So I Aneros got delivered yesterday, I got too excited and used it ASAP, And I got my first P wave but it lasted only for 2 seconds, after that I got nothing, and I tried a second session today and I didn’t get any. My dick is twitching involuntary when I contract sometimes, and I continue and It will intensify, is that good?. Give me tips (I’m Asian sorry for my bad Engurlish)
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“Flatlines and Cravings”
Introduction
I am currently in Day 7 of SR and Day 71 of NoFap ® PMO. I still feel like I’m in a ‘flatline’ period but just the other night, I experienced an intense craving for sex (or at least an ejaculation). I have night-time erections every night but this one was different. At the time, I believe I was wearing a ‘cup’ and the unusual thing about this erection was not only with the physical reality but the mental state I seemed to be in at the time. Let me explain….
Extreme Craving
The steel-hard erection was accompanied by a mental state that I can only describe as an unsatisfied need for sex. Yes, I mean penetrative sex with ejaculation. It was a strong feeling and one which I have not felt in a long time. I have read that these cravings are entirely normal while in NoFap ® and the best way to cope is to focus on something else! Thank goodness I was wearing a cup!
More Spontaneous Erections
I have noticed recently that I am experiencing more erections (or at least half-ones) not by looking at porn but a pretty woman or a great, sexy body! I suppose this is an entirely normal reaction. It means that I am being turned-on sexually the right way! This is almost an automatic response from me. It can, however, be somewhat embarrassing if the erection comes-on at an inappropriate time such as on the beach or in the pool. But a guy has to cope the best way he can.
The Nutty Buddy Cup is Ideal for Diddling and Kegeling (with a shout out to @goldenboy!)
Hi guys,
Early this morning after a blissful night of diddling and kegeling in my BIKE CUP. I decided to the same thing with a Nutty Buddy Cup which I have had at least for a decade.
The Nutty Buddy Cup was developed by retired MLB great and baseball coach, Mark Littell, who was concerned that many baseball players were shunning athletic cups because they were uncomfortable to wear. With the help of two design scientists at Arizona State University, he created an innovative athletic cup that has two chambers for a guy’s testicles and contoured to fit a guy’s genital anatomy from right under his scrotum to just beyond his penis. Littell produced a Youtube video with him wearing this cup and being hit in his cupped area by baseball pitching machine. That was late in August 2006. I was so turned on that I jacked off to his video, and told myself I must buy this cup! 🙂 When it finally was marketed in March 2008, I was one of the first to purchase this amazing athletic cup.
Over the years, I have had an erotic dalliance with the Nutty Buddy. But it was only early this morning when I discovered for diddling and Kegeling. It is great in bed, but it is even better sitting in a chair, as right now as I am composing this blog entry!
subtleties of prostate stimulation
New tools teaching me the intricacies and subtleties.
In my last blog post I mentioned getting some new pleasure tools. I have been having lots of fun with the Njoy large plug. this thing just sits on my prostate giving me the pressure I require without interaction since I’m a do nothing guy (but that is now changing because of these new tools) inducing some wonderful feeling orgasms. These ‘o’s are different but also the same from the ones I experienced from using an aneros product. I also love the fact that I can join in the am and go about my day feeling a constant stimulation of my anal canal and lower prostate area, gets me and keeps me aroused almost the entire time I’m moving.
I think the biggest take back is since these new tools are so unforgiving on the body if used to aggressively, I am really starting to become more mindful of the subtlety of prostate massage. When using any of my lovers and doing clenching (kegels or some type of muscular interaction) I would get overzealous without even knowing it thus chasing away the pleasure I was seeking because I had no feed back if you will, I couldn’t feel it moving inside me until an orgasm had started. Using the new tools force me to pay more attention to what and when I actively do something since I got overzealous one time using the Pfun and became fairly sore. The large seems to return a light feed back to me letting me learn the light touch required.
“Meet The SGX (Again)!”
Introduction
I probably have not used my SGX Classic in a year. The SGX is the smaller version of the MGX Classic and it is no longer offered by Aneros. I decided that the time was right for a session; the SGX was the massager of choice.
Session
I lubed-up the SGX with SSG. I did not pre-lube for this session but that was okay. One think I like about the SGX (and the MGX) is the ribbed anal stem which provides a distinctive level of anal pleasure with each contraction. In spite of its small size, I knew that my prostate was being adequately engaged.
