Blog Introduction

An introduction to myself and any progress I make with the Aneros.

I am new to blogging in general and am still trying to figure out how to use this blog.

I am 67 years old and weigh about 280. I have been diagnosed with an enlarged prostate (BPH). Research on this condition brought me to the concept of prostate massage for prostate health reasons and particularly to the Aneros massagers. Upon learning that prostate massage could also lead to multiple and enhanced orgasms, I became especially interested. wow, what a great side benefit.

i am retired and married with 2 children, 7 grandchildren and 1 great grandson. I gotta say that embarking on the Aneros path and all it can bring to me seems a little strange considering my age and station in life.

Some things for you to expect from my blog… I expect to note any and all progress. This includes new things I have tried and failed to produce results. This is progress also.

I don’t expect to create a blog entry on any particular time schedule. If I have made some progress, I’ll create an entry. Otherwise, I will likely remain silent. I don’t think it would be fair to make an entry just to report “nothing changed”. that would be a waste of my time and more importantly a waste of your time.

Super O and wet O here I cum!

Getting so damn close! Abs are even sore from working them with my clenches!!!!

If you want something extremely hot to listen to while practising with your Aneros, search for audios by heartdamage. She has the best audios on Reddit in my opinion. I’m getting so turned on and so close to a wet orgasm listening too her while I use my Helix. Never had a dry one yet so not sure if I’ll get there for that super O or not…. But totally trembling and shaking from all of the pleasure!!! It feels so good… It’s like I just need a tiny push over the edge!!!!

“It Just Feels Better With A Cup!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his continuing support of wearing cups in bed and during Aneros sessions]

Intro
Went to sleep wearing only PJs and didn’t even think about the NPTs that would be coming during the night. Sure enough, I awoke about 3 AM with an arousing erection and firm balls. I am currently in Day 8 of semen retention and I have felt that “boost” in T-level for sure! I am not ready to ejaculate yet. What to do?

Solution
I quickly decided to put-on my Mueller cup because of the way it feels. And once I did, that ‘comfortable’ feeling just got me thinking…

Forget Chastity
What I realized is that, throwing-out all I know about male chastity, putting-on that cup just felt better! Need more synonyms? How about improved, exceptional, superior, desirable, more useful? Take everything I have written about male chastity and just put-it-aside for now. Concentrate on the comfort and the relief that the cup provides. It just ‘feels better’!

Scenarios
Once back in bed and feeling more comfort from the cup, I began to think about other ways that guys feel ‘better’ while wearing their cups. And a few examples quickly came to mind….
• Baseball players wear their cups for sure to protect their ‘equipment’ from errant balls and field-play. No fan would question their choice of protection; the ‘bulge’ in their pants attests to their commitment.
• Some male police officers wear bulletproof cups (groin guards for females) particularly for SWAT teams. I don’t think anyone would deny a police officer’s choice to wear a bulletproof vest, so why not groin protection while on duty?
• Male and female wrestlers and kick-boxers routinely wear groin guards to protect their vital organs during matches. Fans would expect no less.
• Can you imagine an ice-hockey player not wearing a cup? I can’t either.

“Hey Guys, We’ve Got A Bulge!”

While taking a shower this morning and doing a testicular self-exam (which I do monthly), while examining my soft scrotum, I thought about this topic. Now I’m not here to state the obvious. But it dawned on me that rich or poor, tall or short, all guys have a bulge. And it is bigger when our cocks are erect. Females don’t have this “condition” so their normal “bulges” (more like curves) are the same size all the time.

Then I got to thinking some more…..

Some guys like to show-off their bulges by wearing tight jeans or even bulge-enhancing underwear.
Male athletes will display their bulges by wearing jockstraps with or without cups as part of their uniform.
Male swimmers and divers will naturally display their bulges through their tight-fitting suits.
Male wrestlers will show their obvious ‘packages’ through their skin-tight singlets (usually with a jockstrap or compression shorts).
An aroused male with a large package will approach a willing female and she can’t help but notice if she is in the mood.
And so on……

Where am I going with this?….

“Does Anticipation of a Session Make For a Better Session?”

Background
I had a nice session with Helix Trident yesterday. Slept in my Safe-T-Gard Cage Cup overnight; I am now in Day 7 of SR. Lying in bed early this morning (about 5 AM) I began to contemplate a short session using my HIH 950.

Anticipation
In my mind, I was going ‘through-the-motions’ of prep: lube, insertion, relaxation and almost was ready to advance. In my mind, I could ‘feel’ the massager begin to work on my prostate. I ‘felt’ the soft but compelling glides of the slippery tool against my aching gland. Then, I ignored the whole idea. Why?….

