Tag: Involuntaries

Best session ever! Found the “sweet spot”

Have had the helix for 2 months, probably 15-20 sessions in. Today I had an hour session that was amazing. At the peak of my session, I was able to have a 2 minute long p wave that had me moaning.

I was able to prolong this feeling by finding the sweet spot. Whenever you find the right balance of PC/sphincter contraction and start getting involuntaries, try to “hold it in place”. I found this sensitive spot and held it there and the buzzing/involutaries just got stronger and more intense. It felt like something was vibrating inside me and my whole body is shaking. Then while I held it in place with my sphincter, I started very lightly contracting my PC muscle in a waving motion. Every time I would release the sphincter muscle, the muscles would slow down the buzzing but a huge flash of warmth and electricity goes through my lower body. I then lightly squeeze the PC muscle again and the buzzing and involuntaries start up again. I probably went from flaccid to rock hard 5 times. I could feel an orgasm coming on, but not an ejaculation.

The feeling of contractions of an orgasm sensation, but all mainly centered in the prostate, PC, sphincter. Still felt in my penis, but not like a traditional orgasm.

Almost there!

Real headway: hold it steady

Hey all, first time commenting, but I’ve been lurking for a while. I hit a new level this evening.

My wife was talking with a relative on the phone so I figured I’d have a good hour or so I disturbed, so I put in my helix syn trident. I’ve been trying various things, but tonight I think I finally figured out the key. While in the past I focused a great deal on intentional contractions, tonight 90% of my focus was just upon maintaining the position of the device. Once I felt the tingles begin in my prostate and I could tell I was hitting the spot, I focused entirely on keeping it there. If it shifted, I immediately shifted to put it back (and I think it’s beginning to become muscle memory).

While holding in place, I tried to very lightly contract my outer sphincter—like the lightest I could. Again, keeping the device in position was my focus. But then everything involuntary started happening: many small contractions, legs shaking, harder contractions, tingling everywhere, eyes rolling back in my head and twitching, feeling my pulse throughout my body which also seemed to help the sensations, and, I just tried to hold it there and ride the waves.

Eventually I became aware that my dick was leaking, got the need to pee sensation, and it kept going. Eventually I had to let it go simply to get a moment of rest. Read more »

HOURS of ecstasy, the rumors are true

Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy shit.

Long post. Reading some of the user posts here helped me, so maybe this will help someone. It’s also a way to process the experience for me.

I’ve been reading about the benefits of prostate play for about a month now and, truth be told, I took everything I read with a grain of salt. I assumed some men might achieve these waves of pleasure and super-Os, but most would need years of practice and even then, maybe not experience as amazing as some made it sound. Well after some time on Sunday, I can say I’m a true believer.

As a way of background, I’m 31, gay male, in a long term relationship. Ass play is not something i’m a total stranger to, but it’s never been my cup of tea. I’ve bottomed plenty of times and found the experience to be enjoyable, but topping was always better. (My partner and I are more “sides” and anal sex is kind of rare. I’ve had plenty of anal sex with prior partners to know what i’m missing.) Over the years I’ve bought a couple of dildos and prostate massagers and played with them on and off, but to me they were never better than recieving anal, and the toys would be used a couple times then forgotten about and thrown away. Read more »

any complemantary vibrating/riding-toy for Aneros-users? :)

Since I started using the Aneros in January didn’t hit any orgasm yet, but I can get involuntary contractions my some nipple-play pretty fast, sadly nothing goes from there on. But I also feel some new sensations while putting the Aneros in and pulling it out. I tried to sit on it and move a bit around, back and forth… didn’t do much but ofcourse maybe I should try another toy for that?

Is there anything that could be seen as complemantary that could help light the orgasm-spark? I wonder if vibrators or riding-toys would do the trick? I got a offbrand-magicwand, are those attachments of any use? My experience using it on my penis is that it will numb it in minutes 🙂

Perhaps there is some good to that feels awesome on the nipples, too? What would that be? So far I tried fingers, fingers with aquaglide (just to make a difference) and some washing-clamps 😛 Felt like that the clamps didn’t to much for me…?

No super o yet, but getting pleasure and zen like state

Have had my helix for 2 months. First insertion was uncomfortable and, but after some practice, this is no longer an issue. I eventually got to point where I could trigger involuntary contractions, but they would only last a few seconds at a time. Then I could keep the involuntaries coming for longer periods but no pleasure. Then I could get intense involunatries with mild pleasure, but no eroticism/horniness. Now I am at the point where I get really horny and warm, strong involuntaries, moderate pleasure, rock hard erections on and off, heavy breathing, tingling, small amount of pre cum, and immediately upon insertion I feel super relaxed and at peace. Its a meditative like sense where every subtle feeling is amplified. After my sessions, I feel very relaxed even not having orgasms. Its like that feeling after getting out of a hot tub and showering off and laying down on your couch. The desire from wanting penile stimulation is different from the desire of prostate/anal stimulation. You kind of have to learn to separate the two.

