Hi, I've recently started experimenting with the prostate, and while I haven't experienced the super-O, I definitely enjoy it, so I've decided to buy a toy. I think I've decided on the Aneros Helix Syn and for lube, I am thinking about this one. I wanted to run it past you to be absolutely positive that they are compatible, and maybe see if anyone had recommendations for a different water based lube.
Tried it recently with just a finger, and i just ejaculted.
I want to abstain from ejaculating cuz my i get mentally foggy as hell. however last time i tried this i just ended up ejaculating, end the orgasm itself wasn't even all that good. might i have done something wrong?
A quickie and anticipation
Wow, it's been awhile. Due to a busy summer schedule, there's been no "me" time. Finally yesterday before work there was some alone time. While watching some porn, I became overcome by desire and so after lubing up the Maximus, standing in front of the computer I dropped my shorts and briefs, and slowly guided the now slippery tip of the maximus inside me. Since it had been at least a month, I was pretty tight, so I took it slow. From watching some intense porn, I was already leaking pre-cum, but as the head of the maximus touched the sweet spot inside, more sweet fluid leaked out of my semi-erect cock. I desperately wanted to continue, but time ran out, so I had to end my fun for the day with just a few little sensations that were produced after contracting my anal sphincter. But Friday promises to leave me with ample time for a nice, long overdue session with the Ice and Maximus. Stay tuned!
Another mini-O after months and months.
I finally have had another mini-O with my Progasm! And it was glorious feeling! Only about 7.5 months since my last one. And it hasn't been for a lack of trying. What I find odd is that this was only a few hours later after I had a super-T today. Totally unexpected as my ass and prostate was feeling rather aroused and ready for another Aneros session. I had forgotten how the orgasmic feeling spreads outwards while the involuntary anal contractions happen and there is this feeling of giving in to it. So wonderful feeling, and certainly kind of dream like too. I wanted it to go on and on, but it only lasted probably as long as a regular ejaculatory orgasm. And I wasn't able to make any others happen within the same session.
What I find interesting was that I was focusing on and paying attention to this imaginary convergence of where the stimulation of the perineum from the P tab occurs and the Aneros body stimulating my prostate. That's what seemed to make it happen while relaxing, letting it happen, and stimulating my nipples. Damn it was good! I so want to be able to do this rather regularly! I'm confounded as to what the answer is for that to happen. It's been over eight years since I started this journey. I've certainly been a slow grinder making progress. Ah well… I'll take what I can get. It was amazing feeling to have this tonight and I'm thankful for it.
Mental baggage blocking super-o?
Recently I've been having issues achieving super-o's, which used to come to me like second nature. I'm thinking either, the form of my "swing" is off (baseball analogy) or my mental state/personal problems are mentally blocking me from achieving the 4th state of arosal.
I'm very VERY bad at controlling my emotions and ignoring my stressors. IRL I suppress my emotions rather than confront them and use them as a strength, and I'm thinking this is stopping me from getting horny enough for a super-o.
From my experiences, my revo 2 or aneros will start stimulating the anal walls by my prostate, and contractions that "stroke" and "massage" the toy feels awesome, and this will awaken my prostate. I can feel when it's happening, and I usually have to "motivate" myself to get a super o. By motivate I mean maintaining heavy breathing, small hip movements, and dirty talk to myself. When these things happen I know I'm at the 4th level of arosal.
But they aren't happening. Instead my mind wanders off.
Any advice on how to let go of my baggage? My real life problems aren't going away any time soon, but I was able to achieve super o's before. Maybe I'm not doing enough "forplay" before the main event?
Thoughts?
Thanks guys
Not so Silent Seduction
His lips are clean now, but I dare not stop kissing him. It started off me just wanting to lick my nectar from his lips…now he's become my fountain of youth…I cant stop drinking from him if I tried. This journey is far from over if I have anything to say about it. My heart is racing…I'm sure I look something akin to cartoons when their heart beats out of their chest when they see something/someone who they love/want. I feel powerful & weak all at the same time. I never kiss with my eyes open…but with him the connection is so deep I cant look away. His glare is searing…he breaks off our kiss but his eyes never stray from mine. He takes my hand and stands guiding me over to the huge window overlooking my city. Its dark outside, we're only 4 floors up, cars are passing on the street below. Its dark inside so outsiders cant really see us clearly but we can see them. There are no window coverings…just floor to ceiling glass. He pulls me close to him enveloping me in his embrace and capturing my lips. We stand there wrapped in each other passionately kissing naked not caring who might see. His hard hot cock is throbbing against my thigh, I want him inside me…my girly parts are weeping again.
