Tag: Concentration

“What Am I Feeling? Beyond Aless”

I was up not too early this AM and decided to relax on my favorite sofa with some binaurals. Nothing too stimulating. When I finished, I decided to lay-down and just relax. I began to do very light contractions and some ‘whisper’ and ‘thought’ contractions when something happened……

I began to be enveloped by a strange, sexual feeling. Hard to describe now. It definitely radiated out from the prostate and lower groin but seemed to envelop my entire body. I am feeling a sexual energy, a vibration, that is tingling all throughout my body, right down to my fingertips. I feel a pulsing and an energy deep within myself. It is a warm ‘sexual glow’, almost like watching a fireplace where the flames have gone out but there is still a red afterglow burning. Something like that…

I am laying there and began to think: this is NOT Aless! But what is it? It is beyond Aless. It is that sexual, sensual, erotic ingredient in all of us males. It is the raw power of creation. It is the erotic bliss which only we as males get to experience firsthand. It is an exquisitely beautiful, powerful feeling. And it is free! The great thing about this feeling it seems to me is that is doesn’t have to stop! As i am typing this, I am still feeling it. If I concentrate on it, I will feel it more. There is nothing better……

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My First Time

Having read other blogs I decided to share my experience and journey. I am 45, hetro, married and live in the UK. I have been curious about anal play for a while purchasing a butt plug and other small items. I wanted to extend into prostate massage and having done some research I decided on an Aneros product. I chose the Progasm Ice. Although it is on the larger side, it is suggested that it is more forgiving in finding the postrate.
Having ordered at the weekend, it arrived on Wed and i immediately set about using it. I prepared myself, relaxed, applied the anal lube I ordered with the Progasm, lay back and slowly inserted.
I lay for a few mins, allowing myself to get used to having it inside me and slowly started anal contractions.
I have never been one to produce much precum, but after about 20 mins I was pleasantly surprised at what I had produced. It wasn’t exactly flowing, but enough to feel satisfied for a first try. After a few mins this dried up and I concentrated on different positions and my anal contractions to get used to it inside me.
I found that lying on my back was the most comfortable so I lay there, fully relaxed and continued with the contractions. Suddenly I felt my heart rate increase, my breathing became deeper as I experienced a whole new sensation. Maybe the shock of this along with my efforts to concentrate too much meant that it died away. This was about an hour into my session.
I lay back, relaxed again and tried to recreate what had just happened. After about 10 mins I again felt my heart rate increase as the sensations came over me again, this time my arms were shaking. Again I maybe tried too hard to focus and after about 20 seconds the feelings subsided. After a few more minutes I ended the session.
I’m sure that this was not the “super-o” that I have seen mentioned and described however I feel that I was on the way to finding it. An hour later, carrying on my jobs in the house, I could still feel the effects of what I had experienced. With practise and improved technique I’m sure the Progasm will take me to the place I seek. 24 hours later, I feel that something has “awoken” inside of me, hungry for more.
My first Aneros session supassed my expectations and brought me a whole new sexual experience. The opportunity for my next session cannot come soon enough.

First encounter with the Progasm Ice

Well, last night I had my first encounter with my new Progasm Ice and and here are a few details.

First, I lubed up, lubed the monster and slowly started inserting it. My anus, being used to the gentle curvature of the Helyx Syn started questioning my sanity as I was gently pushing it in further. Not a comfortable feeling at all. Eventually, it slid all the way in and now my rectum was screaming “who parked a nuclear sub in here?”. At that point, I was tempted to pull it out and cancel this session altogether but I persisted. It took a few minutes to get somewhat used to this new toy and as I settled down and relaxed, the feeling got better. There is no doubt the differences between the HS and the PI are very noticeable.

At first, I was laying on my back to get the feel of it and things immediately started to get agitated. I got p-waves in my lower abdomen and penis. I could really feel the added pressure on my prostate and this is what I was seeking. Soon after, my session was interrupted and had to run upstairs. I did so with the ‘sub’ still inside; (I was even able to pee with it parked inside). When I resumed, I tried laying on my side. Read more »

“A New Way To The Super-O?”

[Please do not read ahead of the story as it contains a spoiler. Some readers may find this story to be slightly disturbing.]

I have been having difficulty achieving a whole-body "Super Orgasm" in my Aneros sessions and it felt like I hit a "brick wall" in my progress. I have the Eupho and I like it, but so far, I have been unable to progress to anything resembling a Super-O!

I was intrigued when I found out about a "new" technique to help guys like me achieve this important milestone. It involves a combination of relaxation meds and hypnotic orgasmic suggestion. The best part of this is that it is FREE! Apparently, this technique is in the "trial" stage and volunteers were needed to "validate" the process!

This special "session" was to be held in a local "clinic" not far from where I live. I made arrangement to participate. I was to be prepared to spend the night and to bring my favorite Aneros model and some lube. I like my Eupho so I brought it along with Boy Butter.

