If it helps

A cock ring really zero’ed it in for me. You’re basically deconstructing an orgasm, so having something that really keeps your attention riveted on that area super helps you to feel what you feel and to meditate on what you feel.

Remember! Just enjoy the sensations.

I’m 20 years old and I bought the Aneros about a month ago

I first got the Aneros because I feel like my penis is getting less and less sensitive due to jerking off too much so I want to experiment with prostate orgasms (i heard of it from somewhere). Little did I know, I stumbled upon a tool to get MMO (Im already aware of this from Mantak Chia but I never thought a toy could enhance/facilitate the process)

My first session was great. I felt the peeing sensation and even had a bit of precum.

My second session I dripped a lot of precum while humping something.

My fourth to sixth (session today) have been stagnant.

I want to know if maybe my sphincter and PC muscles are too strong hence it takes forever for them to quiver and tire out?

Ive always had some good feeling, even small orgasms from urinating way before my purchase of the Aneros

Today in my 6th session, I turned on meditation music and tried clenching 60 seconds at a time. But my muscles never seemed to tire out.

I tried the relax and do nothing approach and breathe deeply but I end up losing my grip of the Aneros.

Im not frustrated, I might be chasing the orgasm too hard maybe. But I’m getting increasingly frustrated not just because I cant get to the orgasm, but it seems like my first few sesssions were good and my progress is reversing.

My adventures so far

Hi everyone,

28 year old virgin here. Thought I’d share my journey that I have had with prostate play over the past two to three-ish months. No guarantee that any of these steps will work for you. it is just my personal experience. Also I really hate labeling super-o’s or prostate orgasm. As I believe some people miss out or not realize they’ve had one. As they expect them to be exactly like other peoples experiences. My reminder to anyone struggling; just go with what feels pleasurable don’t try to label it.

I first got interested in prostate play because I was disappointed that supposedly only women can have multiple orgasms. I was raised in a very conservative religious home so it has taken me a while to discover things. I am still learning sex related things to this day. I came across the fact that the prostate is the male equivalent to the female g-spot. My Interest was piqued but of course it had the taboo of mostly being accessible through the exit only hole. After mulling it over in my head for multiple months and seeing a reddit post about how its natural to pleasure ones self via anal. I went for it.

A Tale of two sessions. An Example of mindset importance.

Exhibit Saturday Lunchtime.
Backdrop – Much work with a carport build still to be done.
Son is stressing out about meeting his GFS parents.
But I do have 90min to myself for some playtime.
Smoke half a joint. Try to relax. Sniff some poppers.
Small PGASM results, but it’s weak and I struggle to get
the next three PGASMS. After thirty minutes I give up and have a
short nap as there is too much on my mind to relax adequately.
In short – I can get to PGASM but it’s a struggle and nothing
much is developing from them.

Exhibit Sunday afternoon.

Son is at girfriends and things have gone well. Carport all done.
Wife has gone shopping and will be some time.
As she left she handed me a towel and put my hands on her breasts saying ‘enjoy, you’ve earned this’ a wink and she left me and my prostate to well.. go mad I think.

Because I am now very horny with an achy grumpy prostate that is making it’s presence felt – a quick brush of a nipple is all it takes
to tell me that things are more than ready back there.
Smoke a full joint. Meditate for 10mins. Get out Progasm and Mason Jarfor poppers. Mini PGASMS are occuring non stop at this point. Lube up with liberal amounts of cocunut oil. Insert very slowly. PGASM on insertion. Another on lying down. Both knee wobblingly strong. One long inhale of poppers from Jar. Focus on relaxing everything. Touch nipples lightly.

Looking for a few ideas for a meditation/self pleasure retreat

Hi there. I’m a first time poster here but have been following the community for some time (I’ve probably got another post or two coming in short order with different questions) but this is my first time reaching out.

I’ve been having good luck exploring all these new sensations and in particular found good results mixing aneros play with my mindfulness practice and some gentle yoga etc. I have some extended alone time coming up and am looking to do at least one day-long yoga/mediation/play “retreat.” I have some ideas for this, but am wondering about whether any of you have done one of these and have ideas about how to structure the flow of that throughout the day, even as specific as what order you think these practices are best mixed, what length of breaks and how often to work them in, ideally for food/bathroom breaks as well. For extended play how often do you take out or swap the aneros to keep the sensations fresh, etc?

If any of you have done something like this before, I’m all ears when it comes to advice you had about what worked and what didn’t, and anything I might overlook.

Thanks for all the positive support here, it’s great to see.

More results from going Aless than I’ve had in the 15 years I’ve been using Aneros

For reference, due to a flare up of GI issues, I’ haven’t touched my Aneros in about 7-8 months. I’ve also been doing meditation lately, so my drive has been higher than it’s been in a long time.

I’ve been following the Mindgasm lessons for the past week or so and have gotten more consistent and better session results than I ever did with the Aneros. Aneros has always been very up and down for me, where one session might be really good and showing progress, but the next session will basically be a dud. I know it’s only been a week but the fact that I’ve gotten good results 3-4 sessions in a row has me excited.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

The no chemicals/weed 5+min orgasm.

