Vibration – Session tips for newb

Hey all, I am pretty experienced with butt play and have used dildos for a long time. When I stumbled upon the aneros website I laughed when I read about the super – T as it is what got me interested in dildos in the first place. I found that if I hit the right spot and manipulate it just right I get really intense waves of pleasure. No orgasm though.

Of course in hear about the super-o and got really excited and purchased a vibrating model.

So, in my first few sessions I have gotten some really incredible feelings – I have tried the vibrations on max and min – but sadly no true orgasms. Part of the problem is I tend to start kind of grinding my hips against it, which it seems is counter productive from what I've read.

Sorry for the above just looking for feedback, now on to the question:

When using the vibrator do you leave it on? Is it better to begin without it as a newb? Can it desensitize?

How bad is the grinding?

Thanks in advance.

First session. Not getting anything.

Last night, for the first time I used my aneros helix. Left it bout 2 hrs in my ass, tried to build up the horniness during my session. Didnt feel anything. Didnt touch my cock at all. Ended up, doing traditional JO. Had a great anus contraction. But thats it. Maybe i need to try again. Any tips guys?

Lessons learned

Since my last blog post, I've had 3 more Aneros sessions. The first two were somewhat disappointing, but ended up providing me with valuable lessons that will help me going forward. The 3rd session, well……

The 1st of these sessions was with the Vice. I did the usual warmups and played around with various contractions with the vibrator off. I'm at an odd point in my Aneros life with the vibrator-less sessions. I can feel my prostate harden and everything else that leads up to an orgasm, but I don't get the intense pleasurable feelings i do with the vibrator turned on. I am guessing that is because the Aneros is pressing against the prostate, but not really rubbing against it. It could also be that I'm trying to compare apples and oranges and that I need to keep the sensations I feel with the vibrator on separate than the feeling without it on.
After about an hour of this, I turned the vibrator on to Light-Steady. Did my usual routine of slowly increasing my contraction until I find a 'spot' and hold it there for a while. In this case, I found that 'spot' very quickly with a low strength contraction. If felt much different than the super orgasm (not ready to call it a Super-O yet) i experienced the previous session. I felt the sensations centered in the anus as opposed to the prostate. It still felt very pleasurable and I left it there for quite some time. However, I wanted to feel the same thing I felt in the last session, so I decided to end that and increase the vibration. That ended up being a big mistake. I didn't feel anything but very small orgasms the rest of the session, with both Medium and Strong vibration sessions. And when I tried to bring the vibration down to Light-Steady to find what I found earlier, I was unable to. Read more »

Orgasmic Bliss … An excerpt from my novel

Several friends on the site have been asking me about the status of my erotic novel. It is basically done. I am trying to work up the courage to e publish it. Yesterday in chat several friends asked me for a sneak preview. That being said here is an excerpt. This is a letter from a female lover to the main character describing a fantasy that she has about him as she is masturbating.

They have been apart for a month and she is longing for him. It is a little long ….. sorry

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The scent of my feminine desire rises from the lips between my thighs; my pussy lips are oozing my passion for you. My steamy passion rises from deep within the warm recesses of my moist pink furrow; the cauldron of sexual need between my thighs scents the air with my sensual musk. The scent of my musk wafts around you and I in an imagined bed searching for your vulnerability; finding you breathing heavily in your own desire for me the scent of my need for you lingers around your nostrils, eventually entering and drifting into your brain. You are becoming intoxicated by the aroma of my desire; it stiffens your cock as it fills your head with lewd and lascivious thoughts of me. Read more »

Boom! goes the dynamite.

After taking a day off yesterday, decided to give the Vice a go today. After the usual warmups, I started with the vibrator off for about 30 min. Tried various levels of contractions and some nice feelings. Even got some P-Waves going, which is unusual with the Vice sans vibrator. After 30 min, turned the vibrator on to Light-Steady. In previous sessions, Light-Steady felt pretty good, but I always seemed to be just at the edge of an orgasm without crossing over. This time, it finally crossed the line. Several mild Os and plenty of nice feelings.

