Tag: Breathing

Buzzing all the time now

A bit of background!

I’ve been exploring prostate play almost daily for the last two years. I started out with a 4-sized plug kit—the same plugs I first had a super-o with at my initiation into prostate play when I subbed for a femme hookup. It was an incredible experience to spend hours just slowly massaging and working up.

I’ve never had the same super-o again, but have learned so much and rewired extensively with other plugs and toys. For a while, I have been hooked on anal orgasms that come from thrusting and girth.

But I missed the delicacy that lead to the super—o. I got a progasm last week, and the sessions are incredible.

During a lot of anal play in the past, I wouldn’t get an erection at all. I would leak, and have p-waves, and sometimes dry o’s.

With the progasm, I am rock hard almost the entire time. I didn’t know I could leak that much seminal fluid. I’m a wet mess after 30 minutes of just breathing and light kegels.

Better yet, it feels so much healthier? My prostate is buzzing all the time. Every day. All day. There’s an extremely comforting relaxation and stretch that remains after my sessions.

I think I’m going to hang up my other toys for a while! I just feel so connected to my own body these days, and am really impressed with how well the progasm is shaped to turn me into a mess

Getting and staying turned on without porn or masturbating

I just got my first aneros. So far I haven’t been able to get anywhere, I mostly just lay and clench the muscles am with very little sensation. From the sound of it it seems like I need to be turned on before starting but shouldn’t masturbate or use porn. For the time I was turned on when I started, I ended up just being in meditative state and relaxed (and not turned on any more) as I focused on my breathing, muscles and body sensations.

Any advice would be great

Another day, another HFWO

So today took two sessions (helix syn trident) to finally make any sort of progress. The second time, I did some light nipple play, which immediately cause a warm tingly sensation down in my pelvis. Despite trying to control the excitement with my breathing, I ended up getting hard and having a HFWO (which felt pretty spectacular, I must say).

The question, though, for me remains… I have no idea how/when/if it will cross over from those sensations leading to a HFWO to those that lead to something dry and more intense…

My adventures so far

Hi everyone,

28 year old virgin here. Thought I’d share my journey that I have had with prostate play over the past two to three-ish months. No guarantee that any of these steps will work for you. it is just my personal experience. Also I really hate labeling super-o’s or prostate orgasm. As I believe some people miss out or not realize they’ve had one. As they expect them to be exactly like other peoples experiences. My reminder to anyone struggling; just go with what feels pleasurable don’t try to label it.

I first got interested in prostate play because I was disappointed that supposedly only women can have multiple orgasms. I was raised in a very conservative religious home so it has taken me a while to discover things. I am still learning sex related things to this day. I came across the fact that the prostate is the male equivalent to the female g-spot. My Interest was piqued but of course it had the taboo of mostly being accessible through the exit only hole. After mulling it over in my head for multiple months and seeing a reddit post about how its natural to pleasure ones self via anal. I went for it. Read more »

Where are my sensations on a scale from 1 to 10?

I have a question on where I am at in the journey?

I inserted the Helix and watched TV for about 1/2 hour. Once in a while I would do a mild kegel and get good feedback but mostly tried to ignore it.

Next step was to turn the TV off and lay on my stomach. Started holding half strength kegels. At some point my body took over and I started shaking. Weird feeling. After a bit, my body fully clinched on the Helix without any effort on my part to tighten. I mean really clinch, my innards and my core muscles were as tight as I can imagine. I would force myself to relax and catch my breath. After about 5 seconds I would go into another half strength kegel and hold it. My body would take over and go back into the fully clinched mode. It was great. I did that over and over until I was to exhausted to keep going.

When I was in a fully clinched state, it felt great but I don’t know what condition I was in? Body O, Supper O, Just feeling great?

Prostate further forward tips?

I have a progasm ice and I can kinda feel some things just leaving it in and following the breathing or muscle exercising people recommend here. But I’ve recently noticed that when I put something like a rolled up towel between my perenium and the tab it feels MUCH better and I can kinda grind my hips and get results.
I think my prostate is just further in than most like towards my penis instead of upwards. Does anyone have any tips or a better model for this? The towel method kind of works but it’s not the most comfortable or practical method.

Breakthrough dry orgasms with no toy involved! Holy Crap

I had at least 3 unexpected strong dry orgasms without the use of any toy!  I had smoked a little and drank a few beers and was pretty buzzed and sleepy…not aroused in the least.