After finally getting to what I assume is super O land on a little bit of weed (as a prestart booster) and low amounts of poppers, I wanted to see if the wiring had adjusted enough to super O on nothing but meditation and a few stretches.
Chose the helix syn over progasm (because I need to be hyper relaxed to get to good places on the progasm).
Meditated for 15 min.
Stretched. Inserted well lubed Syn.
Gentle wave contractions. Couple of big squeeze and holds and… off we go… series of pwaves first then a slow pgasm then some more pwaves, then a single HUGE PGASM that rolled through me for I have no idea how long but minutes passed as I drifted into space cadet land the orgasm ebbed and peaked and ebbed and just when I thought I was coming off it, it climbed higher.
My throat is sore from gasping and trying not to scream.
So yes – amazing things can happen off chemicals and perhaps being 2 days off Cigarettes is helping also (low nicotine vaping instead).
Wasn’t a long session but in the name of scientific research I am so glad I went on it.

Finally making some progress

I have been thinking of posting here for a while. This is going to be a rambling post so TL;DR

I bought a Helix Syn in September of 2019 after seeing Aneros orgasm videos on the web for years. Decided to finally try it for myself. Used the Syn about twice a week for around one month and got bored with it and stopped. I found that it felt okay but after squeezing my PC muscles for about 10 or 15 minutes I would either doze off or decide to watch gay porn. The Syn did seem to enhance my penile orgasms but not so much that I felt like putting it in just for the enhanced penile orgasms. BTW I have a major, major addiction to gay porn. Or had. I’ll get to that later. Anyway, I would only pop the syn in every now and again 3 or 4 months at a stretch. That changed in January and it was the strangest thing. I got up to go pee one night around 3:30 AM. When I got back in bed I was just laying on my side and was just sort of sleepily squeezing my PC muscles (which I don’t usually do) and I began to think what if the pleasant sensation of peeing occurred further back in my prostate. Then I started to imagine what that would feel like while still squeezing my PC muscles. And that is when it hit. My muscles just started spasming on their own and I had this curious, very pleasurable tingling sensation from around my prostate. It only lasted maybe 5 to 10 seconds but I guess I got hooked. Mind you my Syn was in my dresser drawer, not even in my butt. Decided to start using the Syn again the next night. I’ve been trying to figure it out like a puzzle how to get those same sensations again and I am making real progress. Last night I went for about an hour and ½ and had the involuntary contractions + feelings of impending orgasm and that happened four or five times. With practicing deep breathing and kegels I feel that a progasm is within my grasp. Weirdly (again) about two weeks ago I suddenly lost interest in porn. Not altogether but it is much easier to just shrug it off and not watch any. Something does sort of concern me though. Around the time my interest in porn fell off, it seemed like maybe my libido fell off too. When I try to have penile orgasms now, they aren’t very satisfying almost like I’m not even climaxing. Also, it feels like there is a sort of congested feeling in my prostate.

Multi-HFO Via Nipple Stimulation! How to have 10,20, 30, 40 or more orgasms:

Ok

So many out there usually most likely use dildos or vibrators inside the anus, or something like an Aneros to trigger Hands Free Orgasms, some may use Erotic ASMR hypno audios to trigger HFO dry orgasms.One method is as powerful those (and doesn’t require an enema), is self done Nipple stimulation! One can achieve 20, 30, 40 shuddering body orgasms with no ejaculation. I average 20~45 orgasms myself, they are sooo good, jacking off just doesn’t compare IMO!

To begin to ‘rewire’ one’s brain to get sensitive nipple that induce pleasure wave and dry orgasms, is via relaxation.Laying on your back with legs somewhat bent at the knee feet on resting on the bed is the best position for this!

Orgasm Bootcamp

I am looking to launch a private Open Orgasm Bootcamp. The purpose is to help men who are looking to have more enhanced orgasms via meditation, arousal exercises, and prostate stimulation.

Basics

Length: 6 weeks

Location: Primarily through a private Reddit forum (ie, subreddit)

Cost: None

Reward: $20 Visa giftcard

Max participants: 100

Min participants: 15

Requirements

Open to physiotypical male-bodied participants only (exceptions may be made for trans individuals, please contact me to see if you qualify)

Two toys

Passive prostate toy (like, but not necessarily an, Aneros Helix Syn)

Lovense Edge (either model) programmable vibrator

Active participation on at least a weekly basis (participants with substandard participation will not be eligible for the $20 gift card)

Details

Scheduled meditative and masturbatory exercises, varying week to week

Daily discussion threads

Polls and other data gathering

No personally identifying information is necessary, however photo proof of owning the required toys will be requested. All data gathered is assumed to be reusable in any future form (but again, nothing that could possibly identify you will be gathered or requested). An email address is needed for the giftcard, but it can be a burner email.

If you are interested please answer the poll on [my blog](https://openingmen.com/2021/02/05/open-orgasm-bootcamp-call-for-interest/)