Tag: Perineum

A Less Nirvana

I was born and raised in New York City. At 11 years old I learned how to ride the NYC subway and figure out where it took me. From that point on the greatest city in the world was my oyster. Almost every week from then until I was 18, I used the magic carpet of the subway to take me to some new neighborhood, street or destination that needed discovering.

For all the hundreds of places I was in the City in those years and the hundreds more that I have been there since then, there are still many, many more places that I have yet to discover and visit. New York is a large city and there are thousands and thousands of fascinating and diverse places each promising its own nuanced experiences. Even today when I go to NYC I am always finding someplace new and exotic to experience that I have never been before.

I have come to realize that my experience with MMO is just like my experience of NYC. The Aneros is my subway system. Every time I insert I am transported to some new place and each of those places has a nuanced sensation of ecstasy. A few years into my MMO journey I learned to do A Less MMO’s; these subtle and elegant orgasms are yet another part of my orgasmic landscape that beseech me to visit frequently. I have been doing massager less MMO’s for many years now. The last couple of years I have been doing them just about every night. That translates to 500 sessions more or less each year. It continues to amaze me that each one of those sessions is distinctly different. And just like a trip to NYC, each time I get on the orgasm train I find a new stop with different sensations and a different experience of each place. Read more »

An Amazing Night

The calm before the storm is the best expression I can think of for this next ten days before Christmas. Last night conformed eerily to that description. It was deathly quiet in the house, none of my friends were on line, the dog was sound asleep on the futon next to me in my office where I sat cruising on the computer. J was upstairs in her studio working on a project. It has been several years now that all the kids are gone from the house; the current quiet has become the norm. The term “empty nest” has real meaning around here, it is very quiet at night. Add to that, early darkness and no one on line; it is no wonder that evenings have become a time for me to ruminate and write. So at 8 PM I began writing a section of my next erotic book.

Against this backdrop of the mind numbing calm, my rich inner sex life has become like the lights of Broadway. Last night was no exception; the events of last night were so amazing that I needed to get them written and posted before I forgot them. So instead of doing my work this morning I am taking this diversion to get this written so I can post it. Read more »

Progress update #4

So I've been on and off with my Helix Syn, but lately I've felt the increased craving for prostate simulation. Until now, I was doing the same routine of inserting the toy, relaxing for 5 to 10 minutes, then contracting my PC and BC muscles, figuring out what felt good, eventually getting to a fairly intense plateau. My heart would start racing, my breathing would shorten, and a sort of heat wave would develop from my pelvis and spread through my legs and abdomen.

Tonight, I tried something a little different. I had the apartment to myself and decided to go for a meditation session, but with the toy inside. I lay on my side, knees bent, and focused entirely on breathing out, letting go of everything else.

After some time, I couldn't feel the toy anymore (it always feel so damn cold in the beginning because of the lube). Shortly after, I felt the general area of my prostate clamped between the toy inside of me and the tab pressed against my perineum. Then it started to feel good. Like, really good. A very slow, but purposeful wave of arousal began to grow, and as much as I tried actively relaxing my muscles, I could feel them gently contracting, bringing the toy inwards and upwards. I reached the plateau stage this way, held it up for some time, heart pounding away, legs gone completely numb, pelvic region gone completely numb. It was all about that damn heat wave. Read more »

Where I’m at with it… Next steps?

I've been trying out prostate stimulation for a couple of weeks now. I've not had that super-O yet but I'm still really getting into it and enjoying the pleasure – now I don't masturbate without prostate play beforehand. In terms of toys, I've been using the Aneros Helix Syn and the Swoon Release vibrating pleasure wand.

I'm not sure if my Aneros reaches that sweet spot or not. I've found the best way to get stimulation from it is to sit on the edge of my bed and rock back and forward, but it gets a little tiring. I also find I have to pull on the plastic handle at the back to move the toy until I feel like I've hit something significant. Walking about with it is certainly interesting. Even though it's not ergonomically suited like the Aneros is, I think I prefer trying to find the sweet spot manually with my vibrator and trying to do a 'come hither' motion with it.

