Tag: Aneros

May I ask for a clarification between aroused and relaxed?

Hi guys,

Wondering if I can ask a question.. everybody mentions don’t insert your Aneros “cold,” I.e. you should be turned on before inserting it (by watching porn, edging, etc. before hand).

But I’ve also read and heard that you should be totally relaxed once you have it in, but this seems to be in contradiction since (for at least me anyways) being aroused requires a certain level of mental focus (fantasizing, playing with nipples, etc.). So I’m just looking for some clarification as I’m wondering how one does both. Perhaps I’m just looking for other peoples’ input on where they take it. Thanks in advance.

I don’t believe this is real anymore.

Been at it for weeks. Tried different positions. Porn, no porn. Traditional stimulus, no traditional stimulus. Contracting. Do nothing. Soft contractions. Hard contractions. Rapid ones. Slow ones.

You know what I feel after weeks of this? Like I’ve got sonething in my bum. That’s it. The infamous “p tab” doesn’t do anything. There are no “twitches”. It doesn’t feel like its “going in and out on its own”. There are no orgasms of any kind.

Every now and then for like 3 whole seconds I’ll feel like it’s pushing somewhere and im feeling _something_… aaaand then it’s gone and I’m back to just laying there with something in my butt. Literally anything shoved up my ass would create that much sensation because _it’s in my ass_.

I just don’t believe this is real anymore, I think a lot of you are full of bologna and a lot of others are chasing placebos. I’m typing this message while using my aneros because it’s not like it does anything at all to distract me in any way. I could perform surgery with this thing in my body.

Total waste of time and money.

A broken Anniversary Progasm.

So after a three week hiatus from my Aneros collection I had some alone time and marital consent (finally! – long story but good outcome). Because it’d been three weeks I went for the vape some weed and poppers route (cheating but I just wanted to get off badly).
Anyway’s lubed up my Anniversary progasm went to put coconut oil on it and the P Tab just snapped. I think the oil had gone a bit hard and the pressure was lopsided as I pushed the toy into the jar… so it was back to the older Progasm Ice for me.
Guess buildup is a thing for PGASMS as much as penile because this turned into a two hour wailing moaning convulsing re arrange one’s insides and commune with the universe religious experience.
And here I was wondering if my prostate had forgotten what to do.
Later that afternoon I broke out my NJOY wand (no weed or poppers) and managed to do another 50mins of near non stop orgasm… so yeah.. I think once a body knows how to come this way it doesn’t forget.

I’ve emailed Aneros support as to how to fix the broken PTAB (if at all possible). Have to say the Older Progasm is still a heck of a thing for me… it’s the morning after and I have mini pgasms happening just typing this and thinking about yesterday’s escapades.

“Dissociation”

I haven’t gotten to a super-o yet, but I think I realized something interesting and was wondering if others have experienced the same.

I started using Aneros about 3 years ago. I started with the basic advice: relax and do kegels. I could feel it hitting my prostate, which felt good, but it never escalated into anything.

Then I did some reading, and found what seemed to be two contradictory techniques. One was the “do nothing” technique, which didn’t work for me, and is honestly a pretty frustrating set of instructions unless you are one of the lucky people for whom it actually works. The other was the technique that focuses on the two-different-muscle-group kegel contractions. After some practice I was able to get muscle spasms going pretty reliably, but I ran into a dilemma. Maintaining the spasms required concentration and slowly made my whole body tense up. This did not sound like the effortless, out-of-control experience it was supposed to be.

Then I tried combining the strategies: getting the spasms started, then mentally backing off and “letting the aneros do its thing.” When I did this, the spasms would keep going on their own, for a bit, but they always slowed down and came to a stop when left to their own devices. Read more »

The fastest way to a Super O (it’s simple, I promise)

Hi there, so first of all, this is not one of those posts which tells you of a certain technique. My advice is general. I believe it is more effective and would work for majority of struggling users here. It is a simple one, but not easy.

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Let me preface by describing my journey. I’ve been using aneros for 2 years and few month now. But only very recently I managed to git my first super O’s. And they have been worthy. Only very recently I’ve realized what has been hindering me.

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So first of all, let’s think about what an aneros session is? The way I see it, it is an intimate session with yourself, with your mind. The toy is just a tool to bring awareness. The more awareness you have, the better.

What has been the biggest distractor for me and my progress? It’s porn. Watching porn (or even listening to it) during the session completely destroys any awareness or concentration, so it will never be able to help (unless you are already super rewired, maybe).

