Tag: Perineum

Learning to do good contractions

I recently got the Helix Trident Syn. I’m trying to do the contractions by putting it in and squeezing rhythmically, but it isn’t that stimulating and I’m not noticing the twitching response people describe. I like having it in and can get some good pleasure from grinding my ass against the bed with the toy inside, but since the Super O is a muscle thing I feel like maybe my muscles are just weak and I am cheating by grinding. I definitely notice that I am having stronger penile orgasms when I have been squirming around with the Aneros for a while, and today I found myself craving the perineum stimulation while touching my cock so I put it in and had a good wet orgasm. It’s nothing like what people describe with the dry orgasm from contractions though. Anyone have advice on how to have good contractions?

Clamping

Nearly five months ,no orgasm’s as yet but nice feelings ,and sitting at times with pressure on my perineum feels erotic. I get a lot of clamping going on during a session and sometimes that is a little uncomfortable,is that normal ? I do maybe 3 sessions a week normally 1 and half hours each time sometimes 2 hours ,is this too much ?

Reach for the Floor! (or, An Uncommon Path to Awakening the Prostate) Part II (Cross posted from r/prostateplay

Part II – The Equipment

I have learned what types of pleasure my ass likes, and what types it loves. I have figured out through trial and error which types of toys work for me. And trial and error is really the only way to discover your toy preferences. Here are some concise reviews of the notable items in my toy drawer to help you in choosing your toys.

**Aneros Helix Trident** – This is a common Aneros to start with. The length and diameter of the Helix is a good ‘average’ and should give you some idea of what toys you may prefer based on your prostate’s location. The springiness of the Trident model helps with locating the toy on my prostate once I got better muscle control. Like most Aneros, this toy can quickly become uncomfortable to sit on for me but I can walk in it for miles. As in a 6 mile hike on uneven trails. Solid toy, would recommend if you are willing to work at it. Easy to insert and easy to clean.

**Aneros Eupho** – Thinner, longer, and more specific than the Helix. As is often commented, this toy is all about the delicate and gentle touch. This is a twitchy precision instrument and required patience for me to learn how to move this toy without overpowering it. I have days when I simply am not relaxed enough to use this toy effectively. The Eupho basically requires you to have excellent muscle tone and control for best results. Typically this is used for a gentle warm up or a long gentle meditative session. Read more »

Reach for the Floor! (or, An Uncommon Path to Awakening the Prostate) Part I (Cross-posted in r/prostateplay)

Part I – The Method

It seems from following this sub-reddit that the vast majority of men begin focusing on their prostate in search of pleasure. That is a fantastic reason to do so, and no other reason is needed! I myself started the awakening process partly for that, but also to help address a specific physical health problem. Adding that dimension made it both more challenging and more rewarding for me. I felt that I could share parts of that experience in the hope that others find something of value here.

A few years ago, I had a lower inguinal hernia. Pretty good one, with mild complications due to some prior tissue damage. The surgery seemed to go ok, but I soon realized that my pelvic muscle alignment and movement were not right. It became obvious that my Psoas and pelvic muscles were compromised by the surgery, with scar tissue and serious loss of range of movement. I had trouble standing fully upright for any long period of time and my posture deteriorated. After 2 years of ongoing rehab, I incrementally regained my full range of motion by slowly pulling the misplaced staples through the scar tissue to the correct locations (my GP thought that this was still a safer approach than a new surgery, and not wanting to be cut up again I agreed with him). Yes, this was painful in general. Yes, it sometimes caused acute pain during sex and exercise. I experienced a severe energy block and loss of strength on that side of my body. The problem muscles resisted all attempts to open enough to fully heal. The persistent and unconscious guarding of a major yin line exhausted me enough that a solution was imperative. Read more »

Some burning questions (first time user)

Hey guys.

I’ve just got my hands on the MGX Trident (To the best of my knowledge, this is the most beginner friendly model), and I have followed the guides to getting started.

I have reached in with my fingers before, and I know how the prostate is supposed to feel when caressed;

But even after using a generous amount of lube, I slid the Trident in and upon clenching and releasing my pc muscles, I don’t think I feel any tingles?

Another problem I faced is that despite the trident sliding in fine (it slides till the base is at the entrance of my anal cavity, so the position seems right), I’m having a bit of discomfort.

The 2 discomforts:

1. The perineum tab is pressing quite hard on my perineum, to the point I had to stick a cloth plaster to ensure there aren’t any abrasions. Also, the K tab is not in contact with skin (Is this normal?)

2. I was trying to get used to having it up my bum (I’ve never done butt stuff before), despite using lots of lube, my anus feels very sore.

I would either assume that I’m just very tight because I’ve not done it before, or I have the trident in the wrong position(I thought this might be it because my prostate was not really feeling anything & the pain was turning me off) Read more »

What is this

I am about 3 months into my Aneros journey,no Super o’s yet ,lately sitting on a chair i have had some lovely feelings coming from the perineum area,the last two days these feelings have ramped up a notch not only is there a lot of pleasure but there now seems to be some throbbing/ pulsating sensations and it seems that having erotic thoughts whilst on a chair with no Aneros in can bring these sensations on,also i release some semen,it this all part of the journey ?,am i experiencing an orgasm or a precurser to that ?

First time experience and some problems.

Whats up guys.

Short backstory:
Im a 26yo straigt male and already experimented with buttplay in my puberty, had some experience with plugs and always found it nice during masturbation.
My last gf tried fingering me but… It wasnt that nice (Situation was kinda whacky).

So last month i stumbled over this sub and got really curious.
Like damn i wanted such a toy that brings me to an incredible high. Maybe even involve it in the bed with my gf.

Some talk later she was also curious, cause we read it can lead to even harder boners, longer intercourse and shorter refractory periods. In the past she didnt like the idea of a man with something in his butt, but suprisingly she was open to it.

So i ordered a Helix syn trident, my gf was at work and i have holidays so i got into it. Got clean, lubed and relaxed, did evrything right imo.
I first tried the doing nothing method, Browsing thru gone wild and stuff to get me horny.

I was horny but my butt was like: meh, thats not doin anything.
So intried to force involuntaries by clencing as long as possible.
And after some time of my muscels spasming it hit me!

A warm intense pleasuring wave goin from my prostate through my stomac. After it got a lot more intense it felt like i was close to go over the edge. Read more »

Pleasure when sitting.

I am a newbie to Aneros 2 months down the line,no earthshaking orgasms as yet but i have found the experience very sensual and erotic ,i wonder if other people have experienced this, when i am sitting down sometimes i have very pleasurable feelings coming from my perineum area,is this part of the re-wiring process.