Tag: Breathing

The journey starts

My journey started last night, and I’m going to document it here in hopes the Aneros community will comment and help my discovery. Here goes….

Background on me….42M, pretty fit as I do yoga and CrossFit 6x a week. I have dabbled in anal before, but I didn’t even know prostate massage was a thing. My sex drive is way higher than my wife’s, and to satisfy those urges I jerk off…a LOT actually. I’m also dabbling in erotic Hypno with good results, I HFWO regularly.

Last month I stumbled across the Aneros forum and it spoke to me. I had to try it and ordered the helix syn trident, and spent the next week waiting for delivery and reading everything I could find about technique and what to expect.

I was practically shaking with anticipation, and I know I shouldn’t have expectations, but deep down I thought I’d be a natural because of my yoga and hypno training…that had to shorten the learning curve, right? Honestly, I was a bit scared. How intense was this going to be? My wife sleeps in another room because I snore, and doesn’t know I’m doing this (that woman can have multiple O’s on demand…this is about me!!). Read more »

Involuntary contractions: slow or fast?

I have a quick question about involuntary contractions. I can get my body to do them, but it requires a certain amount of focus to maintain that balance where my muscles do the contractions automatically. My question is: do people mostly orgasm from the contractions speeding up (i.e. thrusting) , or can you orgasm through the slow good feelings that come out of simply focusing and breathing without any contractions? THANKS!

Did i have a mini orgasm?

So, tonight was my first time. So I stood there doing the exercises with the aneros for like 1 hour. My legs started to shake and i got feeling of just breathing rapidly. So my question is did i have a mini orgasm? can you go further? Sorry for my bad english, trying to learn

P-waves and Big O without Progasm inserted?

I (61 M) am new to prostate play. In fact I did not know it was a thing until a couple of months ago. I’ve done some anal play with dildos and butt plugs in the past .
.and my wife and I tried pegging. We only did it a couple of times because she wasn’t fond of doing it.

I got a Progasm about 3 week ago. I’ve been using it a couple of hours a night about 4-5 times a week.

I started getting P-waves after the first few days and I think I am getting close to the big O. The last few times my abdomen and legs started contracting on their own and I felt like I was just about to go over the edge. I ended up breathing hard and my heart was racing at the end.

Last night I didn’t insert it but did some contractions anyway. I started getting P-waves and started up the rollercoaster but didn’t get to the top, as before. This went on for 30 minutes. I’m going to try again tonight with the Progasm in place.

Do others experience the Big O without extrinsic stimulation?

A-less Dry orgasm?

Well last night was a lot of fun. Smoked some weed with my wife and went to bed. Feel like I woke up a few hours later with the strong buzzing so I decided to ride it out and really get to know those sensations. This whole thing probably went for three hours with a lot of peaks and valleys, could feel the shortening of breathing and how a breath in/out affects the sensations. Also realized how those kegel exercises help out with this, I thought of it similar to a wind up toy (when the buzzing was subsiding, I’d do some quick squeezes to start it all up again). Also the various fantasies/memories of all the sexy kinky encounters had such an amazing impact on the session. Then at the peak, I felt like I came but was for sure dry, I didn’t feel any dampness but it felt like a normal release. This is a huge milestone for me! Made more progress without the aneros than the past few sessions I’ve had.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

Total n00b to all this ass play, but I think im a natural. Did I set some kind of rewiring record?

I had intense euphoria my first use of the Helix syn starting from the first inch being inserted. kept up for an hour plus some minor O’s that took my breath away and made me a clear believer.

Next session a couple days later used a program Jr instead of the helix syn. Dry orgasms started coming repeatedly within 10 minutes of trying different positions. These happened over and over again for over an hour till I couldn’t take anymore. Found some positions paid off more than others.

3rd night the prograsm Jr again. within short order i went from nonstop O’s to full on Super Os that came in waves and made me hope my wife didn’t come downstairs because I looked like I was having seizures while moaning dirty talk to my self like a freak in heat lol. always found porn dirty talk kind of corny but I was talking to myself and the aneros like I was a bitch in heat I was so overwhelmingly turned on. at 45yo, never been this turned on in my life. thinking about nothing but my own body sensations. This goes on for 2 hours, some Super Os leaving me breathless and contorted… it’s exhausting lol.

4th night felt good but didn’t really
stimulate the same for some reason.. no orgasms. wondering if I overdid and numbed things so I took a one day break. Read more »

Constant PC muscles flex is showing some results…

Hi. Until my last session, my prostate play with the Aneros was always being performed in one of this two ways: a) keeping my PC and anal muscles totally relaxed, or b) clenching and releasing intermittently, with a rather fast pace.

Then, user u/shavedyng told me, on this same subreddit, a third approach to prostate play. Flexing my PC muscles just a bit, and holding them for several minutes. Then releasing (breathing) and again, flexing them at 10% and holding it.

A couple of days ago, I did it this way. At least, I tried. First I waited until I was really horny, and then I inserted the Aneros in my butt. To be honest, I wasn’t able to calibrate the contraction at 5 or 10% and I think I was flexing the muscles at 30-40%, but still I tried my best to not clench heavily like I used to do.

Then, I waited… After 20 or 30 minutes, I started to feel good, better than other times, and for just a few seconds I felt, for the first time in my life (after years of prostate play), how my anal muscles started to contract rhythmically by themselves. The involuntary movements. I couldn’t believe it was happening… but I lost my focus and after 3 involuntary contractions, it stopped.

This brought a bit of hope to my journey, honestly. Whenever I read people talking about those involuntary contractions I honestly couldn’t believe it. Now I know it is real, the only question is how long they can last… Read more »

I just had one of my best sessions – but my aneros wasn’t even in…

So last night I smoked a joint and got super high. To combat the paranoia I laid in bed and meditated. Then I thought of something arousing and felt some involuntaries. Then I started contracting my sphincter and PC muscles. Instead of focusing on the arousing thoughts I focused on the feelings they produced. This turned into a cascade of good feelings that just took my breath away. I played with the balance of my contractions to try and hold in that sweet spot and that produced more good feelings.

I’ve posted here before about my helix being a little but painful/uncomfortable in my sphincter area maybe due to the fact that I tend to contract real hard. But this time since there was no aneros, I felt no pain/discomfort so I was able to concentrate fully on the good feelings instead of being distracted by the bad.

Even now as I sit here drinking my morning coffee I can get some nice sensations from contracting.

Can someone enlighten me as to what’s happening here?

Am I too short to play with aneros?

I recently bought aneros helix syn trident and had around 4 sessions. It was ok, I wouldn’t really describe as “fun” nor pleasurable, am I doing something wrong? I mostly didn’t feel anything so I was wondering if my height was the issue, you see, as an unusually short guy who is only 5’4″. It does feel good and I’ve started to get familiar with feeling my anus but not as fun. IDK man all my sessions I relaxed, breathing deeply and pay attention to small good feeling sensations, it does happen from time to time. Should I give up and try another product instead?

What exactly is a P-Wave?

I’m getting really far on my journey. Had a major breakthrough today with my Helix Classic! I’ve been using the Aneros check list to track my progress. It’s been really helpful. I pasted it below. But my question is: what is a P-wave. I’m sure by this point, I’ve experienced it, but just not totally sure how to define it. Can anyone help answer?

Also, I got a hold of those recordings that someone named Brian did, so helpful, (I found links to them on here somewhere, but can’t remember where). I think these recordings are what put me over the top today. If anyone knows his handle, I’d like to thank him!

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