After my last blog post I ended up ordering a big brother for my Helix Classic, the Progasm Black Ice. I had to have the Progasm after I read the forums and blogs people wrote about it felling fuller and the pleasure it can give you if it auto fu*ks you. When I received the Progasm it had been a couple of days since my last Aneros session. My prostate was telling me it was ready to try it out and I was amped up to try it. I was able to put it in without an issue and immediately felt the fuller feeling. I kept it in for an hour and my body didn’t do anything besides a little leg twitch here and there which I figured this session was to get to know my new friend. Unfortunately, the next five or so sessions with both my Helix Classic and Progasm I could only get the leg shakes and nothing else, no moaning, no orgasm…..
Tag: Breathing
I’m struck – they made it! Blog section is back and workin’? Really? Don’t dare to believe it! Congrats, Folks!
Hey, you find me speechless, just writing a comment on the forum, I wanted to test whether this forum isn’t still working, BUT IT IS WORKING! Hallelujah!
Well, after a fantastic lazy morning in bed, practicing the Clench & Hold breathing technique from “Urban Tantra” by Barbara Carrellas, one of the books that made my journey, I’ve already been soaked in precum and had some wonderful dry orgasms later. Then I continued my tease and denial weekend – ooh, sudden blue balls feeling here – edging from time to time until one to three drops of white seminal fluid appear on my piss slit, then stopping any teasing, washing my member and having breakfeast or doing some clean up. On Saturday I have had five ruined orgasms of that kind and today already three, by rights six, because during the last one quite dangerous edging session I made it to three ruined orgasms forming a series.
My horniness seems to be out of earth and my balls feel filled to the brim, heavy from their big load and sometimes ache a bit, but my extreme arousal is worth every little pain, that like just now increases my horniness even more.
As posted lateley, bro’s, keep on this side of the edge, stay horny at home and take care!
Congrats to the staff again, finally we have our blog section back, thanks a ton!
Mart
Never judge the PERIDISE by its look or size
Since getting into prostate play I had been experimenting with some different massagers. I suppose like most people starting out it did take many sessions, and some different techniques before I finally got to reach my first Prostate (or Super “0”) orgasm. That experience happened using the Helix Trident and was completely out of the blue. As usual (and where possible) I usually always try to take a dump before a session and on that particular evening I had been lying down (helix inserted) and I was going through my breathing and relax exercise. I happened to fall asleep when suddenly I was woken by a surging type of pleasure that appeared to be building from my anus and expanding out through my body. These pleasure surges continued until they came to a peak, and with a lot of body shaking and moaning I experienced my first prostate orgasm(s). It was long lasting and fantastic.
I also had some good results with using a butt plug, though I felt that these plugs are difficult to insert and remove, and the resulting PO is somewhat reduced by them. So I’m looking through the net and I happened to see an Aneros Peridise. Like from the image of the item it looked quite large and actually included 2 plugs. On reading about it I was surprised to find that apparently it will self vibrate even tho its just a solid piece of plastic like material with no means to get it vibrating? Anyway I placed an order and it duly arrived. At first glance I was kinda shocked by the small size of the plugs. I thought they were bigger –they looked bigger on the particular website. There are two plugs supplied. I suppose the larger one is for the man –and that’s the one I went for. As I looked at it I was saying to myself this thing is so small and not much is going to happen with it –it really looks like a small toy! Sometimes I will insert a plug when going to bed and enjoy an early morning pleasure session as I find this time to be the best for prostate orgasm arousal.
Now this Peridise has instructions and its basically to lube it well (which I done) and just insert the head of it into your anus, Apparently then you can contract your anal muscle(s) to draw it in further after insertion. I would normally sleep in T shirt and briefs and the plug felt very comfortable getting into bed. I was flexing my anus to get the plug to sit fully home. I fell asleep. I got woken a few hours later by –of all things- my legs shaking! I never experienced this before? Included with this was a building of pleasure, really strong and centered around my anus. Wanting to go back to sleep I turned in the bed to off-set this, but I was hit by more involuntary leg shaking and I really felt pleasure waves building. For some reason the leg shaking appeared to be setting off these strong waves. I felt that I couldn’t breathe properly. I was now wide awake and I was shaking along with the bed. Wave after wave was going right thru me. I was starting to moan and grip the top of the mattress with both hands. I was trying my best to obtain a position in the bed that might allow me more control over the situation. I remember feeling my briefs were wet and sticky – when suddenly my body went into a convulsion and I got hammered by a massive P wave.. OMG OMG.. Massive waves were hitting in quick succession. I really thought I was going to suffocate! For a second or two they stopped and I got more leg shaking and the waves repeated over and over again. I thought I could see flashing lights and felt my whole face going contorted. I was biting down on the pillow. OMG there is no let up.. There was so much pleasure packed into every one of these peak waves that I done my best to ride on every one of them . I got a quick look at the clock, and guessed I had been awake for about 40 mins. There was no let- up in the intensity of these orgasms. I just couldn’t take any more. The leg shaking was triggering them and I was going to have to pull out the plug. Otherwise it was going to be a vicious erotic circle that I just wasn’t able to handle. As I was reaching to take out the plug I got more leg shaking, and then it dawned on me “is this the way this device goes about self vibrating” –so it makes sure your anus /prostate is well messaged -fully and automatically? After the plug came out I lay there totally exhausted, and as I was drinking some water there were still little semi-orgasms firing off on their own that kept coming from my anus until I finally fell asleep.
In conclusion I should probably offer an apology to the Peridise for taking it at its face value and judging it by size and shape that it was nothing more than a simple toy. Now I’m convinced that this is the most powerful plug that to date I have ever used. It has the awesome power to literally bring me –a 12.5 stone man to my knee’s .
Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV
To Whom It May Interest,
Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.
from “Do Nothing” What does that mean?
Hi Guys,
Frequently mentioned on this forum is the “Do Nothing” method but what does this really mean? It doesn’t mean stick an Aneros up your butt and stop thinking about it as you go about your daily activities, nor does it mean you should ignore its presence as if you were anesthetized or asleep. It is really about taking a very passive approach to your Anerosessions. It is one of the techniques found in the Relaxation group versus Sexual frenzy group.
I’d like to expand upon that description a bit. Most descriptions of techniques one may employ during their Anerosessions are of the Sexual frenzy group and involve rhythmic (or mixed rhythmic/static) contractions of different pelvic floor muscles combined with breathing techniques and stimulation of “erogenous hot spots”. These are what constitute very active approaches.
Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III
The following is a copy of the Personal Message I tried to send to new Forum members prior to the switch to the new forum format. Unfortunately, I’m not able to track new members now so I’ll only be able to communicate this information sporadically.
Hi Guys, 
Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday. Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video formerly available on the Aneros website interesting and informative as well.
Finally, I encourage you to listen to these two podcasts #9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros & Super Size Your Orgasm, w/ Emily Morse & Forrest Andrews (on sexwithemily.com).
Supernatural experiences?
Hi all.
I’ve mastered the super Os for about a year now but lately every time I play with my Aneros (supported by a bit of weed and poppers) it seems like I am having intense abnormal experiences.
Last night was definitely the strongest one. After a crazy super O, I was able to notice that my body was extremely sensitive, not only by sensations, but pretty much open in a supernatural way…. Kinda hard to explain but it almost felt like my soul had literally disconnected from my body, which let to some sort of godly, religious, don’t know how to explain, type of connection.
One of the most vivid moments was when I was breathing so heavily, that I checked my heartbeat many times to make sure everything was OK.
At the same time it was horrifying, I kinda wanted to keep going, to the point where I was too curious to see what was next.
Wanted to see if someone else has felt that way or experienced something similar.
A beginner that discovered a jump pad to great sessions with my Progasm.
First the disclaimer, I’ve only been serious about this journey for about couple of months. My fist toy was the Progasm and love it but wanted to experience other toys and see what they have to offer. I also bought an Edge 2. Last night I was extremely horny after watching porn on and off all day and been abstinence for about a week I went a different route and it paid off big. This route is something that I haven’t really seen talked about yet so I figure if anyone is struggling they can have a different play to try to get them into the red zone. So he is my break down.
Just a little heart broken
So after realising weed and poppers were a short cut to the Super O I’ve been working on calming techniques and recently managed several super O’s with just meditation breathing and the do nothing technique… I was thrilled and amazed. Ok it takes longer than vaping a little weed, but it’s awesome to do this stone cold sober.
And now my wife say’s she finds the whole thing ‘ick’ and thinks I don’t want her. Which is odd given we still have an active sex life and she’s previously been supportive of my quest or at worst neutral. Kind of sucks to find someone you hoped to share this with finds something so wonderful (to me) ‘ick’.
So we’ve talked. At length. She isn’t asking me to stop. But she doesn’t want me doing it when she’s home (which is a major block on play time as she’s almost always home). She doesn’t want me to talk about it either.
I view this as controlling behaviour and while I am not angry at her I am deeply saddened by her U turn. And quite hurt. I really don’t want to wind up resenting someone I’ve given 20 years of my life to – and I also don’t want to give up Prostate orgasms.
Trouble getting pleasure from prostate stimulation, even with the best toys out there
I’d like to start this out by explaining I am no newbie when it comes to anal play—I’ve been sticking stuff in there for years. The problem is, I have never felt pleasure from this stuff, be it my fingers, a dildo, a vibrator, or a fixed-length insert.
With toys like the Aneros, I can lay there for hours doing the PC and anal contractions and breathing muscles to move the toy, but I feel absolutely no pleasure. I mean, it doesn’t feel BAD, but still, nothing. I have read every guide out there. If I keep it in while I have a traditional orgasm, it makes it much better.
With vibrating inserts like the Lelo Hugo, I can sit there doing contractions or breathing exercises while it vibrates inside, but it just feels like vibrations deep inside—no pleasure.
With curved dildos like the Nioy Pure Wand, I can’t even locate my prostate. All I feel is pressure when I push upwards. When I insert far enough, I hit some sort of wall (where I need to curve the toy upward to insert it farther, but I’m assuming that’s too far to hit it, anyway) and when I pull it out, I feel nothing but pressure. Not even the peeing sensation that I’ve read about commonly. If I move it too fast, my body literally tries to push it out like going to the bathroom.
Success! Questions. Confusedish? Newbie Post.
TL;DR: Do I have superpowers now?
Prelude – Last Friday I decided to start experimenting with mindgasm, I’ve experimented before but I feel as though I’ve failed to truly identify my prostate as a, or rather the primary sexual organ. Reading the posts there and here led me to really desire focusing on and expanding these feelings. On Tuesday my Aneros (progasm ice) arrived, I certainly felt a massive difference in stimulation from that and any other toy I have used previously… everything until this point has felt good (like my other experiments) but nothing really clicked. Untill….
Yesterday morning… I had previously read about sleeping as a method to relax and experience. Around 130am when the wife left lubed up and laid back down to sleep for a few more hours. I fell asleep, and I specifically remember mid dream I was feel great, but it pulled me out of the dream save for a rogue voice that I clearly heard say “until you learn to relax you will never be able to use this perfectly designed too to its fullest extent. Snap back to reality, I do wake up to great sensations but my exploration quickly killed the connection which I could not then recreate…