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Some observations

Hi everyone – quick update on my journey these days.

– while aless has helped, I do find that being away from a massager has hindered my progress. I also notice that I need to ride more than a few times a week. Never really had consistent pwaves and definitely no super o or pgasm.
– whenever I feel like I may get a pwave I find that my breathing gets shallow instead of how other describes their experience as heavy breathing. I find the reason I do that is because I don’t want to lose that feeling of almost there. Does that resonate with others?
– because I haven’t really experienced pwaves or the super o. Question for the group. When you get either, is it only your cock twitching or does your whole pc muscle system contract like a real orgasm? If that’s the case, do your muscles clamp down on the massager? If so, you start with do nothing and end with total muscle clenching?
– lube method. I switched from using a lube injector because I find its a lot of clean up on the shooter as well as yourself. So I’ve read and started to use the condom method. Get the largest condom because you want the aneros to have rooms to move freely. The issue has been how to crimp the opening of the condom so lube doesn’t leak out. Now yesterday I had a surprise find. I ended up buying lamb skin condoms from Trojan just to see if there’s a difference. These condoms actually have a string that is used to secure the condom. Problem solved!

Dropping in

I’ve been using the Aneros on and off over the last probably 4 years now. Over the last year I’ve been going at it with some regularity and have been making good progress. I want to say that I’ve reached super-O. Writhing around on my bed, unable to control my moans, every cell in my body humming with pleasure, my ears ringing from trying to reorient myself. But I feel like there is more, mostly because I can feel myself not completely giving in and am interested to see what awaits when I get past that personal hurdle.

Recently, I’ve been doing more a-less work as I’ve been away from home. I saw u/-betch- ‘s post about their aneros journey. I found perusing the mindgasm site to be quite helpful. Watching their free videos was helpful as a guided meditation type video and to get me in the right mindset. As a person that’s familiar with the muscles down there, the real fun starts to begin when I just turned on some YouTube recommended prostate ambient music to listen to as I began to squeeze my aneros muscles and fantasize. I feel a slight buzz from my prostate and focus in on that. I try to use the ‘Big Squeeze’ from mindgasm but it’s not long before my body starts to take over as I’m breathing heavy, muscles contracting to build up this spark into an all consuming blaze. As the visual in my head goes on, I’m trusting into the air wildly, almost completely at my the whimsy of the orgasm. A nice bonus from a-less is the foreskin full of precum that comes after. A nice treat afterwards

Greatest pleasure I have ever felt and improvements in my life across the board.

I am a little over a year on my aneros journey and damn this shit is intense. Honestly have never had such sexual pleasure in my life. I have had some good penile orgasms in my life, but the intensity and duration of prostate pleasure is phenomenal. You have to be in the mood, but when they hit they are as crazy as people say they are. Its changed my whole perspective and understanding of sex and pleasure.

I think I am rewired so to speak. Within seconds upon insertion, I feel pleasure as my ass sucks the aneros into place. I exhale and immediately start breathing heavily. I then get these insane erections and the throbbing begins. Shortly after I get these pwaves that feel like orgasms in themselves over my pelvis and perineum. I then start to feel my prostate to start spasming similar to when you are ejaculating.

When I get horny now, its not just my dick, my whole pelvic region starts to tingle. My ass and prostate area get filled up with energy. Honestly sometimes just the thought of it makes me so aroused. There is this newfound desire to occupy my ass. Similar to the desire of wanting to bust a nut, my body now “wants” anal/prostate pleasure. Read more »

How many of you switched toys on your path to the super-O? Aneros toys give me pleasant, subtle sensations; Lelo Hugo (no vibe, just muscles) brought me right to the edge of orgasm. Should I stick with one, switch em up, buy something new…?

Hi all!

About a year ago, my girlfriend and I wanted to explore prostate stimulation. So she bought me some forward-curved buttplugs (FunFactory), and I bought myself a Lelo Hugo during a sale. So I’ve had some experience with prostate stimulation (wasn’t seeking the super-O – I only thought of it as a way to enhance sex).

A couple months ago, I learned about Mindgasm and the super-O, and decided to dedicate time to it. I have some experience with meditation and I’ve done strength training for years, so muscle isolation and “mind / body” connection come pretty naturally to me. I started with no toy, just Mindgasm. I started having pleasure waves, which was very nice, and I began to feel very attuned with my body and my sexuality. This was honestly a very “spiritual” few weeks for me. I felt very “grounded.”

Then I bought a Helix Syn. I had some nice sessions with it, and it did help me learn my pelvic floor in a new way. But I wasn’t getting that “oomph”/”hit the spot” feeling that I remembered from my first toys. Just some nice waves – but I could feel an itch for something with more “reach” or more forward curve. So I bought the Eupho Trident (no Syn). This one was better, for sure – the longer reach absolutely hits me in a good place, which the Helix Syn does not. But it’s still frustrating – the sensations are so light and subtle, it’s hard to get that “satisfying” feeling. Read more »

Lots of newbies here, I love it! Read this:

Love seeing so many of you exploring the magical prostate side. Hope my experience can help some of you to achieve the famous super Os:

It took me about 1 full year to achieve it, but one thing you guys need to keep in mind is that super Os are part of a process. Call it rewiring if you want, I just don’t stick to the labels. You guys definitely need to pay attention to how your body responds to it. The phases, such as shaken legs, tense pelvic area, deep involuntary breathing are all paths to the super O. I see a lot of you saying here: “oh, I think I’ve gotten there!” There’s no “I think”. When you get to get a super O, trust me, you and your whole body will know.

