I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have three questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position on my knees with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them because my wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Question: Is this unusual and do you get addicted? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to have uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my next question. I have tried the do-nothing method, but I always end up with involuntary shaking. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it as it makes the Aneros massage my prostate which feels really good. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Sometimes I enjoy grabbing the Aneros and using it to manually massage my prostate harder than just letting it float. It feels good, but occasionally my prostate feels a little sore for a day thereafter. So, my last question is, can I harm my prostate by using more force to massage it? I don’t want to damage it. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!
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Felt only pain, no pleasure, what do I do?
New to using aneros, this was my third session. I felt a passive pain as the aneros was inside. The session lasted a little over an hour. I was leaking what I assume was seminal fluid, and quite a bit of it from contracting my sphincter but still felt no pleasure. What do I do?
Wet dreams with dry orgasm
I usually have 2 rest days between my Aneros sessions. I still have Aless sessions though but I don’t finish on those days(not that I could).
It happened twice now that when I went over 2 rest days and didn’t do any Aless that I would have a “wet” dream that night.
It was just like a wet dream and I woke up when I came but it was a dry orgasm. Both times I expected to find a mess but there was just some precum.
I’ve never had a prostate orgasm dry or else while awake but I guess these dry orgasms mean I am on the right track.
I am wondering if any of you have had this happen. Also what do you think about Aless on rest days? I am starting to think that it still somehow drains me.
What is a p-gasm?
Wanted to ask this group to get a better understanding on what a p-gasm/p-wave. I had a major breakthrough today. Today was my 3rd day in a row getting back into playing with my collection of aneros massagers: eupho, helix trident, and Maximus. It’s been about 2 months or so since I had played with any of them but have been practicing kegels trying to get “aless p-waves” but no progress or body shaking feelings. When I play I put the massager in a condom filled with lube (only this time I used water and silicon) and “twist” the condom opening to keep the lube in the condom. I think that this method allows the aneros to move freely in the condom. And then lube the outside of the condom for insertion. Using eupho and trident didn’t yield any results but I did start manually trying to activate my prostate so that I can be on a look out on what it feels like but not much progress. My two sessions were about 1.5-2 hours. However, today I used the Maximus. Session was about 3 hours. First 2 hours yielded nothing except for a good feeling full. Third hour was what I think was a breakthrough. The feelings were at times I felt like peeing, other times I felt a tingling feeling deep down in my center, other times I felt like I was on the verge of a traditional penile orgasm but always on the edge. Question to this group, does a p-gasm involve the same muscle contraction response like a penile orgasm? Every now and then, I would get the “body shivers” and fluttering. But didn’t have the whole kegel and body contractions like a normal orgasm. Without a doubt I really “bathed “ in the feelings and felt like I could go on forever. Any perspective from the experienced folks?
Should I train every day?
I’m in my rewiring process. I had some achievements like the good feelings in my pelvic regions, involuntary contractions and a HDWO.
BUT I haven’t had an Super O yet. I even don’t know if I had P-Waves or a Mini-O because I don’t really know what to expect / how they would really feel.
Actually I am using my aneros every day for about 1-2 hours. Most of the time I use headphones and binaural beats (because they help me to forget about my life around me and to keep me focused. Sometimes I am like in a trance). Like i said, sometimes a good feeling starts to build up. I feel the vibrations, the tickling spreading from my prostate to my whole body. My cock gets hard from one moment to another and I just feel good. But then (when I try to let go and just enjoy the feelings) it ends and the moment’s over. (And if I was in a trance-like state till then, it’s over too). So, that’s my situations right now.
My question is now: Do you think I should “train” everyday or just every 2 or 3 days? Does frequent practice desensitize my prostate? Or in general: do you have any tips for me? I try to be patient. I know that there’s hope for me 😉 but I think you all know the moment, when you think, you should just give up because it won’t happen to you. So THANKS for your help and your thoughts about my situation 🙂
My Journey
I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have two questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them. My wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Is this unusual? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to get to uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my other question. I have tried the do nothing method, but I always end up shaking, and I cannot control it. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!
The only lube you will ever need again (and it’s homemade)
Hi guys,
I’ve been aneros user for a couple of years and I’ve tried many different lubes without being completely satisfied. I found a nice recipe in aneros forums and I tweaked it to my liking. It is incredible, because the final result has the consistency of a vaseline and you also do not make any mess when you get it in. So here it goes:
* 5g shea butter
* 5g food grade bees wax
* 20g coconut oil
Heat it in a double boiler, or a microwave until everything melts, put it into a small plastic container and let it solidify in the fridge.
