Sod's Law, Murphy's Law & drying laundry

I thought it was time to blow the dust off the blog.
I visit the site on a daily basis to see what is happening.
I have had many sessions with the Aneros, usually every second day.
On a couple of occasions I have come close but have not gone over the edge.

Sod's Law.
The wife is out for a couple of hours so I have a session.
Just coming to the boil and the house phone rings.
Her son answers but the moment is gone.
Concentrate, try again. Getting close and my mobile rings(The wife)
End of session.

Part 2.
Similar to the above but 2 day's later.
Wife out.
On the edge and my mobile rings.
Can I go to the neighbour as he wants to talk to me about something.
End of session.
Go to the neighbour, he is out.
Am I smiling.

Murphy's Law.
To the gentleman in Ireland whose Aneros was lost by An Phost.
This is an example of Murphy's Law.

Drying Laundry.
There was a post about "Pegging".
I had a read and saw that a "Feeldoe" was mentioned.
Googled it and had a read.
Posted the link to the original post.
It got me thinking.
The wife did say when we tried the Aneros together if
there was anything for her.
She ment front door not back door.
I told her I thought I had found the very thing.
Sat her down at the computer last night to look on the website.
Cannot acess site. Site has a problem.
Sod's Law!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Recent updates

It's been a while since I've logged in here. Had to take some time away to deal with personal issues and life in general.

I continue to practice Aneros sessions. More frequently now than in the last few months. The Progasm is still my Aneros of choice. Every once in while, I'll be curious, and try the MGX or Helix. And they just don't do much for me anymore. I hope it's only temporary. As I do like variety. But the Progasm never fails to make me feel pleasure.

I've started to have more consistent small to medium non-ejaculatory orgasms during sessions. I wouldn't call them super. But I think I'm making progress. I'm always amazed at how the experience changes during the journey.

One thing I've noticed so far, is that the relax and do nothing approach only takes me so far, which is not very far in my mind. Through experimentation, I've discovered that small amounts of penile stimulation helps to get really revved up. But at some point you have to stop doing that or otherwise ejaculate. I've also found that some amount of flexing the PC and anal muscles is very helpful for me. And that I've gotten to points where I'd be clenching both, and have such pleasurable feelings from it that it was almost unbearable, then suddenly both would involuntarily completely relax. And I would then start have some really different yet pleasurable feelings. Kind of orgasmic like, but not really. Makes me wonder if these are the starting point of super-O's.

M/F Couples Mutuality: Mutual Ejaculation Orgasms

Mrs. a and I are so charged and thrilled with the erotic > ecstatic energies and the floating bliss we have discovered within us together on this Aneros/KSMO "training wheels" adventure.

The times when our energies combine to create a full "flowing waters of the goddess" ejaculatory orgasm for mrs. a, and we then bring me to a rollicking rocking rocket of a Super-T, and "we all flow together when we flow" as we did about a week ago a few days after the Full Moon Club, are so swirling and mutually engulfing and energies sharing inside and outside that they are always a highlight for weeks and months, even if we do not specifically pursue them in most sessions. They can be physically exhausting and are NOT still-body floating! – they are active body soaking!!!

For example, our ecstatic Full Moon Club session previous to this latest Super-MEOs (Super-Mutual Ejaculation Orgasms) event, after some initial jumping Super-Os, was ssssoooooo…. such beautiful and all-enveloping bliss ecstasy energies that as we returned to Earth, there was no need, desire, or thought of Super-T-ing and we carried that still-body flowing joy with us for several days, even into the Super-MEOs session above.

At our age the still-body flowing joy is such a gift and where we seem to fly more frequently. Yet we always love to visit the full flowing waters and semen, and touch our youth from time to time…

My first session

So, yesterday morning my Helix arrived safe and sound and I decided to try it out straight away! Taking advice from the wiki, I went to the bathroom then used plenty of lube before insertion and gave myself time to relax after the initial excitement of what this journey might bring!

I inserted the Helix and could feel it pressing against my prostate, I now understand that 'needing to crap and pee at the same time' sensation. But that didn't last for long. I didn't do anything much for 10 minutes or so, just let the aneros sit there for the time being.

After that point I started contracting my sphincter muscles, I continued doing so in a regular fashion for the duration of my 2 hour session. During that time I experienced a number of things. The first was after half an hour or so, I secreted a couple of beads of pre-cum, my penis was pretty much inert the whole time so this was a new thing for me! I experienced a few muscle twitches in my thighs. I also felt a dull tense sensation across my lower belly/rectum area on a couple of occasions, certainly nothing intense, but noticeable none the less.

Oily Fish Moon

Maxed on fish oil (now push the pedal down!)

I completed my 15 day ramp up from 0 to 6250 mg of fish oil per my original plan just in time for the Full Moon Club lollapalooza. I’ll let you be the judge, since success can only be based on results…

First of all, I was able to get my wife in on the action! We have a weekly Sunday night meeting to discuss the week ahead and the FMC made the agenda for Wednesday at 9. On Wednesday, after getting the house all settled down, I lubed up, chose the Helix, and got into bed naked. “Oh right”, she says “It’s the Full Moon”, and she waved her fingers in the air and made a scary Halloween sound.