My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN
I purchased my first prostate massage toy, an Aneros Helix SYN, one and a half month ago and would like to share my personal journey with you. I haven't yet experienced an orgasm with it, but reading the Aneros wiki as well as personal experiences of other users helped me understanding my body better. Questions, comments and suggestions are welcome.
My pre-Aneros experience
One of my favorite things to do (if time permits) is watching porn without touching my penis. I like the warm, pulsating feeling, the feeling of my erect penis rubbing against the fabric of my underwear and I also enjoy the flow of pre-cum. I guess this started when I was a teenager and couldn't whip out my dick in front of the computer. I still do this sometimes until I got quite a bit of pre-cum in my pants. I have never experienced a hands-free orgasm in all these years. At some point I get so horny that I need to jerk off using my hands.
Sometime around 2008 I discovered a video of someone using an Aneros. Interest in Hand-free orgasms and prostate milking led me to exploring my own anal canal and prostate. I had (and have to this day) severe problems finding my prostate with my finger. I did manage to get a flow of pre-cum running, but I didn't find the whole experience very enjoyable. Although I didn't find a magical button that is giving me instant pleasure, I enjoyed getting to know my body a bit better.
How I had a (mostly) hands free traditional O using Helix and Binaural Beats (repost of comment from another thread)
This is the Binaural Beats I listened to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7CNhlUEndkc – I listened to it twice – and used the helix syn. The first time, I lay on my stomach, and the second time, on my back. About every 30 seconds, one of the frequencies goes super low and increases for the next 30 seconds. As it increases, I would contract the helix in, and when it resets low, I would relax and even push it out a little bit – and then contract it back in further and further for the next 30 seconds. By the time the 30 seconds were up, I would have the helix sucked in as far as it would go and I would start to shake, waiting for the next 'reset low'. I did manage to fall asleep for part of the time (hey! it's relaxing!, and I couldn't continue to contract and relax for almost the entire hour), but when I woke up, I started the contracting and relaxing again. Near the end of the second time, I pulled the base of my shaft down (stretching the skin) and came without touching my cock except for pulling the skin tight at the base.
Several months later and the Helix Syn still feels like nothing. Could it be too short to touch my prostate?
I've been using this thing about twice a week and still have yet to really feel anything amazing.
I've gotten to the point where my pelvic floor muscles are stronger and can hold tension longer – they used to be so weak I couldn't hold a contraction.
The only time I ever feel anything is when I'm on all fours. I can sort of do this twerking thing (man I hate that word) where my butt and thighs contract, but I can't say it feels great. If anything, it's just tiring.
I bought a glass Onyx the other day to toy around with. Although I could sometimes get it to feel really good, I largely couldn't feel much at all unless it went in really deep. Since this thing is longer than the Helix Syn, I'm wondering if the Syn could just be too short. I'm not tall or anything, just 5'11.
Any help is cool
My Fantasy During A Less
I was on my own last night, as J and my daughter went out to see a movie. They have become movie partners going to see chick flicks that I have no patience for. It is good for them both to have a close person to indulge their female entertainment predilections. I was left home to walk the dog and get on line to indulge my prurient male erotic tendencies.
I couldn’t find any on line friends to chat with so I indulged myself and got on Porn Hub, which I haven’t done in weeks. After two hours of searching favorite fantasies such as female bondage orgasm, sensual hand jobs, male milking, sybian orgasm, cunnilingus and cum shots I was significantly aroused. The rigid lump in my pants had made my underpants so wet it was soaking through. By ten o’clock I gave up and decided to go take a shower before J got home. While I was in the shower she returned with my daughter. As I shaved she stuck her head in the bathroom and told me that she was back and they were just getting something to eat.