Aneros users blogs and guides
So I’ve identified a problem I’ve been having. I have a hard time getting aroused during Aneros sessions. So I listen to audio porn. The problem is that I get too excited mentally and more often than not end up stroking myself off during the good parts of the audio.
When I first started with the Aneros this wasn’t a problem but for whatever reason it is now. I just can’t seem to stop myself from doing it. It’s like the lizard part of my brain takes over.
Any tips to work on this?
So I have been into anal play long time, I can have 12″ level toys, so yes big stuff. But of course the Super O with aneros would be the ultimate goal. No luck yet. Think I also need to discipline myself more on kegels + reverse kegels. But I also wonder, should I refrain from the big toys? These must have some effect or not?
These days my sessions mostly start out with aneros > njoy pure wand > dildo stuff > maybe some more pure wand.
And while we are at questions, chastity I am also wearing to prevent penile stimulation, but it can be distracting? I guess getting a erection is a good sign when using aneros (although it might be because of the porn I’m watching). But it can be annoying/painfull.
In the past few sessions, I have learned how to trigger the involuntaries but I would try to force the super o. I would end up getting the full body shaking, but only with mild pleasure. I tried the “do nothing” method when the involuntaries started and it really transferred the buzzing to my pelvis and genitals. I started to get an erection and I could hear my blood rushing. The involuntaries started feeling REALLY good. The buzz of electricity went whole body and all of the sudden I got the most single pleasureful jolt of lightning of my life go through my spine. Things started to ramp down and I wasnt able to get back to that point. Most productive session yet.
Another thing I have noticed is my mental state since using the aneros. I feel so much more clear headed. I barely have the desire to watch porn anymore. It has also changed my outlook on sex and relationships. Casual sex seems so pointless now and I feel like it has removed a distraction in the process of finding a romantic partner. Im not thinking about sex so much. It is meditative, and even on sessions without much pleasure, I feel energized and clear. I dont know if its related, but I have been dreaming almost every night. I just feel more in tune with my body.
I have a progasm and helix for the last two years. I enjoy using them and have gotten p waves with them a few times, but mostly I wear them when I’m having sex with the GF or preparing for pegging. I never have had a full Super O only with a AL stimulation (only while pegging a very few times).
My GF had to go back home during to family health issues so I’ve taken this time to challenge myself. No Cumming (from jerking off) until I see her again. It’s been one week so far and Im already so God damn horny. It’s looking like it’s going to be another two weeks until I see her. I haven’t gone that long without cumming since the first few weeks of living in a dorm years ago lol.
How long do you think I will have to wait and refrain from cumming? I know by this week’s end I’ll be driven nuts. So how should I take advantage of this time to really learn how to cum anally? I don’t think I have a breathing technique established. Can someone point me in the run to direction that?
One thing Ive never understood is how the movement should be of the toy? Should I be squeezing so hard it’s going “in and out” of my ass or its more so “moving incrementally millimeter (or centimeter) by millimeter across my prostate?
The farther I travel on this journey, the better it gets! Last nights session was beyond amazing. As my prostate awakens I find that I can tell when a session is going to be good. I start feeling a wam dull ache in my pelvis that tells me the prostate is wanting attention. I definitely felt that signal last night.
I think that my pre-session preparation rituals are also important in having a successful session. I start off an hour before with taking my supplement stack, which includes Horny Goat Weed, L-Arginine, Maca root, Saw Palmetto, and others. After a warm shower, I consume about 50 mg of edible, high-THC cannabis. I pre-lube with a homemade coconut oil suppository. I start building arousal with some edging to a bit of porn. When I feel the THC kick in, I insert my first Aneros device. Last night that was my Eupho Trident.
Sometimes the Eupho gives me terrific Pgasms, but last night it it didn’t kick the session into high gear, so after 15 minutes of the do-nothing approach I switched it out with my Helix Trident. I started getting some Pwaves almost instantly. Once I start getting good feelings in my prostate I start doing hits on my popper bottle. After that first hit last night I tried to drop into my deepest relaxation and erase any expectation and welcome whatever my prostate decides to give me and the first big orgasm hits like a runaway freight train and lasted a good 2 minutes. I know, I watched the tape…
A second hit of popper triggers another 2+ minutes of orgasm. I remember thinking, “This is the best it’s ever been!” just before the next peak in intensity felt twice as good!
