I was having a season with my progasm when I accidentally feel asleep with it in. After waking up after a bit I continued looking at some porn because I was still kinda horny. Then after a bit I came but didn’t feel anything while doing so is that odd?
Tag: Porn
Wait for the “whisper”
A lot of good advice for a successful session is not having expectations and not trying to force something to happen. It’s as much of a mind thing as a “I’m hitting it/clenching it the exact same as I was last time why is nothing happening” physical thing.
I was reading the Aneros wiki a month or so ago and came across this in the “Advanced Skills”
[Waiting for the Whisper](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills)
“Waiting for the whisper is a variant of “do nothing.” The whisper is the irresistible message coming from your groin that you are MMO horny. Waiting for the whisper means you don’t schedule or decide to have a session. You wait till your body whispers to you that you need it. When it does, you let it have its way. At that point you can do nothing, or try any other technique, and your body will be very responsive.”
Well shit… if that hasn’t been the key. Rather than trying be like, I have some time imma try and make myself scream, it’s more of a, I’m ready for this now. Getting hard and/or aroused, watching porn, that might help set the stage, but if you go into a session with your prostate already kinda twitching… It’s almost a guarantee super 0. If I’m kinda flexing the separate muscles while just finishing up work or something and kinda horny, things can get intense. But if I’m doing some keagles and things don’t start stirring, it’s just not going to happen.
About to have house to myself – what would you do?
Having a family makes it difficult to have regular aneros sessions. Luckily I’m about to have the house to myself for a couple days this weekend. What would your routine be leading up to and during the aneros session in this scenario in order to maximize results? Here is what I have planned for now:
*abstain from orgasm starting today.
*edge as much as possible between now and whatever day I decide to try a session
*exercise, drink water, basically try to do a mini cleanse to clear out my bowels
*wear butt plugs to acclimate my rectum/sphincter
*meditate
day of:
*edge like crazy, psych myself up and really get my libido going
*eat light meals/snacks and hydrate
*maybe smoke a little weed or do some shrooms
*get going with some porn, maybe break out my bad dragon sleeve and some dildos
*insert aneros followed by some meditation, maybe with some binaural beats playing
*keep expectations low and see where things go
What would your routine look like in a similar situation?
My newest toy
I posted the other day about my new toy, the D Thang silicone dildo from Blush Novelties, and how my first few sessions were so amazing.
[https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/lZ0AAOSwHrlcAV~o/s-l600.jpg](https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/lZ0AAOSwHrlcAV~o/s-l600.jpg)
I wanted to expand on that post, because I’ve had a couple more awesome sessions since. Here’s how the last sessions went down…
I start off by setting up the dildo for action. I like to be in doggie position when riding the dildo, so I use a small plastic cooler to position the dildo away from the wall so that my legs can go to either side and the dildo is at anus height. The suction cup sticks to the plastic surface like its welded on. I put a cushion just in front of the cooler for my knees, then place a laundry basket upside down in front of the cushion, with a pillow on top. This allows me to rest my torso on top of the laundry basket/pillow while riding the dildo in perfect comfort. I lubed up the shaft of the dildo with coconut oil and then sat down in my recliner to warm up with a couple of Aneros toys.
After the dildo was ready, I smoked a little weed, and loaded a good dose of poppers into my sippy-cup delivery system. Last session began with my MGXTrident, then the Progasm Ice. I relaxed with the MGX until the first couple p-waves happen, then gave it a little assist with a hit of poppers. This led to some nice mini-Os, and I knew I was ready for the dildo. BTW, during this warm-up, looking over at the 6″ dildo glistening in wait really builds the arousal.
My first Super O!!!
Needless to say it took me almost two years but it finally arrived last night! OMG!!!!!!
I was bored at home and decided to insert the Aneros to see if something would happen (yes, I had no motivation to keep playing with it due to the long time being). Laid down on my couch, some porn, weed and poppers.
Funny thing is, after over 6 hours of play, all I was able to achieve was to cum touching myself twice.
Alright, get ready for bedtime but then I noticed my insides continued to shake uncontrollably…. and I was like OK this has to be a sign! Got my Aneros inside again and laid down with some binaural sounds and gently nipple touching…. then boy… oh boy…. I felt something building up, and up, and up… at that point I knew it was coming 100%. So I got my poppers and sniffed it for about 7 seconds. Relax. RELAX. And then BOOOOOOM. My legs were up, my whole body was shaking and the feeling inside was something I had never, never experienced before! It feels like you’re in the middle of a choppy ocean and by every water move your insides resonate and continue to follow the waves. CRAZY! I have to say, I moaned like a little b*tch for about a minute. Super crazily intense stuff!
Now I’m wondering if it will be easier to achieve more super O? Or do I have to continue practicing for another 2 years? LMAO
What gets you in the mood the most?
Long story short I decided to go off my antidepressants because they were making me feel numb and like a robot. I now have my sex drive back, I actually have feeling in my penis again, and I can get an erection if the wind blows right. I am now eager as all get out to try getting into my aneros again. The impulse to masturbate was so strong earlier that I took it as a sign that tonight could be loads of fun if I could just hold off for a bit. So help me make the most out of tonight and throw some suggestions my way for things that really gets your ass and prostate aroused.
