The virtues of temporary ejaculatory abstinence versus quenching the fires of horniness

I have carried on with my temporary ejaculatory abstinence, as propounded by Chia in "The Multi-Orgasmic Man". I am even more aroused than I would otherwise have been, and I have learnt to love that feeling of horniness, instead of being frustrated by it, and then NEEDING to have a short wet orgasm to quench the fires.

I still love my wet orgasms – occasionally – but in between times, I get aneros-less random p-waves, mini-Os and even the odd dry-O, and if I focus on my prostate and think erotic thoughts, these occur almost at will, and are even more intense. The slightest PC muscle contractions bring on these p-waves and Os, and NOW, these have also been joined by anal quivering, that does the same. I also enjoy masturbating to wave after wave of dry Os, and much the same happens in sex. It is like I am discovering my sexuality and my body for the first time – again.

I had a series of intense anal quiverings and PC muscle contractions yesterday, and decided that since I had some time available at last, I would be very self-indulgent, and have an aneros session. My model of choice was the eupho.

I didn't do a lot of prep – the immediacy of my horniness was enough. I lubed up, slowly inserted the eupho, and had an instant very intense dry orgasm, that made me scream out louder than I think I can remember. I liked the initial coldness of the eupho – like an ice cube on a nipple, I suppose?

Tick Tock

Hello,
I had just got home around 4am after a long day at work and I was ready to have a nice session before i went to bed. My ass was looking forward to it as well on the way home by constantly having small to larger contractions without an aneros inserted. In fact, it's starting to happen again now as I type this out. I find occurring more and more either consciously or sub-consciously while I just sitting or laying down. I can feel my anus, pc and ab muscles roll and twist all around. Nothing major from those occurrences… yet just moments and pings of pleasure. Anyway, I get myself all prepped and ready to go, lay out towel over chair seat, insert and away we go. I get on my knees, rest my arms and chest on the seat and just "do nothing" as I let the pace of my breathing control the movements of the helix. In this position, my diaphragm is really in good control. Each inhale and exhale helps to bring different sensations to the table, I literally can feel the helix move when i breathe this way. I start pulling some contractions and I can feel my cock starting to become erect. Within a couple strokes of the helix, it is fully engorged. It almost hurts! My ass takes the cue and starts to involuntarily contract as my breathing intensifies. Then i get the strangest feeling like a constant ocean wave rolling all the way through my body in concert with my breathing and contracting. Up and down the entire length of my body. I start to shake. First, my head and jaw then i t moves down to my arms and finally through my torso to my legs. I am moaning and breathing so deeply now. Like before I can feel my body being "pushed" more onto my chest until my face is almost buried in the back of the chair. I can feel a drip of pre cum on my thigh. My cock is going crazy, as well as, my ass. My legs, arms and chest tighten up as the first of a multiple burst of successive mini Os hit me. My right arms is starting to fall asleep after either cradling my head or supporting it for so long. My body starts to thrust involuntarily like I'm fucking. The towel hits my nipples just right and their hardness causes even more new feelings. I start to pinch and roll my nipples as THE HELIX GLIDES IN AND OUT OF ME EFFORTLESSLY. It is much easier to attend to my left nipple, so I lightly circle, rub and pinch it. The sensations are amazing. I can feel another intense feeling coming on and a major O hits me. I collapse like a rag doll… I am spent….

Aneros spin offs to date, November 2012

Hi guys,

The Aneros prostate massager was invented initially as a medical device to enable men to massage their prostate without having to go to their doctors to do it for them. The Aneros was developed to control and shrink BPH )Benign Prostatic Hypoplasia(, an enlarged prostate condition in men which may be a precursor to prostate cancer.

But men who use the Aneros, it has definite positive spin offs who promote general good health, even sexually to men. This blog entry is devoted to what I have experienced from the Aneros both within and outside my sessions.

I began my Aneros sessions early Sunday evening last June 3 with the newest Aneros model, the Helix Syn. The Helix Syn is ideal to Aneros beginners because it has an overlay of soft silicone. I was amazed at how easily the Helix Syn slipped into my anus that evening. Previously, I had an aversion to anal play. The Helix Syn was a pleasant surprise.

