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Wait for the “whisper”

A lot of good advice for a successful session is not having expectations and not trying to force something to happen. It’s as much of a mind thing as a “I’m hitting it/clenching it the exact same as I was last time why is nothing happening” physical thing.

I was reading the Aneros wiki a month or so ago and came across this in the “Advanced Skills”

[Waiting for the Whisper](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills)

“Waiting for the whisper is a variant of “do nothing.” The whisper is the irresistible message coming from your groin that you are MMO horny. Waiting for the whisper means you don’t schedule or decide to have a session. You wait till your body whispers to you that you need it. When it does, you let it have its way. At that point you can do nothing, or try any other technique, and your body will be very responsive.”

Well shit… if that hasn’t been the key. Rather than trying be like, I have some time imma try and make myself scream, it’s more of a, I’m ready for this now. Getting hard and/or aroused, watching porn, that might help set the stage, but if you go into a session with your prostate already kinda twitching… It’s almost a guarantee super 0. If I’m kinda flexing the separate muscles while just finishing up work or something and kinda horny, things can get intense. But if I’m doing some keagles and things don’t start stirring, it’s just not going to happen. Read more »

Learning to do good contractions

I recently got the Helix Trident Syn. I’m trying to do the contractions by putting it in and squeezing rhythmically, but it isn’t that stimulating and I’m not noticing the twitching response people describe. I like having it in and can get some good pleasure from grinding my ass against the bed with the toy inside, but since the Super O is a muscle thing I feel like maybe my muscles are just weak and I am cheating by grinding. I definitely notice that I am having stronger penile orgasms when I have been squirming around with the Aneros for a while, and today I found myself craving the perineum stimulation while touching my cock so I put it in and had a good wet orgasm. It’s nothing like what people describe with the dry orgasm from contractions though. Anyone have advice on how to have good contractions?

Is aneros a game changer over njoy and others?

I have used the njoy wand for awhile. It feels great, but I have never achieved the p spot orgasm (from that or anything else). I’ve been using it for well over a year. Are the aneros products that much better, and will that be the difference maker? I look forward to your feedback. I’ve tried other products as well, but not aneros yet. Some with larger size (njoy 2.0 and bvibe xl). Any guidance?

Experience after sex with wife

So I just got the helix last week and I am completely new to this prostate massage business. I had a couple decent sessions this week, the second one I think I might have reached prostate orgasm, although I’m not sure if I can distinguish it correctly (it felt really damn good). Anyway tonight I told my wife about this and then we had sex while I had the Aneros in my ass. Once I knew she was satisfied I let myself cum and had a fantastic regular orgasm which absolutely drained me! My wife went to the shower as I just relaxed on the bed, so I thought I would do some Kegels for the sport of it, not expecting anything. Within a minute or two I was already trembling. By the time my wife got back from her shower I was going wild and I told her to get over and hold me tight! She didn’t know what the hell was happening but we shared the experience. I was feeling this full body tingling sensation for probably ten minutes or more and it was incredible. Can anyone tell me if this is the actual Super-O I keep hearing about or am I getting close or what stage am I at? Anyway, for those of you learning this like I am, maybe this is helpful.

Thanks for listening, I don’t know who else to tell!

J Lube!!!

Not sure how many of you are familiar with J Lube but it does wonders with Aneros. I make a full batch of j lube ( around 1L) and pump two full syringes inside my ass before playing with my Aneros. It keeps slick and always lubricated. Your Aneros will dance inside you and make it easier for Super O’s

Almost there … aaand it’s gone.

I am a bit frustrated. User of an Helix once every 1-2 weeks since.. 2 years? All tridents. Note I am quite a thin person (136 lbs) per 5 foot 8. I usually need to do something like 2h of session. My best position seems to be on my back, with a pillow below, On the side i loose track soon.

Here’s what I usually do: I get there, empty out, wait, relax, get aroused and pull the helix syn in. Start breathing deep, after a few minutes, also with my stomach. I tend to feel the pressure as need to pee. After a few minutes when I exhale i can feel something happening, like a bit when you did something wrong as a kid and you got something sinking in your stomach, but pleasurable.

After a while, I would get to a point where it starts feeling quite good very few seconds. Those sensation come and go. Some precum.. Then my dick would get hard and things starts to go south, as i usually don’t get contact with my prostate anymore. I move position and i manage to get it again.

At this point (say, 30 mins in) I usually need to start some contractions (I am trying to Kegel these days) but in general i try the Tug of War technique. Nothing, would change from the above scheme. I can go slow, I can go fast i still get some of those erections, some of those good feelings but then things die out. Read more »

Always a HFWO

Hello everyone, relatively new user here (couple months) with some success, but I always seem to end up ending a session with a HFWO. I have the MGX Trident. There has been one instance where I feel like I made great progress, I was listening to the kinkyshibby audio for aneros (I can link below if needed, unsure how to link in post on mobile) after reading some other comments recommending it. Got about 50 minutes in and my entire body started to shake and I got pins and needles all over. Started to orgasm hard, definitely felt more than a normal orgasm, and it started out with me not cumming, but eventually after most of the pumps some cum did come out and I had to deal with the refractory period. It seems that every session I have I end up with a HFWO, and a normal refractory period. Does anyone else experience this and does anyone know of any tips to lead towards a HFO and Super-O? Thanks for your time!

Using a back massager to relax lead me to the Super O – IF YOU SIT IN A CHAIR ALL DAY READ THIS

If you sit all day and don’t have an active stretching or exercise routine (pretty much most of us in COVID) chances are you have some soreness or tightness around the pelvic region. Whether its’s your hips, glutes, or even lower back, tension in these areas can make it very difficult to relax.

After 5 years of trying (from 2014 onward) with only a few minor successes, a few weeks after regularly using a pressure point massager (the one I used is linked below but they all pretty much do the same thing) to loosen and work those areas I starting having consistent P-waves, leading up to my first SuperO a few days later. This was autumn of 2019. Now I am able to reach SuperO with some consistency, and recently had my first A-less SuperO.

Once I put two and two together I was absolutely astounded. It seems so obvious now that I think about it in hind sight.

Currently, my routine consists of inserting Aneros and spending at least 10-15min loosening up my hips while I get use to the toy. Personally, I find it most effective to stretch and actively move the point I am massaging. If you are especially sore this might hurt, so please be gentle.

I hope you are able to find this useful, please feel free to comment / reach out with questions and I will be happy to respond.

Massager I Use: [https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW](https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW) Read more »

Muscle Tension or “Buildup”?

Howdy!

I can get to a point where I feel a sort of swelling, or even numbness, with the Aneros, primarily when I focus on holding the contraction of my PC muscles (I kinda just let the anus do its own thing–maybe an adjustment here or there if I’m not feeling much). Is this a feeling I should be chasing? The reason I ask is because it isn’t very pleasurable, and I worry that what I’m feeling is simply muscle strain. Perhaps this “burning sensation” will become pleasurable as the rewiring process continues, or I should focus less on the sensation itself and more on arousal amplification? Has anyone else had a similar experience?

Thanks for your thoughts!

First time using an Aneros product

I’m using the progasm someone recommended it too me sounded good said it would take a bit of getting use too and I’m looking for advice like a good pose to use it in and stuff like that.