Tag: Breathing

The beginning

Well where to start!
I have always had a very sensual body to touch. Found the anus area a real erogenous zone, always having loads of pre cum when horny, never really thought about prostrate massage though. Love the Mrs stroking between balls and ass always gives me a massive erection;copious amounts of pre cum.

Starting reading up on the subject and began 2 weeks ago to start seeing the effects of breathing and clenching, researching positions. This lead to what I now know as mini "O's"which felt great, but was hard work to maintain.
I do yoga so have a good relationship with body and mind, which helped focus these initial sessions. Tried using butt plug and even misses glass dildo, but did not reach the spot
Decided to go for the Vice as interested in the vibrator, thought it would help, not imitated by the size.

Day 1
I use coconut oil, oh my god as soon as inserted could feel a pulse on the tip, which gave rise to the realisation as to the exact location of the P.

Multiple mini "O's", but again not the elusive orgasm.Playing with different vibes, but prefer the feel when not on as can focus more on sensation.

Session 2
getting better, tried use without the vibrator inserted but feels better inserted not on ,still multiple O's, pleased with progress :-( Read more »

Super O and then..

Since my first entry in May when I reached my first Super O, many other sessions have followed. Not every session was 'out of the world' but still good. But frequently I have had the gift of a Super O. Every time this has happened, it felt as good as the first time. The moment the orgasm happens it is like being in a dream, just amazing what my body can experience by simply letting go, relaxing, breathing. Key is observing rather than trying to achieve something.

The reason I decided to add a new entry to my blog is the following. Often after having had a Super O, the next day I am still so excited I want more. This however means expectations… And as I wrote in my first blog, rule number one is DROP expectations. Because as soon as I start a session with the idea of repeating with what I felt the day before it is most of the time not happening. The mind is very important in all this I realise more and more. I now try to limit my aneros sessions to once or max twice a week. Meanwhile Aless sessions become more intense. Which I enjoy more and more. Read more »

Dry–O Joystick

My prostate felt pretty full this morning and during the day, so figured I'd do a session this afternoon with my Helix.

I spent the first 15 min warming up without the Helix with PC contractions and low ab breathing till I felt my prostate getting electric tingles and starting to feel present. Then I inserted the Helix and spent like 30 min with nipple sims and slow/fast contractions and had a couple Dry–O's, but nothing extraordinary. Did a little with couple fingers on my upper corona with nipple stim and it really jumped the prostate into high gear. By this time my prostate was fully aroused & swollen so I could always feel it, and every contraction I made gave at least a small electric charge.

)I included nipple stimulation as an integral part during the rest of the session!(

So I figured I'd see what I could do with my penis again, same as the other night. I started rubbing the very tip of my glans at the pee–hole, and after a couple min, some lube oozed out, and made it easier to keep rubbing. Within a min or so started a Dry–O for a few min then ebbed. I waited a few minutes to recycle, then started again, and had another longer Dry–O. Ended up having like 10 over the next 30+ minutes. Some were short, some were very intense – double up pleasure. Read more »

Can’t believe it happened already

I bought an aneros four days ago. Until now I was never interested in anal play, but I've seen some videos of men using it and it looked fun (and a little bit scary, with all the twitching and stuff). I also bought a simple prostate massager, because I was in an adventurous mood that day. I read a lot about having to wait a long time to "cross over" and reach an anal orgasm (or Super-O), that's why I was pleasantly surprised when today, after four days and four sessions only, I had an experience that can only be described as "prostate ecstasy". Calling it "orgasm" is not really correct, because an orgasm ends, but what I experienced was continuous. Wave after wave of pleasure. Even at "low tide" the sensation was strong enough to lose almost all control over my body. I was shivering, gasping and laughing all at the same time. And even now, after more than 4 hours the beautiful feeling echoes.

What I felt today was more intense than any orgasm I ever had and that's why I decided to post my way of achieving it, hoping it might help someone else. Read more »

September 9

For quite a while I maintained two separate sex lives, MMO and sex with J. However, the last two weeks have witnessed a curious joining of the two. They have come together to entwine in a complex tango of sexual intimacy, sensual experience and mindful emotions. The wall between the very internally focused and intensely pleasurable sensation of MMO and its ability to turn my thoughts into molten waves of orgasmic rapture and the highly emotional intimacy of coupling with J or coaxing her pussy to convulse in orgasm with my tongue has broken down. Those two worlds now are twisted together like the strands of a rope. It is impossible to discern one from the other as I look down the rope.