My recommendation is: RELAX! insert the Aneros on you and clear your expectations. Clear your mind! Explore (gently) your nipples, forget about porn (it’s often a distraction).

Concentrate on your body and have fun! It may be a long journey but I guarantee, it’s 10000 worth the wait.
Soon your legs will be up, your body will be shaking involuntary and the Aneros will be throwing you around just like there’s a magical energy inside of you ready to burst out.

Enjoy the ride!

How to get past this phase?

So in my aneros sessions nowadays, my abs and body start involuntarily convulsing and contracting.

I read somewhere to relax your body when this happens.

Im trying to embrace them and let them happen but I end up becoming tenser and tenser. I tried breathing deeper but it doesnt help because tense abs make it really hard to breathe deeply to relax

Does anybody have any tips to relax fully when my body is involuntarily spasming like this?

Finally getting somewhere! Here’s what worked for me!

I finally made a huge milestone today! I had several dry orgasms back to back for hours then I had the start of what I think are super Os.

I had been trying this for over a year but have only until recently been consistent (twice a week practice, 2 hour sessions roughly) before I would touch my dick when I’d be frustrated and saw no progress and thought that would hinder my progress but for some reason it didn’t. Earlier today I had a 2 hour long session, using the do nothing method. By do nothing I mean the first 20 minutes just sit there and don’t do anything, no contractions, just breathing. After that I do light contractions with my anus (the muscle you use to pinch off a poop) they were about 20-40 percent strength, then I would do light contractions with my dick (the muscle that cuts off the stream of pee) around 20-40 percent strength until I would almost reach a balance and I’d try to hold both light contractions in place, DON’T let your body tense up all the way and fully contract, that is not how you reach it. I held contractions for about 10 seconds until my body told me it’s time to calm down and try again in a couple seconds. Read more »

Am I having a pwave or a prostate orgasm?

I also posted in r/prostateplay but am hoping for some other opinions.

I lay on my side with top leg bent at roughly a 90 degree angle and my bottom leg almost straight. This is the position I generally sleep in so I find I can get very relaxed. I’ve been using an mgx trident. It always feels good, but at about an hour in, that’s when I really start feeling great sensations.

The sensation in question lasts for about 15-30 seconds and feels amazing, but I
don’t have muscle spasms, just a hot, tingly, glow feeling that radiates
from my prostate and feels like it envelopes my ass. I have a difficult time having more than one of these as it leaves my prostate with almost a numb feel afterwards. Not uncomfortable, but feels so “hot” that I can’t distinguish the different sensations I was earlier.

One reason I’m asking for clarification is a few times when something starts to feel really good, my heart rate speeds up dramatically, but then I lose it. The sensation I described above doesn’t increase heart rate very much, doesn’t have me breathing hard, and doesn’t give me muscle spasms.

I’ve read people talking about their involuntary body twitching and
their breath taking orgasms, and can’t help but think that the thing
I’ve been thinking is a prostate orgasm is just a pwave. Or am I having
prostate orgasms, just not a super o?

Thanks for your time, any information is very helpful.

I’ve been using my Progasm for a while, but I think I’m stuck. Advice?

I have a Progasm and I generally use it with silicone lube, applied both on the toy and rectally via a lube-launcher.

In all my sessions, I can feel the slight pressure from the Aneros on my prostate, but it is often subtle and hard to detect. Very strong kegel exercises can make the sensation a bit stronger, but that’s it.

I have decent control of my pelvic floor, and can generate twitches in my PC muscle easily enough; it doesn’t seem to work very well, though. I’m also familiar with diaphragmatic breathing from my vocalist training, but it doesn’t seem to produce much of a good response either (alone or in combination with my PC muscles.

I have the distinct feeling that I’m missing something.

I’ve read over the wiki without much insight. Most of the given techniques fail to produce much sensation, even when applied over long time periods.

So today I got profoundly stoned, put in my Progasm, and just tried to relax into things. So far it isn’t unpleasant, but I still feel like something isn’t quite lining up to get me beyond “this is mildly pleasant” territory.

Aless Extraordinaire

My last full Aneros session was on Feb 25 in anticipation of a sigmoidoscopy procedure scheduled for March 4th. I’ve been riding on the Aless wagon ever since. This hiatus gave me a chance to try new ways of achieving prostate pleasures including the use of reverse Kegels and other methods.

Last night, my Aless session involved rubbing my perineum vigorously while diddling my nipples coupled with deep diaphragm breathing. Towards the end, I fully engaged my penis for an extended period of edging and then reverted back to my perineum/nipple play. I was very surprised as to how pleasurable the entire experience was.

After doing this for a few hours, I retired to bed (at midnight). As I lay in bed beside me very sound asleep wife, I was enjoying the tingling of my prostate area. Not asleep yet but drifting, suddenly, a massive wave of pleasure engulfed my entire body. This was undoubtedly an orgasm but not an earth-shattering one. It was more like calm seas but it lasted several minutes. The feeling then subsided only to return several minutes later but with even less intensity.

This had happened several times before but I was never sure if they were in my dreams or reality. Last night, however, confirmed that they are real and very pleasurable. So parts of my body could be asleep while others are busy at work!

Life is truly wonderful.