Better Next Time?
I discovered that by building-up the anticipated Aneros session in my brain (I almost accomplished it) I was already on a path to prostate pleasure. It’s a little bit like anticipating an ejaculation through edging. But the edging never happened. Likewise, the prostate massage never happened. Yes, I was disappointed. But the anticipation caused a ‘rush’ in my arousal that is hard to describe. I can now feel a gentle ‘pulsing’ in my prostate, almost asking me: “When next?”

Analysis
As I entered this blog post, I am performing nice, gentle PC contractions and definitely starting to feel it in my prostate. Perhaps it will reward me with another great real session sometime? Touche’.

PS I can’t liken this inaction to a form of chastity . The anticipated session was real from the start. So I never anticipated that it wouldn’t happen. In chastity, you know that you are always denied the pleasure. This ‘mind-game’ is worthy (IMO) of further inspection.

The typical Aneros question; Helix or Eupho?

Hello everyone, I’m going to purchase an Aneros Peridise, along with one of this two prostatic stimulators: The Helix Syn or the Eupho Syn. Important: I’m not willing to purchase the two toys, just one of them. Buying the Helix and then the Eupho would mean investing almost 140€ in toys, and my idea is to buy and use just one of them.

I’ve read the Eupho Syn is more enjoyable as it moves more in the rectum, and may provide greater stimulation. However, the Helix is always recommended as a first toy, and I’ve never bought an Aneros toy. I’ve had small anal plugs, but that’s all, nothing prostatic specific.

The Aneros Eupho Syn is actually 15€ cheaper than the Helix Syn on the on-line store I’m going to purchase it, 55€ the Eupho Syn Vs 70€ the Helix Syn.

I’m going to get the Eupho along with the Periside (which is actually very cheap), unless some of you insist me on getting the Helix.

My anal canal is pretty tight, but I’m afraid the Eupho will be too thin to notice it, or not point properly towards the prostate.

For those recommending the Helix over the Eupho, please list the reasons. Same for the people who will recommend the Eupho over the Helix.

Finally: Is it true that the Eupho is only for experienced people? Will I be able to learn only with the Eupho?

[Advice] Anal Training – What is working best for you?

I'[m] moving more and more into anal play,

I honestly think i’m still a novice in this journey (prostate play) but i’m at the stage where fingers are not enough anymore and I might went a bit big on the last toys I got… [Rock Off Bad boy](https://www.amazon.com/Rocks-Off-Bad-Boy-Black/dp/B00CM893HO) and [Aneros Progasm](https://www.amazon.com/Glass-Aneros-Progasm-Prostate-Stimulator/dp/B00AH6TPGW) but not by much. Love how they are filling me but still uncomfortable a bit and not fully enjoying my sessions.

What worked best so far for you in terms of stretching exercises?

Ie: Buttplug sessions, relaxation, natural lube (coconut oil VS industrial lube)? etc etc…

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I try to send to new Forum members (updated March 3, 2019)
“Hi Guys,:)

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday.
Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video, formerly available on the Aneros website, interesting and informative as well.

Finally, I encourage you to listen to the podcast#9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros.

“A Long Time Ago In A Galaxy Far, Far Away….”

[Thanks to the ‘Star Wars’ opening crawl (and to George Lucas and Dan Perri) for the title of this blog post]

Introduction
According to my blog posts, it has been 11 days since my last session. Why did I wait so long? Well, for one thing, I believe it is the same reason that I practice semen retention (SR). That period of abstinence only makes the sexual event more special, more powerful. Just as withholding ejaculations can make them more potent, withholding Aneros sessions (I believe) can make them better and stronger. Was that the case for this morning’s session? Let me describe the session…..

Session
I selected the HIH 950 for this session, because I really wanted a “therapeutic” prostate massage session. I want to keep my prostate healthy and help with BPH symptoms too. Of course, I knew in advance how the massager would feel pressing against my prostate, but since it has been so long, the anticipation of that feeling became exquisitely erotic. I couldn’t wait. So I lubed-up the 950 with SSG and inserted it quite deeply, making sure that the perineum-tab was pressing firmly against my perineum. I went to lie-down and relax.

A Briefs pleasure

This is not specifically talking about Aneros but it’s about my newly bought briefs

It’s just a low-rise briefs that looks clean, minimalist and decent( Anything that purposely designed to be sexy in mind is not appeal to me, No offense ya.)
The moment i wore it, i was like in heaven. It even feels better than naked. (Naked down there is not comfortable to me due to some medical reasons, my left nut hurts every time i left unsupported 🙁 )
Due to the above reason, wearing it makes me feel sexy and horny. I feel horny every time when a briefs fit and hold my nut comfortably while contouring my butt nicely. The feeling is intimate.

Looking forward to let aneros destroy me inside out while having it on. Damn, feel so horny thinking about it. brb :p