I experienced my first episode of P-waves with the Aneros three weeks later early Sunday morning June 24. Later that morning during my walking from breakfast out, I experienced my first walkinggasm. It happened spontaneously out of the blue. I had to take great care in walking during those few minutes to maintain my balance!

Joygasm & total energy orgasm

There are two parts to this entry. The first occurred without any model used at all at night as I was heading to bed. The second part occurred as I woke the next morning and several hours before needing to go to work.

The first part is more of an observation, and also an invitation for more information.

The other night I was on chat and several members were hopping in and out, several topics of conversation came and went, and about three or four hours passed in total. I was so drained from my 12th day in a row of working that chat was a much needed stress release for me. I was beyond giddy and silly to say the least. I think it was borderline delusional from working so much. At any rate, I was having a genuine good time.

Maiden Voyage

The Titanic may have sunk on her maiden voyage. I, however, sailed through with flying colors on my maiden voyage with my newly launched Syn. She is a fine looking vessel, from bow to stern, port to starboard. And she cruises as smoothly as any model yet.

After christening her by cleansing her with warm soapy water I was ready. I had done my usual preparation, manscaped, showered, douched, warm room, low light, at my side – a towel and more lube.

I slipped the Syn inside easily. It fit me like a glove. I knew it was there, but it felt like a part of me and not just something up my ass. It took very little time, only a few seconds, to begin feeling the sensations. In less than two minutes I had my first Dry Orgasm. During the almost 90 minute session, I lost count of the number of Dry and Super Orgasms I had.

The ride reminded me of the newness of my first Helix experiences. It was all fresh and exploratory – new things discovered throughout. All of the orgasms, from P to Mini to Dry to Super to Calm Seas, were substantially more intense than I have experienced recently. I am a full-body, LOTS of movement type of guy during my big orgasms, and these were definitely full-body with tons, TONS of movement. My cock went between flaccid and rock-hard over and over. The pre-cum was flowing freely. During the violent Super O's, the pre-cum would fling out of me and spray all over with bliss. I had to remove my glasses; pre-cum drops are hard to see through!

Anerosless Ecstasy and Auto-Thrusting

Had a horny morning yesterday, and thought I should add it to the blog.

Woke up very horny, and began nipple stimulation whilst still half asleep. My nipples had been stimulated already by the duvet cover, and as soon as I touched them, mini-orgasms started. I continued – my penis swelled really hard and jumped as my PC muscles contracted, and in so doing, also massaged my prostate. I could feel my prostate swelling, and remembering to relax and breathe, an intense dry orgasm started and lasted for about 6 seconds. In this time, my abdomen and arse muscles vibrated, and the lower half of my body jumped around – sometimes it is like auto-thrusting (for want of a better description), only much faster than would normally occur in sex for example.

More relaxing, and more deep breathing, and then another dry orgasm, and then another emanating from the decline of the former. On it goes, getting more and more intense – the dry orgasms lasting longer and the gaps between getting shorter. At this point my penis becomes less hard with each dry orgasm, and my foreskin is filled with precum. I begin masturbating to near the point of no return, and sink back each time, into a chain of dry orgasms. I am gasping aloud at each one, my breathe becomes shorter and MUCH faster, and my body begins to feel hot and sweaty. After 40 minutes of almost reaching the point of no return many times, and sinking back into orgasm afterwards, the dry orgasms are very frequent, and each one probably lasts for 10 to 15 seconds. Even in the lulls between, my abdominal and leg muscles vibrate deliciously.

Dan Tien and the Perverted Gremlin

So this week I've been focusing on deep belly breathing (as I'm sure you all know from my last post), and that hasn't changed since yesterday. The one thing that's different is that I discovered that uncontrollable smiling and euphoric feeling are also caused by amygdala clicking (concept brought to my attention by chat here last night), and I'm convinced that this is the explanation. Just thought I'd preface my progress with some additional discoveries.

