Tag: Perineum

Aneros Progress Notes/Tips

My first post was about how I was a lucky son of a bitch who had success with the Aneros Helix Trident on my second try and was basically on my back for like 5 hours over the course of a day.  I thought I’d give some updates on what has worked and what my process has turned into.

I could do an entire different post on my experience yesterday (another marathon of a day with sex in the middle). Woof.

Anyway, things i’ve realized that help: 

1) Give yourself enough TIME. Men (or maybe just me) are so used to “sex” and orgasms coming and going quickly, that I kept thinking I could squeeze in some Aneros sessions here and there. These have been largely dud-sessions because I’m trying for something to happen and only have an hour or so and I’m preoccupied with checking the clock that nothing happens.

I think the best is giving myself at least 2 hours when I know I can just check out and do my thing with no interuptions. Sounds like a lot, but once the session gets going, time flies. That way I’ve got enough time to prep, get comfortable, get the involuntaries going, and hang on tight for a good time, and eventually wrap it up.

2) Pre-play (foreplay with yourself?) is a must. I knew for my first time that there was a difference between sticking the Aneros in and waiting to get turned on vs. masturbating and getting hard and close to cumming and THEN putting the Aneros in. Like worlds different. Like, make or break the session different.  Read more »

Best session ever! Found the “sweet spot”

Have had the helix for 2 months, probably 15-20 sessions in. Today I had an hour session that was amazing. At the peak of my session, I was able to have a 2 minute long p wave that had me moaning.

I was able to prolong this feeling by finding the sweet spot. Whenever you find the right balance of PC/sphincter contraction and start getting involuntaries, try to “hold it in place”. I found this sensitive spot and held it there and the buzzing/involutaries just got stronger and more intense. It felt like something was vibrating inside me and my whole body is shaking. Then while I held it in place with my sphincter, I started very lightly contracting my PC muscle in a waving motion. Every time I would release the sphincter muscle, the muscles would slow down the buzzing but a huge flash of warmth and electricity goes through my lower body. I then lightly squeeze the PC muscle again and the buzzing and involuntaries start up again. I probably went from flaccid to rock hard 5 times. I could feel an orgasm coming on, but not an ejaculation.

The feeling of contractions of an orgasm sensation, but all mainly centered in the prostate, PC, sphincter. Still felt in my penis, but not like a traditional orgasm.

Almost there!

Not sure if I’m stimulating prostate

I’ve been using the aneros for a few years on and off. I’ve committed to being a bit more consistent with it now that I have more free time. I’ve done two hour long sessions and have been using the breathing techniques and I don’t really feel like I’m hitting my prostate. I kind of feel like I’m just hitting my rectum wall. What I’ve been imagining is that the helix is like a hammer, when I contract it is brought up and when i relax it comes down onto the prostate.

I’m guessing the solution is just to keep at it but I’m not really sure if I’m doing it right. One thing I noticed is that the p tab isn’t even touching the perineum and the back tab is actually pressed into my tail bone.

Any suggestions on positions/ techniques/ feeling I should be looking for to hit the prostate?

Sorry for stream of consciousness

The journey starts

My journey started last night, and I’m going to document it here in hopes the Aneros community will comment and help my discovery. Here goes….

Background on me….42M, pretty fit as I do yoga and CrossFit 6x a week. I have dabbled in anal before, but I didn’t even know prostate massage was a thing. My sex drive is way higher than my wife’s, and to satisfy those urges I jerk off…a LOT actually. I’m also dabbling in erotic Hypno with good results, I HFWO regularly.

Last month I stumbled across the Aneros forum and it spoke to me. I had to try it and ordered the helix syn trident, and spent the next week waiting for delivery and reading everything I could find about technique and what to expect.

I was practically shaking with anticipation, and I know I shouldn’t have expectations, but deep down I thought I’d be a natural because of my yoga and hypno training…that had to shorten the learning curve, right? Honestly, I was a bit scared. How intense was this going to be? My wife sleeps in another room because I snore, and doesn’t know I’m doing this (that woman can have multiple O’s on demand…this is about me!!). Read more »

Aneros epiphany: folded sock under p-tab to to keep it farther out

I haven’t orgasmed yet from it, but oh boy I can tell this method is **completely** different. Over the past few years, even though using an Aneros generally feels “good,” I kept thinking that my prostate was never getting massaged directly, that it was either shallower or deeper in than the Aneros is designed for.

Anyway, last night I folded a thin ankle sock and put it under the P-tab, to keep the Aneros from going in as far as it normally does. From the moment I put it in, it feels **INCREDIBLE**. I’m just sitting here thinking, wow this feels amazing, and I haven’t even orgasmed or anything yet.

Anyone else do this? I can tell it’s a whole new experience for me. Wow.

Weird Question: I’m not sure if I experienced a Super-O, or hereditary mental health episode

I think I experienced a Super-O twice, a week apart. I was coming off years of binge drinking, while smoking a lot of weed, and under a lot of stress. No aneros those sessions, it was an extended 1-2 hour perineum massage.

The orgasm was what I dream “euphoria in a pill” feels like, I remember thinking “Oh god I’m dying”, it lasted an unknown period of time, followed by a normal 12+ hour continuous orgasm. Every jolt in the road, or bounce of my leg was like the peak of jerking off the next day. At the peak, my mental image was like a radio beacon in my head I was pouring the spotlight of my conscious awareness into, and it was wired straight into the pleasure center of my loins. I had to work it in stages like priming a pump, and the Super-O worked it’s way up my spine to my head before peaking. I hadn’t jerked off or used weed for a week leading up to this, and had used a moderate (for lowered tolerance) edible to enhance the massage.

In the two years following, I’ve never experienced anything like it again despite trying.

Anyone use TENS units?

Has anybody experimented with a TENS (electrical drum pads) on their perineum? I’m curious what your experience was like and how it impacted your aneros/prostate orgasm journey.