Tag: PC

Starting point (I’m quite lost…)

Hi. As I have not had any progress, I am looking forward to some advice. So this is my story.

Last month I ordered a helix trident in order to have new experiences with it. I’m not new to inserting prostate toys, I bought a prostate vibrator last summer, but I didn’t really enjoy it and I wanted to “start again”.

The thing is that first sessions using the aneros were fine. I was able to ejaculate 3 nights in a row, but I don’t think it was because of the toy (I have been practising HFO for the last 5 years and I achieved my first wet orgasm 2 years ago. So I give credit to my experience and nipple stimulation rather than to the toy).

I’ve been trying to improve my performance with the aneros during the past few weeks, but nothing seems to work. I try not to touch my dick and watch porn. Besides, I always relax before a session and I try the “do nothing” technique, but nothing really happens. I’ve also tried to move the toy making use of my PC muscles, but it doesn’t feel confortable or pleasurable.

I am quite lost. Do you know any first step I could take?

First experience with pleasurable shaking.

Hello. I own the Helix Syn Trident and have been using it for about a year and have been making slow but steady progress.

Last night, it was late and I was tired, but I felt like giving it a go, so I did.

Recently I’ve been focusing on staying relaxed throughout a session and allowing sensations to happen without trying to actively grow them. Very recently I’ve begun to experience spasms and pulsing in my sphincter and pc muscle, and last night I actively and continually relaxed even as the spasms happened.

As the sensation grew I felt a slight warmth and tingles spread around my pelvis, I felt a little high and meditative. Then my legs started to completely vibrate all on their own and it actually felt warm and nice still.

I’ve had shaking before, but it was always a distraction and not pleasurable at all. This is the first time it felt nice, like it was part of the experience in a good way.

A short time later, the shaking and sensation slowly subsided and I was too tired (sleepy) to continue.

I am pretty excited to try again this weekend! : )

crazy ride

On friday, 14.1 I had an incredible ride with my mgx trident and I still wonder what I have experienced.
This is what happened:
I was lying on my back with my feet on the bed. I listened to a binaural soundtrack to relax. After about 20 minutes I was only slightly aware of the Aneros and it gently stimulated my prostate but nothing out of the ordinary. Then I noticed my face contorting without being able to control it. First I squeezed my eyes tightly shut, starting with my right eye, moving on to my left, and when they loosened, it moved on to my mouth. The whole thing felt like a circle. It felt strange but as I was letting myself go without questioning, I did not ended it willingli. It happened a few more times which is why I had to film myself. I found it very strange but also exciting and funny at the same time. All the while, I felt the Aneros still pleasantly pressing against my prostate.
Then, without warning, my stomach muscles tightened. I could release this tension willingly, but I just wanted to let go, so I did nothing of the sort. But I got to the point where my abdominal muscles started to hurt because the tension didn’t release. So I relaxed them. But shortly afterwards it happened again and again for longer and longer. Sometimes I could hardly catch my breath, but it felt very exciting as I was getting used to it I learned to breath through this contractions. Then, in addition to my abdominal contraction, the pelvis also started to move as if the Aneros was pushing firmly in and out of me. It felt like i was getting fucked by someone. That also felt very good. Throughout this time I kept feeling my prostate pulsating and sending out a kind of wave throughout my body (in all directions). Sometimes I noticed that for a millisecond a kind of bright spark is ignited in my prostate or penis and it felt marvelous. This state went on for 27 minutes.
To ad more pleasure I also teased my nipples. As they are getting more sensitive since I use the aneros.
Then, when I no longer wanted to just let go and had slight hopes that today was the day of days, my changed the position and lied on my left side with one leg up. Unfortunately, it didn’t feel so good anymore and I turned back onto my back after ten more minutes. Then I resumed my breathing technique (deep into my belly) and it all started again first strong contractions in my belly, down to my hips and suddenly the Aneros pulled deep into me and my PC muscle tightened very tight. To my astonishment, then the opposite tension occurred and my body tried to push the Aneros out again. But the Aneros didn’t move at all, even though I thought it was about to fly across the room.
Now I felt that everything around the Aneros was slightly swollen and became very sensitive.But that also felt very pleasurable. All this happened again three or four times in short intervals and I only remember that waves of pleasure were sent through my whole body again and again.
But they were definitely not mini orgasms. I would have known the difference. However, I am very grateful for it.
Because the contractions were getting stronger and stronger and I was feeling that I would soon no longer be able to stand it I needed to try something out. Sometimes it helps me if I adjust the Aneros tab. I moved it slightly from the middle to the right. This felt a lot like a building up orgasm, so I moved the P-Tap very slightly from one side to the other. It felt like I was edging my prostate. A building up orgasm that never goes over the edge but gets stronger and stronger. Every time I thought I was going to come, it peaked even more. This went on for hours. Well it felt that way. When I watch the film I know now that it was for 8 minutes.
Then the orgasm was inevitable and I had a wet orgasm. It was strong and amazing. Like no orgasm i had befor. Right after it, a second peaked up and I ejaculated a second time. The ejaculations were just after another. It might was 5 seconds in between.
The good thing was that I kept moving the p-tap from side to side and it tickled my prostate a lot. I said to myself that I was still feeling an other orgasm and had uncontrollable fits of laughter. I have never experienced anything like that before. I felt stupid, but it was just too funny. This state went on for another 14 minuter till i could feel anoter building up orgasm. This time it went longer. Another 22minutes to e exact.
But to finally trigger the third orgasm I had to touch my frenulum with one finger. I did not massage it but i pushed a bit against it and i ejaculated again. After that I lied on my bed very quiet and was hoping that I was not to loud form my neighbours. So much pleasure in one day. That really amazes me and was a very cool experience. Quiet spiritual and I dont want to repeat it right away. I think I need some time to think about what i have experienced. When I read again, what happened i still can feel my prostate. I really hope to be able to experience all that again.