So the title of this pretty much explains the last 24 hours of my journey. My drive home was another deep breathing exercise, but this time I focused more on the energies exchanging. Visualizing the energy flow into my stomach and travel to all corners of my body, pushing the negative energies into my lungs to be exhaled. As I expel these negative energies, relaxation washes over me, and I'm left with a feeling of serenity and a stillness throughout my body and mind. As I got closer to home, I became aware of these energies collecting in my stomach and as I got home, began to focus on them. This kicked off a quick 'less session for about 5 minutes, and as I pulled up to the house started bouncing between my prostate and stomach. As my focus on these energies grew, my mind slipped into nothingness and I became these energies. I could feel (and see) the pulsing and shifting of these energies flow throughout my body, even though my conscious mind was only aware of the energy in my stomach. Since I was home, I couldn't stay out there long, so I opened my eyes and found myself completely rejuvinated, like my day was just beginning.

That Aneros sweet spot: Sessions for October 20 & 22, 2012

Hi guys,

I think I have found my "sweet spot" which I believe my Aneros big buddies have begun to locate in recent weeks. But before I go into detail about my "sweet spot," I shall proceed at once to a description of my Aneros sessions which I had last Saturday afternoon and my session yesterday morning on Monday.

I find that some foreplay is a wonderful prelude for an Aneros session. Normally I like to do the Kegel Exercises some and stimulate my nipples. Those activities most often arouse me sexually for the Aneros. But Saturday morning, I wore my Nutty Buddy Cup combo underneath my camo cargo shorts as I went to the barbershop for a buzz cut and a beard trim. Then I went had breakfast at my favorite coffeehouse and did some grocery shopping before returning home around 11 a.m. I just loved how my Nutty Buddy Cup caressed my testicles and penis, and even stimulated my awakened prostate during my long walk and I had breakfast at the coffeehouse and leisurely Kegeled away. 😀

I was so turned on that I had my session at 3 p.m. I began with the Progasm Classic, but peristalsis set in very quickly. Then I switched to the Maximus which gave me a much better massage for a half an hour. Then I proceeded to the Progasm Ice which worked well for another thirty minutes.

Maybe not so old? Dry orgasms and non-orgasmic ejaculation

A brief introduction. I am a 50 year old gay man, who has been at this for 2 years. No super-Os that I can identify thus far, but plenty of action. Started with the helix, and have added the eupho. I have more recently also added Taoist inspired ejaculatory abstinence, which has moved my experiences on dramatically. As a result I now have regular dry orgasms in sex and whilst masturbating, even without using an aneros, but in return I have to restrict the frequency of ejaculatory orgasms.

This morning, I awoke very horny after just 3 days abstinence. My partner gently stroked my upper back a couple of times, and gave me some nice mini-orgasms there and then. I decided I would get up and work, but I was just so damn horny. I went to the toilet (is there such a thing as too much information?) and had a few more mini-orgasms as I had a pee and more. I cleaned up afterwards, and went back to bed, still half asleep.

Started to get VERY hard, and touched my nipples and seemed to get even harder. I spontaneously began thinking about my aneros and how good it might feel slipping across my prostate, but work beckoned, and I decided to wank instead. It was then that I discovered just how horny I really was. I was like a thing possessed. I wanked myself to the edge several times, and had some really strong dry orgasms as I relaxed back into them from just before the point of no return. The precum was flowing, and I fingered my foreskin, and gave myself some more dry orgasms. [I just had a dry orgasm while typing, thinking about how intense they had been].

Chat to the max!

Over the top Mutual Aneros session through chat.

After having just discovered return of Aneros Chat center, I was hanging by myself when one other member popped in. After some back and forth discovery of the cool new chat features, we got down to swapping stories and techniques.

As always for me, I was riding while chatting. Soon the conversation veered towards how I was doing (great as always) and the sensations of my session. As I described in detail how my PRO was driving me crazy, could tell chat buddy was starting to feel it.

Popped into PM and buddy came right out and said my commentary got him so aroused he started impromptu Eupho session.

Initially, we went back and forth describing our sessions to each other. However, when first Super-O hit it went into overdrive! Chat filled with expletives and many misspellings!

We started ordering each other around. Squeeze… Release… Tweak your nipples. Stand-up. Sit-down. Pull you cock. Spread you ass. Drive it deeper. As Orgasms approached chat filled with superlatives driving to drive each other's pleasure higher and higher. No sooner had one wave of Super-O's passed and we were off on another roller-coaster!

The chat and session kept getting better and more animalistic. The sharing of our pleasures had us so hyped up on orgasmic energy it was overwhelming at times. We even got to a point where we had to stop for a little bit to relax and take a water break.