I have also written many times about my sexuality being like a kaleidoscope. In MMO or in the sensual diversity of my sexual activity with J, each moment reveals an exquisitely pleasurable sensation, profoundly moving emotion or a riveting sexual response. Each day is a new experience; the magnetic pull of eroticism on my iron cock and the tender merciless song of sweet erotic rapture tantalize my prostate and anus changes from one day to the next. Read more »

Short Session big results

From work I looked at the time and decided I could make it home 45 – 60 minutes ahead of the Mrs. I let my work sit till the next day. Went to the bathroom locked up and headed home for a quick alone time. I had no time to spare if I wanted to have a visit with my Aneros friend. I washed and lubed up and decided on Helix-Syn to take a ride with. I put my phone on the bed knowing I would get a call when she was on her way. My buddy had snapped into place and I thought to my self hum… I laid on my left side and then relaxed into my breathing. OMG is all I keep saying about this experience. My Syn had a lot to show me and I felt at home with it. I was schooled well here on site and I knew how to listen. I was relaxing and pushing away to let Syn into my being. My inner G spot enveloped the feeling and did not let up. when I got riding so rapidly I just slowed down and went back to breathing and Syn kept nudging me and I kept enveloping it like I found my true sexual self and was so happy. After awhile I knew when to give a loving contraction maybe up to half strength and Syn would dive into the hot spot to drive me crazy. OMG you see I was totally doing this my way and felt happy with myself. My buddies are awesome. Yea my wife called I picked up as I was being taken by Syn and that gave me a 20 min count down. After 18 min I got up put my swimsuit on and went out to the pool. Leaning back on my noodle floating with legs up on the steps rocking back and forth with a contentment from being pleasured. Hello honey how was your day. When I got out of the pool I removed Syn and made some tea. Alone time is my key to bliss. Yes my cock got hard and pre cum everywhere and it felt good. woke up this morning with a woody that just did not want to quit. Wow I feel good and yes I am an Arneos Nympho. I have an Eupho-Syn on my to wish list now as well. I still haven't screwed the classic Helix yet. SoFunLoving…

Questions for users

Ok. So, I'm back with more questions. I got my helix syn last December. I use it on average…once or twice a week. And when I say "use" that's maybe not exactly accurate. "Try to use" I suppose is more accurate. It hasn't give me great feelings yet. One time I was one the verge something, but then it went away (I think I got too excited).

So my questions are these:

  1. If I'm doing it right should I be leaking precum? I've heard a lot of people say this is the case, but perhaps only if you're milking the prostate or applying a lot more pressure but not with the helix syn?

  2. I've also heard people say "Oh you'll know it when you hit it". Well, I don't really know it. Does that mean I haven't hit it? When I have the device inserted, it doesn't give me especially good feelings. It doesn't give me bad feelings, but generally it doesn't feel like much of anything. Someone suggested perhaps I have it in too far? And maybe its not as high up as the toy is reaching?

  3. I can't find my sweet spot. Believe me when I say I have read every post and every article talking about it. I've done what all the literature says to do, but I can't find any spot down there that does anything different than any other spot. And I've spent some time. Any thoughts? Read more »

How horny are you when starting a session?

I'm having a difficult time getting turned on during an aneros section.

Normally, porn or imagining something hot instantly gets me hard. However, I find it difficult to get sexually excited during aneros sessions. Porn doesn't excite me, and it's hard to focus on something sexy when I'm trying to focus on my breathing and contracting.

I'm just wondering how horny you guys are when starting a session, or if it just involuntarily happens as a result of the aneros being inside you.

My First Aneros Helix Syn Experience…where do I go from here?

I don't know how it came up, but one day for some reason I decided that I wanted to buy a prostate massager. I had never had any experience with anal play at all, not even fingering myself during masturbation because I was always afraid of it. Never ever having ever heard any thing about prostate massagers I started to research them and quickly realized that aneros is one of the best ones to buy. One thing led to another and I kept researching and reading, researching and reading and a week later I took a leap of faith and ordered an Aneros Helix Syn.

For someone who had never experienced any anal play before I was very eager to try it out. First impressions out of the box, it did not appear as intimidating as I had thought it would be. It was much smaller than I was expecting it to be, which was good because I was afraid it would be too big and scare me off and that would be it.

From what I found from all the research I did before I had these few things in mind: 1. I wasn't expecting anything to happen during the first session, I was just expecting at most to get used to it and maybe have a nice masturbation experience 2. I needed to make sure that I had set adequate time aside to relax before and for the session as well Read more »

My Sexuality, My Fantasies and the Tao of Eros

Tao: the unconditional and unknowable source and guiding principle of all reality; the process of nature by which all things change and which is to be followed for a life of harmony. The Tao is the path, the art or the skill of doing something in harmony with the core meaning of life.

It is 20 years ago that I began this journey of sexual discovery; after all this time I now realize that my purpose has been to pursue the Tao of Eros; but it didn’t start out that way. When I began walking in this path of sexual discovery, my simplistic goal was to seek higher levels of arousal. Along the way I came to the realization that I also wanted to better understand female sexual response so I could be a better lover.

I discovered the opportunity of the Tao of Eros when I discovered Tantric Sex Practice in the first year or so. With my new knowledge I sought out eastern thought and philosophy as the first steps along the path. I read books and I did retreats in Tantra, Zen and Taoism; I studied some of the theory behind Kundalini Yoga. I read books on Extended Male Orgasm and Male Multiple Orgasm.

Those early intellectual efforts years ago opened my mind to so much more than kinky means to seek arousal. As I looked to increase my libido I gained sexual proficiency, instead of pushing horniness to new heights, instead I discovered new pathways to orgasm. Finally I discovered the power of eroticism and subsequently became a sensual man who followed the Tao of Eros. Read more »