Sometimes I hit a point where I feel like I really need to pee or that some fluid is going to slowly seep out of my dick (which it sometimes does). And one evening when I did some penile masturbation with prostate assistance after about an hour and a half of prostate play alone, I ended up producing some of the most majestic ropes of cum I've ever seen – it was literally just streaming down my hand continuously for about 15 seconds before I'd even started blasting a ton of it into the air. I've never came like that before, but fucking Christ almighty, that must be a sign. That session was also after 6 days of abstaining, and I noticed I got way more stimulation from pressing on the perineum. Read more »

Achieving Aless sweetness while wearing a Nutty Buddy athletic cup

Hi guys,

Today Saturday is a rarity for me in that the day is free and open for me. I decided to bow out of a class that I go to Saturday mornings at 8:30 a.m. I am trying to stave off a cold. So after a quick morning walk, I hope to have a leisurely session afterward.

Right now I am fully dressed and nearly ready to go. I am wearing a woolen cap that covers my ears, an Under Armour cold gear long-sleeve shirt, and jeans. But underneath my jeans is my favorite combination of [1] a Munsingwear Kangaroo pouch boxer brief, with over it [2] a DUKE jockstrap, and [3] in the jock pouch is a Nutty Buddy athletic cup. I have spoken much about this amazing athletic cup in earlier blog entries. Not only does this cup contain my genitalia perfectly, but the cup extends underneath my scrotum and touches directly my perineum.

This cup is perfect for performing the Kegels of varying strengths. When I Kegel the cup actually stimulates my perineum where my sweet spot is located. When I do all this, sublime Aneros sweetness happens. Also right now I am stimulating my nipples. Wow! I feel like I am edging, but I am saving all this my session when I come in from my long walk.

This combination of boxer brief, athletic cup, and jockstrap is ideal for walking. I just love how the Nutty Buddy cup "floats" with my every move. Read more »

Half-body orgasm? (Strange!)

I've recently started using Aneros massagers again after taking a pretty long break (well over a year and a half) and everything feels so different, it's amazing. My body seems to have picked it all back up quickly, which is great.

Today something really wonderful but odd happened. After around an hour or so of gentle pleasure I felt my prostate swell quite considerably and I could feel my body start to rub itself against the massager really gently. I began to feel light headed and really far away from my body, which isn't uncommon for me. I nearly always get a very soft pleasurable sensation on the inside of my left thigh at some point, and sure enough it began feeling really nice on my left thigh just after my prostate swelled. But this time it came on really quickly, and it soon became quite an intense feeling. I relaxed and just let my body do its thing.

After about 30 seconds of this the left side of my body sprang in to life. Both of my legs began to quiver/shake so quickly, like a really intense shiver, and I involuntarily clenched my left fist. My prostate began to send out waves of pleasure, which I could feel mostly on my left. (Like a 90/10 split.) My left arm began to feel really pleasurable, just like my thigh, and then I began to feel a super intense feeling in my left nipple. Read more »

Aless while wearing the Nutty Buddy Athletic cup

Hi guys,

When you have retired from the workforce, you have certainly lots of leisure, but also the responsibility of having to live within your means and doing with less. For me, living austerely at times as a retired man has given me the protection of leaning on God for my needs and also the opportunity to enjoy free, simple pleasures.

Perhaps one of my most enjoyable free, enjoyable pleasures are my Aneros sessions and Aless. You can have Aless at any time if you pleasure. For me, just thinking about my sessions and the sexual energy invested in each of my Aneros models are enough to through me into Aless.
Perhaps I am developing an Aneros fetish. But my Aneros sessions and Aless have their proper place in my life. At times, I must not allow my Aneros fetish to get the better of me.

Wearing a jock and athletic cup while engaged in Aless for ms is a most potent combination which serves as Aneros foreplay and postplay for me.