But the problem is porn itself. Even if you watch it before the session to get aroused, it takes your brain into an overdrive, which stays during the session. That means your own brain will probably be unable to create “free flow” of fantasies and mental images that actually lead to the super O. At least for me, when the brain starts streaming images of arousing things, my body and my mind seem to align in the same frequency, which starts the super O’s. I also think that porn makes you over-aroused which basically means you block yourself from non-penile orgasms. It’s like peeing with a boner. Very difficult. If you want to feel the flow, you need to be in a natural state. Read more »

Does chastity help to achieve prostate orgasms?

Sometimes I wear a chastity so I don’t masterbait. I want to focus on only using the aneros. With that being said, does it benifit the process of finding the super o or pleasure waves in general? I don’t wear it when I have an aneros session usually cause it’s distracting but I know overtime I could get used to it. Just wondering what some people’s opinions were on it.

How many of you switched toys on your path to the super-O? Aneros toys give me pleasant, subtle sensations; Lelo Hugo (no vibe, just muscles) brought me right to the edge of orgasm. Should I stick with one, switch em up, buy something new…?

Hi all!

About a year ago, my girlfriend and I wanted to explore prostate stimulation. So she bought me some forward-curved buttplugs (FunFactory), and I bought myself a Lelo Hugo during a sale. So I’ve had some experience with prostate stimulation (wasn’t seeking the super-O – I only thought of it as a way to enhance sex).

A couple months ago, I learned about Mindgasm and the super-O, and decided to dedicate time to it. I have some experience with meditation and I’ve done strength training for years, so muscle isolation and “mind / body” connection come pretty naturally to me. I started with no toy, just Mindgasm. I started having pleasure waves, which was very nice, and I began to feel very attuned with my body and my sexuality. This was honestly a very “spiritual” few weeks for me. I felt very “grounded.”

Then I bought a Helix Syn. I had some nice sessions with it, and it did help me learn my pelvic floor in a new way. But I wasn’t getting that “oomph”/”hit the spot” feeling that I remembered from my first toys. Just some nice waves – but I could feel an itch for something with more “reach” or more forward curve. So I bought the Eupho Trident (no Syn). This one was better, for sure – the longer reach absolutely hits me in a good place, which the Helix Syn does not. But it’s still frustrating – the sensations are so light and subtle, it’s hard to get that “satisfying” feeling. Read more »

Lots of newbies here, I love it! Read this:

Love seeing so many of you exploring the magical prostate side. Hope my experience can help some of you to achieve the famous super Os:

It took me about 1 full year to achieve it, but one thing you guys need to keep in mind is that super Os are part of a process. Call it rewiring if you want, I just don’t stick to the labels. You guys definitely need to pay attention to how your body responds to it. The phases, such as shaken legs, tense pelvic area, deep involuntary breathing are all paths to the super O. I see a lot of you saying here: “oh, I think I’ve gotten there!” There’s no “I think”. When you get to get a super O, trust me, you and your whole body will know.

My recommendation is: RELAX! insert the Aneros on you and clear your expectations. Clear your mind! Explore (gently) your nipples, forget about porn (it’s often a distraction).

Concentrate on your body and have fun! It may be a long journey but I guarantee, it’s 10000 worth the wait.
Soon your legs will be up, your body will be shaking involuntary and the Aneros will be throwing you around just like there’s a magical energy inside of you ready to burst out.

Enjoy the ride!

How to get past this phase?

So in my aneros sessions nowadays, my abs and body start involuntarily convulsing and contracting.

I read somewhere to relax your body when this happens.

Im trying to embrace them and let them happen but I end up becoming tenser and tenser. I tried breathing deeper but it doesnt help because tense abs make it really hard to breathe deeply to relax

Does anybody have any tips to relax fully when my body is involuntarily spasming like this?

I think I finally did it!

After messing around with my aneros for about two months, I feel every session brought me closer to the edge. I normally would either contract my muscle’s, or just move my legs, and let it naturally hit it. The other day, I started like normal, but decided to stop, to see how the do nothing approach would work. Oh my god, you can feel it just shoot through your body. I didn’t have to move, because my body was doing it all for me! It was such a strange feeling, because I’ve never “lost it” like that before. Either I was just laughing like a maniac, or I would have these low moans that turned into a scream. The only problem, is the sensations wouldn’t last long. I felt that mind blowing feel, but couldn’t keep going for longer than ten seconds. But, when I rubbed my nipple’s, it would come back pretty quick. Anyone know how to make it last longer? and does nipple play work for anyone else?