Now when it’s solid, I like to cut it up into long suppository like pieces (each piece enough for 1 session). When you cut it, store in the freezer.
The secret here is wax, which mixes with other fats and creates a superior texture when cooled down. You can play around with different oils and amounts as well, the only requirement here is to use bees wax.
Whenever I want to have a session, I just go to the freezer, take 1 piece, put it in, and wait a bit for it to melt. In this way I do not need any prelube shooters, and it all stays inside without me making a mess around my ass. I dont even coat my aneros, I just start working it in, and the lube is applied immediatly without any mess.
Extraordinary session with Traditional Aneros MGX!!!
Hi guys,
After an erotic night of off and on nipple diddling, my pump was primed for a session with my traditional Aneros MGX, perhaps my most favorite Aneros model, along with my traditional Aneros Helix and Program ICE right up there in satisfaction and sexual pleasure! First, I rode MGX for about fifteen minutes in the 7 o’clock hour near sunrise. However, I had a hankering to have an additional ride with MGX several hours later at 11:30 a.m. after arriving back from our neighborhood 7 Eleven with a delicious large cup of their mocha. My second session lasted a good twenty minutes. This time I concentrated on anal contractions and Kegels done in a leisurely, relaxed fashion. The Aneros Directions for Use recommends this approach. My prostate right now is exultant from this workout. It is purring in my Aless right now.
However, now I reflect on my intimate nipple and prostate connection. Most of my life I did not realize that my nipples are a treasure trove of eroticism until the Aneros came into my life at age 62 when I began working with the Aneros. My nipples really came alive in the weeks and months after my breakthroughs in mid September 2016 when I experienced my first Super-O’s and MMO’s. In early January 2017, I suffered a hip injury which required that I live in a rehab facility about six weeks. Lack of privacy there denied me of autoeroticism and my Aneros sessions. It was there as I recuperated that I could experience sexual pleasure through diddling my nipples. When I finally returned home in mid March 2017, I now had the privacy to resume my Aneros sessions and nightly nipple diddling in bed.
Aless Extraordinaire
My last full Aneros session was on Feb 25 in anticipation of a sigmoidoscopy procedure scheduled for March 4th. I’ve been riding on the Aless wagon ever since. This hiatus gave me a chance to try new ways of achieving prostate pleasures including the use of reverse Kegels and other methods.
Last night, my Aless session involved rubbing my perineum vigorously while diddling my nipples coupled with deep diaphragm breathing. Towards the end, I fully engaged my penis for an extended period of edging and then reverted back to my perineum/nipple play. I was very surprised as to how pleasurable the entire experience was.
After doing this for a few hours, I retired to bed (at midnight). As I lay in bed beside me very sound asleep wife, I was enjoying the tingling of my prostate area. Not asleep yet but drifting, suddenly, a massive wave of pleasure engulfed my entire body. This was undoubtedly an orgasm but not an earth-shattering one. It was more like calm seas but it lasted several minutes. The feeling then subsided only to return several minutes later but with even less intensity.
This had happened several times before but I was never sure if they were in my dreams or reality. Last night, however, confirmed that they are real and very pleasurable. So parts of my body could be asleep while others are busy at work!
Life is truly wonderful.
Starting out on the journey…
I literally got here in the strangest of ways. It started with a stop at a sex shop to purchase a pocket pussy. I decided to buy one of those $25 special wands on the side because I’ve put little objects in my butt while beating off before. Got home, used it while spanking, whatever. I felt like it wasn’t enough or there had to be more. Jumped online but didn’t do my homework so you know I then made my 2nd mistake (of sorts) and bought my first prostate massager. I’ll spare the details but it has a few pretty neat features and is a bit big. After purchasing this thing online I actually started doing my homework. Started looking at how some are aimed at beginners and others are aimed at more experienced only to discover my incoming toy is a bit large. Up until now, my experiences haven’t been anything more than my finger, maybe a sharpie, or that new wand so I knew I needed something a bit more friendly to start out.
This is where Aneros comes into my life. Reading several “best of” articles, I see the Helix time and time again and it’s being touted as a good product, and good for newbies such as myself. I ran back to the sex shop with the helix on my phone for verification, they were sold out, but their sister store had some Aneros products, but just not the Helix. I was committed. All that reading about butt play with amazing orgasms beyond what I had known, the drive into the city, and now this… So I bought the DeVice and once again did it without looking at dimensions.