Tag: Breathing

Prostate Massage Orgasm

As the dimensions of my sexual response are intertwining and evolving I find myself thinking a lot about the nature of my sexual pleasure. So it was earlier this week on my drive home that I had plenty of time to ponder on the complexity of my experience of erotic bliss. The inspiration was an intimate liaison I had the night before.

As a guy I am biologically programmed to see erotic pleasure as an external thing. My psyche is hard wired to experience pleasure as a joined visual and physical event; in both visual and physical perspectives my sexual pleasure is experienced predominantly through my cock. The sight of J alluringly nude, or a guy with an erection illicits an immediate physical response; my cock hardens and lengthens and the welcomed erotically warm desperate itch of arousal caresses my cock and tugs on it. As arousal tugs on my cock it fills it with the tingling urge to cum; visual pleasure evokes physical pleasure. That physical pleasure is centered pretty much on my cock. When I fuck, or when my cock is being massaged or sucked my pleasure from orgasm is generally focused on ejaculation whether it is in the caress of warm wet pussy or a sucking mouth. Read more »

Memory of Frotting

It took me until my 60th year to come to grips with my bisexuality. It was always lurking just below the surface but it took until I was sexually confident and wise enough to let my demon out of its box. In all the tests I have self administered on line, I come out 70 – 30; seventy percent hetero sexual and thirty percent homosexual. I find it elegantly erotic that I can be aroused by a man or a woman or even myself with no one.

While I have shared the exquisite erotic sexual pleasure of women for most of my life, I have also recently come to enjoy the exquisite intimacy of sharing pleasure with men, first on line then in person. The on line experience hardened my cock as I exposed my most secret forbidden urges to men on line in chat and eventually in real time on camera. As we exchanged mutual mental and visual images of lurid desires and homoerotic lust our cocks grew hard in our separate silent spaces. Expressing things that we could never say in person or look each other in the eyes as we said them, sharing fantasies, safely separated by distance and media provoked our cocks to harden and eventually to erupt for each other’s visual enjoyment. Some of the stimulation to ejaculate was visual but I venture a guess that much of the reason for my hot eruption of cum was the admission of vulgar desire and the raw male beauty of his sexual arousal. Seeing his rigid cock pumping ropes of cum inspired my own cascade of hot semen. Read more »

My first bllog entry

I came to bed. My wife was already in bed, resting. I politely suggested that I would like to try out my Aneros Helix again, and continue my experiment. I didn't ask for any participation, just permission to give it a go and continue my experiment.

First, I got all my supplies. Then I began my mindfulness meditation. Got very comfortable and warm in bed, under the warm duvet. Then once I was really warm and really relaxed, I began. I prepared "the area" with a proper amount of lubrication. I lubricated the Helix. And slid it in.

I took the time to become comfortable. I became aware of the Helix inside. I continued my mindfulness meditation, focusing on the breath, and I became totally relaxed and warm and focused with no distractions. No sounds. No visual distractions. Completely quiet. At peace. Very Quiet. I slowed my breathing way way down. Then once comfortable, I began my muscle contractions. I lay on my back and gently move a big pillow under my lower-back, with my knees bent and my feet flat on the bed. I begin my contractions and releasing, in sync with my breathing. I thrust my hips up and down with my contractions and breathing rhythm. I breath in, contract, raise hips. Hold. Breath out, release lower hips. Pause. Then repeat. Not too forceful. Gently. Very gently. Just getting into a rhythm. In sync with my breathing and my contractions. I do a "set", Nice and slow, breathing in and out slowly, focusing on the breath and focusing on the contractions. Read more »