I used to utilize porn to get me in the mood for an aneros session but I’m thinking I’ll steer away from what I usually watch which is bbw, threesome, mother in law type stuff. I’ve tried gay porn before and couldn’t really get into it. Trans porn has been a solid choice lately for regular masturbation but I feel like I’ve seen all there is to see (minus paid sites – if you have suggestions for one, throw em at me!).
I have tried erotica, binaural beats, etc. as well. And dildos, some toys and a hot shower have also been used to some moderate success in the past.
Of the above categories what’s your favorite to get you in the mood, what are some specific examples (favorite porn video, literotica or binaural beats track/playlist)? Nothing is too kinky for me!!
Brine Audio or other similar audio
I saw a lot of people had luck with using audio porn , specifically Brines , but I can’t find his anywhere now. I am gay so I am looking for the sounds of a man so if you have any other audios you use let me know.
First Prostate Orgasm!
I have had an aneros for a little over 3 months and I just had a 10 minute orgasm last night. Its so hard to explain until its happened, but the closest sensation would be the feeling you get right before you ejaculate, except way more intense. Almost like a constant flowing electricity all throughout your genitals and even the rest of your body becomes hypersensitive.
My keys to success were arousal. I took several days off from any masturbation, watched about 10 minutes of porn, and then inserted device and laid on my back, legs up. I didnt have to any fancy kegel pattern, I pretty much just had to be super aroused and relaxed. I smoked some really good cannabis beforehand.
Within a few minutes, I was in pure ecstasy. I was breathing heavily, moaning and was full of warmth. I had an erection the whole time. It lasted about 10 minutes before my AC and fan kicked on which made me feel like I was freezing. I had to get up and turn it off. I laid around for another 20ish minutes before getting super tired (had been up all day long). I wasn’t able to get back to that point but I needed to go to bed anyways. Total session maybe 40 minutes total.
Just got to chain multiples together now but HOLY SHIT. Mindblown!
Stop chasing the “Super-O”
I see so many beginners here asking about how to induce “the involuntaries” and their (lack of) progress towards the super-o. Stop wasting your (and our) time! You basically cannot have a “super-o” if you don’t know how to have “normal-o”s. I’m talking about (dry) prostate orgasms.
Let me slap you in the face and give you the real talk, this is what you need to know:
1. Prostate gland is a sexual organ, like the penis
2. Unlike the penis, prostate gland isn’t used (directly) for sexual reproduction and therefore it doesn’t have the limitations a traditional penis-based stimulation has (cum, refractory period)
3. However, the prostate is relatively hidden and hard to access, thus it has remained a secret and a mystery for thousands of years. But it is *literally* the “back door to pleasure”
4. We now have technology like the Aneros product line that makes it easy and painless to access
5. If you haven’t ever used your prostate directly, your prostate is metaphorically speaking dormant, asleep. To “awaken” your prostate, you have to use it. I don’t know if you’ve had the same experience, but for me when I started to use my penis, it didn’t feel particularly good at first. It took me an hour or more of masturbation to reach my first orgasm. It was even painful, since I didn’t know how to do it. But over the next days and weeks, I practised diligently and learned what felt good, eventually gaining the ability to reach orgasm in a matter of minutes.
6. Therefore, with all sexual organs, there seems to be like a “break in” period, or a period where the sensations and sexual pleasure just isn’t there. This is the “rewiring” process people talk about, but it’s not what you think. To “rewire”, simply use and pleasure your prostate with any means necessary. Use your fingers, a dildo, move the Aneros in your butt using your hand and anal musculature, whatever allows you to touch your prostate in an aroused state.
Question about a-less orgasms
I’ll write more about my session below, but in case of TL;DR I’ll get to the point: I get that having an Aneros device inserted leads to prostate stimulation (physical stim), but what drives A-less orgasm/stimulation?
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So like a lot of people, I saw the pandemic lockdown as a chance to make some progress on my journey. I’ve had a handful of good sessions over the past two years, 2 I suspect reached super-O levels; but overall it’s been pretty inconsistent. There’s also a lot of other barriers (roommate; mental health struggles causing me to struggle to clear my mind; find it hard to have a good session without weed and my supply dried up for a while), and to top things off I ended up with a case of gastro.
Yesterday was the first day I was feeling over the gastro, enough that my entire body didn’t feel out of whack, but not *so* over it that I thought douching and playing with the toy would be a good idea, even though I’ve really been craving a session for a while.
By late night, after I’d chilled out and blazed up, I was feeling kinda horny but wasn’t hard, so decided I’d get comfy, put on a tried-and-true porn film, and started working on kegels, not expecting much. However, it ended up being epic, even though it was completely a-less. I don’t think it was quite as pleasurable as past sessions – I would describe it as overall pleasurable, but muted – and I wonder if that’s because there was no toy. That got me wondering exactly what happens when someone has an a-less session, like what is the cause of pleasure without a toy.