So I have been into anal play long time, I can have 12″ level toys, so yes big stuff. But of course the Super O with aneros would be the ultimate goal. No luck yet. Think I also need to discipline myself more on kegels + reverse kegels. But I also wonder, should I refrain from the big toys? These must have some effect or not?
These days my sessions mostly start out with aneros > njoy pure wand > dildo stuff > maybe some more pure wand.
And while we are at questions, chastity I am also wearing to prevent penile stimulation, but it can be distracting? I guess getting a erection is a good sign when using aneros (although it might be because of the porn I’m watching). But it can be annoying/painfull.
Tag: Kegel Exercises
suggestions in first steps
So I’m doing the kegels for a few weeks now. I use a aneros helix syn a couple of times a week and…nothing interesthing is happening. And like I read in some posts here…be patient.
However I wanted to ask what my first guideline is in the beginning. Do I do nothing with it inside of me and try to focus on relaxation en relaxing my pelvic muscles, letting peristaltic waves do the work or do I activaly do pelvic excercices to get things going?
Second question :
Does arrousal start with a sensations of the aneros or must I be arroused to get the sensations?
Kegels aless?
What is everyones kegels squeeze techniques? Is it anal sphincter with pc and or long or short squeezes? Or maybe something else.
Also is kegels the best way for aless sessions?
Since I’m quarantined and separated from the GF – I’m going to commit to not jerking and Cumming until I have a Super O with my aneros toys.
I have a progasm and helix for the last two years. I enjoy using them and have gotten p waves with them a few times, but mostly I wear them when I’m having sex with the GF or preparing for pegging. I never have had a full Super O only with a AL stimulation (only while pegging a very few times).
My GF had to go back home during to family health issues so I’ve taken this time to challenge myself. No Cumming (from jerking off) until I see her again. It’s been one week so far and Im already so God damn horny. It’s looking like it’s going to be another two weeks until I see her. I haven’t gone that long without cumming since the first few weeks of living in a dorm years ago lol.
How long do you think I will have to wait and refrain from cumming? I know by this week’s end I’ll be driven nuts. So how should I take advantage of this time to really learn how to cum anally? I don’t think I have a breathing technique established. Can someone point me in the run to direction that?
One thing Ive never understood is how the movement should be of the toy? Should I be squeezing so hard it’s going “in and out” of my ass or its more so “moving incrementally millimeter (or centimeter) by millimeter across my prostate?
Finally some success
A few weeks ago I purchase a helix syn trident. Yet, I didn’t have much luck. I kept on trying 2-3 times a week but I got nowhere. I was totally new to prostate-play and spent hours reading articles and Reddit posts but nothing seemed to help. I started to fill like an idiot for spending $70 dollars to stick something up my ass.
Thankfully, I had my first success last night. I fell asleep with the Aneros and when I woke up two hours later, instead of calling it quits, I decided to try kegels and, within a few minutes, there was a distinct feeling of warmth. I continued kegels and I became rock hard, then waves of warmth covered my torso. I should have continued but I got overeager and gave myself a traditional orgasm. Lesson learned, keep your hands off your cock.
I tried again today and I was unable to recreate that magic. I have read multiple times this is a journey and hopefully, I will eventually achieve a super-o; but if not, at least I don’t feel like a complete idiot for spending $70 dollars to stick something up my ass.
First time user super O?
I’m not a stranger to anal play, but purchased the progasm, read some tips online, smoked a little weed and laid down, put it in, watched some porn with headphones and started Kegel exercises. Literally 20-30 minutes later i have a whole body shaking wave of orgasm, body making a v. My ab’s were sore the next day, Lasted about a minute. No ejaculation, but was completely out of breath. Did it again a couple minutes later. Is it possible to have a p-gasm first time using it? Definitely using it again.
Just had a hands free dry O in my van at work!
I was reading some posts on here trying to get inspiration, I’ve had success in the past with my syn achieving dry O’s. I felt the odd throb and decided to do some kegels, I concentrated on the circular rhythm and it built and I got there. No toys or porn just concentration all in the space of about 10mins. I’m still chasing that wet hands free orgasm which I crave and of course the super O but thought I’d share.
Pedaling My Prostate
I’d been experimenting with my Aneros using a combination of the relaxing and alternating clenches/kegels methods for about a month. Usually I would do this while listening to a Nimja erotic hypnosis I learned about on this subreddit. So thanks for that recommendation
Along the way, had experienced some great P-waves that – over a long session – could leave me feeling as sweaty and glowing as great sex with a man and I noticed that these would often be aided by either shifting my weight from leg to leg or pushing into a pillow.
Thinking about those motions, I realized there was an activity that created them automatically: riding an exercise bike. So i inserted the Aneros and set about my workout.
Happy surprise – the rhythmic motion of the legs and pressure of the seat created a gentle, constant stimulation that left me with several intense P-wave moments over the course of a little over an hour.
As with most of my sessions, I prefer to finish with an ejaculatory orgasm, and I’ll tell you: by the time I got off the bike I was so hot and bothered, it was moments before I was ready to blow.
It’s definitely a departure from more “stillness” related methods but if you are looking for a more active, different kind of meditative state in which to ride that pony, give it a try. 🚲😊💦
I feel not much at all. Is it time to switch toys?
So due to personal reasons I have to throw away my helix syn trident and replace it with something else.
Right now I apparently feel basically nothing on my prostate, and my sessions are absolutely dull. I just lay there waiting to feel something and over the course of an hour I feel maybe one or two pleasurable sensations and the rest of it is just basically me lying with a small thing in my butt that doesn’t feel particularly good or bad.
I have the excuse to switch up my toys, but I don’t know if it’s a matter of just trying a new toy out or just riding the waves.
Yes, I do kegels, no I don’t smoke weed.
What have people done in my situation?
My First Aneros Right Now
Okay so I get the trident syn after work, race home and get in the shower, clean up, start prepping,
I’ve been working kegels about a week and done some fingering around in the past. I’ve read every story on here I could.
I get it in, frustrated about everything, my girlfriend, job, depression, everything. I can’t concentrate so I get up go have a toke, come back in after a walk, and now I’m taking selfies. I’m self conscious and a big boi, but I have a nice butt so I’m here now trying to get all the decent angles of my ass without hiding the rest of me too much (not something I’d normally ever do) singing a completely random song, and my p is on fire all of a sudden. It’s been about 2 hours so far.
I’m having to stop moving a round so I can type this. Every move is a shock in my body rn. And definitely the prostate. If you’re ever unsure just be patient it will show itself.
I’m only about a [3] right now high wise so I’m hoping the thc isn’t too responsible for this. Pleasure level is a [5] as well.
I don’t expect anything more tonight, but it’s a bonus. I found the biggest turn on was reading all of your guys’ stories. It really got my penis out of the scenario and focused on the prostate.