anyone experience pain after use?

i’ve probably used the aneros about 6 total times over the course of the year. 4 of those times i’ve experienced severe pain about a couples hours after use and for the rest of the day. i can’t poop, or walk when the pain comes.

it makes me afraid to try again but i really want to. i use almond oil or coconut oil and i think i use enough for that to not be the cause.

i admit i was using my hand to push the toy in and out during my last session. pretty rough. maybe that was the cause. idk guys, what’s been your experience?

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Aless > Aneros

TLDR: Had multiple aless orgasms after pulling out the toy

So I had my first session in a while after a flare up of my CPPS/prostatitis put me out of action.

Did the usual – watched some porn before and during and had some good contractions going but, even though I was super-horny (no erection, but that’s normal), I wasn’t really getting anywhere. After about 2 hours, I was falling asleep so I pulled out the toy and cleaned up.

After getting back into bed, I could feel my prostate humming so I just got onto my side and did some aless contractions and, before long, that warm feeling started to reeeally slowly build up, my dick slowly got hard and that warm feeling took over my whole body – my whole body was trembling and my dick/kegals were pumping like I was having a regular orgasm, but no cum.

After this died down a little I just kept my breathing going and, again, the warm feeling came back and it all happened again but so much more intense…I was paralysed in pleasure…when this ended I just couldn’t fight the urge, grabbed my dick and had one of the most intense wet orgasms of my life – with so much cum…

If this wasn’t enough, I woke up this morning with the same prostate hum…so I did light contractions and BOOM, it happens all over again.

Prostate further “in” than average?

Hey everybody. I’d count myself as having a lot of anal experience (started inserting “stuff” at around 14….). No 28 I got more and more interested into the hands-free orgasm thing and bought an Aneros Helix Syn last year. It did nothing, not very little but nothing. Using a proper dildo I can clearly feel a nice sensation but the Helix Syn doesn’t…. reach?

I bought a cheap knocking prostate vibrator (Rebel something) thinking that I might reach but not “hit” the spot. Still nothing. Dildo still works fine.

How common is it to not reach the prostate with such toys?

Also, any recommendations for “longer” toys?

Masturbating while using aneros to maintain sexual arousal – is this a big no?

[http://wiki.malegspot.com/](http://wiki.malegspot.com/) clearly states ” Don’t touch your penis at anytime during these sessions “.

But I really struggle to maintain sexual arousal without touching my penis. The aneros also usually feels the best while I’m contracting either while I’m masturbating, or just after I stopped masturbating to prevent ejaculating.

Is it okay to continue like this, or do I need to put a stop to it if I’m ever going to “get there”?

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Coconut oil as lube?

Is coconut oil a safe lube to use when using an aneros? I have a water based lube, but I don’t want to have to reapply once it’s absorbed into my body or dried out outside during my session.

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Full bladder hits prostate better than Aneros or any other toy I’ve tried, is there something I’m missing?

I’ve tried

* Prostate wands
* Prostate vibrators
* Prostate massagers (moving/stroking model $$$)
* Prostate plugs (EG Aneros)

The longest orgasm I ever achieved was using a full bladder, some soft gentle weight resting above the bladder to rock it, and an Estim pad to lock the kegel exercise muscles.

Cost way less than all the backdoor toys I’ve tried to date.

Is my prostate just too high/low/far from the intestinal wall or something? I know it can vary between guys.

Can you get an aneros orgasm while sitting up?

New to aneros. Thought maybe I could try to get aroused while having porn on my laptop, while having my laptop on my lap while I sit on the bed.

It is comfy for me but I don’t know how viable it is. Thanks!

Pre cum

Has anyone else found that since rewiring (or during the process) that they pre cum way more frequently than normal? I’ve realised that I just need to be horny and focus on my arousal and then I start leaking after a few minutes and not just a little, i’m talking like half a teaspoon worth. When I was a teenager (i’m 26 btw) I used to produce pre cum everytime I was horny. Before I started using the aneros earlier this year I could only pre cum if I was super horny or during prostate stimulation. After a few months using the aneros, it’s like i’ve regressed to my teenage years again and I only need to think about sex and then a few mins later I start to feel a wet patch downstairs. Interestingly I tend to produce way more during aless sessions than with the aneros. Has anyone else had a similar experience?