I also have noticed that my dreams are much more vivid and I dont think its a coincidence. Been having crazy dreams.

Also, If I start with the aneros, I can take it out and go aless once things get started. So I usually go an hour with the aneros, then take it out and I can continue to have sensations indefinitely. I only have stop when my legs get tired.

Vice 2 Size (discomfort)

Recently (around 6 months ago) bought an Aneros Helix trident and have had great success so far, with each session generally getting closer to a Super-o, with the help of a THC vape – feels like I’m always just about there before the feelings disappear and they start to build again. Constant involuntary shaking, clenching and waves etc I’m happy to stick at it and see where I get.

I decided to purchase a Vice 2 thinking I’d prefer something bigger and to experiment with the vibrations – browsed the range and figured it would do the job! No prior experience with prostate massage but wasn’t scared off by the additional size.

I’ve now probably tried the Vice 2 a couple, maybe three times but once it’s in all the way I find it’s a little uncomfortable, not terrible pain or anything but enough to stop me being able to relax fully – changing positions is noticeably worse. No problems at all inserting it, but once it slides into place it’s like a slightly sharp pain which feels like it’s overshooting or just hitting a tender spot.

Has anyone experienced this? And is this something that your body acclimatises to eventually, or am I just gonna have to take the hit and stick with the helix. Could just be the wrong shape for me.

Tingling in prostate between sessions?

I’ve been using my Helix Syn on and off now for just less than a year, with varying levels of success. However, recently I feel like I’ve been understanding my body more and having a bit more luck as a result. I haven’t yet had a super-O, although I can feel myself getting closer, and am getting lots of fluttering and involuntaries during my sessions (I’m currently trying the “quick and dirty” method).

Just in the last week I’ve started to notice that between my sessions I’m getting this interesting sensation in and around my prostate, when I’ve not got the toy in. It’s like a tingling, tickling sensation, which reminds me of a sense of yearning almost. I’m finding that when I focus on this sensation it increases and if I start to clench my muscles ever so slightly it can lead to little flutters and even some precum.

Has anyone else had this experience? Is this part of the prostate awakening process?

Going from Aneros to A-less and back to Aneros orgasms – how I did it

Ive been an Aneros user on and off (mostly off) for about 10 years. Recently I picked it back up and I’ve started having more success than ever.

My success started a few months ago when I used a Helix Syn while lying on my stomach. I find this stimulates my prostate the best, no matter what toy.
I played with it for hours while playing with my nipples, and brought myself to an amazing HFWO.

While I was washing the toy and standing at my sink, I felt my prostate tingle and jolt with electricity. I was washing the toy in my hand, but all I could think about was putting it straight back in me. NO REFRACTORY PERIOD! And so I did. It was incredible.

Bear in mind this is probably 10 mins or so since I had my HFWO on my stomach, but I got back onto my stomach and started experiencing entirely different sensations. Tingling, electricity, involuntary contractions, the lot. I was in heaven! I continued to play like this for a few more hours until I decided it was time for bed. Still no super-O or anything like that.

Fast forward a few weeks/months, I’ve continued to use my Aneros, sometimes with great success, sometimes with none. I started transitioning to getting minimal stimulation with my Aneros in me (probably because of high expectations, etc) and started getting amazing A-less sensations just sitting at my desk doing work. I could get to involuntary contractions, tingling, amazing shaking contractions/orgasms without anything in me. Read more »

Involuntary contractions: slow or fast?

I have a quick question about involuntary contractions. I can get my body to do them, but it requires a certain amount of focus to maintain that balance where my muscles do the contractions automatically. My question is: do people mostly orgasm from the contractions speeding up (i.e. thrusting) , or can you orgasm through the slow good feelings that come out of simply focusing and breathing without any contractions? THANKS!

In my session tonight I had 2 powerful involuntary contractions.

I have had a few good sessions where i really fell the nerves in my tailbone and anus light on fire. Tonight I really did not get much of that(believe i was too tired) but, at some point during my session my whole pelvic floor contracted very forcefully and pulled the Aneros in deep. It honestly scared me.
Is this normal? Should i learn to relax into it or is it something that i need to learn to suppress?