I have spoken at length in my blog here about MLB great, Mark Littell, inventing perhaps the most comfortable athletic cup on the market. He suggests that you first put on a pair of compression shorts or boxer brief. Then slip on a regular jockstrap and then insert the Nutty Buddy Cup in the jock pouch. The Nutty Buddy actually floats as you walk or engage in athletic activity. The comfort is sublime. Read more »

My New Reality

Years ago I fantasized that it would be amazing to experience orgasms that lasted more than several seconds; the idea that I might experience an orgasm that lasted an hour or two was the stuff of science fiction in my mind. Yet here I am in 2015, not in a Ray Bradbury novel experiencing them. I (we are) am very – very lucky to have developed this ability and have these mind blowing experiences every few days; for some of us its more frequent than that.

For me and many of us the experience of an MMO is like surfing. I am continually discovering some nuance in technique or mental context that modulates, amplifies and intensifies the orgasms. I have been at this for 9 years now and each session I do I learn something new or have some amazing new sensation or combination of sensations. Aside from the ecstatic sensations of MMO part of my addiction to it is the kaleidoscopic arrays of ecstatic orgasms that they bring.

Two nights ago I had yet another session that revealed to me the profound pleasure of MMO. This session was also a landmark session which was why I chose to do this entry. Its noteworthy achievement was that it was the longest session I have ever endured. I do not use the word endure lightly here. This 4 hour experience pushed the envelope in MMO for me; it was excruciatingly pleasurable lifting me to a state of agonizing rapture. Read more »

New Toy

I got a new toy off of Amazon. Its not an Aneros product, so it may technically be off topic here.

The price was cheap, and being silicone, I though I would give it a shot. I'm glad I did.

The flexible nature of this makes it much more comfortable than the hard plastic of the Aneros models that I have tried. Yet it is still firm enough to make its presence known, and it does that very well. One thing I noticed right away. It isn't drawn into the body the way the Aneros does. It needs to be pushed firmly into place, but it can be pushed too far. Don't use vaseline as a lube. It is too slick, and this toy will fall back out. A little bit of olive oil injected with a lube shooter seems to do the job quite nicely.

This doesn't have the P-Tab of the Aneros. It has these ticklers that apply little if any pressure. I don't really notice them, and don't think they do anything, but at least they don't hurt like the P-Tab does at times.

This is sold as both a prostate and anal massager. The anal part is incredible. The compressible nature of the rubber is causing a little tug of war, as it is squeezed and bounces back, causing these unbelievable spasms. It is being squeezed so hard at times that I've actually found it somewhat difficult to remove. Read more »

Aless while wearing a Nutty Buddy Athletic Cup

Hi guys,

While I was never into anal play until early June 2013 when I began my Aneros journey with Helix Syn at age 63, I have had an intense jockstrap and athletic cup fetish since 7th grade when I had wear such items for sports.

Athletic cups have come a long way since the 1960's when I first encountered. They were the old-fashioned triangular, flat top that barely fit a guy's genital anatomy and contained his "junk". Hence they were uncomfortable to wear and many guys didn't wear them putting themselves at risk to serious injury to their gonads.

But since then, there have been contoured cups, called banana cups which were much more comfortable to wear.

Mark Littell, when he retired from playing Major League Baseball in 1982, he turned to coaching MLB teams and was astounded that his players didn't wear a cup, so in 1999 he set about designing an innovative athletic cup. This cup has essentially three chambers. The largest chamber travels from underneath a guy's scrotum to the top about seven inches. This chamber contains his penis. There are dual chambers on either side of the central chamber. The dual chambers contain or cover his two testicles. Also the base of the central chamber reaches underneath his scrotum to his perineum.

Hence the Nutty Buddy Cup offers both protection to a guy's genitalia, his "junk" and comfort, so much so you can wear it for hours and forget you even have it on. Also it "floats" with your every move. Read more »