Last week, I used the Pure Wand and somehow triggered my system to shit everywhere. I ended up wiping my ass forever. I barely even had it inside me.

It's really hard to get horny and do anal play when I know how aggravating the cleanup is going to be. As you can tell, I'm frustrated, and I almost want to just stick with jerking off to avoid cleanup.

Tried for months, still hasn’t worked for me! Please advise…

So I've tried about once a week or once every other week for months now, and still have yet to have any success. The best I've done was using the aneros hypnosis file – I think having something give me instructions helps. However, I'll keep contracting and pushing and won't have anything like an orgasm. Sometimes it makes my bladder feel full, I will go and empty it and will have lost any desire at that point. More often than that, I will get the worst case of blue balls ever. Even a traditional o won't cure it. I never get erect, have precum or any type of orgasmic sensation, and really eventually just loose my desire. I'm open to any suggestions – unfortunately marijuana is not an option (I've heard it helps).

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Finding Bliss

I rushed home to have a session before the wife got home. She ended it after 90 minutes. I took a quick swim and lubed up. I was feeling really good and just relaxed into my session breathing and not contracting. At the right moment a minor contraction from the dick but mostly releasing and letting it go and have a mind of its own. I have found I have a contraction that is directed by my dick towards my prostate is more subtle then my bottom contracting. This was a good discovery. So much information on this site. Over all very good session but 2 times I really started falling down the rabbit hole. I must say it was finding Bliss and I have a taste now how good it can get. I am coming for you Super-O. Playing with my nipples helped a lot just letting go. I slept through the night and woke up feeling really good. I am hoping for a late night session tonight. I will be traveling and won't have time next week so getting it on while I can. SoFunLoving