Tag: Perineum

Should I be feeling something? Questions from a beginner

Hi there,

I’ve been really trying to get some results from my Helix Syn. For the past few days, I’ve been spending roughly 30 minutes listening to erotic audio or looking at sexy pictures with it in. I have some issues though:

1. I don’t feel much stimulation from my prostate, it almost feels like the prostate isn’t swollen or the Aneros isn’t reaching far enough. I do feel a very *very* light pressure on my sweet spot, but it’s more of a light tingle.

2. I am having trouble staying aroused. I’m focusing on keeping hands-off during these sessions, which isn’t a problem when I first begin and am getting lubed up. But once I begin focusing more on listening to any sensations from the toy, I start losing arousal pretty quickly.

I don’t think the Aneros is too short, but I’m not getting even a hint of that ‘having to pee feeling’ the prostate makes. I know that you need patience, and won’t be getting Super-O’s Day 1, but it’s kind of disconcerning that I’m barely feeling anything at all.

Is it possible the Helix Syn is too short? And what else can I do to keep up my arousal after I start?

First time experience with Helix Trident. Advice?

I used the Helix Trident (plastic) for the first time this week. I wasn’t sure what to expect because I have never tried prostate play beyond two fingers.

I’m so tight I can’t bottom without pain, but the aneros slid in easily once covered in vaseline and was so comfortable I couldn’t really feel it in me.

Lying on my back, I started doing kegels and experimenting. The only sensation I got was from rubbing my nipples, which produced the same feeling in my glans. Never got hard during the 30 minute session and tried to focus on the prostate. The absolute best I could do is getting that slightly orgasmic feeling when clenching the PC muscles for 10 or 15 seconds.

I usually don’t have precum and I didn’t this time either, which was kinda disappointing. After 30 minutes I wanted to see if jerking off would bring some feeling to the prostate, and it didn’t, so I finished the session by jerking off. I definitely won’t do that again because of the “rewiring” process, but I had to try once.

Overall, I got a lot more prostate stimulation from rubbing it directly with two fingers while jerking off than from the aneros itself. I did get some interesting feelings that’d I’d rate 2/10 on a scale from 0 to orgasm, but I had to really focus on my nipples while holding a kegel at 50% to produce those feelings. Read more »

Tips

Hard to put into words, but practice semi-deep breaths. Breathe in through nose and hold breath for cpl of seconds. Release breath slowly through mouth (it helps if you make your mouth narrow, as if to whistle). When you are releasing, fight the urge to contract PC muscles. Fighting the urge to contract will produce small contractions.

Part of the process is developing the ability to detect the minuet feelings your pulsing prostate generates. Focus on the smallest of good feelings it brings and relax, let those feelings build and feel your prostate starting to swell.

Soon, you will be able to feel those contractions more at the base of your penis. Let that build, do not try to force it, but focus on that feeling.

Also, next time you ejaculate, pay attention to the position of yourself (in the context of pushing out and contracting your PC muscles). You don’t fully contract the upper portion. When you ejaculate the contractions are subtle and it feels as though you are pushing your prostate out through your perineum.

This is a post I found on aneros genral discussions

Below is the experience I said I would post about a month ago. Please forgive the long delay as school, work, and home life have kept me very, very busy. I’ve been rather lucky to get enough sleep. Ugh… But, I was able to spell check, grammar check, and give a small edit to make things as clear and coherent as possible. I hope this is enjoyable to those who read, and may lend some advice to those who need it. I doubt my pittance of information added will benefit anyone more than what has already been stated by the long time regulars. I do appreciate their help and advice deeply.

I just had the most wonderful experience. I finished about a two hour session just a few minutes ago. I’m still kind of out of it. It’s almost as if I’m half here, the world in which I type and function in the ways that I am required to, and a world that I just discovered, where everyone seemed connected and focused on the same goals of harmony, pleasure, love, connection. To back track and start from the beginning, or behind as the session actually started (forgive the bum pun), I just wanted to take a nap with my Eupho inserted to get a general feeling of relaxing and letting my body naturally contract with the Eupho inside of itself. In this regard I feel it necessary to say “my body” because I have mentally been forcing contractions the first sessions. While great in and of themselves, it was not my bodies desire to move the Eupho in that sense, it was my own will. The point of my taking a nap was to put my will aside and let my body show me what I’ve been missing. Read more »

Went back to the progasm tonight

Been using aneros products off and on for 10 years, don’t think I’ve ever had a true super-O, but I have definitely had some crazy intense sessions leaving my legs and body sore the next day.

I used to use the Progasm years ago but recently have been using the helix trident syn, which has been great, but I wanted to go back to the big girthy progasm to see if I can have better sessions now that I have worked on my exercises and control.