Almost right from the start of this 25-minute session, I began to experience an erection while wearing my XO ‘chastity cup’. I definitely had some ‘pumping’ action going on during this session which I could feel. I did quite a bit of low-grade moaning too. Being still in SR and NoFap ® I would consider this to be a therapeutic prostate-massage. About mid-way through the session, I removed the cup and just observed the nice amount of fluid emanating from my cock. After a while, I felt that this session was winding-down to a conclusion and I was quite satisfied with the feeling. As I have noted before, I now will be entering a ‘pseudo refractory period’ of about 1-2 hours during which time I will generally not be experiencing any erection or feeling of arousal.
Sweet, timeless memories about jocks and cups (inspired by goldenboy)
Hi guys,
Many of who have read my Aneros blog over the years have heard my stories about jocks and cups dating from my puberty and the glory days of adolescence up to my old age. This fascination represents a lifetime of experience and gives me even now the thrill of wearing these quintessentially male items which men and boys wear for athletics and even daily, leisurely wear.
I was eleven or twelve when I encountered my dad’s jockstrap for the first time. Mom had laundered in February or March 1962 and hanged it on a hanger to dry above the bathtub at home. Dad was going to wear it under his Little League navy blue umpire uniform pants when Little League began in late April or May that year. I decided to try it on when it was dry. I was baffled in how to wear it correctly, but I figured its mesh pouch was to contain my privates, but I was mystified that its leg straps gave that “bare ass” feel, so unlike the briefs I wore as my own underwear. However the “bare ass” feel of a jockstrap provides needed ventilation to a guy’s sweaty buttocks on the athletic field. This also applies to a guy wearing a cup jock.
I’ve been trying for a few years and I’m still hardly getting any pleasure out of it.
Technically it would be more accurate to say it’s off and on for a few years. I tend to give up on it for a while or not be able to for a long time for one reason or another.
I’m using the “do nothing” or the “try not to orgasm” approach. Try not to orgasm is a nice one because then if pleasure stops I’m less likely to get frustrated. I’ve tried intentionally moving the aneros inside me but it never works more than a tiny bit. Any attempt to directly control the movement of the aneros or the feeling of pleasure itself leaves me worse off than I started. Fine. I just won’t do that.
I’m still at the stage where the sensations are mild and never last more than a few seconds. A couple times I’ve gotten better than that but I haven’t gotten back there in about a year. As soon as I want it to feel better than it does in the moment, all pleasure stops, which is extremely frustrating.
I’m not focusing entirely on the possibility of the super O. I’ll be satisfied once I get to the point where it feels better than regular masturbation. I can’t explain why but I have a feeling that once I get to that point I’ll advance pretty quickly. Even if it doesn’t, I can be patient about how good it feels as long as it satisfies my need for it. I don’t think I’ll be bored once I get the fundamentals down.
Was I close?
Never had a super o but I think I just got close, Im very new to this or 4 or 5 sessions. I was using my aneros trident and about 10 min in I started involuntary shaking, about 10 min after I realized I wasn’t controling the massager anymore. Then I physically felt my heart pound and my face and chest felt really warm… Then I immediately came out of it and couldn’t get that feeling again. Kind of discouraged I think I was overthinking it in the moment but I’m not sure,
advice would be very appreciated
How to prevent shit getting on your aneros?
I was aroused, I was feeling my aneros on my prostate, I was enjoying it and then shit was on my aneros and the mood went down. It’s not the first it has happened to me and it’s one of the reasons I haven’t reached my first super-o. Before starting my sessions I always clean my ass with tap water in an enema until the water comes out clear, but however then some shit come out in my sessions. Just in case, my lube doesn’t have glicerin. Thanks in advance.
Cheating on my Aneros toys
I know it’s been a good Long while since I have posted. I’m very patiently waiting for the vice 2 to be available for order. I’m actually very excited for this toy to be out. More appropriately I’m ready for this toy to be in and nuzzled up to my prostate for a couple of reasons, I have never tried the vice but have always wanted to and thanks to the Lelo Loki and Bruno my prostate has gotten some very new treatment with vibrating massagers. Honestly both these massagers are something every prostate pleasure man should want in their toy box. The Loki to me is what the rabbit is to my wife. It’s big, it’s bad and it will make me drip, dribble, moan and cum buckets. Put it in her skilled and oh my. The Bruno is smaller more wearable and throw some kegals in and look out. Hopefully all the vibrations don’t ruin the Aneros models for me.