long layoff and transitioning

As seems to be the case for me since I started this journey is finding the time and the privacy to be able to relax and enjoy. It has been four weeks since my last session, lost a week to a nasty virus and then it took three weeks before i had the house to myself with three hours alone. Started with the helix synn same as usual things started out nice got relaxed got some good prostate pulsing going and things calmed down. Rolled over on my back and started with nipple stim and slight touching of the tip of my cock like I have been doing. Things got going good like usual and my prostate swelled and pumped and a pool of ejaculate came out of my soft cock. Instead of getting up like in the past i layed there and relaxed and was still getting some nice feelings. I stuck my finger in the pool of cum and rubbed some on the tip of my cock on the under side. I started to get hard and began nipple stim and light touching of my cock tip again. Got up to a full erection and felt like I was going to cum again and then had a incredible anal dry orgasm 10-15 hard contractions like I have never felt before. It could of possible gone on longer but i think i stopped it by being so supprised. Two days later had another window of time Used my high island health model PS New supposed to be good for taller men, slightly longer. Similar results as last time. although the build up was much longer, did not touch the cock this time only nipple stim. My legs where lightly trembling and abdomen shivering for about twenty minutes with waves of prostate pulsing that would come and go but no orgasm. I did not want to lay there and shiver for an hour so i started with the light stimulation of only the tip of the underside of my cock again along with nipple stim. The wave started immediatly cock started getting hard and the feeling of ejaculation started to build, my prostate pulsed 3 or 4 times and released a pool of semen but not in spurts like a normal cum, then I went immediatly into a incredible anal dry orgasm I was making breathing and moaning noises like i have never done before my ass was convulsing and it felt like the Aneros spun around a few times (but i know it did not) I did not think it was going to stop and my anal muscles got fatigued. I had a tear running out of my eyes from them watering. I have no idea what is going on but I think i might be transitioning. I am still getting a release of what appears to be excess cum and then going into a dry anal orgasm. At least that is what I think is going on or I am having some other major form of traditional orgasm like I have never experienced before. Looks like I will have another opportunity later this week to try again. The goal will be to go hands free for as long as possible and hopefully I will cross over to the other side. If not i am sure it will be worth it.

A Self-Challenge: Do-Nothing Session

I have been reading about the "Do-Nothing" Session and decided to try one. It was a quiet evening and I was expecting……nothing! Boy was I wrong!

Let me explain…

Here were the simple ground rules:

-Absolutely no anal contractions!

-Must lie in the same position perfectly still

-Normal breathing throughout

-Minimum time: 45 minutes

Following this initial phase, contractions will be permitted as in a regular session. However, the same position must be maintained. Simple, right?

Here's how this session unfolded:

PHASE 1=
I lubed up, inserted the helix and assumed a right side position which felt very comfortable. I was in bed naked but with the covers drawn so as not to be chilly.

All was going well for about 5 minutes when I noticed an involuntary "twitching" in my rectum alternating with some very powerful involuntary abdominal contractions. These abdominal contractions were completely unexpected and powerful and I reacted to each one with an audible moan. They occurred on a fairly regular basis for about 15 to 20 minutes or more. With every "twitch" and contraction, the prostate was getting a "jolt" from the helix. So much for "do-nothing" huh? It seems that the prostate just wouldn't stand for "nothing" (is this part of the re-wiring process?)

Around the same time, although I was covered and warm, I developed an uncontrollable shaking head to toe. This was also quite unexpected. The shaking lasted about 5 to 10 minutes I believe and eventually subsided. Read more »

Success after much trial and error. Don’t give up!

Hello everyone,

I got my first aneros a little more than a year ago, and my experience with it has definitely had it’s ups and downs (heyo). I have the original helix classic as well as later acquiring the progasm (I’m rather tall so I figure it might hit my prostate better). Anyway, I essentially tried pretty much everything in the book: do nothing, contractions in rhythm with my breathing, taking a bath/yoga before a sesh, hypnosis, etc. You name it, I’ve probably tried it. Having seen many posts about not trying to force the issue and what not, I decided to get really serious about the process and refrain from any sort of penile contact for a week. In this time period, I did about 2-3 aneros sessions (without any sort of climax) before eventually getting too aroused and finishing in the traditional way. This week definitely did help “awaken” new sensations. Read more »

First mini-o?

