Tag: Concentration

First session

delayed shipping arrival didnt set the mood but was able to shift back into the mindset, however, I knew I only had a couple of hours- a big non-no when my expectations were moderately high- another no-no.

All three were smaller than expected and as I remember from a few years back- and I think I wrongly assumed bigger would be better with someone who has prostate experience.

Some nice audio porn from Soundcloud, set the lighting and into the afternoon trying all three in numerous positions while watching various porn.

Lots of close-calls but time constraints and other small distractions kept me from the ledge. Definite on left side with hip thrusting/contracting and kneeling on bed with thrusting too )careful of the penile contact with the towel(. Also on the back with legs extended.

I did learn that the eupho gave the most movement and that I felt was the key. Also I think porn may be a distraction since you tend to switch it up breaking concentration.

Ran out of time and finished with an extended Super-T. Will lower my expectations and try again tonight.

The journey is fun!

Starting Notes

Figured I'd put my notes on my blog instead of in a Word file. These may be disjoint. Some just random.

Got a Helix about a week ago and just got a Vice (BEAST) yesterday.

I'm not sure yet what can be called a Mino/Micro-O, but I think I've experienced some of those. Am SURE I haven't seen any Super-Os yet!!

My Notes:
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My first Orgasm type Experience )Just with Perineum Massage alone(

When I started chasing the big SO, I started out with prostate massaging for like 20 min then perineum massaging my sweet spot for another 20–30 min. Best I can tell, there’s a spot ON the north rim of my anus sphincter (my Button) that connects movements there straight to the prostate. And after a while of massaging/twiggling it, the whole ring of nerves there engorges and gets bigger and stiff (like the penis erecting, but of course on a much smaller scale..) Also there’s a point on the top of the perineum cord about an inch or so north of the “Button” which if pressed, greatly magnifies the connection to the prostate. So I end up doing a two finger salute to twiggle there.

So that was my perineum massage. Twiggling those two spots. Got lots of great feelings from the perineum massage, almost nothing from the prior prostate massage, and definitely nothing I could remotely call an orgasm let alone Super–O. So after getting nowhere that evening, I just stopped, rolled over and went to sleep. Read more »

Intense A Less Session

The overwhelming winter weather we have had during February has necessitated a concentrated amount of snow shoveling in a relative short time span. The net result has been a “tender” lower back. Thankfully I am not immobilized but I have been dealing with the persistent ache of muscle strain in my lower back. For me, pain of any sort is most definitely a damper on my orgasmic agenda. Despite how horny I may be discomfort is a huge distraction for MMO pleasure. Consequently the last three weeks have been spotty for MMO sessions of any type; when I did have a session it was mediocre at best. Finally my back loosened up by the middle of last week and my libido was left unfettered to pursue whatever my anus and cock could dream up.

Last Friday night J and I celebrated the end of the week with a late night mutual masturbation session transitioning to 69 and culminating in mutual release. It was very erotic, one of our favorite ways to be intimate. I would say that we probably both prefer that to fucking, I can probably explain why but that is the stuff of another blog entry.
So when I went to bed Saturday night it was the night after a ball draining ejaculation. I have found that my sessions are exponentially more pleasurable if I do them within a day or so of a “clean out” climax. I also had been chatting on line with several guys over the week which left me highly aroused. Read more »

Journeys

Realized that 3 years have come and gone without me logging any events. Time flies. For the first couple of months aneros really didnt do much for me and but kept remembering what I had read in the aneros blogs and discussions so I pushed forward. As most folks the water based lubes were not good for me and took over a year for me to make the change to silcone lubes and now coconut oil. I had a reaction that created digestive problems and flared up gaseous problems to point I thought I was having a heart attack and had difficulty breathing. The doc said I had acid refllex, but after several visits and different types of acid meds it was something else- took trial and error on my behalf to figure it out. So now after using coconut oil it seems better. My aneros days I thought were over.
Now after three years I'm starting to actually have a better feel of the aneros and think I have a better understanding on what I should be concentrating on and when to stop. Starting to have better sessions now. In the past I focused to much on trying to get sexually excited vs paying attention to what the aneros was doing. I also listen to trance music (electronica) while on my knees and butt up in the air so it better hits the prostate and to totally relax and let the aneros do it's thing. I usually stick my helix in the freezer for a few minutes and the apply the coconut oil so the oil stays in place during the session. I also now take t- booster supplements daily and drink with pur-erh tea with maca and ginseng. I'm 56 years old and the sexual drive needs a boost.

Launching an A Less Session

I am in my 8th year of Super O – MMO practice. The progression of my experience with super o has been like walking through a carefully contorted maze. Each turn brings me to another unknown place; that place opens to endless other places to reveal kaleidoscopic orgasmic pleasures that flow in torrents. It has been a never ending journey of discovery. Through it all, the most delightful discovery was the realization of my ability to use my mind to drive mmo and generate extreme pleasure. That pleasure is so intense it tests the limits of my body’s ability to cope with intense ecstasy.

Each session I do I learn some new technique or trick to amplify the erotic pleasure I feel. Often during a session I will drive orgasmic pleasure to a new spot in my body or I will use my mind to guide that pleasure to express itself in a new or intriguing way. However, one of the things that has been really positive for me is the ease in which I can initiate trembling pleasure spasms from a less or inserted sessions.

