HFDO or Super O?

HFDO or Super O?

I’ve been reading this sub for a while and started experimenting a little over 2 years ago. I bought a Rocks Off Cheeky Boy Vibrating Prostate Massager. I thought the massager would do all the work and it’d be a hands free miracle.

After reading this sub, I bought an Aneros Progasm Jr and have been using that exclusively. Also, I use a lube injector (2 doses) and have been playing more the past month or so.

Over the long weekend, I had some extended time for a session and it was so good I’ve had sessions 3 days in a row. One day I did 2 sessions. I also use THC edibles and/or vape before and/or during sessions.

When I first got the Progasm Jr, I tried the “lie there and do nothing” method, mindgasm, music, and PC muscle flexing. All of these sessions had pleasurable results, some twitching and PC muscle involuntarily/spasms.

Which one to buy next?

Hi everyone!

I’m technically a beginner but have experience with the helix syn trident and njoy pure wand.
I have yet to achieve the super O, but I’m having fun exploring this whole new experience.

I know I’m probably rushing it, but the helix syn trident doesn’t seem to be hitting in the right spot. Im looking to purchase 1 or 2 new aneros toys to try but aren’t sure which ones to pick. These were recommended from the aneros site:

Trident eupho
Progasm jr
Trident mgx

Which ones would yall recommend (either from or not from the list)? I want to go the plastic route to use any available lube. I dont have a strict budget but would not rather spend over $125/150.

Thanks!

Helix or progasm?

I need some help choosing between the helix trident and progasm ( or ice).

I am no stranger to anal play so the size would not be an issue. I have used dildos and plugs for years and have always been interested in the elusive super O. I have an njoy pure wand but just couldn’t get it to do much other than force precum out. I was definitely going too hard.

I recently went through mindgasm for about a month and am finally realizing the muscles and sensation I should be looking for. I have had a lot of success after reading posts on the aneros sub. The do nothing method works great to get movement started. I have a knockoff toy that is similar to shape of the helix but larger. I can get involuntaries to start very regulary and now have full body shakes but not a whole lot of pleasure. I think the toy is just too long. I am relatively short just under 5’7″ (170cm). My main worry with the progasm is that it won’t hit the right spot. Would the helix be a better first choice? I can really only get one right now but eventually I’d like to have both.

I’d appreciate any suggestions or input.

Losing control

Update at the bottom.

Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.

Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.

Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.

I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.

Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?

I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF?

Should I cut the tab of my Progasm Ice?

So I’ve been using the Helix Trident for a while, but I always felt it was not big enough, compared to other prostate massagers I have. So I bought the Progasm Ice Red, but I couldn’t enjoy a bit.

All because of the P tab, or however it’s called, the handle that rests on the perineum. It applied a pressure, that was not pleasurable at all, but it was painful instead. It was a sharp pain that was extremely distracting, and well, painful.

It feels so antinatural compared to the Helix, and the fact that is hard plastic instead of silicone makes it so much worse. In fact I think the whole thing would be better if it was silicone instead of plastic.

So I was wondering if I’m doing something wrong, or if there’s a workaround for it, like adding some extra cushion or whatever, or if it’s ok if I just cut it off.

But as it is right now, it’s just impossible to wear for more than 5 minutes.

What to try next?

I started with the progasm and enjoyed it then I decided to go backwards and try the helix trident and I have to say I enjoyed that much more.
I feel it’s lacking something and I don’t know what.

Anyone have any suggestions on what to try next?

Advice on first model for experienced user.

I’ve been wanting to buy an aneros for a long time now, but because of the price and my financial situation I would only be purchasing one.
With so many models I am unsure of what model to purchase.

At the moment I am leaning toward the progasm as I enjoy larger sized objects, but I’m concerned it may not be as good for the g spot stimulation in comparison to something like the helix for example.

I am looking for something I can use solo and practice for prostate orgasm entirely hands free, I enjoy a fuller feeling of something a bit thicker, I do have a lot of experience with butt stuff in general as I have cheaper prostate stimulators and I occasionally do pegging with my wife.

If anyone could help me with a recommendation that would be great

Progasm tip

I’ve had a really good first couple of experiences with Progasm but then I’ve been very busy, didn’t have time for it and have not been in the right headspace and even had wet dreams. I knew not to expect much, I’ve experienced this with and without toys before, now it pressed too hard and was actually working against me.

I wasn’t going to switch to anything else so I quickly thought of spinning it around 180 degrees so the flatter side was against the prostate. Progasm is not angled and does have symmetric tabs so it fit well. I didn’t have a problem with that. Suddenly it was not going dead, it was just nice. I think I’m going to start with this next time.