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chuckjo2000

Joined: 18 Oct 2009
Posts: 6
Location: indiana
Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 8:37 am Post subject: sharing a very intimate moment……..

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i would like to thank those who have welcomed me to the forum…i was asked whether i had removed the handle to my aneros…yes, somewhat….im using the 'maximus' model, which is one of 3 that i have….knowing that each model offers a different type of 'thumper' (that's what i like to call it), i've also found that each can also offer it's own individual pressure point/points on my prostate…i was introduced to the 'maximus' through a good friend here, 'toobadsochad'…upon receiving the maximus, i could tell 'immediately' that i was now getting the stimulation of the prostate that was somewhat missing before in my helix, as well as my sgx…i do not use the aneros sitting, so therefore, im not bothered by the handle. the only reason i parciallly removed the handle was so as to no interfer with hitting the mattress when im laying on my back….otherwise, the handle causes no problems…..
im going to share, with you, a very intimate moment in my life….this just happened this past sunday afternoon….totally unexpected….i know this will be a somewhat long post, but i feel i need to communicate this experience with all who are or may be heading to the same boat, that of diminished sexual ability for vaginal intercourse…..
im a 54 year old man, in good general, overall health….ive been married to the same woman for 30 years, and we have 3 grown children and one grandson…life with my wife has been very good in the last few weeks, but it has not always been so….nothing seriously bad, but there have been the 'moments' , that perhaps all marriages go through….there are quite a few roadblocks and potholes that can try to kick you off the road, and sex is one of those, which, if not attended to, can really create lots of tensions, hard feelings, and a general feeling of worthlessness…..i would like to share my story, now….of how the aneros has opened up new sexual intimacy and love in my marriage….when sex was 'new' in our marriage, and we were much younger,, it didnt matter really how we got off….we tried all the positions, did each other at a whim, had sex carefree with no concerns..

My First Two Super Sessions

Here are two entries from the first sessions that took me to Super O Land. Both are from August 2009, only three months after receiving my Helix and only a few sessions. These were from my first Aneros screen name. I no longer use that account. Rather lengthy, but descriptive.
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Three and a Half Hours –

I had today off. My wife and kids went to school and work. I was given a whole day alone. Perfect time to take a LONG stride on my journey.

I'm in my early fifties, married to a wonderful woman who is so supportive of my explorations with my Helix. Usually I put the Aneros in when I go to bed, it does its magic, then my wife does her magic and I have multiple, dry orgasms. We pleasure each other and I have a huge, tremendous traditional orgasm. We continue to cuddle and she knows what to do to make my mini-orgasms continue. Her touch is amazing. Well, you'd think that was amazing enough. Oh, no…

Back to today.

I took my son to school and returned home about 7:30 AM. My wife was just about to leave for work and my daughter was spending a few days with a friend. I had the house to myself. Carpe diem.

Sessions Four

First thanks for the comments, they keep me going and as I said before they really make me feel a member of a very special group. Keep them coming. Also I have learned how to spell "orgasm".

I was traveling this week so I had a lot of time to be alone and continue my journey. I continue to get a great amount of pleasure from my Aneros. The session was very short, but very intense. I had a super O. I stimulated my nipples and began to thrash. Alternating mild contractions and stronger contractions the pleasure was immense. I started to feel like I was going to cum. (that pleasurable feeling in my hips). I had started thrusting hard and it felt this tremendous urge to cum. All of sudden everything came togehter and it felt like I left my body. Totally exhausted afterwards.

One thing you all could give my feedback on is erections. I am now starting to have them during the session; they come and go. I am always somewhat erect during most of the session. Do you ever get to a point where you hold a full erection the whole session.

Also, I continue to have so many contractions through out the night and into the following day. They were really strong in my anal area and so pleasurable. I wonder if those in the meeting was in could see pleasure on my face.

Session 3

Thanks all for the comments, you make me feel that I am a member of a special group. Please make more, I need the support

I just completed my third session and I continue to make progress. I still have a lot twitching and shaking, and have several dry orgaisms of varying intensity. I feel that I am getting very close to a super O and my have even past it. There are times when I can cannot stop stimulating my nipples and I am thrashing around and I feel I need a release and it comes. Once I was on my knees and I just collapsed. Such pleasure!

The greatest thing are the contractions and orgaisms the following day. It first started at the gym in the shower. The warm water relaxes me and I just had wave after wave of pleasure.This continued at the office where every hour I had to close my door and grasp the desk and let the waves of pleasure come. They are truly orgaisms in that I feel so relieved and weak afterwards

I wish I had known about Aneros earlier in my life.

Second Session

First thank you all for the feedback and encouragement you have given me.I feel that I am a member of a very special group.

Now on to the second session, I could not wait so early this morning I had my second session with the MGX and it was unbelievably prleasurable. As with the first session very easy insertion; 15 min of relaxation and then gentle contractions while stimulating my nipples. Arousal came very quickly and I started feeling many pleasurable sensations. I had more quaking than in the first session. I worked up to a dry organism that was extremely intense. The post organismic contractions were the strongest I ever had and went on a long time.

I believe I am getting closer to the super O in that I am now get the beginnings of an erection during the session.