I showed-up on a Saturday night about 8PM. This was to be an "overnight" session. There were about three other guys there also participating but I didn't know any of them. We all met in a "conference room" beforehand and the "moderator" explained to us how this "session" was going to work. We would go to one of the clinics' "private rooms" (which were set-up like small bedrooms each with a bed, table, light). We were to get relaxed (I generally do my Aneros sessions in the nude), and insert the Aneros as we normally do. Read more »

Beginings

This is my first blog. I little about me and the start of my journey. I am a 53 year old heterosexual male. I have been married for 23 years and have loved every minute. I have always had a auto sexual side and my wife has been fine with that. I have "toyed" with anal play during some of my solo sessions – fingers – too awkward – bought a small butt plug – did not care for it. Several months ago I started fantasizing more about anal penetration and I started looking for an appropriate toy. After a lot of research I settled on the Aneros products – but which to get?
I was not sure what size would be good for me so I purchased the Helix Syn and the DeVice – I could decide which to use once I saw them up close.
My purchase arrived over the week end:
First impressions – The Helix Syn seemed smaller than I expected – but based on the reviews I still had high hopes. The Device was larger than I expected and much larger than the Helix – I decided that I would put the DeVice away until I was much more experienced, (glad that I did not purchase that 5.5 inch x 1.5 inch Anal Fantasy model that I was originally looking at.) Read more »

ED “Cure” With Peridise?

I have "suffered" with ED for a while now, since my college days. I found that I just could not "hold" an erection for very long. It became very embarrassing. When I had a "hot" date, following a nice dinner, for example, when the opportunity presented itself, and I found myself in an intimate situation with the girl, I just couldn't get hard enough to satisfy her. I couldn't even get hard enough for a handjob! That usually was the end of the date and I resigned to the fact that my body was "different" than other males who could get it up and keep it up until the point of ejaculation. I was not so fortunate.

I had tried Viagra once but found that it was not working well for me. It also had some side effects that I would rather not endure again.

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I was intrigued by an ad I saw in a local newspaper advertising a "new" treatment and possible "cure" for ED! I copied down the phone number and the following day, decided to give them a call.

The person who answered the phone was very nice and asked me a few "personal" questions about my ED and my sexual habits and told me that, yes, it sounded like I would be a good "candidate" for this "new" treatment option which involved no drugs. I was intrigued and very encouraged. Read more »

OMG! After-Effects are driving me crazy!

First time poster here.
I purchased my first aneros (helix syn) about a week ago and have been using it every day since, sometimes several times a day. While each and every session was pleasurable in and of itself, i started feeling the most intense pleasure after a couple of sessions. I don’t know if i have reached the Super-O yet but i have definitely experienced what i think are dry orgasms that generally last a few seconds but never over a minute (yet).

However, i discovered that i am getting the most pleasure after my sessions (the same day and the day after). I feel my prostate throbbing and a tingly feeling runs all over my body (especially when sitting down). If i concentrate and do some light contractions the feeling gets so intense to the point where i start to shiver. I have never felt anything like this before. It’s as if the my prostate has been awakened by the aneros and it is now inducing pleasure uncontrollably and on it’s own. It’s kind of addicting and sometimes makes me completely unproductive for hours (i’m supposed to be studying today but haven’t been able to since my session this morning). I think i am actually enjoying these after effects more than the sessions themselves. Read more »

Time to Travel

Today I decided to blog my journey to the Super O. I've been using the Progasm Ice at least once a week for about a month. Had a lot of anal twitching and uncontrollable body shakes but no super o. I went on the discussion forum and ask a question about what feelings to expect and got some good responses. The best one was to go read and reread the Wiki page. I've read it twice and will read it again.

So today I took some steps towards the Super O and used some advice I read on the Wiki page. I showered first. Got the room prepared with the lube by the bed and laid out some towels. I laid down and just relaxed. I was concentrating on the feelings all over my body.

After about 15 minutes I started to feel the arousal around my perineum and my nipples so I concentrated on that feeling. The anal twitching started up, just not as intense or as often as usual. Maybe because I was concentrating on the arousal.

A few minutes went by with that same feeling only all of a sudden the sensations got really intense. I tried to just feel the sensation and ride it through. I'm pretty sure I almost reached the Super O. I felt like I needed to ejaculate but that feeling was not in my penis. It was lower inside. Read more »

Progress -Trying new things with my sessions

Ive had several sessions since my last post- a few were noteworthy for one reason or another.
On one occasion the anticipation of having the house to myself was such a delicious feeling. I began having aless in the car on the way home just thinking about the session I was going to have. When I had finally prepped I remember really savouring the insertion of the progasm- my ass was SO HUNGRY for it and at about halfway it just sort of gulped and pulled it in tight and involuntarily clenched down on it. It was all I could do to try to relax and breathe.
Another session I used the HypnoAneros tracks for the first time instead of watching porn and found it to be a real turn on.
All of my sessions now culminate in heavy leaking without erection, many p waves and deep aching deliciousness and euphoric surges often with a wonderful warmth in my heart region. Many times I will let the progasm do its thing while I concentrate on breathing deeply-and then at some point manually stimulate my perenium to climax.
I always enjoy aless for a day or so after my sessions now too.
Am seriously considering adding some variation with a new model -perhaps a Eupho or Helix Syn . Will be trying shea butter as a new lube instead of the KY and other things I have tried. Coconut oil has been good to me too -but I have cleaned out my wifes supply in a short time..

Just one problem

I've had 20 or so sessions feel like I'm close. I just figured out that when I pull my helix syn in just slightly, the smallest amount I can, it helps, but it's hard for me to concentrate on breathing, relaxing, enjoying myself, and pulling it in slightly all at the same time.

Has anyone else had that problem? Is there a position that would work better for me? I've been lying on one side mostly. I'm tall so maybe it's just slightly too short for me.

Sorry for the clicky-baity title. I wasn't sure what to write.