Only getting HFWO looking for insight long post

Like the title says. I’ve been at this for like 10 years and only have had hands free wet orgasms that end the session.

I’ve used various aneros toys, the Njoy pure wand, dildos, plugs, and various other objects. So im well versed. Seems odd to say if I think back to shaking with anticipation and wonder the first time i used an anal toy.

Im straight so I took a bit getting past the stupid certain stigmas as a young adult. Im comfortable with my exploration now and respect everyone’s choices, so things have been a lot better since my mind is free and clear. Pot helps.

I’ve always been chasing a feeling I had when I first learned what my penis does. I didn’t cum. I was humping a stuffed animal straddling it (like I’d seen in adult movies on cinemax). I got really strong butterflies and warmth in my belly, pelvis, and anus. The feelings grew into tingling in my crotch and buttcheeks and before I knew it my chode, anus, and my buttcheeks started shuddering with pleasure. It was so good my muscles would give for fractions of seconds, and my whole body was warm and tingling. Rock hard erection but didn’t cum.

I’ve only got close to that ONCE since. I was just relaxing, breathing, and lightly playing with the rim of my ass. The same feelings started but I got distracted when someone came home.

How to avoid HFWO?

Hi, I’ve been able to HFWO with aneros for some time now which feels good but unfortunately ends the session.

I’m really trying to work towards multiple pgasms and the fabled super o but I’m not able to hold back from the HFWO.

Any tips?

Thanks!

First HFWO

So I’m a beginner since I just started a month ago and like most beginners, I grew frustrated. I watched the mindgasm videos (highly recommended) and could feel something and get p shivers but that was it. When inserting the helix trident it would just feel like something was in there but nothing else, kind of uncomfortable especially standing up.

I have an open mind and if you’re a beginner you might know what I’m talking about. However, it happened today completely unexpected right after waking up. I read about how you’re less likely to orgasm if you’re wanting it. It felt like being in a half awake dreamy like state is the perfect opportunity.

I also read that edibles make a huge difference so I took two THC pills and I just laid back with my feet flat getting comfortable under the covers. I started get into a meditative state where all I could feel were my arms feeling heavy. I started focusing on breathing for 15-20 minutes while doing nothing, just breathing. Once the edibles started to kick in a bit I mentally contracted my PC muscle and held it. I started to actually feel my prostate.

Advanced Technique

Not sure if this will work for anyone else, but here goes.

Recently with Aneros inserted, I realised that if I placed my palms flat on my stomach, then slide them forward till my fingers came to the base of my penis, and pressed both down and forward (so that your fingers press into that soft spot at the base of your penis) I could put pressure on my prostate from the top and bottom (so to speak). Doing this repeatedly traiggered many prostate O’s, and eventually led to a HFWO.

Recently, I realised that if I do this same technique without the Aneros inserted, I can trigger an amazing feeling similar to the aeros pressing against the prostate. Its subtle, but its there and real. By keeping some constant light pressure on this spot and not letting up no matter what, I have had the most intense super o’s of my life. We’re talking seeing colours, altered perception, near out of body experiences. Typically the super O’s start at my second or third orgasm from this technique, so about 5-7 mins in.

Give it a try and see if it works for you.

HFWO

So I’ve been lurking here and after some discussions and deliberation I tried to aim for HFWO. I already mentioned that it feels pretty much impossible to me, at least without toys and without a deliberate attempt to go over the threshold.

Now I managed to do it in 30 minutes of Aneros massaging after some unrelated experimentation without toys during the day… so peak arousal long gone by then but the whole setup may or may not played part in the success. It was both what I expected and not, because it did trigger refractory period but felt like a very mild ruined orgasm at the same time.

What’s your HFWO experiences? How did you do it?

Best Super-O’s to date

Sessions of late have been good but nothing mind blowing, super-o’s have been achieved (and appreciated) and I’ve been left feeling satisfied, but nothing as amazing as the sessions I had in November of last year.

On the other hand yesterdays session was something very different.
After a particularly strenuous workout/weights session I decided to have a session with my trusty eupho syn trident, I went through my usual routine of douching, showering and setting the scene, everything was done in a relaxed and controlled manner, taking time not to rush things and keep calm and relaxed.

I lay on my back on the bed and inserted the device, then did nothing, I just lay there and chilled-out, I watched some soft-core porn to help my mind drift away from everyday thoughts. After about twenty minutes I could feel the device gently nuzzling my prostate, the most subtle and lightest of sensation, a gentle tickling. I know from experience that this is the start of good things to come. I rode the sensations whilst gently and gingerly contracting my PC muscles, the tickling developed into a buzz and began to radiate throughout my pelvis, my thighs and butt began to quiver and shake. It’s at this stage that I start to pull the device deeper into me by contracting my sphincter, not too hard, just enough to put a small amount of pressure from the eupho directly onto my prostate, this is when the magic happened. Up until this point I’d not touched my nipples, as I started to strum them with my finger nails I could feel the build up to my first super-o. My body from tip to toe became rigid and I let out a massive yawn, then the shakes and quivers began, I was transported into the mysterious world of the prostate orgasm, vivid visions of lingerie clad girls flashed before my eyes, swirling whirlpools of colours and the most glorious warm feeling overwhelmed me. All the time this is happening I’m gently holding the device in the sweet spot, using my sphincter to control its precise position. I’ve absolutely no idea how long the orgasm lasted but eventually it faded away, I lay there in the afterglow just floating in my thoughts, feeling totally at one with the world.

