Tag: Porn

“Hard and Wet: A Tantric Cock Massage”

I was ready for some relaxing meditation music early this morning. But I wasn’t ready for this! Let me explain…..

After some searching and test-listening, I found a YouTube track that was intriguing: “Tantric Sexuality (Music for Sensual Massage and Passionate Love Making)”. It was about 50 minutes long and seemed just right for this “surfing” session. So I put it on, laid back down and just started to relax. What happened next completely blew me away!

I am being enveloped into a “cock massage”. I really don’t know at this point how it happened; the music was pulling me in to a fantasy that honestly blurred the line between reality and fantasy big-time. Now, I don’t want to get too graphic, but suffice it to say that I have never experienced a cock massage like this one. I haven’t even had a solo “surfing” session this erotically-charged. There was NOTHING that was not done to my cock and I mean nothing! You name it, it was done. Every kind of stroking, pulling, twisting, squeezing, pinching, tickling, even jelqing, all done in a way that didn’t seem to be eager to get me to ejaculate. In fact, I believe I was either flaccid or semi-hard during most of this “massage”. But it was extremely sensual to say the least. There was at one point a “palm stroking” that started at the testicles and came all the way up to the glans. This continued and progressed at an increasing rate of speed…..I am numb from the sensation! Read more »

I think I had a Mini-O!

As the title suggests, i think I had one.

I was breathing deeply, watching some porn and following a pattern:

-breathe in slowly while pushing slightly (as if I were about to have a bowel movement)

-focus on any sensations that formed

-breathe out slowly while releasing the push but also not contracting at all

-focus on sensations

I think the key that helped this session was my mindset. I came into it thinking that I would be successful. I was planning on having this session a few days earlier, but the past few days just didn’t feel right. This morning I woke up and thought “today is going to be a great day” (cheesy, I know).

Additionally, I had this feeling of being content with how I felt at the current moment – and this was before any obviously sexual pleasure had happened. Every session for the past two years has felt progressively better, but I never really had any p-waves or anything better than that.

This feeling is what I think really helped me tune into how I felt without really thinking about it, as if I were meditating.

As I breathed in, I felt a pressure start to form where my prostate was – it felt stable, as if it were the source of the waves that I was feeling (I know it is, but this spot producing real orgasmic pleasure has never happened to me before). This pressure felt sexual but not orgasmic. Read more »

Surf Bordt Surf Bordt

So my 11 days of edging and not cumming has ended. I had one of the most pleasurable orgasms to date. I had some slow music playing. I was but naked spread out with the evening sun gazing at my edger wanting body. I had a towel beneath me and my toys ad oil on deck. I slide my helix in with ease an then I put on a cock ring on my already stick throbbing cock. I had just bought some new porn and was was ready to get my moneys worth. I was so ready but i didn’t know if I wanted to rush my orgasm or prolong it like i been doing for the past 11 days. So i lubed of my shaft an turned my porn on to a hot young guy being penetrated but a older fella with hairy balls an a long veiny cock. I knew that it was gonna take me over the edge.

So as I’m stroking to this hot scene I am getting closer and closer to my destination or pleasure and then I decided to push it back down. Oh my penis was upset with me but me and my hand was in control tonight. I edged my penis for at least a hour. I was moaning like crazy. When i really get into it i moan and whimper like a in-heat female dog an baby i was howling. I just couldn’t control myself. Then my nipples felt neglected so I had one hand stroking my penis passionately an the other hand was groping my left man boob. I was yanking on it as if milk were gonna come out. I was in utopia of orgasmic bliss and I didn’t want to escape this beautiful feeling. Read more »

The Art of Edging

I like to push my limits when it comes to sexual stimulation. ie a bate session or a prostate probed orgasm. So every time when my birthday comes around i like to edge myself up til no return but still have o wet orgasm. It teaches me about stamina and boundaries and how far sexually in my mind I can go. I sometimes jerk off with toys inside me an sometimes not. I jerk off with lube and without. I get to a full body orgasm with watching porn an doing kegel muscle exercises and some with out. Its really a learning experience i put myself through an it feels good in the process.

Well my birthday is on the 11th of this month (9/11) an i am already on day 8 of just jerking off an edging with no ruined orgasms or wet orgasm to erupt. I have done the 21 day challenge but that is with me not watching any porn or masturbation or penetration at all. It was hard but I got through it. This challenge I put my self through is a lot easier but still has is difficulties within it. I can edge myself up for hours. I have had my cock so swollen that i ached an i just breathed through my mouth an let the xstacy feeling leave my body. Its a high i like but it sometimes takes a few minutes to come down from it. Read more »

Brand new newbie today

Just bought the Helix syn at Castle today. Reading everything to understand what to do. Pretty excited to try it out. Seems the procedure is pretty complex and not at all like jumping on a porn star dildo! Took some nerve to go to the store as it’s really exposed and seems like everybody is watching! Very introverted guy here.

