I'm not sure if I had it in too long (2hrs) but I now have a hemmroid, any one else have this problem? I've used aneros for like 6 months previous to this development. I'm guessing I should wait untill it goes away to continue using the aneros products?
What’s the best Lubrication?
I'm looking for something that silicone or oil-based, any recommendations?
First time and had a wet hands-free orgasm – Am I on the right track?
Hey all,
My title really says it all. During my first session I had a hands-free orgasm, which I assume is not a prostate orgasm. Am I on the right track in achieving a prostate orgasm, or do I need to focus on something else. Basically, I would like to know if you have any tips!
Thanks
Tried the MGX, am I missing something? Need advice!
I thought about getting the Syn, but heard that for beginners the MGX was the way to go so I picked one up.
Firstly it's difficult to insert and I think it might be because of the lubrication I'm using. What kind of lubrication is best? I've been using ID Glide Natural Feel and I'm not sure it's for me. It seems to dry out quickly and I have to keep reapplying.
Second, how far should it be inserted? It seems uncomfortable going in and a bit of a pain to pull out (again because of maybe the lubrication). There's the little tab on the opposite side of the handle (for perineum massage?), is that supposed to be pressing against something externally? Am I supposed to angle it differently?
When it's inserted to the best of my knowledge, I flex my sphincter muscles but at most all I've felt is the urge to go. Is the feeling as it's massaging your prostate supposed to feel differently than that or will that feeling increase into something different?
Is the Eupho Syn just too subtle for beginners?
I recently decided to jump into the Aneros train, and was able to find the Helix Syn on Amazon for about $50. However, when I recieved the package, it turned out there was a mix-up by the seller and I recieved a Eupho Syn instead of the Helix Syn I ordered. I had read that the Eupho line was more for advanced users but decided against attempting to replace it, thinking it would be close enough.
After some lube troubles (damn you, glycerin), I've been trying it out over the past week, and while I originally felt the peeing sensation that is said to come when the prostate is stimulated, it has faded away recently and I honestly don't think I feel much stimulating occuring on the inside. I can feel the p-tab and very rarely some pressure within, but neither are necissarily pleasureable and I end up masturbating normally with it in, where I can begin to feel it slightly more intensely, but nothing notably pleasurable.
Am I still in the "rewiring" stage and need to just stick through it or should I look into getting another model? I never expected instant results but I keep reading about how subtle the Eupho is compared to others, and I can't help but feel I might get a little more out of a more beginner-friendly model.
Uphigh
Since my last post, I've learned how to reconcile both partnered sex and riding my Aneros. It just involves timing… Aneros weekDAYs, sex weekENDs. Easy. Lately, my sessions are kind of duds, and I'm pretty sure it's because I'm using Rite Aid brand KY jelly. KY is a bit too viscous and once my Aneros locks-in, it won't move enough. I was having mind-blowing experiences with Swiss Navy lube, which isn't any cheaper online as it is from a retail shop. )Worth every pump, though.(
Journeys
Realized that 3 years have come and gone without me logging any events. Time flies. For the first couple of months aneros really didnt do much for me and but kept remembering what I had read in the aneros blogs and discussions so I pushed forward. As most folks the water based lubes were not good for me and took over a year for me to make the change to silcone lubes and now coconut oil. I had a reaction that created digestive problems and flared up gaseous problems to point I thought I was having a heart attack and had difficulty breathing. The doc said I had acid refllex, but after several visits and different types of acid meds it was something else- took trial and error on my behalf to figure it out. So now after using coconut oil it seems better. My aneros days I thought were over.
Now after three years I'm starting to actually have a better feel of the aneros and think I have a better understanding on what I should be concentrating on and when to stop. Starting to have better sessions now. In the past I focused to much on trying to get sexually excited vs paying attention to what the aneros was doing. I also listen to trance music (electronica) while on my knees and butt up in the air so it better hits the prostate and to totally relax and let the aneros do it's thing. I usually stick my helix in the freezer for a few minutes and the apply the coconut oil so the oil stays in place during the session. I also now take t- booster supplements daily and drink with pur-erh tea with maca and ginseng. I'm 56 years old and the sexual drive needs a boost.
First time use – is it working properly? Caused dry orgasms during sex?
Picked up a knockoff Aneros SGX at a sex shop yesterday (Put them side by side – identical but much cheaper). I am a smaller statured white guy (5'7" 140lbs) so I thought the SGX would be good as it is supposed to be popular with asian males.
So of course I had to give it a try last night. On insertion it created a massive erection and a pretty high burst of arousal – but the arousal faded in seconds, and the erection faded fairly quickly too. I left in in for maybe half an hour, chilling on the bed, but nothing happened. I clenched and unclenched and felt a little something, but the only significant feelings came with pulling it out a little and letting it slip back in.
So far the story is unexciting but then my wife came in to ask how the "butt plug" was working. I told her it was lame so she suggested we try it while we fuck. Of course I was up for this. Once we got started the Aneros seemed to come into play, I could feel some extra feeling perhaps once the prostate started to get aroused. I was ultra hard and had so much lust and drive like I used to have in our pre-baby days, I totally got lost in the sex but after a bit I didn't really notice any sensation coming particularly from the Aneros itself – just a general boost in intensity.
Helix syn – how far??
I just got a helix syn and have tried it twice. My question is about insertion depth. There are two "narrow" areas by the base – one that is somewhat contoured, and one that is really narrow, but very "short." How far should this thing go in? All the way to the very very narrowest point, or just the more contoured narrow spot, which is where it likes to get "sucked" up to naturally? I tried briefly to go for the narrowest point, but it seemed like it wasn't going to happen. Any thoughts? pic for reference:
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May be a dumb question, but what do they mean by contracting
First anero session did not really work out at all. I was thinking I wasn't "contracting" corrrectly. I get kind of squeezing in or like sucking…but it says to do it 8-10 seconds…but there is no way I could do that…it was like 1-2 seconds for me.