Had tried something new technique wise

Started a session last night with the helix syn. Got a shower, prepped my bed and got lube and the toy and inserted it. Layed on my back with feet flat. Put on some porn. Rubbed my nipples to trigger involuntaries. Did this for about 15 minutes. Nothing built up beyond this point, so i switched to my side and continued on. Nothing really built up 10 minutes later, so i tried doing some different kegels. I kept my rectum muscles pushed out like i was pooping, but doing that lightly. And contracting my pc muscle to my breaths. Something built up fast and my abs, stomach and hip area was shaking uncontrollably.

At this point the aneros felt like it dissapeared and i could feel where my prostate was and it felt tickly but in a good way. Then i stopped breathing and it built up more but when i exhaled, the feelings went away.

At this point it was getting too late so i inserted a vibrating plug that has a massaging tip. Put on some pantyhose. And did the same thing with that plug. Felt really good but layed back on my back and moved the toy in and out while pushing out and i came just a little, which i barely felt. Then i thrusted my hips and grinded on the toy and got a hfwo which felt amazing.

Any tips on what to do from here? Anyone else do the reverse kegels?

What the hell is an “involuntary”, and what’s a “p-wave”?

On the “involuntary” thing, what are we talking about here? Is it when you tire our your PC muscle till it trembles, thereby causing the Aneros to sort of wiggle and flutter? Is it like when you sneeze or cough, or have a traditional orgasm with the aneros in, and your PC muscle just does a sharp squeeze on its own that makes you gasp?

And what’s a “p wave”? I sometimes get these moments where, out of nowhere, my heartbeat speeds up, I get all warm, and it feels like something amazing is about to happen….then it fades and I don’t know where it went. Is that what everyone’s talking about?

I mean, if the “involuntary” thing is just tiring out the muscle till it shakes, I find that feels good, but it’s annoying to get to and it goes nowhere because I can’t keep it up for very long. And how do I make what I described as a “p wave” happen more?! It feels amazing when it does, but it’s only happened a couple times, and then out of absolutely nowhere.

Do Nothing. How much nothing is the right amount?

So I’ve been trying the Do Nothing method a lot lately and I’ve had some great results, but I know there’s more, and I also know that I’m constantly over analyzing what’s happening while it’s happening because I’m not sure what contractions I should let happen versus which ones I should be fighting.

For me once the pleasure starts to build at all a number of different things start going on. My PC muscles will try to clench as well as my anus, my left leg/butt tenses up, and my hips start to thrust more and more forward. These are all somewhat involuntary in that they just happen automatically, but I can try to fight them off and relax. But I don’t know if I should.

A lot of the advice is to surrender to the experience, which to me means that I should let these things happen. But a lot of advice also advocates being totally relaxed, which to me means that I should try to keep my body from tensing at all. I’m ver confused.

Is there some tensing up that’s ok? Or should I fight to keep every muscle relaxed? What’s the right way to do this?