Ups and Downs

I’ve recently been away on assignment working up to 16 hours per day, feeling mentally and physically tired, even so I’ve still found time for a few sessions with my ever growing collection of Aneros’s.
Unsurprisingly most of the sessions were duds, not a lot to report, hardy even a p-wave. The combination of exhaustion, being in unfamiliar hotels and rushing totally and utterly killed any sensation, what this reiterated to me was the need for a quiet space, somewhere without disturbance, and with time to relax and enjoy the moment.

On returning home I set-to tidying up loose ends, to conclude the assignment, to clear my desk, physically and metaphorically. After doing this I browsed some porn and settled in for a session with the MGX Syn Trident, a douche, shower and total peace and solitude, no distractions whatsoever.

I lubed up my ass and smeared Vaseline on the MGX, inserted it and concentrated on my breathing, in through the mouth for seven seconds, hold for seven and slowly release the exhaled breath. in no time sensations started to build, a delicious dull ache in my groin, gentle shaking and quivering of my legs and a tightening of my abs. Occasionally a p-wave would send shivers from my head to my toes, I started contacting my pc muscles whilst simultaneously attempting to push out the Aneros with my rectal muscles, it didn’t take long for my muscles to fatigue and start to quiver, by now I could feel the gentle pressure applied by the massager on my prostate and it was was buzzing.

First blast with the Progasm Ice

Yesterday the mailman brought me a package, a box containing a very shiny and sleek and sexy looking Progasm Ice, I’ve shied away from this model for many years thinking that when it comes to Aneros’s smaller is better.

I was keen to take my first ride with this beautiful looking toy and wasted no time preparing everything I’d need for a session, lube and applicator, Vaseline, laptop for browsing porn, headphones to cancel out any distractions, I then showered and douched them retired to my bed lay on my back with my butt supported by pillows.

Since I can remember I’ve enjoyed shoving stuff up my ass, vibrators, butt plugs, courgettes, fuck it even had egg plants up there! I’m straight but have always loved filling my butt full of objects of all shapes and sizes.

Being experienced with anal play I had no problem inserting the Progasm, to help it on its way I made sure I’d squirted in a generous amount of lube.
The sensation of the larger Aneros was at first a bit weird, I’ve been exclusively using the trident range for the past six months so to have a large solid plastic Aneros inserted took a bit of getting used to, half an hour later and all was fine and dandy.

The feeling of fullness this toy brings is going to make some guys feel a bit overwhelmed, if this is the case I’d implore you to persevere and try your absolute hardest to relax and get through the initial discomfort….. I shall explain why…..!

A Powerful Quicky

Three days since my last session.

No Douche, Lube up and insert MGX.

Why this model? I don’t know, I find that my prostate chooses which model to use. I get a tingling sensation ‘down there’ when I’m selecting my ‘weapon-of-choice’ the decision making process is out on my hands!

I lay back on the bed with a pillow under my hips and back and watch some soft-core porn, soon my mind wonders away from the porn and to the tickling sensation building in my groin. I normally practice the ‘do-nothing’ technique but in this instance I start some gentle contractions, the P-waves appear almost instantaneously, things are feeling great!

About forty minuets in and I feel the first signs of a Super-O, an ache deep in my groin, a sense of overwhelming pleasure, than it hits me, an involuntary yawn and my body goes rigid with a powerful muscle spasm, I can feel the massager working my prostate, of which by now was glowing. My body then starts convulsing, my legs thrash around and my hips buck, I could feel what is coming and just go with it, I’m still bucking and twitching long after my HFWO, I lay there gasping for breath covered in my own cum savouring the felling of total and utter relaxation.

This session was very different as I normally give myself plenty of time, I hate to feel rushed. A truly satisfying session albeit short but sweet.

First Ride of The Helix Syn Trident

Originally posted on the ‘General Discussion’ part of the Forum:

I’ve been feeling a bit down recently, due to lockdown and being confined to home. What better way to cheer myself up than with a couple of new Aneros’s to bring some cheer into my life?

I ordered the Helix & Eupho Trident Syn’s.

The original Helix Syn is my favourite followed in close second by the Eupho Syn so I was intrigued to see if there really was a noticeable difference in the trident versions.

First to arrive was the Helix, the Eupho is due to arrive today (I’ll let you know how I get on this that).

It’s been talked about on other posts about your prostate ‘calling you’ I also experience this, it’s like a dull throb tempting me, inviting me for a session, It’s the sign of good things to come.

After a shower, douche and lubing up I settled onto the bed, on my back with my feet flat on the mattress, a couple of pillows under my back & butt. I then relaxed and concentrated on my breathing, deep inhale through the nose and hold for eight, slow exhale through the mouth again for eight seconds, and repeat, after fifteen minuets of this I inserted the Helix, I should say I’m also viewing some soft core erotica (mainly solo videos of Erica Fontes, she’s well worth a Google, if your that way inclined!).