In a rut

So, i’ve had my Helix Syn for a month and a half now. I know it’s not long but i feel i am in a bit of a rut and am finding it hard to get out of it.

My routine consists of cleaning myself out, inserting two small syringe worth of water based lube and then lubing up the Aneros.

Once inserted i don’t do anything for about 20 minutes or so. Mostly just watch some porn and focus on my breathing.

During this phase i do feel some quite subtle, nice, sensations. They come and go, seemingly of their own free will, not something i feel i can control.

After about 20 minutes i start clenching my ass and moving the Aneros in and out. I switch between clenching reasonably hard and releasing and then holding at about 50% for a while. After a while i just get bored and loose interest.

I usually experience some pre-cum flow but nothing out of the ordinary.

I know patience is key and my experince is no different from a lot of others who have gotten frustrated.

But i would really like to achieve at least another milestone, just to keep me interested.

You guys have any pointers for me?

A New “Male” Meditation

I read recently that normal males experience about 11 or more erections per day and about 5 during the night. Wow! Then it suddenly hit me like a brick: We males are designed for a specific purpose and it is quite simple. We get erect, aroused (through foreplay, etc.) penetrate and ejaculate. That’s it! Why do we have to make it so difficult?

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Then, I began to “meditate” on this in greater depth. We should not be ashamed of our erections. We should not mind being “horny” some (if not all) of the time. It is a natural part of our existence. Of course, I know that life is never this simple. We complicate our sexual identities by putting restrictions on our sexual techniques and preferences. We develop sexual hang-ups such as PE, ED and DE. Not to mention porn and Viagra. We “choose” our sexual partners (male or female). We limit our sexual encounters even with our intended for various reasons. All of this goes counter to our “original” goal: to impregnate as many females as we can with our sperm. Just look at the sheer quantity of sperm contained in just a single ejaculation! Of course, society today places “restrictions” on our monogamy and chastens same-sex unions. But I believe that in our predecessors’ days there was more adherence to our male ancestors’ “original purpose”. Would we males lose many of our hang-ups by following a similar bent? Of course, it would not work today! But it is an interesting topic for discussion! Read more »

Prostrate offers new chance for pleasure without porn

I know there’s been a lot of discussion over the last few years that people are relying more and more on porn during masturbation because our brains start to associate it with pleasure.

I’ve been thinking lately that for those of us starting out with prostrate play, it’s a great chance to get used to pleasuring ourselves without porn.

Has this been discussed anywhere?

Session 18/08/16

Did this on a whim really, was taking pics of my penis and got really turned on, had a headache to so thought it wouldnt go anywhere. Watching some aneros porn i found myself again having a really strong series of prostate orgasms and a number of anal ones as well! this was using the tempo whislt lying on my front with a pillow underneath me.

Also i found that this session required a little light contraction hold to get the muscles and prostate pulsing, which when it did i would release the contraction and let it orgasm, then repeat.

I changed to the helix classic and once again got the same, many more anal electric filling my ass feelings as well. Lovely. Still feel its stops short of being satisfied though.

Porn, an Addiction or Not

I know this topic has been written about many times and there are as many opinions about it as Carter’s got pills so here goes.

Before my Aneros and back door discoveries, porn was my good reliable friend to achieve my pleasurable moments. I reflect on the fact that, probably due to age, my sex drive was forever low. I could always rely on porn to give me back a little of the spark I needed to achieve positive and, what was at the time, my ultimate (but elusive) pleasure.

Along comes Aneros and all the pro & con advises that comes with the Wiki and Forum. The correct answer to this is ‘to each his own’. Now, having said all that, I will outline my own experience.

In my early Aneros sessions, I continued to rely on my crutch and the toy helped expand my pleasures. With limited progress, I eventually realized (referring to forum’s expert opinions for advice) that porn was in fact preventing me from appreciating all the feelings and sensations happening in my lower innards. Pleasure was plentiful but it was mostly externally penile. Eventually, while practicing pornless (is this a word?) sessions, I feel I progressed by encountering feelings I never had before and for me, the proof was evident that my old friend should remain in the past and to be re-invited only periodically for a good masturbate session. Read more »