At a break in the action I swapped in my Progasm, always one of my favorites. As before, another couple of popper hits led to two breathtakingly massive orgasms over another 5 minutes time. Needing a break, I removed old faithful and just relaxed, enjoying the involuntaries that were making my anus twitch, and the warm glow coming off my prostate, asking for more.
Finally, I inserted my nJoy pFun to end the session with a bang, as it were. Damn, that plug is amazing! The three big Os that followed were, here I go again, “the best ever!” I am pretty vocal during these orgasms, and these had me sobbing, laughing hysterically, and moaning in pleasure all at once. All this time, my cock had been pretty hard, unusual for my typical session, but not this time. I was able to end on a high note with a great super-T. This morning I came again as my wife gave oral while I stroked with the small end of my PureWand. I don’t know how something a can just keep getting better over time like this and never top out!
I’m not a stranger to anal play, but purchased the progasm, read some tips online, smoked a little weed and laid down, put it in, watched some porn with headphones and started Kegel exercises. Literally 20-30 minutes later i have a whole body shaking wave of orgasm, body making a v. My ab’s were sore the next day, Lasted about a minute. No ejaculation, but was completely out of breath. Did it again a couple minutes later. Is it possible to have a p-gasm first time using it? Definitely using it again.
I was reading some posts on here trying to get inspiration, I’ve had success in the past with my syn achieving dry O’s. I felt the odd throb and decided to do some kegels, I concentrated on the circular rhythm and it built and I got there. No toys or porn just concentration all in the space of about 10mins. I’m still chasing that wet hands free orgasm which I crave and of course the super O but thought I’d share.
TL;DR:
1. Avoid jerking off watching porn
2. Let go of control
3. Size of toy may not matter that much
Hi there, since a few weeks I got the point I can reliably summon Super-Os. So I thought it is a good idea to share what worked and what did not for me.
Like many of us, I read tons of guides, some of which were contradicting others and kept me confused. Moreover many guides are written by experts who already achieved Super-O and are somewhat harder to interpret by people who are in the beginning of the journey. I hope this will be useful.
2019:
### Jan
Received Lelo Bruno. Manual toys are oldschool and cool kids should get battery powered toys, right?
### Feb
Had around 5 sessions with Bruno while watching regular porn in front of the PC. No luck. Jerking off with vibrator in did somewhat improve orgasm but nothing to write home about. Realized I needed to research more and there is not going to be a delayed gratification thing, again.
### March
Got MGX trident. Tried steps from the wiki (breathing, contractions, CaveOfMystery method, donothing). Absolutely no pleasant sensations whatsoever. I did notice sometimes during exhale combined with some very specific PC contraction there was a “feeling”. It was not pleasurable but not unpleasant either. Motivated by some progress, decided to help my prostate awake by ordering another gadget. We all know ordering stuff online is the way for the win.
Last night I thought fuck it, I haven’t had any progress with this in like a year, I’ll try it again. I smoked a bit of weed and stuck the aneros helix syn in, stuck an hour long porn video on and just had a go. 5 minutes in and all of a sudden my body started to twitch and I got strong tingly sensations all through my body, it felt so odd but really amazing. It last for a good 30 seconds to a minute. Was this a super-o or close?
I so want to just have another go already and try reach it again. What’s the time you’d recommend between each session? I did jerk to finish off last night which I’m not sure affects anything.
Like the title says, I bought the helix syn today (or whatever the red and black one is called) and should be getting it in the mail eventually. I had experimented with prostate play before but could never get *anything* to happen at all. Now that I’ve finally bought it, what are some things you guys think I should know for a beginner? I’m ready to dive into this head first now that I’ll have a proper toy that can do stuff. Should I be watching porn? Should I listen to some erotic audio while watching porn? How long should I hold off on masturbating before using the toy? Should I edge before using it, if so for how long? I just want to be sure I don’t mess up my first experience with it or anything as I will only get the chance to use it very rarely.