Last night was one of those A less sessions that followed two days without mmo. Two days of denied mmo pleasure results in torrents of orgasmic spasms that make my legs tremble when I eventually do a session. So last night when J came to bed with a tee shirt and slinky panties clinging tightly to the smooth soft skin of her derriere, I knew that my session later in the soft quiet night of our bed was going to be juicy and sensually surreal. Read more »

Thanks Drummel what a combination!

I asked for suggested combinations for rides and Drummel you found a ride that is most memorable, thanks. Drummel suggested the following order with the addition of my fetish penis plug. MGX, Progasm, Eupro, my plug, then Muse.

I started this truly memorable ride cleaning out and using EVOO as lubrication, I wanted an extra fluid movement with the first two. MGX upon the stimulation of my nipples began to vibrate within my anal canal as my nipples grew. The vibrations were weak but, they were there so, I slowed my breathing to concentrate and he noticed. The vibrations began to cycle and MGX moved from side to side within me touching me kissing my prostate, loving the attention it was being given. We danced together under my sheets like it was our first dance a dance with a hint we would become even more intimate soon. I pulled him close to my loins. He shuttered in response and we continued our dance. After at least an hour together we parted. Read more »

He's distracting me

I couldn't sleep someone has affected my concentration. But, I want to experience distraction. I start by inserting my other toy of choice, my penis plug. It stimulates me to just above flaccid. I also choose to begin with my Eurpho Syn, we join, we are one, we move, we dance. He's still there. Eurpho is oh so quietly tickling my prostate and a hint of p-waves touch my anus. I relax, a few more waves move me, Eurpho responds. After 45 minutes of his gentle caress we depart ways.

I introduce Maximus to my anal canal, as usual his girth fills me he takes over. I appreciated this aspect of him. Maximus moves slowly but with purpose touching me with more assurance and my sphincter moves him. We start to rise together in concert simultaneously as I lift my hips from the bed keeping in time with his strokes. He is determined to distract me. My body is slowly beginning to vibrate in s-waves appreciating this attention, he wants more of me, and I let him have all of me, I need him right now. He is introducing me to a new set of sensations I can't describe. But my plan is to incorporate 4 Aneros tonight with my plug so, Maximus reluctantly gives way to MGX. Read more »

Covert Tactical Operations

In the Chat Room last evening I told of the session I was going to experiment with last night. We related it to a military interrogation process. I wanted to see how my prostate would react to more than one Anernos toy during an extended period of time. It was joked I may confuse my prostate, and actually that’s what I wanted to see if I could. I decided I would let the toys run the show, they would decide how long each individual mini-session would last. I prepared for the extended session by napping early that evening.

Now my selection, I choose my first the MGX, and two recent purchases my Helix Syn and the Eupho Syn. I also choose to ride them in that order. Here is what happened:

11:45PM began session in my recliner with the MGX by really concentrating on my breathing and extremely gentle and sustained sphincter contractions. MGX responded by moving within my anal cavity and encouraging me to respond to it by mid-region gyrations. He was becoming very intimate as usual when he slowed down by 2:20 AM. That was my signal. I removed my MGX re-lubed and introduced Helix to my now wanting anus. Read more »

I'm held in his Vice

Yes, I have seven Aneros toys now. Can't get too much of a good thing people say and the Vice proves that for sure. I limited my trial run to 20 minutes because he is soooo intense. I've already decided this is a special occasion friend when I want that extra sweet touch.

I prepared by cleaning out and laying all the necessary lubrication nearby. I let myself relax to a point of being near sleep but, still awake enough to lube myself and him. I inserted slower than my other aneros' due to Vice's girth. He slipped in fine and I relaxed more concentrating on breathing and relaxing. Then I slowly and gently began to contract, oh Vice moves differently, sweetly too, even without his battery powered insert.

More slow steady breathing and contractions, now I add skimming over my body hair above my chest, my my thighs, I skim my nipples )pinch and twist them too(. Then I reach around and press the button and he begins to cycle as I touch him. I just lay there drinking in how he is tickling me, then he changes his cycle, I gasp reacting to this new twist.

As each new cycle is initiated by me I try to relax into it, the more intense vibrations start my hips moving to focus the sensation all over my prostate and any other structure that is enjoying the performance. My loins signal me this can quickly head forward as my legs spasm in response. This reaction repeats itself on and off about five times. Each time it does it intensifies. Read more »

Fifth Session – Taking a slightly different approach

I think I'll hit the forum with this bit, but I have to say there is a lot of mixed information as to how one should approach using the product. )Reference to the prostate toys – not Peridise or others(

Some say manually contract and relax. The instructions say contract and relax. Some users say do nothing and see what your body does. Others say if your Chakra and life is out of balance to work on centering.

It's rather frustrating. Not intended to sound negative towards anyone either. All the information is great, it seems to be more of a belief system than a real scientific or medical approach. If you believe in it, chances are it will work )Mind over matter I guess(

OK! On with it!

So this time around I've decided a different approach…

First off – the usual. I prep my space to get ready for my session. I've found some nice relaxing tracks that I put on my phone to listen to with headphones again. These tracks are peaceful soft music with woman and/or men softly moaning in the background. Some of them are instructional in the sense they remind you to breathe or focus on specific aspects of your session. Not really goal oriented, just "pay attention to these feelings and go with the flow" kind of instructional reminders. Read more »