So I bought a progasm today and cleaned myself up, and put the big boy in and WOW is it so much fuller than the helix trident. When this is in, you know it’s in. Im currently in bed reading some femdom pegging stories and it’s definitely a different feeling. The p-tab on the progasm is definitely more effective and I feel it a lot more. Im gonna do my usual thing and let the toy take over but I will be back for my post-session report.

Looking for feedback

Not sure how to ask what I want to ask, so I thought I’d share my experience and see if anyone had any thoughts/advice.

I bought Helix Syn Trident and Progasm together about 4 months ago. Did some reading and started playing and experimenting on my own. I’m used to ass play, so I don’t think I have any fears or inhibitions in that respect. Didn’t really start making any progress towards a prostate orgasm for a few months (found it difficult not to approach sessions like ass play or edging my cock, i.e. I kept ‘trying’ too hard, trying to pound my prostate fast and hard which I thought would get me there, which it didn’t). I’d play with these maybe every couple of weeks.

About a month ago I started to make some progress. I started using coconut oil, lay on my back with a pillow under each buttcheek (space in the centre) so the aneros wasn’t being pushed or affected outside of the control of my own muscles. Legs kinda spread, soles of my feet together. Made sure my flat was hot, no underwear or duvet touching my cock. I only did seassions when I naturally was horny, watched some light porn at first without contracting then moved to dirtier, louder porn and contracted slowly. I found I got involuntary muscle twitches and the start of ‘waves’ when I felt the aneros pressing into the sweet spot and I just held it there as long as possible rather than contract and release. Read more »

Eupho or MGX? Helix too intense

Im sorry if this has been covered since there are already posts on here about eupho vs. helix, but I see most people asking about the helix vs. the eupho. I have the (original) helix, and while I its ok, I noticed two things: the pressure is either too intense (mostly the dime p-tab, which has been taken care of in the trident), and that it feels like it falls a cm short of my prostate. Sure, if I contract hard, I can feel it sort of go further and sit in a nice spot, but it won’t really stay there on it’s own. I also like that feeling of that movement, but wish it didn’t require some much effort to work. Does the eupho go that little bit deeper? it looks like its designed to move more, which I think id like, so long as the depth was there as well. I was also wondering how the MGX stacks up, since the base is a little different as its ribbed and has a different shape. i dont think id like the progasm, but Id be happy to be convinced otherwise. Opposing opinions welcome!

Beginner progress – having involuntary contractions – Some questions

Hi all,

So I have some questions, and hopefully you have answers:

Some weeks ago I ordered the Peridise, as I wanted to try out prostate stimulation. It was very cheap so I thought I would get this, and another Aneros toy. I’ve used it for some days, and it’s really “activated” my butt so to speak, with quivers, twitching, and similar. Some low generic pleasure too. Recently I started doing contractions without the Peridise, those meant to be done with the Aneros toys, and I’ve had quite a lot of success: My PC muscle / pelvic floor will at times twitch and “pulsate” quite a bit after a PC muscle hold, and I’ve been toying around with this and sphincter contractions/holds as well.

When the PC muscle started twitching, after some time, my prostate started twitching as well, and these twitches/contractions instantly generated pleasure, so much so that it was close to moan-worthy, and I know that if I could keep it up, it would keep on surging until finally orgasm. But so far I’ve not gotten there.

Today I got the Progasm, which I also ordered, and I have been doing some light sphincter-pc contractions, followed by pc-holds, then relaxing, if/when pc muscle starts contracting, relaxing into that, and see where it takes me. With the Progasm in, it was a bit harder to get those, but eventually it happened. And then the pleasure was quite higher than without the toy. Still, the problem is that after these involuntary contractions start, they seem to end on their own before it takes me to the next level (either that or I’m doing something wrong) Read more »

Progasm Problem

I broke the tab the pressed on the butt crevice (not the tab that rests against the perineum), I wanted to know, what could I use to sand down the broken nub of the tap,
should i use some kind of sandpaper or something? or cover it with modeling clay as a kind of cap on the nub of that broken tab?

P-tab cup

Several years ago I remember coming across this rubber cup online that you could put over the P-tab on a massager. Many guys had said it too an edge off the pressure on their perineum while added extra sensation & pleasure. Feels like something one should find easily on Etsy, but no luck.

I ask this b/c I’m finding my MGX’s p-tab to be uncomfortable after a bit, and need something to either stick less or spread the sensation out over a larger area. Either way, I appreciate any help in finding this. FYI, it’s could also be construed as a bit of a toy, being a 1/2 hollow-sphere/ball that when turned inside out would do this weird pop & flip thing.