I think I reached a milestone today, felt so good. This is probably about my 7th session?

I was lying on my back for this one. I’ve been doing some contraction exercises and deep breathing, and I put it in this morning because I was all relaxed from sleeping and horny, my libido always peaks in the morning.

I’m pretty sure they worked because around the 1 hour mark I was on my back riding the aneros while doing some contractions and pleasure started to build up and it felt really really good.

Then my ass clenched and I felt what was VERY like a traditional orgasm before you ejaculate but more based where my perineum was and it felt absolutely great! Lasted about the same length of time too, I dripped a lot of precum out too and then it started to die down and I felt quite calm again.

I played with it a bit more but it didn’t reach that level again. I did start getting quaking muscle shakes that rocked the bed without a huge amount of pleasure, still felt nice. I took it out and my anus was still contracting and acting as though the aneros was in there and it still feels good in there about 20 minutes later :P.

What do you think, have I had a mini-o? What are you experiences of them?

Progress -Trying new things with my sessions

Ive had several sessions since my last post- a few were noteworthy for one reason or another.
On one occasion the anticipation of having the house to myself was such a delicious feeling. I began having aless in the car on the way home just thinking about the session I was going to have. When I had finally prepped I remember really savouring the insertion of the progasm- my ass was SO HUNGRY for it and at about halfway it just sort of gulped and pulled it in tight and involuntarily clenched down on it. It was all I could do to try to relax and breathe.
Another session I used the HypnoAneros tracks for the first time instead of watching porn and found it to be a real turn on.
All of my sessions now culminate in heavy leaking without erection, many p waves and deep aching deliciousness and euphoric surges often with a wonderful warmth in my heart region. Many times I will let the progasm do its thing while I concentrate on breathing deeply-and then at some point manually stimulate my perenium to climax.
I always enjoy aless for a day or so after my sessions now too.
Am seriously considering adding some variation with a new model -perhaps a Eupho or Helix Syn . Will be trying shea butter as a new lube instead of the KY and other things I have tried. Coconut oil has been good to me too -but I have cleaned out my wifes supply in a short time..

Just one problem

I've had 20 or so sessions feel like I'm close. I just figured out that when I pull my helix syn in just slightly, the smallest amount I can, it helps, but it's hard for me to concentrate on breathing, relaxing, enjoying myself, and pulling it in slightly all at the same time.

Has anyone else had that problem? Is there a position that would work better for me? I've been lying on one side mostly. I'm tall so maybe it's just slightly too short for me.

Sorry for the clicky-baity title. I wasn't sure what to write.

A Less Nirvana

I was born and raised in New York City. At 11 years old I learned how to ride the NYC subway and figure out where it took me. From that point on the greatest city in the world was my oyster. Almost every week from then until I was 18, I used the magic carpet of the subway to take me to some new neighborhood, street or destination that needed discovering.

For all the hundreds of places I was in the City in those years and the hundreds more that I have been there since then, there are still many, many more places that I have yet to discover and visit. New York is a large city and there are thousands and thousands of fascinating and diverse places each promising its own nuanced experiences. Even today when I go to NYC I am always finding someplace new and exotic to experience that I have never been before.

I have come to realize that my experience with MMO is just like my experience of NYC. The Aneros is my subway system. Every time I insert I am transported to some new place and each of those places has a nuanced sensation of ecstasy. A few years into my MMO journey I learned to do A Less MMO’s; these subtle and elegant orgasms are yet another part of my orgasmic landscape that beseech me to visit frequently. I have been doing massager less MMO’s for many years now. The last couple of years I have been doing them just about every night. That translates to 500 sessions more or less each year. It continues to amaze me that each one of those sessions is distinctly different. And just like a trip to NYC, each time I get on the orgasm train I find a new stop with different sensations and a different experience of each place. Read more »