The greatest thing is that I am still aroused. I went to the health club this morning and felt good feelings the whole time. But what comes next was pure pleasure. Relaxing in the hot tub, I sarted having involuntary contractions and throwing P-waves. Such pleasure! By the time I got to the shower the contractions had intensified. I had to hold to the shower bar as the P waves went through my body. I got a spontaneous erection.
WOW! I am still feeling light contractions.

Nice results again!

So, I have to remind myself to type up these blogs right after an Aneros session. As I seem to lose a fair amount of the enthusiasm the next day. LOL

Yesterday I had two sessions. The first one was fantastic! The second a lot more milder. I seem to be back on track to not having a super-T at the end of the session. So I'm abstaining from ejaculating. Yesterdays first session was amazing, and I knew prior to starting. I was sitting at my computer, and my whole body felt electric, my nipples were constantly hard and sensitive. It felt like my whole body was charged energetically. I hardly needed any looking at porn to get me ready.

I've found recently that arching my back while laying on my back really helps with feeling pleasure. It's like the P-tab, and the head on the Progasm really hit the right spot in that position. I was able to attain a swollen, very aroused, and very sensitive prostate several times throughout the session. Also the sensitive part on the front side of the anus was really sensitive and pleasurable. Several times I could feel it move upwards towards the prostate. Wow! Boy when you can find a fantasy that really gets you going, it also really makes the world of difference.

As I type this I feel my body getting excited again. I guess I'll be having another session soon. 😀 LOL

Grinding Away

I haven’t really had a bad session since starting the KSMO. One thing the KSMO really helps with is with the discipline to only use the Aneros three times a week. The Peridise is my weapon of choice since it produces results with a minimum of effort and a maximum of mobility.

I have 4 different kinds of sessions 1) Aneros 2) KSMO 3) The session I like to have when I lay down in bed at night and my prostate starts throbbing and I just relax and focus without either Aneros or KSMO and 4) My favorite, but least frequent, sessions with my SO. Not included are general spousal sex sessions which end in ejaculation and kick off another cycle of arousal building.

All these sessions result in intense sensations that I don’t know how they can keep going without release. And oh how sensitive my nipples have become! The general cycle of orgasm starts out with arousal building with session types 1, 2 and 3 and end when the wife wants it to or I need a good nights sleep – ‘cause otherwise, as the days pass by, the little walnut keeps me awake longer and longer.

Still, despite the constant cycle of arousal building, intense sensations and p-waves there have been no breakthrough moments of mini-o’s, dry-o’s or super-o’s.

Getting Started

I had a major turning point on Session #4 so have lumped the first three sessions together. These sessions didn't move very far through the Wiki list of milestones. But I smoothed out a lot of basics and learned what a contraction was.

Aside from the nuts and bolts of "session management" the big project was getting my wife OK with the idea of 'female orgasms for men' So, she is OK with it but, without penis work, she sees her role as 'non-existant.' Eventually I want her involved in nipple and torso work but that's still several sessions away.

Session #1 (the basics)

SGX then Helix. Pre-lube: 10cc K-Y jelly Tool lube: K-Y jelly 75 min. 5/7/09

For session #1 I skipped the shower/mood-adjustment and focused on running through the 'basics' in the instructions and in the Wiki. The prep was pretty straightforward but I over-did on the amount of rectal rinse. That left several ounces of excess water in my colon which later diluted the K-Y lube. (this, was to become a recurring theme — I just don't discharge the whole 4 ounces). I started doing basic contractions with the SGX to see how it played with my bph. While it did produce a generous amount of pre-cum, I didn't sense any major prostate pressure or stimulation during contractions.

Swapped to the Helix. Sensed definite prostate contact. Anal contractions produced a 'jabbing' feeling. The 'pleasure-to-discomrfort' (P2D) ratio wasn't great but was liveable.

Correlation?

So last nights Aneros session I noticed a correlation between when I got really aroused, my prostrate swelled in size, as did my nipples. My nipples became much more erect and sensitive as I played with them. I was surprised to realize this. Too bad it didn't last all that long. Makes me wonder if this is what women feel in their nipples when they are excited.

But it made me also think that perhaps these physical changes and sensations in my prostrate and nipples are the lead up to a super orgasm experience. Anyone care to comment?

It's nipple time!

So I had another session today. And am very likely to have another if my prostate keeps making these pleasurable sensations as I sit here typing. So I've had two sessions so far of the relax and do nothing approach. And previous to this, my nipples gradually became sensitive to being touched over the course of a few months. They never used to be sensitive at all.

But since todays session, they've become even more sensitive. And they now also become incredibly erect, which is exciting in itself!!! It is almost hard to believe! But I like it a lot!!! 😀 My favorite technique so far, is a thumb lightly pressing on top of each one and rotating them gently. It seems lighter more subtle manipulation takes the pleasure a lot further. Is this what the women I've dated have been trying to tell me all these years about not trying to "tune in Tokyo" on their nipples? LOL Or using a very light touch on their clitoris. I joke, but I suspect it's true. I guess like anything in my life, I have to experience it personally to learn the lesson.

I've also started getting leg shakes/trembles during the session. In addition, I've noticed with todays session that I unknowingly made what I considered to be a heck of a lot of pre-cum. It's hard to tell though if it is more than usual. Because normally when I used to lay on my side, any pre-cum produced would get soaked up by the towel I lay over the bed. But I thought it was worth mentioning, as I couldn't believe how much was there. The crease where my leg meets my pubic area was drenched! LOL