Now this is the first time I’ve just laid next to her and had a session – we’ve enjoyed the Aneros during couple play on numerous occasions, but this time I wasn’t expecting anything I just needed my space in the bed (especially since this full moon thing is timed perfectly for her cycle). Regardless, she started right in on me; touching, sucking, licking and stroking. 45 minutes. I finally got my “large muscle quaking” groove going – despite telling her distinctly “I bet you can’t make me jerk like that again”. Near 10:00, she launched me. The wonderful thing about it is that for those first 45 minutes, before she changed her focus, in spite of all her efforts, she did not trigger the traditional orgasm reflex. In the final five minutes, that was a different story.

Full Moon Club parade of orgasms

J4 and a bunch have launched the Full Moon Club, where members, anyone who cares to join, all have sessions at (about…) 9:00 pm local time on the night of the full moon each month. The idea is to see if there is any resonance from/between all these orgasmic energies being loosed like a wave around the planet. A great P-wave circling the globe in 24 hours…

Mrs. a and I began later about 11:00 pm EDT (March 11/09) and after wonderful warmups found ourselves in mutual prostate massage and ultimately in the Wedding Band position, each digitally caressing the other's P/G spot… better than ever… parades of Super-Os repeatedly (and the old bod calling for more! not avoiding them!)…

butt then up, up, and away into the floating bliss of the Calm Seas Os!!! Twice I briefly left orbit and touched down on the planet for a few seconds butt right back up onto/into the endless oceanic bliss… Those two trips back down and back up were new and very interesting in themselves, like a ride in a new glass bubble elevator on the outside of a tall building, butt not the same in other ways; more like my being being stretched painlessly, even pleasantly, like a gooey yardstick of existence. Ahhh! so much… so many… so everywhere…

About 2:30 am EDT this morning (March 12/09) we came back to the home planet, cleaned up, and floated blissfully off to dreamland…

Fish oil fancies

While (probably) nothing to do with fish oil, one side note from my recent Progasm session, was that the big girl went in the easiest she's ever gone – only took about 5 minutes! In addition, my second anal (inner) ring is the one that gets sore from Progasm use – this time, I had no complaints after two hours.

So last night, after I went to bed, I gave the Male Deer a whirl to check on my Progasm 'After-Shock' theory and Vwalah! Aneros-less involuntaries again! Not as strong as the early January session, but I may be climbing back up the plateau instead of sliding off it.

Without the Aneros, there is a nice feeling sensation that is very consistant (not waves) that the Male Deer massage brings out centered over the prostate or the pelvic ridge as it were. Yet, seemingly very elusive. But when I get it, I push down on the prostate with the pelvic floor muscles (like doing a stomach crunch). Then I usually abandon the Male Deer (why bother with success, right?) and grab/pinch (comfortably) the skin over the pelvic bone just north of the penis base and well south of the belly button. This exerts the kind of gentle external pressure on the little walnut that it tells me it really craves. Thus locked into place by muscle and thumbs I start a couple of little contractions until the involuntaries echo back at me. Then I try to build them… after 20 minutes, they fizzled out.

Morning orgasms… into the late afternoon

This morning has been uniquely pleasurable… No Aneros, yet my body has learned to bring about some amazing orgasms just sitting and working (or getting lost in erotic thought) or running some errands…

It's some pleasure-on-demand capability I'm wired into. Woo-hoo! Who wouldn't want to know they could do that?

I wonder too how far I can take it. There are different levels of pleasure, from some slight stirring to a more fulfilling buzz to an occasional body-shaking intensity and craving and climax and release. There's no ejaculation (or erection), leaving me with a constant baseline tingling ready to climb again. I could probably go all day.

Seriously, how happy this is. Remarkably, I can sense an openness today in my relationships with other people… when oneself is glowing, it's so easy to share that emotive quality with others.

O happy day!

Update (past 5 days)

Thursday 2/26/2009… Day off
Friday 2/27/2009… One hour morning Eupho session with super-O’s
Saturday 2/28/2009… One hour morning Eupho session with super-O’s
Saturday 2/28/2009… One hour afternoon Eupho and Progasm session, super-O’s with both Aneros’
Saturday 2/28/2009… Aneros-less evening session with S.O.
Sunday 3/1/2009… Day off
Monday 3/2/2009… 45-minute morning Eupho session with super-O

Man, the Eupho is just plain awesome! A 50 to 60% contraction puts it dead center on my prostate’s hot spot creating indescribable pleasure. I can’t seem to get enough. Anyone know if there’s an Aneros Anonymous?

SWW

The Great Fish Oil Experiment Update

Today is the halfway point of the Fish Oil trip. Nothing noteworthy except that the GNC triple strength pills are indeed much less fishy than the Nature Made pills. Current level of 2241 EPA, 1509 DHA.

I still haven’t surpassed my sessions of the first week of January. I was having some nice progress there jumping up to the next plateau. I thought I’d discovered an automatic on switch with the Male Deer Massage technique – but it’s now very difficult for me to get a pleasurable feeling or involuntary without the Aneros inserted. The day after effects has also dropped off considerably – and that power cord below my belly button seems to have come unplugged.

There are new sensations. The first is the worms crawling or tissue bubbling sensation that exists in the prostate area during peak session times. Another is the “energy bloom” where after a couple of deep pulse beats an echo blossoms out in the midsection. Lastly is the “ball crawl” where the ball skin totally does this rolling contraction from the butt side up and over to the belly side. I feel like I want to connect all three of these sensations at the same time. The other thing I’ve noticed is that I am holding my breath and bearing down on my midsection ALL THE TIME. I am constantly having to remind myself to breath. My prostate is a demanding little walnut.