I went to bed and laid on my right side and accidentally “brushed my cock with my hand” and I felt a STRONG sensation in my prostate and I felt an orgasm building quickly …I had no toy…I was ready to go to sleep and WHAM! I clenched my PC muscles and felt the warm sensation rushing through my body. It was a very strong dry orgasm…my penis never got hard and it lasted maybe a solid minute or so. When it was over I lay there breathing heavy and enjoying the after glow, and here it came again!  I never tried to create these sensations but there was no ignoring what was happening.   My body tensed and I felt a wave of intense pleasure controlling my whole body a second time..and then a third time,..NO TOY or intentions of this happening to me.

I have no idea what made this happen but I hope it does again.  Do not give up on your journey. I have been using Helix Syn and Progasm Ice for the last year with pleasant results but nothing like I felt last night without any toy….

First Aneros Experience – Decimated by the Progasm

Last night I had my first experience with an Aneros toy – the Progasm Ice – and was absolutely decimated.

A few months ago I learned about prostate orgasms and impulse bought a vibrating massager on amazon. It was my first time experimenting with anal play and felt great. I experienced involuntary convulsions and light p-waves, but nothing close to an orgasm. The sessions were fun, but after about 45 minutes the vibration would make my prostate numb with over-stimulation.

I learned about Aneros after a few weeks of using it and started to learn more about how to improve technique. A few weeks ago, I tried using the massager without the vibration at all, and relied only on my rectal muscles. I immediately realized that the vibration wasn’t necessary and broke new grounds of pleasure. I’m not sure if I can use definitive terms for what I felt, but it was much more powerful and long lasting than the p-waves and involuntary convulsions I had before. Immediately after that session, I ordered a Helix Syn and Prograsm Ice online.

I’ve never been more excited for something to come in the mail. Since I started prostate play, I’ve been more aware of how horniness manifests in the prostate. The rewiring of my brain was becoming noticeable, and I kept getting the feeling that my prostate was begging for another session. Yesterday I checked my email and saw that the package had been delivered. I immediately got butterflies in my stomach, and my prostate began to swell. I opened up my Helix Syn first and admired its craftsmanship. It was a bit smaller than expected, but I knew from reading on these forums that size doesn’t matter. Read more »

Major progress!

I’ve been playing with the Aneros for about a year, reading in and learning a lot from these forums, but have never contributed. Sorry in advance for the lengthy post, but after yesterday’s amazing session, I just have to share a few useful things I learned. 

First, some background. Before yesterday, I’d had a lot of great sensations, some involuntaries, but no dry or prostate orgasms. Most sessions ended with a sort of supercharged penile orgasm, sometimes HFWO (always a thrill.) Yesterday was my first truly mindblowing, holy shit experience. Here are few reasons I think it was successful. 

The house was empty. Especially during the pandemic, I almost never have time totally to myself. Yesterday, my wife was out of town, and kids were busy all afternoon. I had the house to myself and could really relax and let go, with no time pressure at all. 

Smoked weed. I took three or four deep hits off the vape. It helped a lot, in terms of relaxing and really feeling my body. 

Edged. In the days before the session, I’d watched a good amount of porn, so I was already super turned on and ready to go. 

Exercised. Before starting, I did several sets of pushups, and some long, deliberate yoga poses, with deep stretches and very slow, very deep breathing. It made my body feel alive and really got the blood flowing. Then I got in bed, on my back with knees up, and inserted the Helix. Almost immediately, I started feeling a tickling and a warmth spreading through my pelvis. Within minutes, the first in a seemingly endless series of mini-Os, which had me moaning, stomach clenching, thrashing.  Read more »

Aless-session with Mindgasm files

Hi, I had a interesting aless session last night. I couldn’t sleep and put the 6th Mindgasm file on my earphones. Despite the file tells you to relax completely while feeling for those fluttery feelings, I felt involuntary contractions. After a while I got into warm tingly feeling territories but I noticed I kept tighten the belly muscles kinda hard despite trying to stay completely relaxed. Breathing in deep and relaxing those muscles and the feeling was gone.

So far I can easily get involuntary contractions to start. But even while being horny I can’t find a way to get into the pleasure zone….

Another thing about the Mindgasm files: I still can’t find that imaginary “top” muscle above the penis. Any secrets to share? It really drives me nuts to read that people who got this, can reach orgasm easily and far more important repeatedly and prolonged.

Oh and btw: shivers down my back (like if it is cold, but without low temperatures) are a kind of pleasure wave or not? I had that a few times in different sessions at normal room temperature. Just wondering if that could be atleast the beginning of a pwave?