Aneros with Mindgasm

Hi guys

So I’ve taken everyone’s advice and subscribed to mindgasm. I’d already tried the first three lessons, and because of things I’ve done in the past I found the base and PC muscles pretty easy to separate. Then the Top muscle…

When I do what it sounds like I’m supposed to do I kind if get it. I’ve been trying for the last few nights, and I do feel like I’ve got a good control of it (not long but definitely there). Tonight I was going to try again, without Aneros but I seemed to be getting some sensations so I thought “Ah feck it. What harm can it do?” so in went my Trident. I then continued my exercises and, not sure if nature took over but I found myself hard (not the issue). I also naturally gravitated to both my Base and PC muscles being flexed, and just doing the top. So my questions are a) am I doing it right, and b) when flexing my top should THAT be where all my main sensations are (almost like it’s being thrusted, or masturbated but v..e..r..y slowly and gently). And very pleasurable it was too, with a couple of gasps and ‘Oh my God!”s. Twice my stomach contracted then my head fell back on the pillow! Sadly no precum or anything but it felt like it was. (But I’m not chasing the orgasm; I’m letting it chase me) Read more »

Newbie – 4th session P waves

Hi thanks guys for a very informative group.Just got my Helix Syn V. First impression was “is this going to fit okay”. Not a problem. First two sessions short then a long 3 hour session after mindgasm lesson still just a few tiny good feelings. Then tonight went thru the motions and after a while decided to do it in the doggy position got into a rythm of 30 slow thrusts and a 30 second hold and release. Felt like bubbles forming in my anus and then a great feeling and its subsides. Same routine same result Happened about 14 times, had vibrate on low setting. During session had plenty of legs and hands shaking uncontrollably and after the session (Is this a good sign ?). As soon as I thought about my swimsuit fetish the perineum tab woke up and gave me a tingling feeling starting another wave .Any idea if this is a good indicator and any tips on going beyond the good feelings .Pc muscles are still very weak but excercising 3 x a day. both muscles. With good feelings and waves do i just relax or should I thrust and hold to retain the good vibes.

Have been prescribed viagra but have not used it yet will be keen to see if it enhances my journey.

Your thoughts would be appreciated

Unintentionally have more success A-less. How to make it repeatable?

Anyone else have this happen to them? I had a more powerful orgasm aless basically out of nowhere than I have ever had when using either of my aneros.

I have been having pretty good sessions lately with my helix syn and progasm. A couple times a week. Each session seems to be better than the last or if I don’t get the same sensations I learn more about my body and what to do/not to do. Overall I’m happy with my progress.

Two days ago though I had a more intense prostate orgasm aless than I’ve ever had with either of my aneros inserted. I had vaped some weed(normal for me) and had a rare night with the house completely to myself. Normally the only alone time is in the early morning before work. I had taken about a week off since my last session and about 4-5 days since my last traditional orgasm. I was sitting on the couch watching sports, not horny at all, and all of a sudden I feel a tingle and a slight warmth radiating from my prostate. Read more »

Great experience

Sorry for the long post, but I need to get this out.

Had such an excellent experience last night, culminating in first HFWO.
Started off with a delta-8 edible, when that started to hit I lubed up, inserted my Helix, and listened to some ASMR erotica.
Within probably 5 minutes of laying there “doing nothing” my asshole started spasms and making the Aneros dance and tickle my prostate. Then I felt my world start spinning.
I mean like someone turned off the gravity and I was free floating, it was wild, but I didn’t fight it and just let it go on. My heart was racing, breathing was increased, and I felt warm pulses through my body.
Then my arms/hands starting quivering and that led into full on convulsions of my wrists and hands! It was nuts! But I tried to let it go and not fight. The spasms and twitches worked into my pelvis a little bit and I felt some nice warm tingles in my perineal area, (Are these p-waves??) at this point I hadn’t done any voluntary pelvic contractions. Eventually this subsided and I stammered to the bathroom for a drink of water (cotton mouth).
Slid back into bed for another go round. Popped the headphones back in, relaxed for a minute and then started doing light contractions of my PC muscle. Within a minute or two I was convulsing again, and pumping out precum with a massive erection.
This time every major muscle in my body started started, it was wild, but I let the ASMR voice guide me. Felt like I was falling down a well, which was great!
Now is when it got crazy- I got deep into a trance like state, I was moaning so loud, and my whole body was violently shaking and my cock was flopping all around, to the point I was somewhat concerned for a split second but quickly pushed those thoughts out. This felt incredible and new and different. I’ve approached this point before and always slightly “fought it” so it always died off. But this time I literally tried to disassociate my mind from my body and let my body do whatever it wanted.
It actually worked and the next thing I knew I was cumming like crazy but totally flaccid.
At this point I stopped, which I’m regretting now, do you think it’s possible I could’ve continued it? Also is this a “benchmark” on the journey to super-o and multiple HFDO? Read more »