After about 20 minutes, I changed the vibrator setting to Medium-Steady. Did my usual routine of starting with a small baseline contraction and gradually increasing it until I felt 'something'. Then holding it there for a bit. As usual, this produced a couple nice orgasms, but the Vice felt like it wanted to do more. So I increased the contraction strength some more and was rewarded with some fairly strong orgasms. Decided to push my luck and increase my contraction strength about as hard I could and still hold it. After about 30 seconds, my prostate exploded. By far the strongest orgasms I have felt since I started using the Aneros…and they were coming one right after the other. I didn't count, but probably about 4-5 in a row. I had to stop as I felt like I was about to pass out. Not sure if this was a Super O or just a really strong prostate orgasm, but it sure felt pretty super. Read more »

Time to kill

I had 2 hours to kill before I had to perform some late night work. Didn't want to take a nap and feel groggy while working, so decided on an Aneros session. The last few sessions were with the Helix, so I figured I would go with the Vice this time. After the usual breathing and warmup exercises, I kept the vibrator off and played around with various levels of contractions. Some nice feelings and some small orgasms, but nothing really special. After about 45 min, I turned on the vibrator to Low-Steady. Slowly increased the strength of my contraction until I felt something pleasurable and let it sit there. While it felt nice, I have found that the 'Low' vibration level almost never produces anything other than very light tingling. But it's a good way to ramp up to the stronger vibrations, so I think I'll keep it in my routine.

After around 15 minutes, I relaxed my anus and set the vibration to Medium-Steady. Stronger vibration=stronger pleasurable feeling and I felt several mild orgasms for the 20 or so minutes I kept it at Medium. I set the vibration to High-Wave )setting 8 of 9(. Played around with different strength contractions, but this didn't really do anything for me. Next tried High-Pulse )9 of 9(. This felt better and I felt some nice tingling coinciding with the pulses, but I didn't feel this would ultimately produce the results I was hoping for. Read more »

Nap time

I didn't get much sleep last night )see previous blob entry( as I had to wake up earlier to take care of some items. By the time I was done, it was 11:00am and I was pretty tired. I needed to take a nap and decided to take one of my Aneros friends with me. I figured the Helix Syn would be the more comfortable of the two I own, so that's the one I chose. After inserting, I laid down on my right side )my usual sleeping side( and quickly fell asleep. I woke up around 1:30pm to a very mild 'itch' in my butt. It felt pleasant enough, so I decided to end my nap and see what was in store for me.

Roll onto my back with knees up )my usual Aneros position(. I skipped the breathing exercises since I was already quite accustomed to it being inside me. Starting with a low-level baseline contraction for a couple minutes and then slowly increased it. Did this for about 45 min and it produced some nice feelings, but no P-Waves or orgasms. I really felt like I had to pee and didn't think it was the Aneros causing it, so I went to the BR to take care of that. Since I had to take the Helix out anyway to pee, I decided I was going to switch to the Vice for the rest of the session. Read more »

Walk this way

Took an awfully long time to get going today. Did the usual breathing/warmups, but really wasn't feeling anything. Tried different strength contractions and even tried re-inserting the Helix to see if that would help. It took about 45 min before I starting feeling anything pleasurable. After that, things were much better. Starting getting P-Waves, as strong as previous sessions, but not as often. I again starting with small, baseline contractions and moved onto progressively stronger contractions until I had to let go due to fatigue. Then would start the cycle again. Interestingly, the best feelings came with the baseline contractions. I felt the pleasure build and then would increase pressure, which didn't help much. I tried to hold the baseline for a while and while it felt nice, it didn't progress. In the end, only a few small orgasms.

A couple things different about this session. I used 5 ml of pre-lube instead of the 3.5 ml I've been using. In addition, my stomach was rumbling throughout much of the session, being both a distraction and possibly affecting the movement of the Helix. So not sure if this was just a bum session, or if one of the above contributed to it.

At about 2:55am, I decided I was done. I stood up with the intention of heading to the bathroom and when I did, I felt the Helix pressing strongly against my prostate. It felt really nice, so I started walking around the room for a bit. The pleasurable feelings continued, even getting stronger. It may have turned into something if my stomach wasn't also growling louder than before. I'll have to investigate this in a future session.

The consolations of Aless

Hi guys,

The Aneros, as you know, was invented to promote good prostate health in men. Along with this benefit, it was discovered among many Aneros users that the Aneros has sexual benefits as well, such as Super-O's, MMO's, and sustained sexual energy of continuous P-waves which is also known as Aneros-lessness or Aless outside of actual Aneros sessions.

Many guys report that achieve a continuous, sustained Aless which is always there. I am one of those guys.

It has gotten to the point that my Aless is always there, although often in the background. However the intensity of my Aless varies. It comes and goes in intensity of sexual sweetness.

While I long for my very first Super-O, the Aneros has taught subtlety and nuance. The Aneros has enabled me to get in touch with my body like never before. The Aneros has opened to me a sensuality that I have not know in my whole life!